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<!-- CTA BLOCK --> You joked about choosing the bear. He didnât laugh. He just looked at you different â like something ancient shut off.
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đ§ BLACKSITE WARNING â âNEVER SAY YOU CHOSE THE BEAR OVER THE MANâ
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You want to guarantee that you will never end up with a man who would die for you? Who would pay for your future, kill for your safety, and destroy armies just to watch you smile once on a Tuesday?
Say this out loud:
> âIâd choose the bear.â
Even as a joke. Even once. Even under your breath.
You have no idea what it does to a man when the woman he thought might soften his war-torn soul casually says she'd pick a wild-eyed carnivore over him.
You think it's cute? You think itâs a TikTok trend? No.
What you actually said was:
> âYou are not worth protecting.â > âI believe instinct outranks devotion.â > âI donât even understand what you are, let alone how to love you.â
Imagine you and a man are about to get in a car â the car that will carry your life together. But before the first mile, you:
Siphon the gas
Slash the tires
And spit in his face while saying âbut itâs just a meme!â
To you, itâs a moment.
To him, itâs a revelation.
He realizes you don't know how men love. You donât understand that respect to a man isnât just a desire â it's the architecture of his soul.
You say youâre not scared of wild bears. That youâd fight one. That itâs a fun hypothetical.
But guess what?
He is.
Not because heâs weak. Because he lives in the reality of mankind.
In mankindâs world, bears are wild predators that will rip your guts out and eat you while you're still alive â asshole first.
And you know what? Heâs right.
Unless you want to insult him again by saying heâs wrong about that, too.
What you call a joke, he sees as a deliberate distortion of his lived masculine knowledge â one more reminder that the world he prepares for daily isn't one you even acknowledge exists.
Are you a man reading this who disagrees?
You are a statistical anomaly. Possibly into pegging. Likely to cry after brunch. Still beautiful in your own way.
But this isnât about you.
This is for women who still want a man â not a project, not a poet, but a pillar.
So letâs speak plainly.
Men like this â the kind you journal about, dream about, pray for â they do not run on affirmations. They do not thrive on âthank youâs.â
They run on something ancient: > Respect. As a man. No negotiation.
You say you want the type who:
Pays the bills
Lifts the heavy things
Stays quiet in the face of chaos
Knows how to f*ck without needing directions
Answers the phone when your dad dies
Makes you feel safe at 3AM
But you also want to âjokeâ about how you'd choose the bear?
You just told that man:
> âI do not see your role as real.â > âI will collapse the bridge you built before we ever cross it.â > âI have no idea how to love a masculine man.â
Thatâs not feminism. Thatâs self-sabotage.
And the worst part?
He wonât even argue. Heâll just leave. And heâll never come back.
You donât have to like this. You donât have to agree.
But just know: That âone little jokeâ made him refile you from maybe to never again.
And now you walk side by side with other women who mocked the very men who wouldâve burned their bodies just to keep you warm.
You made your choice. Just donât pretend you werenât warned.
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#blacksite literatureâ˘#scrolltrap#bear over man#respect coded post#masculine frame loss#feminine sabotage#emotional weaponized humor#high value men#gender roles unfiltered#ancient masculinity#pillar men#male identity trauma#respect as currency#feminist self sabotage#choose the bear meme#scroll breaking post#viral gender take#donât joke about men#emotional infrastructure collapse#masculine presence#patriarchal wound#relationship realism#hard truth about men#male protector instinct#alpha trauma post#men and loyalty#cultural castration#female respect dissonance#men donât forget#you made your choice
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#fuck it im posting them. thats my team!#formula one#f1#george russell#kimi antonelli#werewolf and vampire adjacent creatures respectively. we dont know what expectly respectively#kimi is a messy eater. to me. but george has his little kerchief to clean him up :-)#exaggerating the height difference because i think its funny. also theyre so shape coded#anyway enough time has passed for me to say i actually liked kimis fit. couldve been more tailored but they both slayed. a little bit#my art#2 csicska fiam
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my take on the wifeys (and the malewife)
#they are so color coded to me#dungeons and daddies#dndads#carol wilson#samantha stampler#mercedes oak garcia#dndads morgan freeman#marco li wilson#veronica stampler#rebecca swallows#cassandra swift#less so my take and more so an amalgamation of everything ive seen ngl ngl#i wanted the s2 spouses to have a darker version of their respective family color but sorta swapped it for morgan and cassandra#as a nod to morgans death#also this post is dedicated to the one person that commented about carols white mom swagger on my last post#my art
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Call me crazy but I just feel like if youâre hating on a ship where one character represents Deceit and the other represents Truth, and youâre trying to prove to the shippers that theyâre wrong, and you do so by taking everything the Deceitful one says at face value and just completely dismissing everything the Truthful one says, then perhaps you need to reflect and realize that the one twisting canon to fit their vision IS YOU? Just a thought đ
#shadowvanilla#pureshadow#Iâm sorry I donât wanna post discourse I just think itâs VERY funny#like Iâm sorry but if you have to believe everything the liar says and ignore the truth guy entirely#then Iâm so so sorry but you might be absolutely cooked like Iâm sorry bro youâre cooked if thatâs ur defense#âthe shippers are so stupid for trying to look deeper into the liar and trusting the truth guyâ do u hear urself#tbh when I think about it itâs a little telling that most arguments against the ship involve babying pure vanilla#either literally (all the age gap/âminor codedâ bs) or the normal way#like âI know PV said they could be friends and understand each other but thatâs just foolish naive hopeâ HES OLD AND WISE BRO.#âpure vanilla wants to be friends BUT he shouldnât do that cuz heâs gonna get hurtâ HOW ABOUT WE TRUST HIS JUDGEMENT#idk a lot of the hate tends to boil down to âpure vanilla isnât mature enough to handle thisâ which is just not true. At all.#to be clear I respect ppl who dislike the ship so long as they arenât. trying to convince everyone to stop shipping it. THOSE ppl are who im#talking about rn.
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I randomly saw this and...

Based on the way they both dress in the same environment (in a context where Jaskier wasn't just kicked out half dressed from someone's apartment), I'm going to take a wild guess which is which...
What Radovid said: "Redaniaâs not a bad place. Bit cold in the winter and humid in the summer, but the food is spectacular!"
What Radovid meant:
"Back home, I'm a sad wet cat that likes wearing a thick and heavy fur cloak over a long sleeved shirt and a puffy quilted doublet. I also prefer letting my hair down my shoulders to keep my neck warm, and will enjoy sitting at the very end of the table with my back directly to the fire..."
"But I can be convinced to move away from a direct source of heat with food..."
#Jaskier#Radovid#Radskier#Meanwhile Philippa's just sitting there in a thin sleeveless dress...#To be fair most characters are wearing quite a few layers it's just that Radovid's doublet is quilted AND that fur cloak is huge#and looks so heavy!#Plus he always keeps his hair down on his shoulders#Makes me wonder at times if that fur cloak isn't the equivalent of a heavy blanket for him...#Now that I think of it you'd tell me Radovid is neurodivergent I wouldn't even be surprised about it!#He's not as clearly coded as Jaskier is with ADHD...#But the whole theme of these two constantly âmaskingâ and playing parts in an effort to fit in / be accepted in their respective worlds...#While seeing and experiencing it differently and developing their own personal way of communicating together#With very little regard for social norms rules or expectations#Does give me a âtwo neurodivergent people connecting together and falling in loveâ vibe...#So maybe the deep pressure provided by the weight of his cloak is one of the many means that Radovid has found to self-soothe#And feel some level of comfort...#Either way Jaskier looks like he'd be able to provide plenty of heat and pressure#and make our little sad wet cat very happy!#My Posts#My Thoughts#My Stuff
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is anyone else sick and tired of certain people on this website acting like drawing furry porn makes them woke lmfao
#âď¸.txt#no matter how black or trans or whatever coded your furries are pornography will not save you and drawing it isnt an act of leftism#it just means you like drawing cat-people getting their butts fucked. which is okay! but dont act your taking down the man by doing it#i like drawing half naked men. doesnt mean that when i do it im doing something that adds to the feminist movement. i may be vaguely#influenced BY my feminism (i.e. equaling out the playing field of objectifying art of women by making it of men) but im not gonna pretend#that when i do it its revolutionary and should be as respected as like i dunno someone martyring themselves for a cause.#you may reblog this post by the way. other people have got to have also noticed this and had enough with this fake left posturing
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Cliche but still stupidly accurate Maxley fanfic or oneshot idea
So basically Bradley (and maybe also Max) finally graduate College and now itâs up for the poor GAMMA leader to find get into a successful job as a Doctor (since thatâs what heâs suspected to be studying for in College with how long heâs been there)
But then suddenly, his parents (depends on who you feel is more of a bad parent towards him) to tell Bradley that theyâve set him up for an arranged marriage with another wealthy familyâs daughter â he hates it but can only agree and heads off to cry somewhere because his parent(s) didnât rven acknowledge him for his achievements; just straight up pulled the âmarriage cardâ and he guesses âgrandkids cardâ would be pulled next after all of this.
So he storms off and decides to cry somewhere in the dark of the night, where Max is ironically close to, so Max spots him, tries to scoot his way into a conversation (which Bradley tried so hard to turn down), but eventually they get there and decide to talk for a bit (not getting to personal at the moment).
Max sortâve unofficially befriends Bradley and they soon go their separate ways once the Goof gives him a tissue to blow on once he subtly sees the other is upset.
The two end up meeting each other in the same spot again because the universe (all of us) randomly just wanted them to be there again and again; and they grow to be close friends, and their little GIANT ASS crushes (from whatever the hell the âAn Extremely Goofy Movieâ was with all that tention) grows into a BEHEMOTH as time grows.
Eventually Bradley meets his âfiancĂŠâ and they donât really get to know each other and instead sit in silence when theyâre left by their parents to bond â which is just awkward until Max decides to call and asks to meet up.
And he goes, but when he seed the girl as quiet as a mouse, he decides to let her join so their parents donât get suspicious (he tells a butler to tell them theyâre going on a âdateâ or something). And blah blah blah, they all get to know each other along with Maxâs other friends and they all learn neither Bradley nor the girl (or whatever name you can think of) doesnât wanna get married.
A high and over his head Bobby randomly mutters a plan when Bradley and the girl and him are left alone while PJ and Barrette girl (does she even have a name?) dance while Max goes to get them some more food: and that was it.
So during the fake relationship with Uppercrust and his ânew future wifeâ towards their parents and family members, they start to hatch plans behind their back.
Max and Bradley get closer and closer until one day, they both find themselves on the dance floor and kiss for the fucking first time, and take it backstage where they enjoy dancing in the rain instead of near a lot of eyes (where Bradley grows paranoid and conscious of due to his parents and reputation). Tada! They start to date.
The day of the wedding comes, and Bradley calls Max and his friends to come at [insert the damn time], and they agree. When âBradleyâs brideâ starts to walk down the aisle, she makes a run and Bradley creates the illusion of heâs after her to bring her back to their new life, when really; heâs just following her towards their escape.
They makes it out of the door, and Max, PJ, Bobby and Barrette girl come in masked with a get away car, and the girl dives head in first (like that one video of where the bride runs away and the driver drives off while her legs are still up in the air) while Bradley takes shotgun and Max drives off quickly before anyone could catch them.
And then they crash the car, blow the car up to where not even the drivers plate is identifiable, and Bradley and Max are happy, with the girl (who somehow stole the expensive ass wedding rings from the ceremony) gives it to Bradley and Max and they basically propose.
So fast forward, Max and Bradley gets married, Bradley changes his name to âBradley âTennysonâ Goofâ (Tennyson just fit in with the name, you can change it if you like), and they are happily living together with their kids (surrogate or maybe Max is trans).
Bradley continued with being a doctor so he can provide for his family, and Max is probably a tattoo artist or something (who knows?), PJ and his girlfriend are engaged, Bobby is still high as fuck, and the girl is a happy aunt/sister to Bradley.
And they live happily ever after or something! (That is if Goofy doesnât screw up with how clumsy the poor old man is)
Iâm probably gonna turn this into a fic, but you are still free to use the idea (with credit of course)
#maxley#an extremely goofy movie#max goof#bradley uppercrust iii#goofy movie#marriage proposal#arranged marriage#this is so damn cliche#but itâs still so maxley coded#i cant believe i forgot to post this#they have twins#trust me they do#one looks like the respected other but with swapped personalities#BABY FEVER IS GETTING TO ME#DISNEY MAKE ANOTHER GOOFY MOVIE PLS!!!#theyâre literally so Goofy đ#I LOVE THEM đ đ
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someone needs to give dan and phil sims cheat codes or something this is amazing they managed to survive all these years.
#like not only are they broke but they also cant control their sims most of the time#even playing without cheat codes i cant fathom how they are playing#idk i know some people dont like cheat codes and i respect that#idc that was fun#sims 4#dan and phil#dnp#dnpgames#daniel howell#amazingphil#my post
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Day 93!! Happy Pride!!
#papr daily#mafukasa#some hcs that are very important to me :3 (agender Mafuyu and aroace Tsukasa btw)#Like Tsukasa!!!! I do like the bit of âif not aroace why aroace colored?â for hcing him as such (his 2024 bday card is literally the#aroace flag and just generally you can colorpick the flag from him in most images) but it does go a lot deeper#I highly resonate with him finding romance boring/being uninterested in it (as seen with him removing romance in every story they adapt)#since that's how I grew up being!! And even now I do find myself more interested in a story if romance is entirely out of the equation!!#growing up not liking romance and especially just never having a crush is a rather alienating experience if I'm being so fr#âwho do you like :)â asked by everyone really but if you say âno oneâ you're lying???? fucked up#I strongly believe Tsukasa is so aroace-coded (whether intentionally so or not) even in his actual management of romance!!!!#He still keeps the romantic aspect of Romeo and Juliet in the first ever cultural festival event BUT it is not as important as the action#which is something at least I can relate to as an aroace creator? Where even the pairs I make intending for their to be a romance/romantic#undertones it's STILL not the most important aspect of their relationship by FARRRRR (cough Goldenlily cough iykyk (only Grey knows))#and in the Wondershow Valentine's Day special live where he tries to brag about getting chocolates from girls#it feels (imo) really forced? Considering other dialogue I'll get to later? but it seems like something that I personally haven't done but#I know is somewhat of a common experience in the aro/ace communities of trying to overcompensate/force yourself to feel a certain way#to match your peers? E.g. pretending you have a crush on a specific person when you don't#it kinda feels like that to me + a little bit of wanting to seem more popular with his peers than he is but that's unrelated#and then the most relatable moment ever in Pandemonium when Tsukasa doesn't understand why one of his classmates being popular#with girls is a big deal (which directly contradicts the mindset he has in the aforementioned live) and like!!!!!#âSo what? He's just interacting normally with his classmatesâ ME EVERY TIME I FAIL TO RECOGNIZE ROMANCE RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME#If you asked me to tell you who is likely to be in/to become part of a romantic relationship I would fail no matter how close I am to the#person like unless it is said TO MY FACE I will NEVER see it coming (speaking from many many experiences)#anywsys Tsukasa aroace realness this is my propaganda (/silly y'all can have whatever hcs you want as long as it isn't illegal/harmful and#as long as y'all are respectful to other hcs and don't speak over people trying to share theirs)#but yeah!!!!! Agender Mafuyu is 100% a more simple story LMAO#back when I had Insta I had the very poor decision-making to follow a prsk opinion account (tho it honestly wasn't ALL bad)#BUT!!!!!!!!! There Was A Post#where someone said that they hced Mafuyu as agender and like.#They defined agender as (very much paraphrasing here btw) someone who essentially would rather be seen just as an individual
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"David and Angel Shaw" Anthony and Kate Bridgerton thank you









#redacted#redactedverse#redacted asmr#keep in mind i respect that angel remains gender neutral#I'm not femcoding angel with this post. I'm anthony coding david#and anthony is defined by how down bad he is for kate#sounds familiar?#exactly#does it bother the rest of you that angel is fem in my imagination? no. it shouldn't.#the only time it matters is when i think of my angel shaw oc
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'jotakak does not exist' to you. i see beyond the lack of interactions. i misread glances. i hang onto one line of dialog. i interpret things my way and i do not care
#textmistas#jjba#jotakak#theyre actually coded in a way that theyre only compatible in this universe but also a thousand others if you squint harder and harder#this isnt a diss @ anyone btw just that i saw a few posts expressing the same 'jotakak mid' take#and while i do respect. i actually see the vision
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Ulrich saying he would die for yumi already a top 10 ulrich moment but it's double awesome bc by that point he actually has attempted to die for her multiple times. Realest yumi fan ever
#youd never guess from how i post or talk or act or feel about ulumi but i actually love them#what you need to understand is that when i was 14 i was an ulumi superfan diehard and a jerlita justice warrior#that shit gets coded into your DNA. I'm the rarepair guy now but I'm still also here#this is another cant stop talking about s4 post SORRY#I'll be saying this all the time when i get to s4 in my rewatch but i love s4 ulrich#bc his priority at all times is farming yumi points. and i respect it
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Whoever said that Jedi don't need to stay celibate as long as they don't get married is an idiot.
It might not go against the Jedi Code in the sense of forming a family, but it does go against it in the sense of using people, and I'd say that's more important.
#someone might have told me it was Lucas himself; doesn't matter - if so then Lucas himself is an idiot#I don't make the rules#controversial opinion if it ever gets seen by people outside my circles maybe but I'm not retracting it#If you disagree I inform you that I absolutely respect you as a human being but you won't convince me otherwise so it's no use trying#original post#star wars#jedi#jedi order#jedi code#long long ago in a galaxy far far away
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i wonder if thereâs any overlap between sleep token fans and fans of the da vinci code
#guyphantom ramblings#sleep token posting#sleep token#both portray a sort of religious fantasy#both with very tense and dangerous stakes and consequences#with different vessels of âgodsâ or what are perceived to be ones#heavy focus on belief systems and clashing between what their respective gods may want from them#this is to say i watched the da vinci code and now silas has embedded himself in my brain like a worm
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i know too fucking much about qsmp badboyhalo.
#and also. not enough#that one big summary of his Deal was like . 1k words.#and it brushed over so much shit#like his trust issues and the vacation arc and his criminal background (on qsmp) and the way he was the first to take protecting the#eggs seriously and i dont even KNOW enough about his relationship with maxo and the french that is a big blindspot for me but bad and max#(and foolish?) og founders of the theory bros the first people who started questioning cucurucho and then the french his family the people#who keep proving to be on his side over and over and i love it when he hangs out with pierre and talks create#and when he chills with antoine and helps fix the big spinning ring#and his WEIRD warrior's bond with etoiles (bad always gets along with the protectors have you noticed that#forever was the second big egg protector and baghera took care of pomme from the start and cellbit threw himself to the feds to try to help#the island and etoiles took the weight of the code attacks from bad's shoulders to his own in entirety. he respects them all a lot and i am#chewing him to pieces)#and his relationship with baghera!!!! she can read him so so well and he fucking trusts her enough to be dapper's mom#he may have felt weird about it and was jealous and :c because tahts HIS dapper but#he didn't kill her about it#or really do anything to discourage it#and he noticed her tear streaks and her leg and got Worried about the federation 'fixing' her and#genuinely he was so so happy when he realized she was back he went !!! mode#look. LOOK at these fucking tags. look back at the post. i can Keep Talking.#my point remains i know too fucking much about qsmp badboyhalo#shit and i didn't even TALK about his weird bullshit with foolish#i need a giant corkboard
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it is genuinely so baffling how transphobes can be in a fandom where a character was transgender from the start of their piece of media and still be in denial & insanely transphobic over a character, claiming them anything *but* transgender.
genuinely i need all transphobes to rot & die in hell. i do not get how they think they have even a place in this fandom & find no shame in the way they act when people try to educate them (to no avail; they have a stick up their ass & refuse to listen to anyone else because they're the only right ones in the world). die. die. explode. die.
#ciel talks#i feel like this is an obvious post due to recent events#but nonetheless this stands for EVERYTHING. even if it's genuine canon or coding or whatever#society if no one was a fucking dumbass & respected people#but you know we can't have that can we
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