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[new-desirdaearchive]

[ PT: TW grooming. end PT ]

Definition and flags from below the cut for archival purposes.

No spoons to retype the ID from the alt text, help appreciated

Desirgroomed

A desirdae term for those that desire/yearn/want to be be groomed.

This term is strictly against transitioning that harms oneself or others. Transitioning to being groomed is not supported by desirdae as it harms oneself.

TW GROOMING

DESIRGROOMED

A desirdae term for those that desire/yearn/want to be be groomed.

Some reasons for this might be:

- ones trauma isn't "bad enough"

- being told it never happend

- feeling like one "deserved it" / "deserves more"

- etc

This term is strictly against transitioning that harms oneself or others. Transitioning to being groomed is not supported by desirdae as it harms oneself.

@desirdae-archive

[yourslimeybuddy]

idgaf that this hasnt been confirmed as an official design or that we only see him for 3 seconds THATS MY BABYGIRL!!!!! EVERYONE SHUT UP

[vocaloidgender]

Intusui dog

An intusui term for when one's inner self is a dog.

Tagging: @intusui

[card-carrying-system]

posted this on Pinterest and we feel like y'all would appreciate it too

[angel-of-genders]

FNAF: Into the Pit - Inviane Identities

Inviballspringtrap: An inviane identity related to this photo of Springtrap stuck in the net of a ballpit, hunched over, one arm up in the net, head down. Said photo is from the video game FNAF: Into the Pit.

Invidarkspringtrap: An inviane identity related to this very dark photo of Springtrap with blackout eyes, oil tears and an open mouth. Said photo is from the video game FNAF: Into the Pit.

(I apologize if this is difficult to see)

@fazbears-horror-attraction @liom-archive @accessmogai @kiruliom @hypnosiacon @inviane-archive

[eldorr]

Top Row: Genderpery (left), Genderwyve (right) Bottom Row: Genderenfi (left), Gendermerr (right)

Genderpery (Genderperyton) A form of genderfluidity in which one is fluid between genders that are not binary male, while also only being a woman/girl (and/or feminine) when their gender is also masculine, xenine, neutral, aporine, outherine, and/or any other non-fiaspec and non-fin gender quality. - Genderwyve (Genderwyvern) A form of genderfluidity in which one is fluid between genders that are not binary male or binary female, while also only experiencing a feminine gender quality when their gender is also masculine, xenine, neutral, aporine, outherine, and/or any other non-fiaspec and non-fin gender quality. - Genderenfi (Genderenfield) A form of genderfluidity in which one is fluid between genders that are not binary female, while also only being a man/boy (and/or masculine) when their gender is also feminine, xenine, neutral, aporine, outherine, and/or any other non-miaspec and non-min gender quality. - Gendermerr (Gendermerron) A form of genderfluidity in which one is fluid between genders that are not binary male or binary female, while also only experiencing a masculine gender quality when their gender is also feminine, xenine, neutral, aporine, outherine, and/or any other non-miaspec and non-min gender quality.

Wanted to post these because I keep not working on posting anything, so I wanted to coin these just to get them out there. Just some genderfluid fragment system terms. The shortened names are just because of there being a Genderperyton and Genderwyvern already? I think? Shortened just to note which one you're talking about ig.

These can be considered combinations of: Genderfaerec + Gendermelu and Genderfaunec + Genderglau, while also having a version where you're not binary ever.

[xiaokuer-schmetterling]

I'M DOING THE THINGS I'M GONNA GET THAT ADDERALL

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but look at this neurotypical ableist bullshit question. how often do you make 'careless' mistakes? FUCK YOU NEVER

i'm always fucking careful. I JUST GET DISTRACTED ☠️🤬😅

do i find myself talking too much??? WHAT THE FUCK. let a person be excited about something jfc

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anyhow pleased to report that new pcp is very supportive of my goals of getting back on the adderall and the levothyroxine but staying off the lurasidone. and judgement free zone about me being all kinds of queer

and she did a blood draw to check for any other issues. and we talked about next steps to see if there's anything else she can do for the chronic joint pain. very pleased. and cautiously hopeful

OH! she let me turn off the overhead florescent lights and open the window blinds. AND HER EXAM ROOM HAS A RECLINER CHAIR.

[plasmaglacious-dndendtotem]

opportunistgender

Opportunistgender - a gender related to opportunist. feeling like one, being one. a gender that takes opportunities. this gender is self-serving. always looking out for oneself.

Tags : @liom-archive, @radiomogai

[midnight-soulless-system]

I am very much not normal about anime and I've been reading chainsaw man so here's my self insert OC named Gige and zir's a Pain and Weight devil. Disabled, intersex, and queer as fuck.

[labelleizzy]

[theamphibianmen]

Ok it's informational post/disability update time! Everything is under the cut because this gonna be looooooong

I'm officially on my second pair of forearm crutches! These are so much better than the old ones for so many reasons. My old crutches were the Orthostix foldable crutches, full cuff. My new ones are Walkeasy 480s. Both are in black.

I know I'm probably going to piss off some people with this, but if you are a full time crutch user-- which I am not, I'm somewhere between full time and part time*, and if you have the money for Walkeasy (or another brand that charges more), I do not recommend Orthostix.

This is because mine lasted me less than a year. I used them every day for 7+ hours and I just don't think they're built for that. They seem to be for people with temporary injuries who will use them for 2 months and then put them in a closet somewhere. They just couldn't handle my lifestyle.

The way they broke was me folding them to put in the car for a trip and the elastic snapped in the left crutch causing a bunch of the hardware to just. Fall out. This caused the unbroken right crutch to weigh slightly more than the left, and the already not great weight balance of the broken one to be even worse.

Speaking of weight balance, the majority of the weight of my old Orthostix was in the handles. They have this style of handle:

Which is supposedly "ergonomic." I understand what they were going for, but holding them the way they're supposed to be held put my wrists at a 90° angle, like this:

Having your wrist in this position isn't inherently uncomfortable I guess, but if it's already bent like that and you put pressure on it that can hurt. This shape also adds a lot of unnecessary weight to the handles.

My new crutches are definitely heavier, but they don't feel as heavy because the weight is evenly distributed. The handles are simple, basically cylinders with grooves for my fingers to rest in. I can hold my wrist straight with these, which is a godsend when it comes to stability and comfort.

I also had a lot of sizing issues with my first pair. Even on the shortest setting, the space between the cuff and the handles was too long for me, so they were always slightly uncomfortable to use. I terms of height I was also between sizes. I'm "5'7 and most of it is leg. Note that this is less of an issue with the crutches themselves and more another reason they weren't right for me.

The cuffs are also a lot... tighter I think is the best way to describe it? The new cuffs look like this:

Which means they stay on my skinny nerd arms a lot better. For reference here's the cuff of the old ones:

Note that this is after I shrank them with boiling water. I tried to make straps with pleather and velcro but it did not work. At all.

The new ones also have these super cool light reflectors on either end of the handles,

which is great because I'm frequently outside at night and my town doesn't have consistent sidewalks.

The main body/material of the crutches is textured as well, which will be helpful for decorating, and they make barely any noise, which is a breath of fresh air compared to the clicking of the old ones.

Overall, I'd say that my old crutches were a 6/10. Definitely the right idea, but at the end of the day didn't meet my needs, while the new ones are an easy 9/10. The only thing even approximating a complaint I have is that these don't fold, but that feature is what ultimately lead to the old ones breaking. That does come at a cost though: my Walkeasies were about $120, while Orthostix will only run you $70. If you don't have the money for Walkeasy, Orthostix gets the job done. If you do though, I highly recommend them.

*I never leave the house without a mobility aid, and 99.9% of the time it's my crutches. I only walk unaided in small spaces I'm familiar and comfortable with that I know have plenty of platforms for me to push off of and catch myself on. I've heard that full time means you can't walk unassisted at all, and I don't really use my aids around the house (but I would if there were space) so calling myself a full time user feels misleading, but calling myself a part time user feels just as misleading because very few people see me without my mobility aids. If I'm out of the house, which happens nearly every day, I will be using my crutches. So IDK where that puts me. If anyone has a term I can use without upsetting anybody please let me know.

[vocaloidgender]

Lopbun

A species flag for lop-eared rabbits. This was designed with otherkin, nonhumans and alters in mind, however anyone who identifies as a lop-eared rabbit can use this.

Based upon the flags by @melabea, I am unsure if anyone else has made a flag for this.

[jellobubblelol]

More Soupcan stuff (including a proper ref sheet waow!) because he is my no. 1 silly guy and I was bored

Aaaaand some more in-depth ref stuff

for those wondering, he's pretty much the same personality wise, he just lives in a trash heap and likes making stuff out of whatever he finds now

[angel-of-genders]

Inviscareintothepit

Inviscareintothepit: An inviane identity related to Spring Bonnie’s mouth from his jumpcare in the video game Five Nights at Freddy’s: Into The Pit. 

@inviane-archive @hypnosiacon @fazbears-horror-attraction @liom-archive @accessmogai

[rusanyaidtradingcards]

Endogenic System Trading Card for Microidentities&Labels TTRPG!

[need assistance w/ an image ID or when we can get the motivation we will come to it.]

[xiaokuer-schmetterling]