#noteveryone

[thecpdiary]

Not Everyone Is Happy For Your Success

Success is an emotive subject. I'm sure if you were to type into Google and ask why 'not everyone is happy for your success' you'd find pages of different reasons why if you are successful, other people are not happy for you.

For those striving for success, there may always be scrutiny, some would say hate. But it may be worth remembering that not everyone is going to be happy for your success, unless they too have met with success. It's all about intentionality. It's how the universe works.

Not everyone is happy for you

Others not being happy for your success, because they haven’t met with success, may add to them failing to achieve success.

But there is another way to think. The universal rule is that it gives back what we hand out. When you hand out happiness for someone else’s success, you're sowing a seed with the universe, that your intent is worthy, it's honourable and that helps you meet with success.

Now is the time to support

In a world where there is already an element of struggle in each of us, shouldn't now be the perfect time to pull back, act as a support, and just be happy for those who have met with success, so that we may recoup some of our own?

If you have worked hard and you have earned your success, know that it's okay that you reap the benefits of your success, in the hope that others will be happy and they will support.

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[wndaswife]

You all are so cute, I feel like i’m in a fanfiction

reality is often fantastical this way !

[wanduhhh]

And I’m definitely depressed enough to read anything, sooo don’t be shy🙃

Also, hi☺️

(I am speed)

Oh hi Angel 😌. Hope you’re good, and hope I force myself to write something soon lol!

[loopholes-and-wishes]

guhhhhhhh whatever. apparently im just commited to humiliating myself now........ i i i like the the forced kindness thing i i i think somethinglike that would honestly be good for me.... im bad with... touch.... and... accepting that people care.... atm (as in right at this moment) i feel like a big stupid almost grown cat that needs to just be grabbed and held everyday so that it can be okay with touch....... just.... talk things through beforehand and then just.... acceptingneverythingthat comes with beingthere..... getting too tense and having gentle traces along my spine to getme just worked up enough to get my discomfort out of the way..... relling them i want to pull away and get pulled back in for the nextwhile..... fighting back and forth over me being there trying to get away and being held in place so i cangetitthrough to myself that noteveryone is goingtoleave and thatthereare people willing tostay with me where i am..... beingable tojust... express what imused to from people.. everyone leaving.... idk.... itslike a lot of stuff i enjoy also does seem kind of sexual from outside id say.... like... ... the... tracinga fingerup or down thespine.... like its not inherently that... ijustwanna be close and not allowed to go and be allowed to enjoy everything without having to worry about trying to seem like i enjoy everything in the normal way its not my fault my reactions to some stuff "seem sexual" or whatever... when its not.... blehhhhhhhhhhhhhh sorry abiut.... whatvee.... just idkm...... we both blow up now okay? :) ummm idk... sorry? about all this.... can nevertell what is and isnt acceptable..... i try....

Well Sweetheart, I’m happy you like the forced kindness approach. It’s personally my favourite way to interact with people in a BDSM setting, platonically or sexually. So I get what you mean. The main reason is that a lot of people say they want people to hurt them but they actually only do so because it's something they’re used to and they want something they know rather than something they don't. It’s almost even more hurtful to be kind than it is to be mean to these individuals because, as you said, it's kind of like a stray cat flinching from contact even though it doesn't hurt. 

So I don’t find it strange that you want it or that you want to be touched in a non sexual way. Being touched on your back and going back and forth like that, and reacting in a way that people would attribute to a sexual response, well that's on them if they think it's weird. It’s normal to react when you're not used to it, and it's perfectly valid to do so in any way you do. Personally, I always want to hold people as close as possible and never let go which includes me pressing the front of my body down in a way that makes people think I'm trying to be, uh, “sexy” as it were, so I understand where you're coming from in the discomfort of people making assumptions about your reaction to things. 

Also, I'm perfectly comfortable answering whatever. I have very specific things I’m not comfortable with and if someone tries to initiate something like that I'm okay with telling them no (I hate the idea of kissing someone on the mouth, bleh >~<), so dw about it too hard. I’m just worried about my responses because I think I can take it too far sometimes so I keep a close eye on how everyone reacts to things before I respond, it’s one of the reasons I was okay with going as hard as I did with Loopy because I know what she likes. I just have to be careful when I add in some new things sometimes, yaknow? (One of the issues of being completely online through blogs is that it’s hard to set boundaries for the people asking rather than the one who runs the blog, which is a bit hard when the one running the blog is the one domming ;;;;)

[caluski]

why is it such a common experience to not know when someone's flirting with you? neurotypical or neurodivergent, its like everyone says they cant tell. i know #notEveryone obviously, but its like such a universal thing, its so strange!

[wizardpotions]

not everyone has a choice between mobile and pc dear potion... noteveryone...

ok well i do

🔫

[raimi]

we haventgotten messages but theyre the kindof group that wouldstalk us. maybe noteveryone but wewere notablethere

theyreprobably makingfun of us callingthem a cult. maybetry not beingculty

[lesbonoi]

actually how do names work for autobots…we know people get names in the bootcamp but noteveryone goes through the bootcamp and surely they had to have had other names beforehand if they did. arcee doesnt even really have a name as a teacher bot she has RC and a string of numbers. hm

[howsyoursoul]

Look:

God's for everybody,

But not everybody's for God.

I will always try to enlighten your heart & plant some of His spiritual seeds in you but EVEN IF YOU DON'T go towards Him. I will always be here & care about you just the same.

~Signed, NSE

[deeperthanpoetry]

#HappyVeteransDay #iwas #hisdriver during #Iraq #thisisthereason #thisman #savedmylife #heis #whyiamalive #thatiswhy #imust #reachmygoals #forhim #hisdeath #wasntinvain #noteveryone #cameback from #war https://www.instagram.com/p/989jEMhJ15/?igshid=sx5ec11025pk

[ladyflava]

If a person doesn't like something, it's a matter of #Taste not #Hating #NotEveryone will be your #Audience

[poweredbyprincess]

#understanding #understand #art #artist #noteveryone #dynamics #letthisregister #understood #comprehend #knowledge #knowledgeispower #yup https://www.instagram.com/p/CSa9O8jsQib/?utm_medium=tumblr

[kimani2]

#NotEveryone https://www.instagram.com/p/CMaIyz2skzWoboDfKXokabPOTdiNT65FauGPLE0/?igshid=1ks2ot9135l7c

[23percentchallenge]

Quote for the Week Featuring Nature Day #23percentchallenge #everythinghasbeauty #everything #beauty #confucious #noteveryone https://www.instagram.com/p/CFdUckkpTXy/?igshid=idzbp2chc5fl

[neseblodrecords]

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[pawsitivityunleashed]

Pursue your own goals #pawsitivityunleashed #beyourself #beyou #pursueyourpassion #pursuedreams #noteveryone #noteveryonewillunderstandyourjourney #yourquote #youcreateyourownreality #youfirst https://www.instagram.com/p/CA6UWKYJf__/?igshid=11t241fquakwq