#mod fatshion

[fatphobiabusters]

hi, genuinely not trying to call y'all out or anything and I 100% agree with everything y'all say about fatphobia. I just wanted to ask that y'all not call bigots 'delusional' or tell them to 'go to therapy.' As a neurodivergent person, it's kinda hurtful to see ableist insults like that, even in progressive spaces

Hi there!

So presumably this is in response to this?

I understand where you're coming from, but I am also neurodivergent. Not all neurodivergent folks will agree on everything and I think this will be one of those times.

Since I was the one who made the rb in question, let me try and explain my side.

Believing that fat people existing are gaslighting you is not healthy. It is not okay. They are experiencing a delusion bc a delusion is, from Google, a false belief or judgment about external reality, held despite incontrovertible evidence to the contrary.

While I did not actually say, "get therapy", I did strongly imply it. And frankly, I stand by it! The OOP of the post in question needs to go to therapy to learn to deal w the fact fat people existing are not miserable bc they were. I'm neurodivergent and very very pro therapy, I think therapy is far to inaccessible so perhaps you could call me classist, but recommending therapy is, to me, not ableist.

Clearly being fat was traumatic for this OOP, but its not okay for them to unilaterally decide every fat person must be traumatized and unhappy bc they were. I stand by what I said, the OOP has serious issues they're projecting onto people in a unhealthy manner. That can't be allowed to continue happening. The point of this blog is to argue against fatphobes, and OOP, despite being very unwell mentally, is still perpetuating harmful ideals about fat people.

Just to be extra sure I was understanding ableism, I looked it up and honestly the OOP was being far more ableist than I was for assuming fat folks a) need to be healed and become skinny, b) we lead unhappy and unfulfilled lives, and c) assuming fat people don't do things for themselves.

We do appreciate feedback for this blog and I will keep what you said in mind for the future!

Mod Fatshion

[fandomshatefatpeople]

here's my Dark Looks board!

[magicalshopping]

Guess who finally got dressed up and took pictures for the first time in years

Yes, it’s me - modeling @midnightsprings bat keyhole crop top in 4XL (for reference I’m a US 3X/size 24). This is available for pre-order in sizes M-4XL currently and will probably have a second run as a stretch goal in their upcoming bat septum kickstarter - also available for pre-order! Kickstarter date and info TBA. 

I am also modeling their celestia faux septum and holo bat ita fanny pack featuring a majority of pins designed by MS. 

[mmeesha]

[aetheriumwar]

Also to be super transparent abt my thought process I’m pretty sure it’s just one mod that’s been responding to everyone’s asks about Worthy/Hannah being a disgusting racist piece of shit. I’m 99% sure it’s been Mod Squirrel responding to everyone’s asks as she’s the mod who’s been most active thru all of this, and Hannah’s a coward so she wouldn’t respond to them anyway.

Which, if Squirrel has been the one responding, which I heavily believe she has been, she’s been extremely aggressive towards the poc who have come forward with concerns, and then super lenient and polite (compared to the responses to poc) towards white people who have sent asks.

I won’t immediately throw the whole mod team of @fatphobiabusters under the bus because Mod Squirrel and Worthy have been getting to the asks before anyone else can see them to cover their racist scummy little tracks. I really hope the other mods have braincells and care about black people enough to kick both of them from the blog.

Not to mention if Mod Fatshion is from the fine-ass-fatshion blog, they openly support Hannah as well.

If any of the mods aren’t racist fucks they need a serious purge of their mods. I count two racists and one racist supporter.

[letsgetlostsomewhereplz]

[glycolicaciddd]

[eternalones]

Throwback Thursday to like last week during date night when I was serving looks 💯Since when did my hair get so long? Aaaaand Damn that enchilada was yummy 😋 & the daiquiri (also the margarita) 😂

[fatmasc]

Fatblr block list

Unfortunately there are so many fat blogs that are just straight up racist or racist apologists, as well as other gross things

worth-beyond-a-number-scale/Hannah (callout here)

fatphobiabusters (has Hannah as a mod and blocked anyone who brought up her racism, evidence here)

fatandlikeitlikethat (blocked me for linking them to Hannah's callout, even though she was asking for sources)

fine-ass-fatshion (continues to interact with Hannah and has referred to her being called out as "cancel culture")

starlighthh (continued to and still does interact with hannah even while in my discord server where Hannah's action were detailed)

squirreltastic (mod squirrel on fatphobiabusters)

happyfat (another one of squirrel's blogs)

please send me any more fat blogs that are racist, especially if they are complicit in Hannah’s continued actions against people of color. of course, other problematic fat blogs will be added here but there is clearly a huge racism issue in the fat community here

[fatphobiabusters]

Hi there. I really love this blog - thank you for sharing it. I would like to ask your perspective but your ask policy is not opening. Could you please reblog it when you have a moment? Many thanks xx

Hey there!

Yeah it's acting weird for me too, so I copied the link for you!

Here's our ask policy!

Hope to hear from you soon

[fandomshatefatpeople]

here's my Spring outfits board on pinterest. All plus sized!

[magicalshopping]

*Notices your Halloween costume* OwO !?

This year's costume..? outfit?? is a homage to my last minute jackolantern from last year. I'll never be as cute as it.

[mmeesha]

[kitten-teearss]

Ya girl cut her own fringe, quarantine trim.🤷🏻‍♀️ Someone keep me company so I'm not so bored outta my god damn mIND??🤣

[shutupcharlotte]

Self care tip: blast Lizzo and take head-to-toe selfies until it eventually stops feeling like torture.

“Bigger than the sun and the moon I can feel it in my bones, we can take over the world” - B.G.S.W 

Skirt: Torrid (US size 22/24)

[bodyposishopping]

A few years ago I wouldn't have been able to look at a full body photo of myself without being upset and uncomfortable. Starting this blog was a really important step in my journey of self acceptance and I'm really happy it's a step I took. I look at myself with positive feelings more often than not now days. My younger self wouldn't even be able to fathom the amount that my self esteem has risen. I'm really happy with how far I've come Skirt and jacket are Forever 21