#love without conditions

[shamballalin]

Every Act of Kindness Counts to Soften the World ~ Grow Empathy and Compassion

Kindness matters. Kindness is an electromagnetic frequency vibration that is contagious. Empathy matters. Empathy opens hearts to care for those around us as much as we care for ourselves. Compassion matters. Compassion is the pulse of the beat of the heart. Love without conditions matters. Love is the rose bud opening into a full-blown rose with attention to Peace, Joy and…

[bl-bam-beyond]

BL- BOYS' LOVE:

Series: BETWEEN US (2022, THAILAND)

Room 1010

Moments of Crisis. Emotional Crisis.

A Walk To Room 1010

When You Don't Even Have To Knock

Slide Next To A Person That Cares. Truly Cares

A Peaceful Night of Sleep.

Hia Win (NOPPANUT GUNTACHAI aka BOUN) leaves the door unlocked & somehow Team (WARUT CHAWALITRUJIWONG aka PREM) just knew. Even if you're not ready to call it love. That's what it is.

[inkskinned]

because sometimes there are invisible tests and invisible rules and you're just supposed to ... know the rule. someone you thought of as a friend asks you for book recommendations, so you give her a list of like 30 books, each with a brief blurb and why you like it. later, you find out she screenshotted the list and send it out to a group chat with the note: what an absolute freak can you believe this. you saw the responses: emojis where people are rolling over laughing. too much and obsessive and actually kind of creepy in the comments. you thought you'd been doing the right thing. she'd asked, right? an invisible rule: this is what happens when you get too excited.

you aren't supposed to laugh at your own jokes, so you don't, but then you're too serious. you're not supposed to be too loud, but then people say you're too quiet. you aren't supposed to get passionate about things, but then you're shy, boring. you aren't supposed to talk too much, but then people are mad when you're not good at replying.

you fold yourself into a prettier paper crane. since you never know what is "selfish" and what is "charity," you give yourself over, fully. you'd rather be empty and over-generous - you'd rather eat your own boundaries than have even one person believe that you're mean. since you don't know what the thing is that will make them hate you, you simply scrub yourself clean of any form of roughness. if you are perfect and smiling and funny, they can love you. if you are always there for them and never admit what's happening and never mention your past and never make them uncomfortable - you can make up for it. you can earn it.

don't fuck up. they're all testing you, always. they're tolerating you. whatever secret club happened, over a summer somewhere - during some activity you didn't get to attend - everyone else just... figured it out. like they got some kind of award or examination that allowed them to know how-to-be-normal. how to fit. and for the rest of your life, you've been playing catch-up. you've been trying to prove that - haha! you get it! that the joke they're telling, the people they are, the manual they got- yeah, you've totally read it.

if you can just divide yourself in two - the lovable one, and the one that is you - you can do this. you can walk the line. they can laugh and accept you. if you are always-balanced, never burdensome, a delight to have in class, champagne and glittering and never gawky or florescent or god-forbid cringe: you can get away with it.

you stare at your therapist, whom you can make jokes with, and who laughs at your jokes, because you are so fucking good at people-pleasing. you smile at her, and she asks you how you're doing, and you automatically say i'm good, thanks, how are you? while the answer swims somewhere in your little lizard brain:

how long have you been doing this now? mastering the art of your body and mind like you're piloting a puppet. has it worked? what do you mean that all you feel is... just exhausted. pick yourself up, the tightrope has no net. after all, you're cheating, somehow, but nobody seems to know you actually flunked the test. it's working!

aren't you happy yet?

[astralpenguin]

self care is writing a fic that you’re literally the sole target audience for

[milesbutterball]

No matter what the practice or teaching, ego loves to wait in ambush to appropriate spirituality for its own survival and gain.

Chögyam Trungpa, Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism

[sleyu]

omg i wouls sell my soul for more mean bf sirius with corruption kink💔💔💔

mean bf sirius who introduces you to the marauders and lets remus and james fondle ur tits and ass whenever they want, patting your cheek when u look up at him with those maddening—thoughtless doe eyes :(

“they just really like you, puppy”

or or or waking up to the marauders low groans and the tip of their cocks slapping against your naked body and face, sirius laughing breathlessly at how flustered and helpless u look :(

“this is what good girls do, pretty. just lay there n look dumb for us, yeah? helps us cum faster,”

[heymacy]

IAN GALLAGHER + his journey with bipolar disorder

╰┈➤ “At times, being bipolar can be an all-consuming challenge, requiring a lot of stamina and even more courage, so if you’re living with this illness and functioning at all, it’s something to be proud of, not ashamed of." - Carrie Fisher

[szfiction]

This parallel makes me insane actually (and there is something incredibly Lawlu about it to me)

[httpsgfg]

[crimson-nail]

ex-antagonists always seem to specialize in unconventional love languages — like violence, and threats of bodily harm

[shamballalin]

Religion vs Spirituality In Everyday Life

Jesus taught, in Luke 17:20-21, that the Kingdom of God, the LIGHT of God, is WITHIN You. You are that powerful. This knowledge that Jesus taught is the very reason he was crucified. Mary Magdalene, in the Gospel of Mary, tells the apostles who ask her what else Jesus told her that he did not share with them, “There is no such thing as sin.” This is a theological point. Jesus is saying that…

[tabithatwo]

do you think shauna learned that cells turn over completely in seven years thing in high school biology and latched onto it and had an existential crisis meltdown of nuclear proportions when it was coming up on seven years since she’d consumed jackie because none of the cells in her body were born out of the energy she got from jackie’s flesh anymore?

[vaspider]

My JH/HS best friend finally figured out earlier today that there was more than one reason why I never allowed her boyfriends to treat her like anything less than a fucking princess.

That may be a new record in "years spent in sapphic obliviousness."

No, we aren't dating or likely to ever be. It's just funny.

[tomwambsgans]

tomgreg is not "i could fix him" nor "i could make him worse" but "i could make him feel like a real person." from both ends.

[milesbutterball]