#saw a post that infuriated me

[jebiknights]

I'm not saying not to ship Codywan because, like, I'm obviously a rexwalker shipper, but acting like Codywan would be some healthy, well balanced relationship in CANON, esp in comparison to anidala is just... Absolutely wild. In fandom it's all well and good to ignore the wonky power dynamics and age difference between the ship because it's yaknow fanon (tho personally I think it takes all the fun out of the ship but that's a different post), but when y'all start talking about how Codywan would've been in canon that's where I have to stop you. Because Cody is in his early 20s maturity wise (hes literally Anakin's age when the war starts) and Obi-Wan's direct SUBORDINATE. Like, y'all have GOT to stop ignoring the fact that there is an age difference and a HUGE power imbalance there, especially with how much parts of fandom yell about age difference ships.

[lazylittledragon]

i'm going to scream i got accused of being a transmisogynist by someone on twitter because of this specific part of my t4t steddie art

[agenttommykinard]

big noses are beautiful 🥰

[dykedvonte]

If Ulysses has a million haters, then I'm one of them. If Ulysses has one hater, then I'm THAT ONE. If Ulysses has no haters, that means I'm dead. If the world is with Ulysses than I’m against the world.

[uncanny-tranny]

Death to the idea that people who face a traumatic situation must become empty husks of a person between the event that traumatized them and when they are ~magically~ healed. It's genuinely fucked up.

Often, people who are traumatized will interact with the world just like a "normal" person would. They might even joke about their trauma, laugh about it, even "make light" of it.

When I was a very young child, I'd been traumatized, and I was put into play therapy. From what I remember, though, I'd be a very normal child until something seemingly small triggered me, and it was like my world fell apart. And I'd cope with that in ungodly ways that to a normal person would be insane - unthinkable, perhaps. And then... I'd go back to playing, because the world continues on.

That is what many people (though not all, trauma responses are not a monolith) who face trauma will do. We're still "normal people." The world goes on even after ours stops in orbit, slows, or has a metor crash into it. The reason why it's so harmful to say that traumatized people have to "act the part" is because many of us don't, and simply, most of us can't (even if we need to).

[daandova]

dude i'm so close to remaking only because of this stupid delay choke tumblr has on my posts

[hideawaysis]

i fucking hate how autism advocacy is so largely populated by late-diagnosed high-functioning autistics that forget that some people can't mask because you get takes like fuckingnfjdjdj "stop using functioning labels they're ableist" (they're not saying you're low/high-functioning is a neutral fucking statement just like saying ur disabled is) or god forbid fucking "well actually autism doesn't inhibit people that much and people like the stereotypes don't really exist" fuuuuuck you i AM the stereotypes, i use diapers as a disability aid and struggle to take care of myself without help, my "job" can barely be considered a job because anything else exhausts me too easily or i fail to understand it, i almost didn't fjcking pass high school, the only thing keeping you from immediately branding me as what i am (severely disabled) is the fact that i can type coherently fuck yoooouuuu. like i get it you all want rights i want rights to!! but the shit that you say in an attempt to get rights for yourself makes it so much less fucking likely for people like ME to get rights too. you're not taking a step forward by ignoring the fact that we exist you're just taking twenty fuckin steps back for god's sake

[threnodians]

BEHOLD: SMOOCH PICREW SHENANIGANS ✨

ⓘ please tap/click on them because as per usual tumblr butchered the quality 🙃 i was ecstatic to see that they had a chubby option because i am a big gal with a double chin so ✨ and i did the best i could with what little energy i have and with the options that are available 🤷🏼‍♀️ i made the characters to reflect my own personal headcanons too obviously 💕 and i included an oc × canon(?) dump because why not; this picrew is so much fun and it’s adorable!!! 🥹

[kakusboyfriend]

love to see my follower count went down again after that post. Like yeah man I'm sorry if someone goes out of their way to ignore the boundaries you set then you're going to be pissed off about it too.

[beep-beep-imma-sheep]

One of these days I had my powerful 3-whole-hours of sleep. My dear littlest cousin decided, then, to show me a ... Skibidy Toilet (I think that's what it's called) video.

I did not understand a single thing he showed me as I was sitting there, nodding and musing the best smile I could as I was a blink away of plop into the ground.

I just know that I feel so privileged... This little kid trusts me enough to show me something he enjoys. He wanted to enjoy something he likes with me.

I can't possibly imagine myself doing that with any of my older cousins nor siblings because they would, FOR SURE, make fun of every aspect of it. Has happened already, comedy.

It can be the "cringest cringe to ever cringe" for all I care, he can ramble about it for hours if he wants, I'm here to listen. I'll ask questions and very much enjoy the entire conversation.

Come one, everyone had a "cringe" phase.

(I die everytime I remember what I did when I was younger).

People still consider fandoms, fics and shipping characters as cringe-. I have absolutely no right to criticize here.

And.

Again.

He's a kid. He's happy, having fun, and no one's getting hurt. Let's keep it that way.

But, for the love of God, can someone explain to me what is going on-?. I genuinely don't get it.

Btw I think I ended up venting in the tags-lmao.

[that-was-anticlimactic]

sometimes. sometimes i am just so petty. i refuse to reblog s.k8 family art that doesn't include shadow. especially if it includes a*dam and t.adashi instead of him. and i refuse to read fics where he's just. the only one not included. it makes me. it makes me so so so mad.

[simuran]

Reading about the loans for shares con in 1995-1998, and I wanna kill some people.

[bornforastorm]

if twitter finally does fully collapse, on the one hand i’ll lose touch with a lot of people I really like, but on the other hand I’ll never have to see my ex-boyfriends stupid fucking face ever again, so maybe it would be worth it

[abandonedshops]

when a trans person uses theyfab im like well i dont like that but theyre mad so im going to let them be mad. when a cis person uses it. fucking lord above

[yesterdayiwrote]

The number of preachy ass posts on this website that essentially amount to 'if your experience of the world doesn't match up to my hyperspecific experience of the world then there's something wrong with you!' Is really starting to wind me up. It's just another example of the whole "if you haven't achieved X by age y then you're doing it wrong" culture but a lot of it is dressed up behind the guise of 'caring advice' when it's anything but.

[queen-thinky-thoughts]

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People completely seriously calling a woman a "known homophobe", who accepted her partner of many years as gay when he came out in wildly homophobic times, remained close with him, supported him, and helped keep him company and look after him when he was dying while she had her own family with a small child... all because she was a bit bitter, possibly a bit shitty and not super accomodating to his lover and friends, who were not her friends, after his death?

Damn, dude, when did they change the definition of "homophobia"?