#stop whining and bitching

[lesbiangummybearmafia]

I have a fundamental issue with anyone who's taking any kind of issue with the WAG and SAG on strike right now. I see a lot of comments with people bitching because of them being on strike and no one should feel sorry for them and they need to suck it and just go back to work. Oh and the dumbest one of all their a bunch of whiny millionaires. First not everyone that works in Hollywood that's an actor or writer is a millionaire. So you all need to stop just thinking that right now because if you do think that you're an idiot. Second them striking has nothing to do with your crappy existence or your crappy job. They have unions they have a right to strike if they feel like their needs as workers are not being met.

No the problem in our country is that we have a bad taste in our mouth for labor unions. Now where this bullshit concept came from I have no fucking idea. But the truth of the matter is labor unions are set there to actually protect workers. Like when studio heads that are getting paid millions like oh let's just take for example Bob Iger at Disney who gets paid 27 million dollars a year doesn't want to negotiate with writers that gets paid 30 times less than him. One of true issues is that we have studio heads that are basically greedy motherfuckers and they don't want to share a piece of their pie that was writers, not with actors, not with anyone not when they think they can get A.I. to write the movies and series for them.

It's also about the bigget picture of labor unions and the fact that every job in this country I don't care how small or big it is how good or bad it is need to have labor union. Cause the concept of the crappy job could be eliminated with labor unions. Of workers that have the power to be able to tell the bosses to go fuck themselves when they start treating workers badly. But instead we live in a country where the companies have all the control and the workers have none because somewhere along the way we decided labor unions were a bad idea. Everyone needs to stop bitching and complaining that the WAG and the SAG on strike. You need to start supporting them because they're simply doing what any working person would do with the ability, which is tell the bosses to go fuck themselves until the bosses decided to give them what they deserve as workers. And If any of you had any sense I would suggest you all go to your jobs and start planning, getting people interested in labor unions. Because it's the only way to completely remove and annihilate the concept of the crappy job in our country. Because until every job in our country is unionized. The Bosses, Companies and Corporations are going to have all the power and the workers are going to have none.

[butwhatifidothis]

It really is strange how Edelstans simultaneously dig hard into people that don't agree with their specific interpretation of 3H to the point of being happy they manage to drive those people away... and be so upset and baffled that people become generally disinterested/actively hostile towards 3H content.

If folks get repeatedly driven out of a fandom, and that group of people repeatedly calls anyone who disagrees with their specific interpretation of 3H stupid/illiterate/"acting in bad faith"/sexist/racist/homophobic/etc., and it is repeatedly done by a group of people who insist that 3H's fandom problem is a "both sides" thing, with all of this being dragged into spaces that have nothing to do with 3H, well... obviously people are then going to start to dislike interacting with either 3H in general or its fandom in particular?

Edelstans are the ones spreading the idea that 3H's fandom in totality is shit. They keep trying to make their hands look cleaner than they are by claiming that everyone else's hands are just dirty as/even dirtier than theirs. Of course people who are unaware of everything are going to then assume that everyone's hands are dirty, thus making people not exactly want to shake hands with anyone.

Like, really now. What did they think was going to happen when they directly go after fanartists/fanfic writers who create/say things that go against the Approved Edelstan Status Quo, to the point that a non-zero amount of these creators just up and leave social media entirely? Or after they nitpick every single Disapproved Post and then lie about the post's OP? Or after it becomes a consistent pattern that people who even remotely disagree with Edelstans' opinions are always, without fail, buried with insulting and harassing anons? Or after they're shown time and time again to defend their worst actors with "well their/our victims deserved it because they said a 3H opinion we didn't agree with"? Or when they say that everyone does this shit in 3H's fandom except for them (which is either not believed because it's demonstrably untrue or is actually believed and now those people think the overwhelming majority of 3H's fandom is filled with shit)? Or when they drag 3H discourse into literally actually everything no matter how unrelated?

That with less fandom creators within the fandom space they'd get more content? That harassing and insulting people and accusing them of being this-and-that bigot is going to magically "correct" their minds into seeing The One Truth about 3H? That people are going to just look over all the shit they did just because they allocate the blame of their action on all of 3H's fandom? That people would like 3H more if they constantly remind people of the inarguable worst thing to come from 3H? That this would help 3H's general perception?

Fuckin' no, of course that's just going to make everyone fuck off from 3H. And would you look at that, a shit ton of people have fucked off from 3H since everything has been swept under a "well it'sth a bolth thides ithue tho what can ya do?" rug. And it's been swept under that rug by pretty much the only people who are pulling this shit, who then get shocked - utterly gobsmacked! - that that made them look bad too. That crying "both sides!" included themselves too and not just the people they've been harassing. That saying that the entire fandom is bad everywhere made the entire fandom look bad everywhere.

If Edelstans are really so upset that no one talks about 3H positively anymore, then maybe they should stop being the reason no one likes 3H anymore. Just a thought

[ginncide]

AM prime and AMber have a mildly antagonistic relationship but they're ultimately on the same side so it's more like this than any serious conflict of the minds. it's like 90% them calling each other cringe

[boffeeceans]

You've heard of Eddie sitting on Billy's lap doing his makeup, now get ready for Billy sitting on Eddie's lap plucking his eyebrows

[muiromem]

You know, it would be a LOT easier to explain to doctors where my pain is on my body

A: If the pain wasn’t in my BACK and therefore impossible for me to SEE or properly POINT TO with my short fucking arms

B: If every diagram of the human body available to me wasn’t made for TALL PEOPLE and therefore way harder guess where I should be pointing in reference to my own short fucking body

C: If the doctors examining me would just PUSH HARDER ALREADY. I literally have so much radiating pain, your fucking butterfly taps of “does it hurt here?” are NOT HELPING. You need to DIG IN THERE or I can’t TELL YOU WHAT HURTS MOST.

[martyrbat]

when people who have ‘i block liberally’ in their bios learn they actually have to block people & cultivate their own dash:

[tiny-huts]

Being in fandoms is a constant cycle of like "why don't I go in tags ever?" *Sees some shit that makes me want to chew glass* "oh that's why!! "

[violentviolette]

@nowuseemee13 ive seen ppl over the years complain about not having enough bipolar support spaces but im gonna be real with yall, they dont really exist because the only actual support u need is getting on medication. like point blank peroid and let me be clear i am speaking solely about bipolar here, because bipolar disorder is a genetic disorder, it is solely a physical brain condition that cannot be managed without medication and once u are on a medication that is working for u, then there's really not any more support u need for the bipolar specifically because the symptoms literally just stop. the mania stops the hallucinations stop the deep depressive episodes stop, ect ect. like literally it all just turns off. and so people dont need those support groups anymore because their bipolar is being managed effectively and their symptoms are in remission. and medication is the only way to achieve that, no amount of cbt or dbt or talk therapy will make ur bipolar disorder stop because it is a malfunctioning of the physical organ if u have other issues like adhd or cptsd or ocd or any other conditions (which lots of ppl do) then obviously those symptoms still remain, but then people usually move to spaces for those conditions. and so bipolar spaces dont really have a reason to exist because most people shortly after learning they have bipolar, are then put on medication and have their symptoms alleviated. so bipolar disorder DOES have the support it needs, that support just doesnt include therapy groups or discord servers because thats not what we need. because even when u do find bipolar support groups or discord servers (which ive been in a fair few) they are Always populated almost solely by unmedicated and actively symptomatic ppl being insanely manic or suicidal and so anyone who is medicated and learning to manage leave immediately because it ends up being a wildly unsafe space to be in so it has nothing to do with bipolar disorder not having enough support or acknowlegement or anything, its literally just that that kinda space is useless and unhelpful so no one makes it and most ppl dont waste their time with it

[very-lost-hobbit]

I'm so sick of dick measuring about carbon pricing in Canadian politics!!! I never want to hear the words "carbon tax" ever again!!!

[lesbiansanemi]

Lets see how many episodes of revolutionary girl utena I can slog through today before I wanna fucking end it all

[flippedorbit]

do you want me to fucking go off on you? do you truly fucking want that mother?

[heaven-dope]

this is a gifted kid-free blog/j

[thatdamnokie]

this might be an unpopular opinion but if all you do is bitch about something while making no actual action towards fixing it you deserve to have that problem and you deserve the consequences of your inaction.

[timeisacephalopod]

It is absolutely wild to me that America is having a groomer panic when the supreme court basically just told Mormons they can diddle children and not report it because "religious freedom" and I'm really starting to wonder when this "religious freedom" stops if not reporting literally the worst crime you can commit is fine under the guise of God. Perhaps these people would be fine with a father murdering his daughter because she had premarital sex and that brought dishonor on the family, or are they against that only because they associate so called "honor killings" with Muslims? Because the way it's going they are ONE stop away from genuinely arguing this with the way they've allowed religion to shit all over everyone else's rights by holding the feelings of Christians above literally everything else, including CSA victims. Religious freedom is not the right to take away everyone else's rights regardless of what a Certain Brand of Christian thinks. Especially when the only religion that gets this freedom in the US (and Canada) is Christianity.

Like don't panic about groomers if you're going to make it legal for Mormons to rape children and do nothing about it, and instead of calling trans people pedos come out and saw what you mean because I'm tired of the political right couching everything they say in coded fucking language so they can hide their actual intentions. If you need to do this much subterfuge to hide your political goals you damn well KNOW your ideas are unpopular and fucked up I wish these people were even a quarter as oppressed as they think they are because then we'd actually start violently and virulently questioning literally everything about everything whenever a republican or a conservative opened their fucking face instead of only doing that to people we don't like while accepting whatever horse shit falls out of the political rights ass no matter how ridiculous or who gets hurt, children they want to "save" so bad included.

[professionaljester]

beating my brain into submission anytime it wants to draw bc i’ve told it for weeks now we’re done with that. we’re not an artist anymore stop trying to make art happen

[lesbianlepidoptera]

Being insecure over my art sucks ass because what else am I supposed to do?

The only good thing about my art is the rendering and everything else is subpar. Nobody really cares about my art and it doesn’t stand out in any way.