Why is there literally a song being made about how they wish a pillow princess on their ex?
Why are we being used as an insult?
I'm 30 and until about 4 to 5 years ago I thought I was a broken lesbian because of things like this.
There is nothing wrong with stone identities or pillow princesses.
I see people asking '' is it bad'' or if they are bad, and some people just answering yes. Like??? I just know some are gonna feel wrong, just like I did. Just like others do or did.
Sid Dorey, you should be ashamed of yourself. (they are on tiktok with this song, I'm not putting a link as I refuse to promote them on my tumblr but it's awful.)
How can you claim to be a part of our community and ridicule us in such a VILE way.
I hope many of us stand up to this and show how wrong this is because I legit feel like crying. This internal little part of shame I will always carry just got hurt all over again.
This right here. Is my biggest fear as a disabled person at a concert. Sincerely.
Concerts are the one thing I '' give'' myself, since doing things for myself costs me alot of recovery but that makes me just so happy and being around my people makes the pain worth it afterwards and they keep me going since I have something to look forward to and it gives me more of a future. Which I think people with disabilities will understand deeply. So this.. This would absolutely give me the extra kick to the giving up.
Luckily my favorites are very inclusive and say '' get low if you are capable '' or '' if you are able to do so jump as high as you can''
But just imagine,, you are in the front for your favorite artist, in a wheelchair, or maybe a chair. Or maybe on the floor because you became unwell a bit. Your fave spots you and starts saying '' why are you sitting, why are you sitting?? With the light on you infront of 1000's 0f people.
*Notices you are disabled* and she says: '' oh okay politically incorrect sorry 'bout that, glad you're here.'' in the most uninteresting voice ever.
If that was me, I would cry and die of shame. I think I'd lock myself in my house.
We're just people wanting to do stuff like all of you..
And all the Madonna stans are like '' well she couldn't see''
Well she saw it after didn't she? She could have apologized decently, kindly and with compassion. But no, they got a '' glad you're here '' and '' oOoH My Gawd ''
LISTEN AND LEARN HERE: YOUR IDOL IS STILL A HUMAN. THEY MAKE MISTAKES, SOMETIMES SILLY ONES, SOMETIMES BIG ONES. HOLD THEM ACCOUNTABLE. Admitting it was wrong does not make you less of a fan. Like truly think. This is not Okay.
Also if you are not disabled. Stop telling us that we are overreacting and shouldn't be this hurt over this.
Love is: having to stop your girlfriend in the middle of a turn in her sleep so she stays laying on her side. So she doesn't snore OR squishes the cats who are laying next to her.
It's a full time job. I should get paid for this honestly.