Fan of Olivia Dean here. So she has a boyfriend. His name is Mikey. It's really sad how Harry can't have a female friend without people thinking he is dating her. Funny how when Harry is having dinner with a male friend, they don't call it a date lol but when it's a woman, it's definitely romantix.. I also blame this fandom for stalking every people around Harry. Deuxmoi would never have this information if it wasn't for this fandom's obsession about Harry and women.
Totally agree. Thank you for popping in. The same thing happened when he was seen with Dua Lipa in 2016. She had a boyfriend at the time, too. But fans insisted they were either collaborating or dating. They were doing neither.
We’ll see what comes of this “date”. Seems more likely to be hanging out with a friend. And you’re very right—no one ever says he’s on a date when he’s with a guy. Unless it’s someone like Brad or Luis and the fandom is bored af.
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what are your thoughts about Harry's new tattoo?
Hi darling.
I am not going to lie: I’ve been upset about it for three days now, swinging back and forth between being super angry and trying to be okay with it. I thought about not answering this, because I don’t want to open this Pandora’s box, but I decided to in the hopes that I can help someone else. I won’t be answering follow up questions/reactions, though. That’s my boundary.
Now, I think the important thing is to call this out for what it is and stop making excuses: it’s an Olivia tattoo, and whether it’s for a stunt, a cat, a house, the One Direction song, an unknown godchild, it doesn’t matter. He has it, he showed it off (rather purposefully), he knew what we would think and the kind of debate/restlessness it would spark.
Can I forgive him for that, point blank, without further reasoning or rationalizing? I’ve decided I can.
Why? Because I don’t think it negates all he’s given me these past thirteen years and especially this last leg of tour, and because I don’t think what he does for PR and/or to protect his closet is a statement about who he is as a human being. No one has to agree with me. It’s a decision I’ve made for myself and I’m happy with it. If this is your red line (and I fully encourage you to ask yourself this regularly) then that’s fine. Grieve the person you thought he was and take steps to distance yourself from what hurts you. I don’t mean to minimize this: walking away is hard as shit. But he will be okay, I promise. The person who needs to be okay the most is you.
Do I think they really dated/that he was in love with her? No.
Why? Because he looked miserable every time he was around her, because he took very clear steps to ensure she wasn’t tied to his music (which I’ve noticed he holds pretty sacred above all), and because at the end of the day he still broke up with her two days after his very public last contractual obligation was filled and kissed her friend extremely publicly.
Can you find ways to argue around that? Of course you can. You can find ways to argue around anything. But for me, that’s not how you treat someone you’re in love with even if they’ve pissed you off beyond belief and messed with your career. Nothing Harry has done outside of this stunt shows me he would treat people he cares about that way, even in his worst moments. It’s incongruous to everything I’ve seen and known of him and his character in the last thirteen years. I may not know him personally, and I may be wrong about him, but again, that’s my conclusion and I’m happy with it.
Do I think the tattoo means something’s in the works to rekindle the stunt? I truly don’t know.
But if it is, then it’s been planned for a long, long, long time (he had the tattoo during Daylight filming, which is May 2022; the BUA was Nov 2022), and there’s nothing I can do about it. It is what it is.
I’ve always preached being okay with not knowing, being okay with being uncomfortable, and this is certainly making me walk the talk.
The bottom line is: Am I okay with the things I have answers to? Yes.
Am I okay with the thing I don’t have answers to? I am working on it.
But that’s my responsibility, not Harry’s.
— FIN —
*thank you, Gina, for your contributions to clearing my head and for many of the phrases I used here to express myself.
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am i the only one who doesn't see olivia 😬 i definitely don't see "via" in the end it's more like "na" to me especially considering it's cursive so in that case the tattoo says "olina" and it's a city in italy and that option makes much more sense lol
I appreciate the effort of everyone trying to be rational about this bullshit, but the thing for me is that I clearly see Olivia there, it could be Olives, it could be Olina, it could be Gemma’s dead cat Olivia… but like, c’mon. It’s the same as saying Louis’ E tattoo is for Edward and not Eleanor. The tattoo is there with an intention, he’s not stupid, he wouldn’t *accidentally* write something that looks like Olivia. I have no idea if he was supposed to show the tattoo earlier or whatever just happened there, but like I said before, I really don’t give a fuck because she’s gone. And it’s annoying because he knows how messy it is and how that would upset a lot of us, because OF COURSE he’s displaying his new(ish) tattoo wearing bluegreen and his Louie shirt, so like. It’s the same as always for me, both of them have been playing this game with us for a while now… and they’re going to keep doing it because it’s convenient for everyone.
I understand people are super upset over it, but I’m so done with all this stunt shit coming from all sides, so I just decided that I can’t give a fuck anymore, I’m enjoying the good parts they’re giving us and ignoring the rest otherwise I’d have to step back 🤷♀️
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Why do so many people hate Olivia because of this comment? 🙈 It would be better if Taylor's PR shitshow focused on the climate crisis instead of the NFL... right!? 🤷
Olivia is a very close friend of Dianna.
Do you know what I am talking about? 😉
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Who’s ready for a laugh?! This is from Fridays show not last night
Olivia Wilde updates posted a very up close video of Olivia from behind the barricade to their page with no credit. The man who took the video was next to Olivia all night and videoed her and her friend
Here he is videoing them during as it was and cinema (these are stills from videos that I was sent). Meaning this man was asked to video Olivia and then have the footage sent to that page.
Like I’ve said for months; it’s run/fed by her team
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People already figured out who Harry's friend is and she is a singer named Olivia Dean. A fan said she saw them back in 2022 too when he was still dating the other Olivia so they have been friends for a while. Her music is pretty good too so who knows if they are working in music together for hs4 https://x.com/selyoncerry/status/1822162713444745669?t=jW2KHEQJM2o3fBvb4GIx7w&s=19
Interesting. Thanks, love.
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This is her. Given that she’s followed by half of Louis’ band and Harris Reed, Harry Lambert, etc. Sounds like they’ve known each other for a while.
This is the only photo I’ve seen with Harry, but the hair looks the same.
More info here about the above tweet
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I cropped out the rest of your ask because I didn’t know if it was okay to post the entire thing, I hope you don’t mind.
I also know I said I wouldn’t respond to anything more regarding this, but I really appreciated the tone you came with and the respect for my boundaries, and I also had some thoughts that were belated so I’m taking this opportunity to add them.
I, unfortunately, don't have any answers for you, except to say that the hurt you feel is valid, as are the questions you're asking yourself.
But, the simplest way I can put things, without going too much further into the discussion, is that there are:
- things that are objectively wrong,
- things we think are right because of the information we have, and
- things Harry thinks are right because of the information he has.
There's a very huge - possibility infinite - gap in the complexity and nuance between those last two things, and it's a gap that can only really be filled by two things: faith and trust.
And in times like these, we have to ask ourselves: is who he's shown himself to be over the course of his career worth our faith and trust?
Again, I don't have an answer for you, because that's something everyone has to decide for themselves. It's also something which is fluid and can change. But so far, it's been the best way for me to approach situations where I feel he's disappointed me — to ask myself, do I actually know, truthfully and holistically, what's best for him better than he does?
(Answer: No, I really don't, and I never will.)
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Harry Styles has his fans abuzz with excitement at the possibility that he's dating Taylor Russell -- and based on where she was this weekend ... they may be on to something.
TMZ has obtained photos and video that show the actress watching Harry's Vienna concert Saturday night in what appears to be a VIP tent of some sort. More than just that, though, it also seems to be an area where HS's team might've been handling BTS concert duties.
As you can see, Taylor -- who's pictured with the bob cut and white dress -- is sitting next to a guy, who's got an electronic device and monitors in front of him. Looks like he might be Harry's stage manager or something ... and that he was pulling the levers of the show.
Taylor's sidled up alongside this fella ... and she's also dancing the night away as Harry performs. In between songs, TR was chatting with the crew member -- taking it all in.
Looks like she was there for the entirety of the show ... and her appearance here dovetails with photos of her in Vienna, with a guy that stans are certain is actually Harry. On Saturday one such photo appeared to show her wearing this exact outfit and rocking the same 'do.
And yet on Sunday, even more purported footage of the two of them walking around the city began circulating as well ... sending the Harry brigade into a full frenzy over the chance that he may have a new love interest in his life. Indeed, they're quite happy about it.
The dating rumors actually began last month, when Harry was spotted walking with Taylor in London ... and seemingly holding her hand too. Now, it appears she's accompanying him on tour, at least partially anyway. Unclear if she'll be going to his other European dates.
Like we said, the Harries (as they're known) are flipping their lid over this would-be couple ... and, unfortunately, it comes at the expense of Olivia Wilde, who Harry dated last year.
Needless to say, his fan base wasn't totally thrilled with that pairing ... as the collective feeling, it seems, was that being with her brought a lot of drama he might not normally have around him ... if not for her. Yes, we're referring to Florence Pugh, Jason Sudeikis, etc.
Anyhoo, they're all broken up now ... and on its face, it looks to us like he might already be moving on to someone else -- who also happens to be closer to him in age ... FWIW.
While Harry did take a phone to the face last night -- and it sure seemed like it hurt ... here's hoping Taylor was able to kiss it better before the night's end. Happy trails, you two!
Full article. Posted July 9 2023. Link
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The shade lmaooo made me laugh not gonna lie
Brooooooooooo this is hilarious
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