i love my sister but atp im going to have to tube feed her sertraline
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ough the adhd focus music shit really fuckin works once i get over the "need to start work" hurdle I just stood up not realizing 3 hours'd passed and feeling every negative effect at once
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Not to go off, but:
- structural, racial, and financial inequalities make it next to impossible for some parents to parent effectively (because they’re working six jobs and/or are in prison and/or are chronically ill);
- their kids go to understaffed and underfunded schools who are expected to provide not just education but also child care, mentoring, mediation, and twelve other unfunded mandates to support their students;
- the kids wind up trying to parent themselves and counsel their friends in schools that are not following through on their IEPs, not providing effective classroom management, and not able to keep sufficient adults around for supervision — and schools are thence full of dysregulated children. many of them high as balls, who do not feel safe;
- and our health insurance companies give me and my colleagues in community mental health like 8-12 therapy sessions to fix alllll of that and refer them out to community supports that either don’t take public insurance or straight up don’t exist.
(Plus we still don’t agree on best practices for teaching people to safely use television and the internet, much less these damn smartphones, and our brains are still running hardware from 150,000 years before the Neolithic Revolution.)
So not to kvetch or anything? but I think the rich assholes who have been profiteering off of the aforementioned inequalities should be obligated to spend a few billion dollars to fund some smart people who have been trying to actually fix, like, literally any part of this.
I ranted yesterday at the end of this post about C-PTSD about the extensive damage chronic stress and chaos does to brains. We have set up a system in which this damage is almost unavoidable for a vast number of people, and it’s only snowballing out of control as the generational trauma continues to rack up. (This shit was already endemic when I was a kid, and I’m old enough to be some of these kids’ grandparents.)
We continue to ask more out of workers, more out of children, and more out of their schools, and while thank GOD people are finally talking openly about the impact on mental health, community mental health centers designed to patch you up and send you back for more systemic damage are … not gonna be enough.
Like, it’s something! Therapy will and can and does help! But if you are sensing the game is rigged, I am here to validate the shit out of that for you.
And yet. And yet. We go on. Gotta haul on that moral arc and bend it. 💛
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I was supposed to be in bed at 9. instead I'm awake at 10:30 praying I don't vomit because JACKASS insists on having his phone at FULL BRIGHTNESS pointed DIRECTLY AT THE FAN so it causes FLASHING LIGHTS IN THE ENTIRE FUCKING LIVING ROOM.
I might sleep in the fucking bathroom tonight. you want to piss? haha, too bad. I wanted to sleep. guess nobody gets what they want
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Bro I don’t know what I expected since I’ve been in some famously bad fandoms, but some of these Hazbin fans are FREAKS- Idk man. I’ve seen worse of course, but damn we collectively need to take several seats 💀
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