I'm still thinking about how ashamed I was (and am) with being open about my pain because I am so young. It's so hard to feel worthy of having your pain taken seriously when the people around you insist that young bodies are always in pristine, untouched condition and that you must earn your pain through aging. Never is it considered that young people aren't lying or being a hypochondriac for expressing their pain.
Young people can be in life-altering pain. Young people can have debilitating pain. It doesn't matter what age it happens because pain doesn't discriminate. Complaining about pain and doing things to prevent needless pain aren't something you have to "earn" through aging.
If you want young people to be in less or lesser pain, then encourage them to do whatever they can to minimize it. Don't downplay what they're experiencing. Not everything is a lie, not every experience that is different than yours is exaggeration or deceit.
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need more future in-law interactions between saikis parents and kuboyasus parents.. imagine them meeting for the first time at like a school event and yasus mom goes up to kurumi and kuniharu and is like "your kid the one mine wont stop flirting with?"
i think mama yasu would see how kusuo interacts with kurumi and immediately be like "yeah, this is the one for my son."
we know that aren canonically puts A LOT of respect on his parents.. so i think it's safe to assume that thats the standard in their home.. i want to say its contradictory that despite being raised a murderous delinquent, he was also raised so traditionally, with all the "respect women, respect your elders, respect your parents," etc. but i dont think its contradictory at all, i think its pretty commonplace actually? but yeah, anyway.. kurumi is super ditzy and is always just barely almost getting herself hurt but kusuo is always putting his hand on table corners before she bonks her head, pulling her to his side right before she bumps into things, catching things she drops before they break, etc..
this is a topic i should also touch on without the context of a ship actually.. i just think it would be cute for the others to see how sweet kurumi and kusuo are, and also how SIMILAR they are..
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Choji: You've been staring daggers at the guy on that magazine since your mum dropped it off two days ago - who is he?
Shikamaru: Uh...Just some guy I know
Choji: Is he like, a rival or something?
Shikamaru: Something like that, yeah.
Choji: Like a rival in chess or.....? He looks like a douche, anyway.
Shikamaru: No I mean, he's nice enough...he’s a smart man, good head, good game, good reputation, good....career.
Choji: So, he's a douche.
Shikamaru:...Yeah...but much improved now you've drawn that cock and balls on his face 👀
Choji: Anytime, bruh 😌
Headcannon madness inspired by the wonderful Shikatema fic Grandmaster by @notquitejiraiya.
Thanks to @ferocityh for allowing me to bother her for a translation!
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Do you have any mindy hcs? I dont know if you write stuff for her
Do I!
First off, I'm proud to say that I used she/they for Mindy long before it was canon. I'm a revolutionary. Anyway Mindy is the typa person to have just like. Always known? If that makes sense. Like there wasn't really ever a time where she wasn't aware of her identity
They foster cats for animal control! She's really good with the feral ones, so they get sent cats that need to be socialized
Literally so autistic
I can't explain it but Mindy gives me drummer vibes. She also played trumpet in high school band
(This one is kind of a Tara headcanon too) Tara and Mindy have gotten into lots of arguments about differing movie opinions. It's turned physical many times. It doesn't get any better after 5. If anything it gets worse, because now Tara has a weapon (cane) that he can attack Mindy with. They have each other blocked on Letterboxd
Average tumblr user
Can and will bully Chad for anything and everything, but god forbid anyone else do the same (Sam n Tara get a pass. Sam never uses it, she thinks it's mean, but lovingly dunking on Chad is one of Mindy n Tara's favorite pastimes)
They did backstage tech in high school! She really enjoys the production side of stuff like that
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