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Month 3-to-4-ish on Testosterone
The reason why I haven't really updated is that there hasn't been much happening! Previous changes continue:
I'm getting hairier. Thighs, stomach, arms, hands, chest, everywhere. Starting to grow sideburns. My chin is fluffy. Odd detail, but my hands also look less feminine, it is hard to describe, but you know what I mean when you see it :D
My voice continues dropping. It is surprisingly low for the short time that has passed, but I'm enjoying it. I'll try to put together a comparison of my old fanfic readings vs now some time. Singing is hard because I start to squeak if I even try to go slightly high, and I am slightly hoarse, but I am confident this will ease over time.
I cry less. I can't even name the last time I cried, and it comes much less easy to me now, which is good, because god did I annoy myself with how fast I'd get teary-eyed.
I also can safely say that dysphoria has substantially lessened. There were times in my life where I'd just spend each and every evening sobbing my eyes out, go to sleep, and would wake up knowing I'd have to do it all again. I was so dysphoric that I felt no euphoria at all, in fact I often felt quite dead. If you're at this stage: It does get better, but I also know it hurts like hell. It won't hurt forever.
Nowadays I look in the mirror and I just think I look like a dude, I don't quite look my age, sure, but seeing him in the mirror makes me very happy. I don't pass super well, I have a bit of a ..shape, but it doesn't bother me like it used to.
My biggest adjustment with transition has been that there's a very stark difference between wanting to be something and actually being something, actually living it. That's mainly the fault of our society, not being trans itself. There are things I would have never thought possible to happen this way when I began, and had I known, I would have been scared out of my mind.
The trick is finding a few people who, fiercely and unapologetically, are in your corner. Shout-out to my grandma, who 1. acknowledged how hard it must be for me at a time where everyone was just straight-up blaming me, 2. offered me a place to stay and help if i ever needed it, thus being cooler at 92 years old than her daughter ever will be.
I like to think I'm better, at least for the time being. Far from great, but better.
That's all for today, I'm off to pursue one of the shittiest sports you can do while trans: swimming :)
#im attending a wedding next week and its gonna supportive part vs. nonsupportive part of my family; its gonna be great#a spectator sport truly#the shapeshifting diaries
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I can tell by the way some of you guys talk that you've never tried making a gofundme fundraiser.
#worse still when they post screenshots that will say like the list of countries gfm supports and then underneath it's like#“arrangements with nonsupported countries must be verified and the supporting party is responsible for any misuse”#I'm vagueing of course im not actually talking about any of you
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We are excited to announce Lawlight Week 2025! This year, the theme is centered around “fate / change”!
Here is the link to our interest form, where you can pick your favorite prompts or even suggest one we didn’t think of, as well as pick your preferred launch week. The form will be open until May 24, after which we will announce the dates and prompts!
Find the link to the form here!
art by @lifiusiw
Please note that we will not be hosting this event on Twitter this year, due to wanting to foster a more active Tumblr community and as protest of nonsupport of actions taken by Elon Musk. Twitter users are still able to participate, however there will be no official Lawlight Week Twitter account and thus we will not be able to share their works. Thank you for understanding.
#death note#lawlightweek2025#lawlightweek#lawlight#light yagami#yagami light#l death note#l lawliet#l x light#light x l
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𝐿𝑖𝑘𝑒 𝑎 𝑀𝑜𝑡ℎ𝑒𝑟 𝑤𝑜𝑢𝑙𝑑.
Lee! Hyun-ju ler! Geum-ja

Summary: 𝘈𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘔𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘭𝘦 ��𝘢𝘮𝘦, 𝘏𝘺𝘶𝘯𝘨-𝘫𝘶 𝘪𝘴 𝘦𝘹𝘵𝘳𝘦𝘮𝘦𝘭𝘺 𝘥𝘦𝘢𝘭𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘭𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘸𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘸𝘢𝘴 𝘰𝘯𝘤𝘦 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥, 𝘯𝘰𝘸 𝘥𝘦𝘤𝘦𝘢𝘴𝘦𝘥 𝘣𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘴𝘲𝘶𝘪𝘥 𝘨𝘢𝘮𝘦. 𝘎𝘦𝘶𝘮-𝘫𝘢 𝘴𝘦𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘢𝘭𝘮𝘰𝘴𝘵 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵𝘭𝘺 𝘤𝘩𝘦𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘳 𝘶𝘱.
Warning: angst, self doubt, dysphoria??, tickling, and yeh! That's about it! (Not really a warning, but I'm wanting y'all to know that I think the ship Geong-seok and Hyun-ju is a really cute ship, so this fic heavily implies that. Thank you for listening to this short talk🫡) another thing to know (no, we don't know Hyun-ju's family, and no, I'm not implicating that her family was nonsupportive of her transition. This is just a second family type bond!!)
A/N: I'd like to tag @letupabit because I let them see this idea before doing this fic, cause AAAHH Geum-ja heals my mommy issues, and the players deserves cheer up tickles. EAT THIS UP GANG!
| ᴛʜᴇʀᴇ ᴍᴀʏ ᴏʀ ᴍᴀʏ ɴᴏᴛ ʙᴇ ᴀ ᴅᴇᴀᴅ ᴘᴏᴇᴛs sᴏᴄɪᴇᴛʏ ᴇᴀsᴛᴇʀ ᴇɢɢ ɪɴ ᴛʜɪs.. ɪ���'s ɴᴏᴛ ᴛʜᴇ ᴇxᴀᴄᴛ ǫᴜᴏᴛᴇ, ʙᴜᴛ ɪᴛ's sᴛɪʟʟ ᴀɴ ᴇᴀsᴛᴇʀ ᴇɢɢ ғᴏʀ ᴀʟʟ ᴛʜᴏsᴇ ᴅᴘs ғᴀɴs!! :ᴅ |
(Happy late tickle day! :] I meant to post this on the 31st, but I made this kinda long in the making 😅
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Incredible losses had their unfortunate fate as the players had to play the cruel, agonizing game of Mingle. They were glad that they were finished, but the loss of many didn't cover their comfort for the rest of that evening. Including Hyun-ju.
She lost Young-mi to those sick fucks all because others had pushed her to the ground to get to a stupid door. Oh how she wanted to bash player 333's head into the wall closest to him at that very moment. But she resisted. Dammit, she resisted.
All the players walked out of the arena, and back into their resting area's, or large dormitory as others would assume. With Hyun-ju's adopted group at their designated hang-out spot, she quietly sat in her's, eyeing Young-mi's usual place. Young-mi.. What a kind soul she was?
Hyun-ju thought she couldn't take the burden of loosing her. She was brave. Really brave. Well, it was no lie that she was scared- they were both scared. But with Hyun-ju, standing next to Young-mi, she felt as if she could have Conquered anything when by her side. Now that she's gone..? She felt terrified. Oh Young-mi? What a person she could've been?
Geum-ja felt the sorrow in Hyun-ju's heart. She felt everyone's, actually. The loss of someone who you were destined to stick with till the very end was very familiar for her. That's how she felt with her son. So seeing Hyun-ju sit there in her own melancholy was devastating for Geum-ja. Oh this won't do.
She got up to sit next to the poor girl, and looked at her with gentle eyes, slowly placing a hand onto Hyun-ju's, causing the taller one to look at her with the most saddening of eyes. This broke the mother's heart.
"She was a kind young woman, hun." Geum-ja said soothingly, like a mother, Hyun-ju had quickly thought.
The young woman only nodded, looking back at Young-mi's spot. Growing sadder by the second.
Geum-ja felt so sorry for her. As a mother, she wanted to do everything in her power to just hold her in her palms and to protect her from anything cruel and inhumane if she could. But she knew she couldn't. No metaphor could save the broken souls in this place. Not even Geum-ja.
"How about.. I cheer you up, yeah?" Geum-ja said suddenly, catching Hyun-ju's attention. She now stared at the mother, contemplating the idea of possibly being cheered up be someone who she has only met for three days; but it felt like an eternity that they've been in this fucked up place with nothing but themselves to give comfort. If there is any of that now to help with their sanity of getting out of there.
"I do this a lot with Yong-sik, or eh.. My son! Aha.. You don't have to feel pressured by it, it's your choice dear." Geum-ja reassured the best that she could, hoping that she could help at all for poor Hyun-ju. Anything!
Pondering the idea a bit more, Hyun-ju finally answered in a low and tired tone, yet sweet and kind at the same time. "I.. Wouldn't mind the concept of how you could help. Thank you." With a small, reassuring smile, she turned to face Geum-ja to give her full attention.
Geum-ja smiled at that. Relieved that she could help, she repositioned herself, but not too fast as to possibly startle the woman. "If you ever get uncomfortable, please don't hesitate to stop me at any time, alright?" She said thoroughly to make sure that Hyun-ju has free will. She wants to make her as comfortable as possible after all.
Hyun-ju only nodded that time, kind of confused as to what the mother was talking about, but didn't protest nonetheless. She kind of wanted to know what she had up her sleeve to try and lift up her spirits. If that was even possible in a place like this?
"Could you turn around for me?" Geum-ja calmly said, never once wiping that reassuring smile off her face. Hyun-ju complied, now her back facing Geum-ja.
This grabbed Yong-sik's attention and immediately averted his gaze, knowing what was to come. It's been such a long time since he's received something like that, he almost forgot about the generous offer. Of course, he wasn't feeling jealous of the act, he knew he loved when his mom did that with him. It brought a sense of security and comfort, as well as a closer bond with his mother, so seeing her repeat the offer with someone else who is mourning the loss of their friend, he grew a smile on his face to see his mom always wanting to sooth others from their worries.
Once Geum-ja knew that Hyun-ju was comfortable enough in her spot-deciding to lean on the closest pole of one of the bed frames to her-that's when she got to work. Carefully, and lightly, she began to trace along her back in a repetitive motion.
Unsurprisingly, it was immediately effective. It soothed Hyun-ju almost instantly! the feeling was unexpected at first, but the repetitive back and forth helped her get used to it fairly quickly.
Geum-ja saw the girl in front of her lower her head in satisfaction. Hearing a comfortable sigh, she smiled to herself, thanking that the method was working at least a little bit in Hyun-ju's favor. The mother was still unsure if it was actually working for her or not with the jacket in the way. Oh, This won't do.
"D-do you mind taking off your jacket? I'm unsure if this is really working in your favor if you had the thick layer on." Geum-ja asked respectfully. Hyun-ju understood her question, and agreed to take the jacket off. In one swift motion, she took the jacket and placed it on her lap, allowing Geum-ja to continue her tracing on the now thin layer of the shirt that her and all the other players were put in.
"Thank you, dear." Geum-ja said sweetly, continuing her tracing from before.
The feeling was the same, yet it had a more effective feeling than before because of the jacket. Hyun-ju had noticed this quickly, but it was soothing to feel yet again. Laying against the pole again, she sighed comfortably.
"I just..? I want to thank you. You hardly know me, yet you want to comfort me.." Hyun-ju quietly said, just enough for her to hear.
Geum-ja smiled at that. "Well,, I'm a mother. Mother's attend to whoever is feeling down just to help them get back on their feet, dear." She answered, deciding to use the same up and down motion on her spine, revealing a sharp gasp from the younger. Geum-ja quickly retreated her hand.
"Oh my, are you alright? I'm so sorry, I should've asked if you had any injuries before hand-" she was briefly stopped with a patient hand, as Hyun-ju turned to face her.
"N-no, it's alright! I'm fine. You can continue if you want, I'm just.. A bit sensitive on my spine is all." Hyun-ju admitted kind of quietly. The light blush on her features seemed to make way due to her embarrassment. Geum-ja's worried face turned into a small smile at the discovery.
"Oh? Well, if you want me to continue! I appreciate the reassurance." she gave a few small pats on Hyun-ju's shoulder before continuing. She decided to trace her spine again, but carefully this time. She noticed instantly that hyun-ju was trying to keep her giggles from spurring out.
The woman had a small smile that she couldn't seem to hide away, resulting with her lowering her head down, closest to the pole she was leaning up against.
Geum-ja noticed that each time she'd trace up, her body would arch away from her fingertips, but when she traced down, she'd move back to her normal position just before she'll arch again, but would fight against the instinctive reaction each time. Geum-ja found that quite interesting.
Deciding to enlighten a few giggles out of her, she quickly analyzed where it would tickle most on her spine, and decided to trace her fingers on that spot more than the rest. Almost instantly, she made Hyun-ju melt into a puddle of her own giggles.
They were quick, quiet and breathy. A giggle that Geum-ja never thought she could muster out of her mouth, but they were endearing, and reassuring to hear.
She looked for any uncomfortable movement to cause her to stop her onslaught, but she didn't get anything like that. Hyun-ju just kept close to the pole as a way of leverage, and a sort of grounding, and kept releasing her beautiful sounding giggles.
"I take it that you like this?" Geum-ja broke the nonspeaking silence, causing Hyun-ju to blush a little out of embarrassment.
"Ihihi'm sohohorry.." She apologized quickly, thinking that maybe she's not deserving of such kindful acts.
"Oh this won't do. Hun, you can laugh your heart out! We kind of need to in a place like this to distract ourselves, right?" Geum-ja demonstrated her words by moving her hands closer to Hyun-ju's sides, making her jolt in surprise with a squeal, making her quickly cover her mouth to stop any further ones from coming out.
This caught the attention of Yong-sik and Geong-seok. Yong-sik already knew what was happening, so he turned his head away once again with a smile, and Geong-seok kind of just stared at them, or more so at Hyun-ju. He saw her crumbling into pieces just by Geum-ja's light touch, and it brought a blush of his own. How sweet she sounded, and carefree she was finally letting go? How she was trying, but also not really, to hide her smile? The way that he could just see a glimpse of her features? it adored him. She looked so beautiful. The smile that was creeping up on him was present.
"See? It's okay to laugh. I know you need it anyways, dear!" She said happily, enlightening more giggles to come out of the woman.
Although Hyun-ju was glad she could let loose and laugh, she also felt guilty for letting it out so soon.. Even after the mingle game..
She panicked a little by her thoughts, moving a bit as her mind mad her unsure of the situation. "Ihihi- geheheum- ohohor.. Ehehaha, wait!" the sudden slip up of her name caused her to panick even more, guilty flowing through her heart.
Geum-ja stopped her assault, worried for the young woman all so sudden. "What is it dear? Are you having second thought?"
Hyun-ju was a nervous wreck. She didn't know what to conclude in her head. So, she turned her body a bit to look at the mother with apologetic, and empathetic eyes. "Well.. I-i'm not so sure if laughing right now would be best since.. I mean? It's just.." Hyun-ju was finding it hard to spill out her thoughts. She knew that Geum-ja wouldn't judge, but she held back. She looked at her with worry. How overwhelming this place could be for someone, let alone overthinking things? She felt sorry for her in the most empathetic way.
"I believe that Young-mi would have wanted you to smile, and laugh.. There's too much sorrow in this place, and I'm sure it's driving all of us crazy. If we dristact ourselves from that, it'd be better to get through all of this, yeah?" Geum-ja reassured the best that she could, bringing a hand to softly lay on the woman's knee.
"I um.. I don't know..." Hyun-ju quietly said, looking down at where the mother's hand was laying. She wanted to break free from this dreadful feeling, but the guilt that layed right on top of her heart trapped her from doing so.
"I for one want you to cheer up!" Geum-ja said suddenly, squeezing her knee now. The surprised gasp and chuckle from her shocked the both of them.
"Yohou wouldn't dahare..." Hyun-ju said carefully through suppressed giggles. Geum-ja took that as a challenge.
"As a mother, I would!" Geum-ja said with glee. She started squeezing Hyun-ju's knee repetitively now, resulting in more clear chuckles from Hyun-ju.
"AH-ahaha, hohohold ohohon!" she gripped the offending hand while continuing to lean against the pole, trying to gain an upper hand in the situation, but ultimately failed because she didn't want to accidentally hurt Geum-ja in the process. Thus, resulting with her taking it.
"Yohou seem to be hoholding on just fihine!" Geum-ja couldn't help but giggle with her. Hyun-ju's laughter was just that contagious! And someone seems to be giggling to themselves as well. (Geong-seok, just SIT with them at this point)
The genuine bond seemed to lift up Hyun-ju's spirits a little bit. With all this laughing and releasing her stress and anxieties, she almost felt like she was right at home.
She wanted to move spots, deciding that maybe her sides would be less ticklish? how wrong she was once she darted straight for them.
Hyun-ju felt the ticklish sensation electrify her entire body as she jolted back, a higher squeal coming out of her mouth, causing the woman to blush even deeper as if her face wasn't flushed enough.
"AAH- AhahaAHAaha, O-OhohommahahaAHAaha- uh- Wahahait.." Realising quickly of what she just blurted out, she tried to stop Geum-ja's hands from tickling her further, but she was one step ahead of player-120.
Geum-ja looked at her in shock, retreating her hands after she had hesitated to pull them away in the first place. As she saw the horror on Hyun-ju's face, Geum-ja was quick to bring a reassuring smile, as well as reassuring words.
"Ohoh, dear! No need to make that worried face, it's alright!" She tried to reason, noticing the shock and worry never leaving Hyun-ju's face.
She began to spew out panicked apologies. "I-I'm so sorry.. I didn't mean to call you that,, it just came naturally.." she began to fidget with her hands as she always does when things got overwhelming.
Geum-ja, returning her soft touch back to her knee, never once left the smile that shown proudly on her face. "You can call me mom if you see me as one, you know?" She said, stroking her thumb on her knee now, making sure it didn't enlighten anymore panicked giggles this time.
Hyun-ju looked at her with a confused face this time. "I.. I don't understand.." Hyun-ju said empathetically.
Geum-ja looked at her with the softest of eyes a mother could give. " Well.. There's people in our lives who we look up to as if they were family.. They may act like how an authority figure would act, it's just how our minds see it!" she explained. She never once looked away from Hyun-ju.
"Yeah.. But it's only been a few days since we've known each other, and since.. Well.. The type of place we're in? It's confusing as hell to look up to others in this place.." Hyun-ju spoke with reason, as if she would then talk down on the poor woman who was just trying to sort out her thoughts of the situation.
"Wehell.. Like I said, I'm a mother. No matter how short, or how long you've known me, I'll always think of you as my own.. Cause in this place?" she looked around then, pausing her sentence, "there's gotta be at least someone you should look up to in dire situations like this one, dear." she finished with a smile, like always.
Hyun-ju didn't know what else to say at that point. She was holding back tears by the realization that she was finally recognized as someone who isn't just trans, but as someone's own child. No hesitation. No doubts. She felt accepted. She felt like herself.
All that thought, the woman finally let the tears flow gracefully down her cheeks, letting drops fly from the side of her jawline. When Geum-ja noticed this, she didn't hesitate to pull the woman into her arms, embrasing in what felt like to Hyun-ju, a motherly hug. She allowed herself to fully cry by now. Letting it out, but still holding back on wanting to scream her feelings out.
Geum-ja soothed her by rubbing her hand on her back, like a mother would. Swaying them back and forth a little, like a mother would. Giving hyun-ju the love and care, like a mother would. She gave it all.
"T-thank you.. For this." Hyun-ju finally said after a bit of silence, never once breaking the hug.
"Like I said dear, I'm a mother." Geum-ju said, still having the sweetest smile. She looked over to Yong-sik who finally watched the scene unfold, and she grew her smile at him, letting him know that he has her as well. This caused Yong-sik to smile with her. The cure of a mother's love is so much stronger than the endurance of trying to out live this place.
"She'd be proud, dear." Geum-ja said, softly. Continueing to sway back and forth with Hyun-ju.
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Alterhuman Culture is having nonsupportive irl friends call u by it/its as a joke (It's not a joke im intentionally pretending to dislike it so they do it more)
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in case it wasn’t clear and obvious this blog is a buddie home and a nonsupporter of temu. so if your don’t like that uh well shit dude go literally somewhere else cause I’m not making it my problem at my grown age. This is the first and last I’ll be saying about that, Thanks ☺️
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Academic Papers on NLP
From one of my reddit comments...
So the best introduction to NLP is this video by Irving Kirsch. Here are the slides.
But if you want to really research NLP, you should get into the original papers. This is great fun and relatively easy these days. If you have Zotero and the Scihub plugin for Zotero, you can plug in any DOI link and it'll come up. You may have additional papers that you want to pull from citations; I use Semantic Scholar to turn citations into DOI links that I can get Zotero to pull.
So here's my research on NLP (if you copy and paste the URLs into https://sci-hub.hkvisa.net/ they'll give you the PDFs):
Predicate Matching in NLP
The Eyes Don’t Have It: Lie Detection and Neuro-Linguistic Programming
Research findings on neurolinguistic programming: Nonsupportive data or an untestable theory?
Mental imagery as revealed by eye movements and spoken predicates: A test of neurolinguistic programming
Neuro-linguistic programming treatment for anxiety: Magic or myth?
Double hypnotic induction: An initial empirical test
Neurolinguistic programming: a systematic review of the effects on health outcomes
Thirty-Five Years of Research on Neuro-Linguistic Programming. NLP Research Data Base. State of the Art or Pseudoscientific Decoration?
Rewinding Memories
"Rewind for Posttraumatic Stress Disorder: A Randomised Controlled Trial". Depression and Anxiety. 2023: 1–11. doi:10.1155/2023/6279649.
Muss Rewind Therapy to alleviate symptoms related to some form of traumatic experience: A thematic analysis of participants' experiences and their perceived effectiveness of MRT". Counselling and Psychotherapy Research. 24 (1): 258–274. doi:10.1002/capr.12644. ISSN 1473-3145.
There's also the papers that Michael Heap did:
Neurolinguistic Programming - An Interim Verdict
Neurolinguistic Programming: What is the Evidence?
Neurolinguistic Programming: A British Perspective
The Validity of Some Early Claims of Neurolinguistic Programming
And here's a summary:
Pseudoscience: A Review of Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP)
Also recommended is @ellaenchanting's overview and Wordweaver's discussion on what NLP repackaged.
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Introduction
Hey babes,
welcome to my blog!
I’ve been lurking on hypergamyblr and leveling up blogs since forever and the advice I got from there actually helped me to achieve some of my goals.
A few weeks ago I stumbled upon a subreddit called “RedPillWomen”, and it was eye opening. Don’t get me wrong – I don’t necessarily support every theory on there but right now it just makes sense for me and my lifestyle.
But let me tell you something about myself, so you get an idea:
I am a white woman in my early twenties
I have a finished degree
I live in Europe
I am in a longterm relationship with my man (+3 years)
We live together in our own apartment
My man is very succesful and has his own company
I love to cook and to bake but I don’t really like cleaning
I am a homemaker and a spoiled girlfriend (can you be both?)
I am happy and content with my life but I want more. I promise you, that I’ll always tell the truth on my blog and the truth is, that the relationship with my man isn’t the best right now.
We’re not constantly fighting and there is no toxicity or jealousy in the relationship but it is lacking affection, gratitude, sexual attraction and date nights.
Sometimes it just feels as if I’m living with my platonic best friend which isn’t bad at all but I want to bring this sparkle back into our relationship.
I am a firm believer that every relationship needs work. It’s never like in the books or movies, where everything just comes together and somehow works out for decades. It’s hard work.
I also understand if someone would rather break up with their partner than try to fix the relationship, there is no shame in doing so. Especially if there is any sort of abuse, toxicity or lack of attraction to the partner involved.
However, that’s not how it is in my relationship. I still think my man is hot, he never was abusive or nonsupporting to me. Never.
Besides that – he is financially stable, he has goals he wants to achieve and he works hard to provide for us. It would be dumb as hell if I would break things off with him, just because I don’t feel “the” spark right now.
Yes, maybe I would have more fun with another man, who is not working as much and has more free-time – but I have to think about my future and my goals. I have to think about my life in 30+ years.
I know what I want from my life and I know that if I’m staying with my man this life could come true!
What I want from life:
I want a soft life without worrying about being able to pay the bills
I want to be a homemaker
I want children and I don’t want to worry about being able to afford them
I want my children to be able to experience everything they want. No, I don’t mean spoiling them rotten with materialistic things, more like being able to finance them an exchange year in another country or attending a boarding school – if they want to do so. I also want them to be able to pick their hobbies freely, without worrying about money.
I want a stable relationship without drama
I want to be able to buy the clothes that I want
I want to be able to do all the beauty treatments that I want (maybe shallow but it is what it is)
I want to have the house where everyone feels safe and welcome
I know that I have the right foundation to achieve all of those goals, I just have to work hard for them.
It’s going to be quite a journey but I’m very excited about it. I will start to apply Red Pill theories to my life immediately and see where this is going.
I hope to meet some mutuals through this blog – so please comment if you are one, so I can follow your blog!
See you soon!
#hypergamy#spoiled girlfriend#leveling up#beauty#hypergamyblr#heaux#redpillwomen#red pill#spoiled heaux#heauxlife#spoiled#trophy wives#trophy wife in training#sugar bowl#luxury#lux life#soft life#high maintenance#pro heaux#hyper feminine#hyperfemininity#hyper fem#hypergamous heaux#red pill theory#sugar lifestyle#heaux lifestyle#hypergamous#high value woman#high value mindset#high value dating
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Delano as a Father
AN: Are you all sure ya don't have daddy issues???(joking joking)
Delano is actually a great father figure
I see him as a girl dad more of a boy dad
If the child is a girl then Delano will do embarrassing things with her like dressing up for her
If the child is boy then Delano will be gentle but stern with the child
He never rewards bad behavior(Unless there is a reason of said bad behavior)
If you suck at money related things, then Delano your back because he actually good at finically handling money
God forbid if you cheat on Delano and you two live in at no fault place, then Delano will not be forgiving at all
Delano is the most rare father to ever HAD!
He didn’t mind being a stay at home dad
You can bet your ass that he will not let you or the children meet his parents especially his mother..
If your child experiences bullying then Delano will help them fight back(meaning tearing down their ego with words)
Delano plan family trips every 3 years
He is not a yeller in arguments but his silence and glare is enough to tell someone to drop the subject
Anyone who tried to make Delano cheat on you will receive the harsh truth and silence treatment
Delano doesn’t tolerate cheaters(if you cheat on him: you’re basically fucked)
The nonsupporter of second chances
Due to his past of being abused by his mother, he had broken that cycle but he will held back of protecting his family.
All in all Delano is a rare father type. But PLEASE don’t do him dirty or else he will not merciful on you.
Mwehehe. I love this.
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Pigs don’t belong at pride parades no matter how gay they are considering they were more than happy to stomp out stonewall and are still happy as a clam to storm into gay bars and harass patrons just cause they think their little badges mean their shit don’t stink
Lmao "let me just put marginalize this specific group" that's literally what people do to pride. You are just spreading hate.
Am I saying all gay cops are good? No. But not all gay cops are bad. Not all cops are bad in general. Some of y'all really need to grow the fuck up. You are doing the exact same thing that the(nonsupportive) straights do to us.
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https://x.com/Eliqnnette/status/1733281680096420077?s=20
Not Alicent’s stans still babying a 30/35 year-old queen consort, the most powerful woman in the realm 😭
In the first photo, she was confronted about her insane and cruel idea to mutilate a 6 years-old child, all to sustain her jealousy and childish one-sided rivalry with her stepdaughter.
(Also, I need people need to understand that Alicent was going to MURDER Lucerys. Maybe not intentionally, but she would cause look at the way she’s holding the knife, she wouldn’t change the way she was holding before hitting Lucerys, she was going to fast, and she would stab his eye, not cut, stab him. She would’ve stabbed through his skull like butter, we saw what Valyrian steel did to Vaemond’s head.)
Jesus Christ, Alicent literally IMPRISONED Rhaenys in that pic for fuck’s sake. Just because she made that pathetic look doesn’t mean she’s right and is the victim. Imagine locking up a woman and when she refuses to do what you want, you make that pathetic face for the 24869385 time as if she kick you (seriously, how are you going to let your hostage make you make that face 😭). SHE terrorized Rhaenys by locking her up in her room, tried forcing her to swear fealty to an incompetent rapist, tried using her dead children to persuade her, and held her dragon hostage! Bruh.
And about Larys... He didn’t terrorized her, he compared her to a flower, offered her allyship, and revealed to her that Rhaenyra drank moon tea. And Larys isn’t old, Alicent is around 18 pre-timeskip (Emily Carey was 17/18 back then) when they meet for the first time, and I’m pretty sure Matthew Needham is playing Larys as his own age (38) during the Dance… which means Larys was 22/in his early twenties during the Heart Tree scene. So the age gap is something between 4 and 7 years.
Because I needed the visual reference as I typed:
Yes. And yes to Larys not literally terrorizing Alicent in the last pic. But he sure is taking advantage.
I think they're making it as if Larys is old because if he is supposed to be the age of his actor, he would be too old for Alicent to be so "intimate" with, but now we'd be splitting hairs bc I'm sure that the unrevealed/nonsupported character ages & their implications have not actually been thought of in the writers' rewrite of this story. We're just out here guessing for them. I mean, they said--after it was pointed out that mathematically he's 16 at the beginning of the war--that Aemond was 19 at the beginning of the war. So...yeah. I generally try not to use actor ages to guess what the real in-world HotD ages are because age is sometimes just a reflection; when I do, it's to anticipate the show writers' lore-building reasons or to offer people that particular perspective, i.e., reveal how dependent we are on what shouldn't really determine the characters' actual ages/how lost we all are due to bad writing. Why are we guessing most of the characters' ages? Why should we primarily use actual actors' ages to guess?
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So happy for you dude, hope you can stay nice and warm and comfy today and have fun with ur friends this week <33 tbh it’s rly cool to hear abt people with nonsupporting families who are doing yknow like. non-family stuff with people who love them. glad ur getting that chance <3
Separating from my family was very painful, and I wouldn't say that I'm totally at peace with it. But as the months have passed, I've had no regrets and only relief.
I have also spent a lot of time and effort investing in my relationships with my friends over the last years. After some really sudden deaths in my life, I realized how important it is to tell people what they mean to you and how you love them when you can. I have so many friends that love and appreciate me back and they are my big crazy family that I choose.
I guess I am saying this in case someone needs to hear it. I was talking to a friend who had been in in the same situation, and a kind stranger overheard us. She poked in just to let me know that she also had to do it and that it was worth it. She told me I was going to be okay and it was honestly so sweet. There is a world where you dont dread the holidays!
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“DON’T CAUSE ME TROUBLE.” ⬎
PLANET LAW I. while i do write fluff, angst, and whatever else comes to mind, 9 times out of 10, it'll be nsfw/suggestive. if that makes you uncomfortable in any way, dni! if you are a minor or an ageless blog, dni! if you see the content warnings i have for a oneshot or ideas hinted at the beginning of the drabble and continute to read despite it not being something you like, that’s on YOU. if you’re underage and continue to read something you know you should, that’s on YOU. i can’t go through and check everyone.
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PLANET LAW V. as a student and an athlete, there won't be some consistent, weekly schedule, but i'll write as much as my schedule allows me. this also means that i'll get to any requests as soon as i can!
PLANET LAW VI. since we’re on the topic of requests, requests are always open, i love new ideas! HOWEVER if i don’t know how to write it, there isn’t enough info and your user isn’t tagged for me to ask about it, or it makes me uncomfortable in anyway, it won't be written.
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Coining blog run by The Bizarre Collection, who's main is @moth-yea !
We mostly coin for ourselves, but do we take requests for almost anything, like:
Xenogenders, xenoidens (all xenoidens made here are pro xenogender), orientations, genders, contradictory labels, agere/petre/etc. (SFW only!). We also system roles, terms, origins, etc!
We may also reclaim anti-endo terms, or create similar ones with different names, as we think every system deserves to use terms!!
However we don't do:
TransIDs, MUDs, paras (excluding objectum/objectophilia)
We do not have a DNI on this blog, as we believe terms like this are for EVERYONE! However, our stances are:
Pro-endo/willo, anti harmful transIDs (transrace, transdisorders, etc.), nonsupportive of proship, anti harassment, nonsuppprtive of pro/complex-contact non-healing harmful paras.
#pinned post#this post is subject to change#coining blog#gender coining#flag coining#mogai coining#liom coining#idk what else to tag this hah
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IM CONNECTED TO GOD IM CONNECTED TO MY ARCHANGELS IM CONNECTED TO MY SPIRIT TEAM IM CONNECTED TO MY OWN INNER POWER IM CONNECTED TO MY OWN ACCOMPLISHMENTS IM CONNECTED TO MY OWN TRUTH! IM CONNECTED TO MY ANCESTORS! IM CONNECTED TO MY OWN ENERGY IM CONNECTED TO ONLY THE GOOD! IM CONNECTED TO ONLY MY WINS MY OWN EASE MY OWN FULFILLMENT MY OWN INTERNAL FULFILLMENT THAT OVERFLOWS EXTERNALLY! I QUANTUM LEAP! I QUANTUM LEAP LIKE ITS MY DAY JOB! I REALITY SHIFT EVERYTIME I BREATHE! IM DIVINELY THANKFUL ABSOLUTELY ALL LAUGHTERS ARE TRANSMUTED INTO MY UNWAVERING WINS AND ME TAKING MYSELF SERIOUSLY AND EVERYONE TAKING ME SERIOUSLY! BECAUSE I REIGN SUPREME IN AREAS WHERE ITS HEAVILY COMPETITIVE! IM DIVINELY THANKFUL EVERYONE WHO WAS ONCE NONSUPPORTIVE ARE TRANNSMUTED INTO MY NUMBER ONE SUPPORTER! FORCES ARE ALIGNED WITH ME! FORCES ARE ON MY TEAM! SPIRIT MAGIC GOD ARE ALL ON MY DIVINE SPIRIT TEAM! I REIGN SUPREME AND ITS AWESTRUCKING HOW IM SPIRITUALLY REIGNING SUPREME LIKE THEY CAN SPIRITUALLY RAPPING LIKE THE DOPEST BEAT! MAGIC IS ON ITS WAY! WHATEVER I NEED IS COMING IN! IM RECEIVING THAT ANSWER THAT CALL THAT COMMUNICATION! MY ENERGY TOO CLEAN TOO ATTRACTIVE TOO IMMACULATE TOO IRRESISTIBLE LIKE WATER! IM ALIGNED WITH ALL THE RIGHT PEOPLE! SPIRIT IS VERY PROTECTIVE OF ME! I DONT WORRY FOR I KNOW I WONT BE ALONE EVER! ABSOLUTELY NO ENERGIES THAT COULD LOWER MY VIBRATION ARE AROUND ME! WE TALK ABOUT THINGS THAT ARE POSITIVE! I ONLY TALK ABOUT THINGS THAT ARE POSITIVE! EVEN TALKING ABOUT MY EXPERIENCES ARE POSITIVE! EVERYTHING AND EVERYONE AROUND ME ARE DIVINELY GOOD ENERGY! I DONT STRUGGLE WITH MY IDENTITY! IM ON A DIVINE PATH! GOD IS PUTTING ON A SHOW THE UNIVERSE IS PUTTING ON A SHOW IN MY FAVOR! EVERYONE LOOKS AT MY INSTA STORY LIKE WHAT???? HOW?????? THE THINGS I'MA ACHIEVE THE THINGS IMA HAVE! IM DIVINELY THANKFUL I STAY CONNECTED TO MY HEART, SPACE AND THE DIVINE MY WINNING ENERGY IS FEROCIOUSLY INSPIRING! EVERYTHINGS COMING IN RIGHT FOR ME
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