#r slur reclaimed

[jackrabblt]

RETARD4RETARD

GREAT MINDS THINK ALIKE💚💛🩷

[ablednt]

And like it's so fucking funny if I just measured my experiences by tumblr ND communities then I wind up thinking oh I'm barely autistic huh? Like I am actually so privileged it's ridiculous if I make myself sound disabled in any way I'm basically being a hypochondriac because clearly I can type out tumblr posts that make me sound normal

And then my therapists and doctors talk to me like I'm a dog and/or a child and I have to schedule the whole day to make one 10 minute phonecall and I want to physically lash out in learning environments that I find difficult and if theres bright light I need to lay down and sometimes speaking is physically painful and sometimes my brain shuts down and I've been bullied my whole life and my system is %90 introjects and I hate talking to people IRL who aren't already my friends because I have to put so much effort into making the sounds come out right and try to say cool things on the spot and I cannot improvise anything and I have basically no motor function and the list goes on and on

Like just. The way this website talks about autism makes me feel like I'm a fraud but then IRL I can't even go to the grocery store without a smash bros narrator announcing there's a retard in the place

[wolven-chimera-2023]

I keep getting this stupid “tylenol causes autism” lawsuit ad on my facebook, I finally snapped and commented this:

“You people will do anything to avoid the fact that there is a 50% chance that because your child is autistic you might be as well.

I mean, how are you to cope, finding out that YOU are now going to be othered because of your brain chemistry?

How are you to cope now that you know the world wasn’t BUILT for you? Despite being built upon the backs of people like you (Mozart, Turing, Tesla, Steve Jobs, Bill Gates, Emily Dickinson, Leonardo Da Vinci just to name a few)

You just want to avoid responsibility for bringing another wonder into the world which is honestly hilarious to me because genuinely, who wants a neurotypical kid when you could have the next Einstein. Apparently you.

Disabilities are only disabilities in the context of the society not made for them. Imagine a world where everybody has wings. Everybody but you and 20% of the population. Now, you’re going to a class or a meeting or something and its on the 3rd floor but the building doesnt have an elevator or stairs because everyone has wings, right? Wrong. You dont. But nobody wants to build stairs because the vast majority of people dont need the stairs.

Its not hard to build stairs. Nor is it hard to turn down the lights for someone experiencing overstimulation or not making someone with a texture aversion deal with that texture. You can literally erase disabilities by making the world accessable and accomodating so instead of feeling sorry for yourself that you have a kid who shares a trait with some of the most brilliant minds in history, work to make your corner of the world easier for them to access.”

I think I worded it quite eloquently and with less sarcasm than normal (despite the entire comment being saturated in distilled sarcasm) mostly because what I wanted to say was something along the lines of “hey fucknugget, how can you be THIS stupid? I thought I was supposed to be the retard”

[faggotslime]

Sometimes I wish people would just call me a retard instead of trying to gaslight me about 'not being clear' about things when I have been 100% crystal clear and straight forward explaining what my issues are with other people.

Like. Just be ableist. Stop pretending to be my friend lol.

[bloodyscott]

in these three months alone ive been called the r slur for existing by lgbt exclusionists and/or fakeclaimers. so now i’ve decided im a professional retard<3

[nimx]

i don’t like ariana grande at alllllllllll but some songst ..In My Head … haha except that one retarded gucci tennishoe lyric bro

[heartshapedcreaturefromcriptoon]

Leeanne: “I literally cannot articulate...”  

Also Leeanne: *goes on for for 5 poorly written paragraphs spreading misinformation about me and what happened as you continue to gossip about me 2. freaking. years later while they still can’t even use my name*

You came into my inbox at 4:00AM in the morning just to insinuate how you thought I was going “anti” for being angry at someone being a scold to me because I just told off a whiny 13 year old for block evading me, and trauma dumping on me and then 4 days later after I took a well deserved break, I come back to see you had a meltdown and losing your absolute shit over me calling you “Honey” , a completely harmless pet name which I had called you before when I thought we were friends and I’d defended you from being attacked from another anti. And then when once I blocked you for being rude and not saying back when you had your chance, a 30 year old aroace abled-bodied autistic turbo virgin goes onto my posts to tell me that I, a wheelchair using invalid, was somehow being “condescending” towards you the the able-bodied cis woman I had previously thought was my friend (which is the only reason why I even answered you @ four o’clock in the fucking morning in the first place, because in the split second before I knew I should’ve blocked you I was actually relieved to see you, Leeanne). And then after I blocked you i needed to spend more time explaining a sex and romanced repulsed robot about how you were actually my friend once and how your little tirade against me complete with tacky Ace Ventura gif damn near broke my heart.

Then robot bonk had to show their flat ass, first by complaining to me about how angry they were that a 12 year old pretending to be a 17 year old blocked that 30 year old arsehole for trying to “discourse” with them. and then goes onto gossip to me about how you currently harassing a transgender black man and his transgender sex worker boyfriend and had stolen the personal photos of said boyfriend in order to “prove” to this transgender black man that his boyfriend of over a year or so was “white”, then when this mixed raced couple defended themselves against you, you told them “I’m black so shut the fuck up”, despite the irony of how you also claim to be mixed race, including part white, and the hypocrisy that no one in the fandom had ever seen any photos of you or proof of this.

I introduce myself to this couple and inform them of my plight with both you and the sexually repressed robot, me and couple become friends, we make fun of you people for harassing us, boyfriend is harassed for doing sex work, couple goes offline because boyfriend is having surgery. After things calm down for awhile because these people went offline you zero in on me specifically by block evading me and harassing me with questions about the boyfriends race because I’’m an easy target,

You made a cringey fandom centric joke about the 50 Shades of Gray parody ‘50 Shades of Black’ for some reason and I say find the irony of that I hilarious since you’re a Black Women Who is Not A Kinkster..( while the specific term for which is “Vanilla”) and were harassing a mixed black transgender man and his mixed transgender boyfriend for being a sex worker while you yourself are a Bisexual, Vanilla, Black Women (which is how my FULL sentence was typed) who basically just admitted to me how she was (and apparently still is, a virgin who knows nothing about kink and sex work and therefore should not have been commenting on any aspects of a transgender sex workers life, let alone their race.

You called me racist for quoting a direct example at you of Alex Hirsch being racist. You called me biphobic even though I kept explaining to you about how I openly identified as bisexual at the time. 

After the Grandiose Party Goers came back they ghosted me and I contact your receipt blog requesting it be taken down, which mysteriously resulted in all the other clique blogs being taken down after the week I took off for self care, said my peace about that, and moved on. That is how I ended it. See, it actually should’ve ended the night I blocked you both or in the days that my friends were out for surgery but you wanted to push me and block  evade me and see how far it went, while ornitha is just a poorly aging 30 something incel bastard who likes to scold teens and 20something for blocking them and then have one sided “arguments” with the corpses of dead URLS in an attempt let their tiny Transformer Dick finally feel the sensation of screwing someone over only if all that dirty talk has to be closed off under their pokemon sheets of a readmore, they can be certain that I ain’t gonna be climbing into that rust covered race car bed anytime soon.   You’re both unwelcome.

Now the real question is Leeanne, how are you, ornithia, and so many of your little anon cronies who are constantly keeping tabs on me and reporting back to you people every single time I try to vent, actively even remembering and celebrating an “anniversary” of all ... this. And the fact that these people won’t even call me Moon or Rose like I’ve requested my bio while the ether abbreviated to mean fuck all or made fun of for being a “mouthful” while both Orn and Leeanne continue to dehumanize a wheelchair bound, housebound, sometimes bed bound queer cripple, (can’t say it you’re abled-bodied) not immensely disturbing to the rest of you?

I mean if what happened happened in 2020, and I haven’t said a word about these people since , then like why is the fact that Leeanne and her anons can mark a specific anniversary for it and the fact that Orn’s last specific tirade about me only dates back 9 months ago not disturbing to anyone else at all? 

You know, Leeanne once flat out ignored me explaining to her how I use a wheelchair and just jumped at the chance of gossiping to her follows about how apparently I had told her I was “mentally disabled” instead of just pointing out to her the fact that I use a wheelchair, and since Leeanne just like to shorthand my URL so much instead of using my actual name, I guess “ mentally disabled” is just Leeanne’s shorthand way of calling me “mentally retarded”. 

Guess we’ll never know.

Guess I’m too retarded to know how to properly spell Hors d'oeuvres ether I’m so sorry Leeanne’s one cultured French Anon has a kwuh-saunh permanently shoved up their arse but I’m glad to be such a bimboo I’m haunting you. ♥️ 

But now

Thanks to the StayFree extension, guess who’s gonna remain completely blocked on three of my google accounts for 84 slutty, years,

And before my completely final responses to your furthered harassment are even posted? I’m doing Ornithia next. ;) ♥️ 

And that I suggest you, ornithia, and all your little anon cronies get the extension and add my legendarily lengthy URL to it to if you desire my complete exorcism. 

Since this os the last time I’ll be speaking however indirectly to this petite little piss shit jackass rabbit, goodbye forever from Rose! 💋 🌹 

[bunnieswithknives]

The moment you start throwing around a slur as a genuine insult you are no longer reclaiming it. Reclaiming a word involves referring to yourself with it in a positive manner, using it to spread community and trying to remove the feelings of shame around it. If you are using it as an insult you are not fucking reclaiming it, you are just using a slur.

[flash-warning]

I honestly hate to see how much Homestuck characters get watered down and misinterpreted/mischaracterized because they’re so much more than what people present them as

like Dirk is not EXCLUSIVELY depressed and mentally ill just for the sake of it !! he is much more of a complex character and has reasons why he is the way he is and how he reacts to things or bottles them up because he never learned how to properly deal with things

Same with Roxy , like she isn’t just some drunkie junkie as some people like to represent her because she was trying to get over her drinking problem and did ! and she’s also not that great of a state (despite dirk being worse) she still is LONELY and has her own mental issues

And then there’s Mituna as well and Yeah there’s a character with brain damage WOAH so crazy but holy shit. he isn’t That Fucking Stupid as some of you portray . He isn’t just some silly goober because he’s not as functional as your average guy (not even close,) and he’s actually an almost depressing character because there’s a REASON he’s like that and some of you water him down to just a mentally retarded silly goober with zero capability and every time I see someone genuinely do this I mentally compare you to cronus becayse Holy Shit some of you are ableist as hell and probably without even realizing

Uhh this is all I have right now Hhe it’s 9:40 and I have to get up at 4 am tomorrow 🫡 goodnight homestuck community

[nyankewlll]

NEW INSIDE OUT ANIMATION >_<

[jackrabblt]

Every time someone calls me ableist for using the r slur as an autistic creature, a rabbit gains pawpads againist it's will.

[tired-fandom-ndn]

Hey! Reclaiming slurs does not involve using them to insult and mock other people! That isn't reclamation, it's just bigotry!

[slugass]

according to “are they acoustic??” jokes, autism is just screaming and nothing else (and also still an acceptable target for the r-slur as long as you spell it funny)

[fictiontbh]

We should reclaim more slurs. I want to be able to call neurotypicals retarded. I need retarded to be used as a word AGAINT the neurotypicals. The ableists. I NEED it.

[xxlovelynovaxx]

Me, a physically disabled (high support needs) neurodivergent (mid to high support needs) person: Hey, my neurodivergence IS extremely disabling in a way that a lot of you say "isn't possible" and also my physical and neurological disabilities often combine in ways that can't be separated and produce symptoms that are new or of added severity for me.

Responses I've gotten from disabled exclusionists (some of whom are also both physically disabled and neurodivergent):

"What drugs are you on, you delusional freak?"

"I've never experienced this and therefore you're a dirty lying physically abled neurodivergent person who just wants to be more disabled and oppressed than you are. My experiences are universal and anyone who has different experiences is a lying liar. No one can ever prove otherwise because my axiom is that anyone who claims otherwise is lying."

"The ableds are at it again."

"Sit down and let the REAL disabled people talk."

"You're never allowed to find similarities between disabilities that are of different types, even ones you have, and if you do you're actually the reason why accessibility is such an issue because conflating them is why ableist doctors don't give us what we need and why society thinks medical gatekeeping is good, actually."

"If you're that suicidal do us all a favor and kill yourself."

This is without even getting into stuff about how disabled labels often apply differently to systems. The big discourse now is "nonverbal" labels for headmates who are permanently, always nonverbal, primarily by people and systems who refuse to view systems as anything but "parts" of a single person. Which is funny to me because ah yes, we have actual studies showing physical disabilities such as allergies can apply only to individual headmates, but gods forbid you apply a neurological label to someone whose brain activity is not only visibly different on scans from yours, but to the extent that it changes your entire shared physical body!

Like here's a novel idea: maybe we could just stop policing how other disabled people talk about their disabilities forever! Maybe we could blame any and all harm done even from the unicorn-rarity "actual fakers/liars" (also don't think I don't see you being ableist against people with actual diagnosed that cause compulsive lying) on the ableists DOING the harm because it's actually perfectly possible for them not to cherrypick our words and listen to the MAJORITY of us!

Maybe, just maybe, we could form a coalition, focus on the REAL enemy (ableist medical professionals and lawmakers) and push for actual change for ALL of us!

[blake-thesilly]

in my humble opinion the musical could've been more complete if erik was allowed to call raoul a f@ggot but i respect alw for not using slurs he cant reclaim/j