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tvuniverse · 28 days
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Listen i just want to preface this by saying I don't even personally hate Tommy, but that's not really the point i want to make so here goes nothing.
The way a lot of people act as if it's impossible to dislike him because the characters have moved on so so should we, right? and that's the thing right here, as poc we're always being told to move on. We can't express our feelings, we can't hold grudges, we can't complain about issues without making it something more than it is, we always have to just... move on.
I know people are going to say it's just a show, it's not that serious, but the issues it touches on and the way fandom speaks on those issues are.
I've seen a lot of comparisons between Tommy and other mains, how each of them are flawed and have screwed up one way or another, and you're right, but it's still unfair to compare him to them. We've seen each of the main characters experience guilt, or be ashamed of their action, we've seen them apologise, put in the work to actually grow, and they have. There's not enough time in an episode for us to see that for side characters. In this case, Tommy didn't do any of the above and that's normal, he was a plot device to show some very real societal issues, and especially what people of colour/women might go through in the workplace, and once he served his purpose he didn't get much more beyond a few scenes where it seemed like everything was fine between him and chim/hen. It would be more appropriate to compare him to the buckley parents, (who appeared in more or less the same amount of episodes) like if people suddendly started saying no one is allowed to hate them because they got their redemption, their kids more or less forgave them, they more or less tried to be better parents. And yet it's still not enough for a lot of people, because how they treated their children, the shit they've said to them, hits a little too close to home for a lot of people and so no matter what the show says or does, they'll still be mostly hated by the audience, and that's more than okay. But if margaret buckley is your favourite character than by all means be my guest. And listen, i love this show, it's all about hope, and it means everyone gets a redemption arc, as short as it is (sometimes even just a sentence lol), but we won't always be satisfied with these arcs, especially if they don't feel proportional to the hurt the characters may have caused to our mains, so we'll all have different reactions to them.
I swear liking a morally ambiguous/grey character says absolutely nothing about you, but making excuses for them, antagonising people who might dislike them (for good reasons) or acting like suddenly triggers don't exist for people, does say something about you. One of my favourite characters is literally the worst person ever, an actual bigot, but i won't ever write essays about why people are not allowed to dislike him actually because he's my babygirl.. i very much understand why people would.
All of this to say, everyone will have different opinions about Tommy. Some might love him, some will be completely neutral or at worst slightly uncomfortable/bothered by him, and some will straight up hate him, and all of these are fine. Live and let live, love whoever you want to love, and hate whoever you want to hate, but please stop trying to dictate how others should feel, i'm begging. And this really does go both ways.
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ashfdhfgdsfk · 11 months
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might remake to a new account entirely and change the name i go by
#depresso rant incoming skipp all this if you dont wanna hear it#txt#el/ena might have to become a deadname for lack of a better word sjdhfg#putting the slash because im beyond paranoid now#nothing on this earth is sacred i feel like ive lost the only safe space i had left#would you guys call me some silly name if i asked :-( fuck#shit im so hurt this is the worst#trying to be positive so im not just a huge drag but im so isolated in my real life and as stupid as it sounds#tumblr was becoming a little home id carved out for myself#and i feel like im never going to feel safe here again#but in order to tell you guys about a new blog url ill have to post about it which means they might see it too and uagshfg#and god it doesnt even matter bc my arts out there anyway and a few random 10k+ note posts so theres a chance theyll find me no matter what#and shit i loved so many of my old urls but i cant ever reuse them and i feel like im seriously losing my fucking mind trying to hide#like tumblr and having you guys was the only thing keeping me going through all this shit and it feels like ive lost all of that comfort#this is gonna be the worst fucking birthday ever dude just for that extra cherry on top like i seriously have nothing going for me rn SJDHG#denver and a few lovely mutuals to keep me kicking but oughgf#i feel sick#feel like i need to shower and scrub my soul raw to get this vile ass feeling out#god im sorry to be negative i rlly am i try to keep things cheery round here but im styeadily reaching my limit#and i want to reblog stuff to comfort myself but i dont want to reblog anything in case theyre watching and fuck im so dfjsfgjksfjkgsfkdgh#i could really go for a hug right about now s'all
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arcielee · 8 days
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Hey everyone, I know it's a dark time in the fandom right now and I am only going to speak on this once.
To begin: there was a period of time where I had some bigger blogs blocked due to a misunderstanding that escalated. I recently learned that both sides were being fed a villainous narrative over something that I did not do. It became this weird Us vs Them ordeal.
I tried to pull away. I blocked a lot of blogs to try and remove myself from the HotD space.
I was very heartbroken. Tumblr was my little nerdy escape that allowed me to swoon over my beloved fictional characters and find kindred spirits who shared the same sentiment. I found myself hating to check my notifications, seeing the hateful anons and DMs, and seeing my mutuals receiving the same grief for publicly engaging with me.
It was awful.
After some time, blogs began to reach out and share what had been said about me, telling me about the rumors. It gave me clarity on what had happened. I see the fierce loyalty a lot of us posses and if I had been told these same horrible things, I probably would have responded in a similar way.
I was grateful for the honesty and I hold no animosity towards anyone who believed what was said. I do not care about the cruel things spread or the name calling, I just felt relieved that I could speak my truth and slowly become part of the community that I loved. I wanted to forgive and just move forward.
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Then I found out that I had been doxxed.
They found my legal name and my private IG. They shared it without my permission. I feel fortunate that this group did not do anything with the information shared, but I also do not know if it was shared outside of this chat.
Tumblr is a silly hellsite that allowed me to learn the art of a Reader inserts, to brainstorm story ideas with my mutuals, to reblog nifty gifsets and fanart. But this is something I keep separate my from actual IRL, so learning about this felt like a violation.
I know we are all hurting. The point of this post is a reminder to stay safe, to set up your two-step authenticator and to please keep yourselves protected.
Like I said: I will not speak on this again. If you stay, please know my blog is a safe place where I do not tolerate bigotry of any means.
My DMs and my anons are open, always. 💜
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danrifics · 2 months
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everyone listen to bethanie and make a dnp blog RIGHT NOW!!! you don’t even need to come off anon if you are shy when interacting directly with people (i interact with a few people on anon)(the amount of anons i sent you… you are so fun to talk to <3) and by making a dnp blog you will have a safe space to reblog/tag/post anything really it’s more fun than lurking, and eventually talk to people/reply to posts off anon and make some friends if you are up to it! it doesnt matter if you have 1 or 5000 followers it’s just fun to have other phannies on the dashboard and reblog/make silly posts!!!!! i’ve been on and off on my dnp sideblog for a few years and atm i am having so much fun <3
yes!!! this like you can still send things on anon if you want but like think how cool it is to engage with people in tags and replies and reblogs!! its so cool having a blog space where you can talk about what you enjoy!!
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gamer-girls427 · 2 months
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Thanks for everything (also I suck with words so just try to follow this ok?)
uh so, as I said I suck with words. Infact, most of the time I communicate better through drawings, kin characters, qoutes, and music. But I relize those could be interpreted in any way so I'm going to try to put this into words.
if you wanna just skip the backstory and get straight to the thanks then go below the cut off!
For a long time I've been told I'm not trying hard enough. That I "don't apply myself" that I "just don't try to connect with others" and that most importantly, "Nothing is wrong with me cognitively, I'm just to lazy to try to succeed."
I have since been diagnosed with a number things, some more notable ones being autism and ADHD.
I always felt like those things never ment anything since for awhile I didn't get accommodations. Instead I just had more reasons people didn't want to be around me.
I discovered this fandom the year before tspud released so stuff related to this game was few and far between. But this game was always a safe space for me. A safe space I got shamed out of liking because it was too silly and childish, or in the words of my parents "all you do in this game is die over and over!" And "What's the point if it just makes fun of you for playing the game?"
This was what I had though in a time where I didn't have much else. I was being bullied, I was getting sexually harassed, and then my best friend left me for not being cool enough for her. Tbh I hated myself because all I would get in response was the same thing, that I "just don't try to connect with others." That "everyone was really nice, you just have to give them a chance."
I was alone, and no one was listening when I would talk about how I was struggling. The most I got was the guy who sexually harassed me got suspended for 1 DAY.
Fun fact, I once reached out to one of the devs of tsp, and they mocked my username and sent me a gif telling me that "I'm a nerd, leave me alone." So you could imagine how hard it was for me to reach out to artists I admire...
But I did, and now I literally cannot go a day without checking Tumblr at least once. Not only that but I feel validated by you guys. I feel inspired to start doing things I haven't done in a long time!
So... all I have to say now is:
Thanks to @file-unknown24 for showing me not everyone on the internet is a perv and introducing me to tumblr.
Thanks to @adventurecrimez for being my girlfriend.
Thanks to @mpils for being the first Tumblr blog I ever sent an ask to (IDK if you remember but I was that really shy anon from 2 years ago who said they really liked your art. I sent it on new years day when I was having a sugar crash lol.)
Thanks to @test-url-please-ignore for our very brief interactions (also I just have a weird obsession with British stuff so it's cool to know someone from the UK...)
Thanks to @insomniphic tolerating my DMs.
Thanks to @steampoweredwerehog for just tolerating my hyperfixation on their TSP AU as well as helping me be respectful while still being able to use my cryptid OC.
Thanks to @oswinunknown for showing me it's not weird to draw you and your comfort charaters hanging out (and following my Dungeons 3 roleplay account).
Thanks to @owlfromthemeadow for following my main account and tolerating my midnight DMs.
Thanks to @xandyprojects for drawing N!
Thanks to @finnleywiththesillys for doing roleplay with me and just being a cool person 😎
Thanks to @juaneloriginal for drawing people's narrators and having some very huggable narrator designs.
Thanks to @emmyisstrange for tagging me in reblog games (I freaking love those so much you don't understand!)
Thanks to @starpeep16 for helping me feel more confident in finishing that one drawing I was doing as a gift to steampoweredwerehog. (Maybe I'll post it some time?)
Thanks to @villiun for taking an intrest in my stuff!
Thanks to @corelex for also liking D&D and having the idea of basing a warlock patron on someone else's Narrator!
Thanks to @lee100pad for talking to me (even if it was only one time)
Thanks to @incorrectstanleyparablequotes for giving me somewhere to dump my dumb neurodivergent thoughts (when it comes to qoutes).
And lastly, thanks to @sowaran and @goony-gooner for being my friends in general.
You all mean so much to me and I don't think this post, or any other post, can express that fact.
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givemea-dam-break · 4 months
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babes is back
hello my lovies!!!!!!
i am back!!!! much to your pleasure and simultaneous screaming because yes, if i am back, the fics will be back. and they will be painful.
i thought i’d give you guys a little explanation as to why i kind of randomly stopped coming on tumblr despite my reappearances in december, which were because the lovely @neewtmas had her 12 days of christmas (FIND THAT HERE) and we’re online friends in real life (if that makes any sense at all) and i wanted to support her!!!! my wife!!!!
under the cut below is my little rundown, under a cut simply because i don’t want to take up a million scrolls of your dash if you don’t want to read my reasonings or you are just happy i am back (i luv u)
i have felt terrible since becoming inactive on tumblr since i made so many friends and had so so so many people supporting not only my fanfictions but the edits i also started making, so this is also kind of like my apology to you guys because i went so unexpectedly and without any explanation. so if you want to keep reading, then keep reading!
BOO
scary cut. i know. it’s ok. i am here to protect u.
anyways, like i said, my inactivity on tumblr was a completely out of the blue thing that even i didn’t expect. one day, i just found myself unable to go on the app out of pure dread which i had never felt because it was one of my faves.
and not dread because of anything that had happened here per se, just because my life had been becoming a bit of a mess.
that goes way back, but the crux of it was when me and my boyfriend of 4 years (who i had been staying with after my mum moved away) broke up
i won’t get into details about the breakup itself for both my privacy and his (very unique instances caused it), but basically it got worse and worse, and by october time it was getting to a point where i wasn’t feeling right at all. he was messaging me all the time, begging to get back together, the usual, but he was always wanting to come see me at my dads and for SOME REASON felt as though he had some entitlement to meet my new cats aka my little babies. he was saying creepy things to me (that he didn’t mean as creepy) and by november i blocked him.
i wasn’t feeling safe physically, worried i’d see him on my walks home from the shop in a different town that he comes to often to hang out in with his best friend, but also mentally. i wasn’t in a good mental space at all. i was scared. i was confused. he had pushed all of the blame of the breakup onto me. i was working 35 hours a week while being a student (still am) and my brain had no time for anything but work, studying, and worrying.
tumblr isn’t my job, but the pure guilt i felt when i deleted the app hit me like a tonne of bricks. i felt terrible. one of the only things that gave me solace was something i couldn’t bring myself to go on to. i couldn’t bring myself to write the requests i had piling in, ones i still have huge guilt for never getting around to writing. i couldn’t bring myself to keep answering messages or reblogging things because i didn’t have it in me. i didn’t even write at all october-november because i just had nothing in me, which is so so unlike me.
one thing that did keep me going though, was my emails. “eden ew ur job alert emails? ur period tracker app trying to get u onto premium? the emails from the joint account u had with ur ex for his music career that went kasplut?” no silly. maybe the job alerts - my job has too much drama.
no. 15 year old eden logging back into tumblr and setting email notifs on for comments, tags, and inbox was perhaps the smartest thing she did, and she got all A’s in her exams.
every now and then, i’d get a little tumblr notification. one of those “put this in the inbox of one of your favourite blogs blah blah blah” i luv em. can never get myself to do them because of the 13 year old in me screaming to never do chain mail again after carmen winstead and her creepy voicenote. but i love them, and i appreciate every single person who sent me one.
i could see people commenting on my fics, and absolutely loving them. i could see what my mutuals tagged me in, even if i wasn’t able to react to them.
it gave me peace of mind to keep going with my life while still being able to cling onto the happiness this site brings me while not actually accessing it.
i will always be sorry that i left so suddenly, but it was a spur of the moment thing and something i couldn't even explain myself.
i'm back now, but i likely won't be as active as i used to be. i'm prioritising work and my studies as much as i can while still finding time to write. this being said, i can't promise that all requests sent to my inbox/messages will be answered. part of my leaving was being so overwhelmed by them all (and i thank you all for choosing me to requests fics from, it means a lot!) so if your request doesn't get answered, i truly am sorry and it isn't anything personal! maybe I'll get around to it in the future, but for now i want to bring the joy back to writing for me so i will not be overloading myself like i used to!
i hope you can all understand, and know i love you all so, so dearly! i wouldn't have the friends i do or be where i am in life without all of you!
love u all lots lovies <3
-ur favourite person ever ever ever, eden MWAH
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iguessitsjustme · 3 days
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*flips hair* I have never blocked anyone because I'm nosy, but I want to know #4!
What was the last straw that made you finally block that annoying person?
I am also nosy...to my detriment sometimes. Which is why it takes me so long to actually block people that I should probably have blocked a lot sooner. But I do have a story.
4. what was the last straw that made you finally block that annoying person?
I've kind of vaguely mentioned this when asked before but I'll talk a tiny bit more specifically here. Not too specific because I'm not trying to start shit buuuuut....also they are definitely not the only person I've blocked but I think they might be the most recent one? I don't know.
About a year(?) ago I had to block a couple of people because they were starting to make me uncomfortable. I was being tagged in all sorts of posts (and to be clear the posts weren't bad, they were even positive! kind posts even) and something about what was happening was rubbing me the wrong way.
Actually before I keep talking about this, I feel like I need to talk a tiny bit about myself because it's important context. This also might surprise people considering how much I overshare on here, but I am, at my core, an extremely private person. I do not like attention. I get anxiety when my follower count goes up here (genuinely love all of my followers and this is definitely a me problem). I live in fear of being secretly recording for some stranger's tiktoks. I don't want my face seen by people. I do not wish to be perceived. It is 100% a trauma response and I am aware of all of this. And this is extremely important to why I blocked these people.
It is slightly easier for me on tumblr than it is in real life, but this is quite literally my safe space that I have built for myself. It's why I'm comfortable sharing things here. I have no issue being tagged in posts. I have no issue with people wanting to talk about things I've said or if they tag me because they want me to see something. So getting tagged in seemingly genuinely kind and positive posts should be fine, right?
Well, yes and no. The posts I was being tagged in felt...hollow to me. Like I was being tagged in an attempt to build a platform instead of because they actually wanted to tag me. I was being tagged in posts thanking me for participating in a fandom which kind of made it seem like the reason I was posting about anything was for accolades and that...is simply not why I'm here. I am not here to gain a following. I am not here to build a platform or to help others build a platform. I am here to post silly little posts about my shows and my life and also now keep track of character's glasses. If I wanted to build a platform, tumblr is not what I would be using (and honestly if I wanted to, I genuinely think I could be pretty successful at building a platform and gaining followers and other platforms. I would consider myself highly marketable if I wanted to go into that industry).
But the last straw for me? What finally did it? Why I finally blocked the people whose vibes have felt off for me and clearly did not know me well enough to know that doing what they were doing was quite literally the opposite of something I am comfortable with? It was when someone (again not naming names because I don't think they had bad intentions but were just so horrendously misguided as to allow themselves to ignorantly do this) who did not follow me, did not reblog any of my posts, did not like any of my posts, had never replied to any of my posts, nor had they ever interacted with my blog or with me in any type of way (I checked because I'm nosy enough and petty enough to have checked that) tagged me in a post. To thank me. For participating in a fandom. And I am not saying anyone has to do any of those things. But if you're gonna tag me to thank me for participating...perhaps maybe at least like one of my posts about the thing you're thanking me for?
To be clear, this was a show that a lot of people were talking about at the time. I was not the only person tagged in these posts. I was for sure not the only person talking about the show. In fact, I probably posted a tenth of what other people posted. If that. And my posts, honestly, weren't very well thought out or coherent. They were my typical little silly posts. And I know people like those. But they weren't the same as what other people were posting. And to be tagged by someone that seemed to only care when it was something that could gain them notes and followers instead of someone who actually enjoyed what I was saying? Felt strange to me. And rather than start beef with a stranger on the internet I blocked them.
Blocking them solved the issue that was making me uncomfortable as peacefully as I felt I could. They no longer had the ability to tag me in strangely performative posts and I didn't start yelling at a stranger and potentially ruin their day. Or start drama that no one else needed to be involved in. I did make a small post about it at the time mostly because I felt so weirded out and I did feel a little bit bad about blocking them. But it was such a quiet thing that no one noticed and everyone moved on with their lives. Made things happier. For me at least. Probably happier for them too.
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impossiblesuitcase · 7 months
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sorry to bring drama to your anons but why is ikosburneraccount saying you’re a racist and she hates your writing? were you involved in some sort of discourse irt them and racism? I try to make sure all the ppl I follow are anti-racist so this is a little concerning 😅
I had no idea what this was referring to. I never followed that user so I didn't see their recent posts or know that they blocked me, hence why I was unknowingly reblogging their stuff. I haven't seen what they said about me and I won't--I'm not racist and won't have anyone force that narrative onto me. If this is referring to the Taylor Swift Matty Healy situation, I never supported that relationship. But that's the thing--I don't get involved with Taylor's relationships or her as a person. I like her music, but I don't personally know her or condone everything she does. The carbon emissions plane thing? That is not good. I don't agree with that. However I have been listening to Taylor's music since 2008, the Matty Healy situation was like two months ago. I'm not going to 'un-like' all that music in a short amount of time.
If you also take that line of reasoning--that we should reject anything related to anything morally wrong--we could not watch any movies or shows, because they almost all were made by a predator or involved child manipulation. It means we can't read this book series, because it has a relationship between an adult and a minor. Most of the tlc fans on tumblr--excluding myself--are minors. I don't like that this safe space is becoming volatile, especially for the ones who are Taylor Swift fans.
As for saying my writing is bad, well, that user just bookmarked my most recent fic as "the best kaider fic I've ever read" on ao3, though they've since removed that review.
I'm not on tumblr for drama. I'm here to post silly things about a book series. This isn't a Taylor Swift blog either. I reblogged occasional posts about her, and then I started getting asks about her and tlc. I never aggravated that user--I've hardly interacted with them to begin with--in fact, when they were wanting to write a fic similar to mine, I said go right ahead! But if people are trying to impose dramas on me that I never encouraged, I won't hesitate to protect myself and leave.
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Yea hi I made this account for myself, nice to meet you.
So basically, I'm like afraid of being hated on in certain circles I'm in for liking Hazbin just as a show (while I do not support Vivzy in the slightest). So yea. This kinda just.. formed.
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I wanna reblog radioapple and stuff without being judged. Yahoo.
Occasionally I might make a post, maybe not, who knows.
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SHIPS:
Appleradio/Radioapple - I think their dynamic is silly, and could work really well once they learn to get along. Plus Lucifer is very gentle from what we've seen, so I feel like he'd respect Alastor's boundaries, and the two would overall keep the ship queerplatonic (good rep for people like me!!) Also they remind me of Gordon and Benrey from HLVRAI.
Huskerdust - The two are SOSOSOSOSOSOSOSOOOOOO sweet with each other, I'm loving their slow growth so far, and you can just SEE them pining for each other OUGH. I also love when people point out that Husk fell in love with Anthony, not Angel Dust. He fell in love with who Ange truly is, and I LOVE that like OUGH it makes my heart ACHE. :'3
Chaggie - They're just a healthy couple, even having some flaws and differences, but they still get along well and resolve conflicts well. Love them, 10/10; also it was practically love at first sight LMFAO.
Cherrisnake - We all know it's canon, it's very very canon, good job Sir Pentious we salute you my boy. I really hope the hotel people can visit him, so that he can see Cherri again GWAH!!!
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BOUNDARIES:
Keep the blog SFW if you're going to interact, if you support Vivzy then obviously gtfo and find some other weird shitty blog to follow idk, general DNIs that should just be obvious to the normal person, etc. (Oh yea, take this fucking long ass post, THIS is just a FRACTION of why Viv is horrible.)
I really don't want to interact with creeps or anything like that, and if you don't have anything nice to say then don't say it.
As much as I don't support Vivzy I will not openly promote any kind of hatred of any sort. I want my blog to be a happy safe little space for people to view silly ships and headcanons about the show. I completely separate the show from anything else, and treat it as a seperate thing from Vivzy and things related to her.
This account may also promote some Helluva fanart, while I'm becoming more disinterested in the show with how poorly it's being written, I still love the characters and wish they could be more developed. :)
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Besides ALLLLLLL of that, I hope you enjoy your time here.
Feel free to use the ask box in a friendly manner, or if you have any questions to ask about me or the show, etc!
Thas all folks!
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milomilesmib · 9 months
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Figured I should just make a post about my blog so I'm not just,,, this unknown entity. This is gonna be a bit of a mess but stick with me.
Also- if I reblogged your post and added the caption "yoink" it basically means "I'm keeping this on my blog because I like it/it's useful"
I should also mention that I call everyone bestie unless it's a more formal conversation because I like to keep things nice and friendly so if I call you bestie in my rb even though we have never interacted before that is why.
First of all- introduction. My name is Milo or Miles or Mib and my pronouns are he/him/it/they but mainly he/him. I'm an ISFP-T, I kin Nico di Angelo, the Collector, Hunter Noceda/Deamonne/Clawthorne/etc, Patroclus, and Charlie Spring, and my star sign is Leo. I'm panromantic achillean demiromantic cupioromantic aceflux (questioning) queerplatonic polyamorous transmasculine genderqueer (I know it's a mouthful), but you can also just call me queer and trans. I am diagnosed with ADHD and (extreme) anxiety. Fun! I'm also iron deficient and often dehydrated from forgetting to drink water lmao.
I'm happy to talk about my sexuality/gender. I am happy to talk about light personal topics. I don't really like talking about my health unless I'm helping someone else figure out theirs.
This blog is a safe space for:
The 2SLGBTQIA+ community
Anyone with any mental, neurological, or physical disabilities or other struggles of that sort
The BIPOC community
Anyone who has been abused or assaulted in any way or has any sort of trauma
People who are suffering from or recovering from any kind of addictions, whether that's drugs or self harm or alcohol or sex anything else
Everyone of every gender, sexuality, religion, ability, race, sex, etc. who wants to hang out and talk about their interests or hobbies or anything!
This blog is NOT a space for:
Homophobia, queerphobia, transphobia, aphobia, ableism, sexism, racism, fatphobia or any kind of discrimination whatsoever!
Bigotry and hate!
Overly political topics (some are okay but over all I'm trying to avoid anything too political on this blog)
This is supposed to be a fun and safe space and I intend on it being so. If you have any concerns, drop me an ask, anonymous or not, and I'll answer to the best of my ability.
Now for ✨the fun stuff✨
In this blog, I mainly talk about whatever little subject is eating at my brain. Usually this is:
The Owl House
Hazbin Hotel
Helluva Boss
Percy Jackson
Queer shit
But I have other interests!
MBTI
Art
My OCs ❤️✨
Hades (Supergiant)
The Song of Achilles/anything Patrochilles
Greek mythology
Good Omens
Magnus Chase
Music
Frogs!
Creatures and critters!!!
Candles and cute decor things
Sewing (I'm just like Hunter fr)
Stims!
Some WEBTOONs
Whatever silly little games I'm playing on my phone currently (Secret Cat Forest and Kinder World rn)
Probably more that I'm forgetting!
If you have an interest you wanna talk about, leave an ask or send me a message, and I'll happily listen to you talk about it (as long as it's not on the above list of things that aren't for this blog and if you're not sure if it is, ask politely and I'll tell you whether or not I'm comfortable talking about it) and please, be respectful! I don't want to be grilled on the details of your obscure fanfic :)
If you ever wanna listen to me ramble about any of the above interests you will be my best friend forever and I will always love you because my infodumping ass likes being listened to or even just heard.
I ship:
Huntlow
Huskerdust
Fizzmodeus
Solangelo
Valdangelo
Valgrace
Patrochilles
Lumity
My OCs ✨ (I'm not elaborating)
Fierrochase
Blitzstone
Aziracrow
Ineffable bureaucracy
I'm obsessed with the following characters (platonically/aesthetically/familially/sometimes romantically);
HUNTER NOCEDA DAEMONNE WITTEBANE CLAWTHORNE WHISPERS BLIGHT PARK
Leo Valdez (who isn't obsessed with him tbh)
Nico di Angelo 🥺
Stolas 🥺
Alastor (my current babygirl)
Angel dust <3 (he just like me fr)
NIFFTY ❤️💞💝💓💕💖💘💗❤️💝
Lityerses (I too break down in tears when shown basic human kindness)
The Collector ✨
The entire Noceda family lmao
Darius Daemonne (more like dadrius)
MY OCS ✨❤️
Aziraphale 🥺
Beelzebub <3
So that's basically me! Sorry a lot of this was just "NO BEING MEAN" but I just wanted to get it out there that I don't tolerate that shit ❤️
Hope y'all have fun here, and thank you to everyone for being so amazing and kind ❤️
I'll probably edit this over time but this is a good start. Thank you to anyone who read the whole thing or even just some of this, it means a lot. Welcome to my TOH/PJO/Good Omens/ queer/shitpost blog ❤️
Last edited: 4:10 p.m. Pacific Time, Saturday April 6th, 2024 (Hellenism update)
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Hello Little ones and Caregivers! This is my pinned post!
DNI: kink, ddlg, abdl Anti-LBGT, abliest, and Racists ETC! This is a non -sexual platform and will NOT be sexualized on my page!
This is SFW and a safe place for Littles and caregivers to be themselves and to enjoy their time here. Any blank accounts will be blocked.
If anyone wants to talk or needs a helping hand, my messages and asks are open! This is completely platonic!
If you want to get to know me more outside of me being a caregiver or AgreDre, please refer to my main blog @twyla19 . I have come to the realization that some regressors like talking to me while not regressed. I think this would be easier to separate possible adult conversations. I know many of you have trauma around them and do not want your regressed self to possibly see those conversations.
I made an Instagram! There is nothing on it yet, but I hope to share stuff on there as well!
I have an AgeDre blog!
Credits:
@cutiecorner made my new background. It's a CG Twyla flag!
I made my own profile picture!
I have commissions open! Go here for the post! 2 slots open!
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Below is more information!
✨️Looking for asks?
I have found a thing called help, heard, hug. This means what you need the most at this given moment. I tend to always want to help littles when feeling sad or down about something. I know that isn't always what you all need, so if you put in the number (1) like this, it means you want help. (2) for a hug and (3) is to just need to have someone listen or be heard.
You do not have to use an emoji if you do not feel comfortable. Or giving me a nickname or pronouns. Do what makes you comfortable!
✨️Rules for asks
NOTE: This will continue to change as this page grows.
What is OKAY for asks:
babbling, being silly, wanting to see how I am doing or tell me about your day. Showing me the drawing or things you get, asking me questions, of course, general light topics like missing someone or wanting to chat.
What is NOT OKAY: talking about self-harm, especially thinking about harming oneself, any kind of trauma.
Since i am back at school, i will be quite busy. I might still post or reblog things, but I can be overwhelmed with all my school responsibilities, online friends, asks, and so on! So Asks will be answered on weekends when i have more time and DMs are going to be more prioritized.
Note: If you are someone who does not feel comfortable with DMs, please make sure that you do not talk about something that might be triggering for others. I want to celebrate things while also keeping asks a safe space since they do get posted to my blog and are public.
Please do in DMs:
Vent about trauma, about your day, anything that is just weighing heavy on your mind. Longer conversations (during school year)
Last asks note:
I wanna be here for you all while also making sure I am safe as well. I do not have any topic that can be taken off the table. However, I want things that are super personal or may be triggering to be in my DMs since Asks are public. I want this to be a mental health safe space. I want you all to talk about the tough feelings, and if it gets super personal, I just want you all to stay safe in all ways. Many littles come to my page for different reasons. Some want to get away from their stress and traumas, and some are involuntary regressors due to their trauma.
In conclusion, I'm just trying to look out for everyone, plus myself, and staying safe is my most important thing, kiddos!
Taken emojis for Anon:
🐊🦀🍼🧵🥁🦈🦦🍄💫🔮🐨🦋🌹🦭📻🐈‍⬛💥🐻‍❄️🖍🕯🐇 🧨✨️
Double emojis
🎨🎸, 🐬🪼
I also have systems who use multiple emojis per alter.
✨️About me, Caregiver edition:
Nicknames! So far, I have Twy, Baba, Mx. Twyla, and Twy-Twy !
I welcome any and most nicknames and will be happy with anything.
I am not looking for a long-term kiddo at the moment. I will gladly talk with you if you need it! I feel more comfortable being a babysitter or just someone you talk with while small.
I do prefer gender neutral or more masculine ones! Especially compliments.
I am an open book. Nothing will bother me if you want to talk about it. I have the mental capacity to listen! I do not judge you for your past or what you have gone through.
[This section will be updated as I see fit]
✨️About me, personal:
Here are a few things about me that I think would be helpful! I am disabled, nonbinary, and asexual. I have gotten myself into Bluey, and I collect monster high dolls. I am a disney person! I usually like princess movies or the young kid tv shows like Good luck Charlie or Jessie. I'm in college to become a music teacher and my main instrument is violin! I love any shade of purple and definitely a cold tone person with green and blue being 2nd and 3rd for my top 3 colors!
Oh! I LOVE squishmallows! I have quite a bit of a stuffy collection. otherwise, they're in storage, sadly due to me not living with my parents.
I personally feel like my interests haven't changed since being a kid, just my maturity has aged. With this being said, I have found that I do regress, but it is so intertwined with my personality and who I am today that I can not specifically regress or know my age. Some things just make me so happy, and I have found a few words that made me feel smaller in comparison to myself now.
✨️If you want to find stuff specific to my posts, here are some tags!
#Caregiver-Twyla: will be my main one for this blog.
#TwylaAnita Art: is for all my art I post!
#caregivertwyla asks : This is for any and all asks from anyone on this page!
#Cgtwyla reblogs
#Twylas sfw agere moodboards
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cupid-styles · 2 months
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nobody in my real life knows that i do this either, and i love this community because it really does feel like we’re all besties just fangirling over each other HAHAHA. the first time u reblogged one of my fics i think i literally jumped out of my seat because WHAT. and the first time freedomfireflies reblogged one of my fics i was like “this is a dream. i’m dreaming.” you both are just safe spaces in this community and that makes it so much more bearable and fun to be here. i feel like some sides are cliquey but i just feel like you two are friends with everyone and just want everyone to feel loved and appreciated and that’s really all anyone could ask for. just the continued support is so so reassuring.
-🕷️ anon because i’m just jumping into the convo!! *mwah mwah.*
do not make me cry because I literally will this isn’t even FUNNY
first of all thank you so much for sending this, it literally means the WORLD to me that you consider my silly little blog to be one of the safe spaces in this community 🩷 my heart is so warm knowing that bc that’s all ive ever wanted, especially as I started getting more interaction from people. I know life can be really difficult and shitty and everyone has their own stuff going on but if you come on here and enjoy my writing or feel comfortable talking to me about literally whatever, that just makes me so so so happy
anyway you’re the cutest ever, I love you so much and im so happy I could make you feel supported by reblogging your writing 🩷🩷
(tagging @freedomfireflies in this too since you mentioned her!!)
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NEWLY FOLLOWING FORTHELOVEOFDEADDOVE?
Lots of new followers due to all the Freak floatin' around here on Fridays. All are welcome, all are welcome (except childruns, keep thee away from this den of horror).
A PSA for all ya'll if you didn't check out my welcome post before you hit "follow" (why would you do that silly).
This is "A Blog" (pronounced AYE-BLAWG). It leans hardcore for the porn. It leans left ('Murican) for the politics. I advertise and complain about my fic writing here - all of which is Dead Dove content.
What is "Dead Dove"? Dead dove is a warning label (tag) for creative works that implies that you will find exactly what is labeled on the box. It tends to imply extreme/hardcore/dark/bizarre content, but in its most basic definition, even a My Little Pony gen fic about Twilight Sparkle racing Rainbow Dash could be a Dead Dove fic, if it was tagged "gen", "spice of life", "fic about racing", because that is what you would find in the fic.
I ramble A LOT about my mental health and wellness recovery. Substance abuse, bi-polar disorder, and religious (Pentecostal flavor) and childhood trauma. I discuss Dialectical Behavioral Therapy and traditional Indigenous practices in place of traditional 12 step, among other things. I am raising my one Spawn as a single parent. So that's what I talk and reblog about for mental health/personal stuff.
Porn on Fridays as I'm sure you noticed. It's the exception, rather than the rule. But to be fair I do reblog over 100 posts every Freaky Friday.
Historical harem dramas, Supernatural, select anime, LotR, and Homestar Runner fill in the rest of my brain space.
I'm not looking to hook up, messages of that nature will be ignored so don't bother sending. Feel free to chat me up about anything else, even NSFW headcanons.
IF YOU FOLLOW ME, I MIGHT FOLLOW YOU (if your blog is, y'know, GOOD, or it has particularly good porn I could reblog). Don't come into my house, like 22 posts, follow me, and then as soon as I follow back, unfollow me.
Actually, I'm just joking. DO do that. Respect your own boundaries I beg you.
Some context: someone must have thought my blog was one thing and liked a bunch of the porn posts, then realized it was not JUST that after a closer inspection, and was decidedly not for them. Be safe on the internet and do what's best for YOU. It's okay to be mistaken, lol. I happened to be online when it happened, otherwise I wouldn't have clocked it. And now I have to overthink it.
In the realm of overthinking and taking this too personally, I worry that they saw me follow them back, and thought I was going to be a creep. And I AM a creep. But not that kind.
I'm sensitive about being perceived by younger adults as some kind of perverted mouth breather. Because while it may be completely, 100% accurate, don't think so highly of yourself. Main character syndrome (which is something I've never ever ever suffered from a day in my perfect life) much? I love acrylic nail designs and so one time complimented the teenage cashier on her nail job. I swear she wanted to call Chris Hansen. Its not about you, pumpkin-boo-boo, it's about the nails. If I followed you, it's not because I want to hit on you.
I much rather prefer to victimize the fictional characters in my stories, thank you very much.
And that cringey over-sharing should deter all the people it's meant to, and anyone who sticks around after that rant probably belongs here. Welcome. :)
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grabowskibeepboop · 1 year
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FREE PALESTINE 🇵🇸
Before introducing my fandoms, I just want to say that my blog is meant to be a safe space where I share my ideas and thoughts and you're free to share yours, and nothing related to harassment or that is agains the law is meant to be taken seriously, unless it's talked about seriously. There will also be a lot of complaining, especially about tumblr.
Also description is supposed to be read on phone screen, and if you're on desktop feel free to open my custom html, it's not much but it took some time
So I mostly only downloaded the app for Wednesday and tylorpe/wenclair, but I do also like:
[-fandom(main ship/s)]
-BnHA(BkDk, KrKm, SrRk, yada yada)
-Sk8 The Infinity(c'mon, every ship is obvious)
-Disenchantment(lucifo)
-EddsWorld(Tomtord/Eddmatt, ikik don't ship real people, I ship the characters, I don't ship people I don't know enough like my friends or people that do fanservice)
-I used to like Miraculous but I haven't watched it in a while, I do plan on catching up with new episodes but I wouldn't say I love it anymore (lukadrien, kaganette, chloebrina, Felix x Wayhem, yada yada all the gays)
-mcyt(I think rn I only watch happyduo, but I was also obsessed with beeduo too, I just miss then so much)
-Helluva Boss
-Harry Potter AND THAT DOES NOT MEAN THAT I SUPPORT JKR IN ANY WAY (deamus, grindeldore and drarry [with them rasing Teddy Lupin] [also Harry in slytherin is a classic, go watch SuperCarlinBrothers][also haven't seen or read the cursed child but scorbus too])
-Total Drama(Gwen x Courtney, Sha-boyfriends aka Scott x Lightning, duncan x Trent ig, and Macarthur x Sanders)
-Umbrella Academy
-Community(trobed, Annie x Frankie, Jeff x Rich)
-The Good Place(Michael x Shawn)
-Sandman(Gaultienne, Matthew x Morpheus, and just Matthew is fucking amazing, favourite mortal/undead/birbman)
-Daniel Spellbound
-Marvel+Sony's spiderverse(ironstrange, thorquill, spideypool, punkflower, spiderdads, ghostbyte)
-Hunter x Hunter (do I need to explain?)
Tags:
#gaybo gets a piercing
: about me getting a piercing
#products
: reblogging products I want in the future
#ship tropes
: silly little ship tropes I either came up with or want to admire
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shitpostingkats · 2 years
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Hi! I recently found your blog, and I just wanted to say that I adore your commentary on all things Yu-Gi-Oh. So much. Words cannot express it. Partly because your insights and takes are just so good and also partly because it’s so incredibly refreshing to see someone who has good things to say in this fandom instead of focusing only on negatives and/or fighting about so many simplistic things.
(It’s also great to see that I’m not the only one borderline obsessed with/constantly analyzing these card game shows and their characters, but that’s an entirely different subject…)
Anyway, I just wanted to say thanks for all the wonderful commentary, and keep up the great work! You’re legit the only reason I even came back to this hellsite after over almost two years away from it, after accidentally stumbling across one of your posts through Google. Seriously. I can’t stand Tumblr, but I might just start a YGO blog here for the sole sake of spam-hearting/reblogging your posts.
PS: And also, I’d be remiss if I didn’t mention how fricking refreshing it is to find someone who actually gets the characters. So thank you so much for that, too. Like, I mean, specifically Jaden/Judai and Yusei. Seriously, the amount of time I’ve gone on and on about how both these boys are actually great and valid and not at all like what some parts of this fandom would have you think only to try to be shut down with a dime-a-dozen, repetitive excuse that I’ve outargued countless times and yet — sorry, it’s just… it’s great to see that someone actually more or less see where I’m coming from. I’ll stop there, because if I start on a rant about how and why both Judai/Jaden and Yusei are surprisingly really deep characters I’ll be here forever. I would very, very much love to read more of your essays on these blorbos, but, of course, no rush.
Oh my gosh thank you so much for the kind words! ❤️
It legitimately means to world to me to see people enjoy and resonate with my funny little musings. While I started this blog as a place to just record/organize my hyperfixation essay nonsense, a nonzero part of it was to put my thoughts out there and hope it reached an audience other than my non-yugioh obsessed friends who lovingly put up with me spamming our discord with no context analysis.
One of my fondest loves of the internet is picking apart and examining stories that maybe weren't intended to looked with such scrutiny. Especially ones that get a bed rap for being "bad writing" or "dumb". Flawless cut diamonds, while pretty, aren't the only gemstones with facets.
I also made this blog as a place where I can wax poetic bullshit to my hearts content.
But yeah, the internet can be a pretty rancid place, and I really get bummed out seeing such a strong focus on beating down stories rather than lifting them up. I wanted my blog to be a safe place to just discuss anything and apply depth and positivity to whatever took my fancy. And what is absolutely rotting my brain right now is these silly card game boys. Hearing that other people not only read, but enjoy my bizarre combo of pretentious lit. student, heart-of-gold dumb-of-ass, and astonishingly attention-deficient, makes me know I'm doing the right thing, and that other people need that kind of space too.
(I swear, I didn't mean to write this entire response without mentioning the blorbos of the hour themselves. Rest assured, I will be posting a ton more thoughts on them, and your ask has only bolstered my resolve to do so. They are. So good. Always feel free to barge into my house and just start infodumping about the yugioh kiddos. I care them. And I care that other people care them. <3)
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silver-heller · 1 year
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Huh, there's a letter...🔞
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Read my General Carrd or AU Carrd for info on my F/Os and S/Is. All F/Os can be shared!
My Fanfic Writing // Ao3 // Promo // Lackadaisy AU Timeline
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💘BYF💘
NO MINORS PLEASE, THANK YOU! MY NSFW blog is heatedmetalheart.
Please practice reblog karma! If you reblog a game from me, send something in. It's rude otherwise and you'll end up blocked.
I often self ship with villains or morally grey characters. If this makes you uncomfortable, this may not be the blog for you! I also have very little care for canon. I am a part of a system and may talk about this from time to time. This is a system and plural safe blog!
I also have the shittiest memory in the wild west. So I apologize in advance if I leave a reblog in my drafts, start F/Oing a character and forget a mutual of mine already does and isn't comfortable with that (just block my silly ass), reblog or post something twice, use the wrongs words, and you get the picture. Please be polite over this, I genuinely don't find people poking fun at this amusing.
💘DNI💘
Homophobes, transphobes, racists, bigots of any kind, exclusionists, and those who ship adults with minors, or incest (or support people that do). If you hate self diagnosis, you are not welcome here!
This is a safe place for other systems, however, keep in mind you are not the only one who has to take care of their mental health. No, it is not our responsibility to put up with anything your system puts us through. We sympathize with having difficult headmates, and we don't blame others for what their headmates do. However, refusing or failing to deal with problematic members shows this is not the right space for us, and we will block you to protect our system members. Please understand this is for our own safety. A headmate being abusive towards one of my headmates will be taken as seriously as if the host was abusive to myself, period.
And look, I'm gonna be real with you, there's some parts of fandom culture I loathe and will avoid like the plague. This includes;
Drama/discourse/debates
Headcanon/fanon pushing
The idea of "fandom leaders" that know it all.
Huge media predictions/the creator said this! I want to see it, not hear about it. Especially with F/O deaths, which I am sensitive to.
I pretty much block anyone that makes me uncomfy and to keep track of blogs whose information I read, but didn't want to/couldn't follow. Aka, I do so liberally, so don't take it personally.
💘About Me💘
I'm 21, he/him, and this is an 18+ blog. You can call me Nightmares, if you'd like! In my free time I enjoy fanboying, writing, listening to music, reading, playing video games, and watching YouTube videos. My favorite media is movies and anime, but my favorite genre is probably either horror or romance.
My inbox is always open for general chatting, either about your interests or your F/Os or S/Is. Seriously, feel free to hit me up anytime, I'm shy, but I really do like discussing this stuff with you.
If Discord is preferable, just let me know. I'd prefer to have interacted with you a bit first, though.
[Everything is safe to reblog unless I have turned that feature off. Keep in mind older posts may not have had this in mind.]
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