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#the easy rapport
shoshimakesstuff · 1 year
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He knew she would turn around and walk out the door again. But instead, she stuck her right hand out to him. “Ellen Thompson.” “Chuck Grant.”
Every Beautiful Thing by @noneedtoamputate
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bunnihearted · 1 month
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#ummm but like.... why isnt there an option to like turn off certain apps showing up in the 'share' button#like when u press that box thingy with an arrow thingy#then all options come up and it's like to copy the link or share it in a message or email or save bookmark etc#bc it is making me so mad.... that all contacts from all apps show up there without allowing it#????#like everytime im bookmarking smth or sending smth to myself his name and pfp pop up there#and it makes my heart clench and ache so bad every time#bc i am reminded of how he isnt messaging me anymore and how i cant even share links or anything w him anymore#and how im sad and alone and wanting to talk to him bc to me ppl i know are special and i cant just exchange feelings for someone#like i wanna share a link with him but that doesnt mean i wanna share it with anybody else? like when i have rapport w someone i cant just#delete ot transfer. other ppl seem to have it so so so so incredibly easy to just jump between ppl and not actually share anything special#or have deep connections to ppl bc they easily just jump onto the next person and then the next one and im not like that#anyway it just makes me sad that im sad missing him wanting to talk to him#but he has filled that space with someone else and he wants to takk to that person. not me#im nothing special nothing to be missed or remembered or trasured or wanted#i dont say or do or contribute anything special. u can always find a lot better somewhere else#so yeah i dont wanna fkn be reminded of that everytime i save a fkn bookmark#but theres no option to remove it and it is quite frankly making me homicidal. like wtf???? i dont wanna be forced to have all apps there??
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coreancitizen · 1 year
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"I thought I wouldn't be fooled, but that face is my one weakness." "What do you mean?" "You have a look of anxiety. Something that Jeong Tae Eul doesn't have. You're not Jeong Tae Eul."
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how do y'all get over the anxiety of commenting on writers' fics who you think are beyond the level any engagement you can possibly provide? Genuine question like what are your tips.
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quenthel · 10 months
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like there is a lot to say abt fandom that is negative (crowd mentality, lack of nuance, bullying, stark belief in societal norms so it becomes a very traditional space etc) but i think the main reson its not for me is bc a lot of ppl just use "canon" as something to be disregarded. which is like (morally) completely fine i just do not get it bc like... the story whats its in like... the actual written text the things happening is surely the thing to like abt any actual... uh... story? right? so to disregard it all to just idk play around in it to me is just not appealing at all. like at that point i would just move on and write my own original story heavily inspired by the original thing...
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bellshazes · 8 months
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the other day this really tall guy IMed me to ask if I quote "got a new gig" and I'm riding that high a day later honestly. the tallness isn't why but it is the main image of him in my brain and when I travel he's my #1 best friend or else target for work politics reasons because if I make him love me then I have an enormous ally who can help me make more work politics friends. his skillset in large meetings is very close to my natural strengths so if I can get people who love him to know who I am I'm pretty sure they'll love me, allowing me to more freely spend political capital to do actual shit that matters. but how do I find out his dinner plans are in the sense of who's his dinner clique. he may be too polite and unrelated to my circle for this to work but oh well I guess I'll rehearse topics for my #2 on the bffsies hit list
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overbearingstruggles · 11 months
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To add to the anon about the guys not seeming to care anymore, I did meet them at a show over the summer and it sort of felt...stiff and bland, I guess would be the best way to put it. Alex was so so nice since I was so so shy. He stepped up first and obviously took the lead. Jack was too busy grabbing a drink from someone. Zack and Rian were...there? I made them all laugh, but I don't remember what I said. Alex no way wanted to touch anyone. No one. At all. No hugs. Nothing. I brushed against his arm and that was about it. No other hugs. No one wanted to be personal, ask a name, say thank you, nothing. Overall, I'm saying they were nice, super nice. But the entire vibe was really giving conveyer belt and the guys were indifferent to being there. I totally understand being tired or doing the same thing over and over every single day, but I really saw that for what it was. Nice guys reluctantly present.
goddd this so diplomatically well put and disappointing! On one hand, we understand the reluctance to be extra touchy or silly, right? But at the same time you're PAYING decent money to be on that fucking conveyor belt! You're putting pennies towards the farm ~tenant house remodel and gas guzzling rv trips for what? Even them at their best is a quick few seconds of polite interaction and not the long lost potential of chatty, personal moment of possibility to feel real or normal. A cute pic might be worth it to a lot dopes but people paying for this stuff keeps telling them it's ok and even on their best behavior it shouldn't be. Harking back to the prev, I guess pondering if they care is already a terrible measurement because what they used to be so fucking good at was making the business of it all feel personal, and now even if they really do care, the business structure is too apparent to feel personal. No amount of money is giving you what was free 8 years ago.
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rovermcfly · 1 year
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I didn't know alex song-xia before mentopolis but the way I just immediately fell in love with them 😭 their comedic timing and creativity came out of nowhere for me (who is mostly here for hank green) and I am so delighted and wowed. they really bring conrad to life and bring me so much joy
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not me catching feelings for one of my castmates...
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pinkfey · 1 year
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i’m trying to look into the reasons behind why it’s so difficult for me to block people i know beyond the internet which sucks because all i get are quora questions like “is it okay for me to block someone for harassing me 🥺” or alternatively “blocking people on social media is cowardly” neither of which have much to do w the question i’m asking 😭
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dirt-str1der · 2 years
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People call kazumaji one sided and theyre kind of right but i find it so funny to think if majima gets incapacitated one day and kiryu is walking the streets with an unloaded pistol in his belt (bait for frisking) like where is officer majima :(( he said hed be near the batting center ... because hes been so spoiled by the constant attention that when his stalker disappears hes like im so bored and alone ...
#Listen to my problems#i want to think of kiryu as spoiled because hes really been raised on so little .... just an excess of affection though. since hes always#‘the favourite’ i really think he tends to take for granted that hes majimas favourite which makes me fucking scream whenever i think of#saejima (seajima) receiving ALLLL of majimas undivided attention and getting orbited by him and he really returns that love with just as#much force as majima does ... kiryu looks at this and hes thinking Damn ! (bruno mars when i was your man starts playing). i really like to#think of this all the time because kiryu is absolutel and embarrasingly jealous but hes convinced that he didnt deserve all that attention#in the first place and it was kind of forced onto him but he never expected that majima likes someone else as much as he likes kiryu ?? even#more than that actually ??!! logically he knows that you cant just compare love like that but at the same time hes like hmph !!!! and then#spirals into the ‘ill see myself out then since im clearly unwanted’ pipeline#because once again kiryu cannot grasp that hes important to people and double somehow sees himself as easily replaced#its easy for him to help people hes never met of course ... you establish a rapport with a strabger and paint yourself as someone useful#eith zero emotional attachment involved ... but when it comes to your friends and family how do you speak to them :.: thinking avout when#nishikiyam was going to euthanise kiryu and broke down crying becsuse he cant snd hes like i still need you im nothing without you !!! and#kiryu was like. yeah. i feel the same way ... despite already pulling off some amazing stuff by himself while nishikiyama seems to be#stagnating .... use their own words on them because you cant come up with something true and beautiful on your own can you. cant say i dont#feel the same way either ... sorry this was supposed to be bout kiryu finding it difficult to imagine that someone whos established a great#deal of time and edfort in him suddenly takes interest in someone else worse that someone else was his og squeeze and YOURE the ‘other’#woman !! i really think kiryu sees majima hanging off saejima (seajima) and hes like i gotta go. say your last goodbyes yo will literally#never see me again adios. he cant even place the freling of jealousy because he thinks its nonsensical when hes laid no claim to majima in#the first place so he just attempts to amputate himself from the rest of the body and majima is like ?? we havent even had sex yet ??#all roads lead to kazumaji btw#wow i fell asleep before posting this last night but im still feeling it. i was right
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bunnihearted · 2 months
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#it actually does make such a huge difference omg im like ... feels like i got thrown into the floor lost my breath#having someone i like so much to talk to abt things#and share stuff and details abt not only my days but their days too#and talking abt like books that we read or shows/movies we saw and etc etc#sending pics. sending voice messages. all of that#that was so amazing wth???#it sounds like such a mundane thing but it changed my enire baseline. it wasnt a littel thing to me#i didnt share as much as i wanted to because it takes me longer to settle into smth like this#or any kind of connection/correspondence/bond/rapport#im slow bc im so scared of ppl. scared of trusting. scared of opening up. rejection rejection all of that#yeah.. takes me a lot longer than the average person to settle into smth like this#avpd is its own special hell...#i miss it a lot and i wish there hadnt been all the other circumstances so i could've actually relaxed into it#and come out of my shell completely. which i was almost there. now that mental block is gone but it's too late....#i take too long... it is impossible to be patient with me. i really hate everything abt my brain#my desire overtook my fear and it was quicker than it ever has but not enough.. :(#i miss it sm and it made me feel so so much lust for life..#but it's gone now and i can really feel the loss of it#i wouldve done anything i could to save it. or nurture it. or whatever. but it was a sacred treasure to /me/.#it doesnt matter if i try to put out the flames in a burning house if the house is gone and there are actually only the flames left#and since to me it is so special. and like. the fact that this even happened is crazy to me stuff like this feelings and connection never#happen to me. it's like.. special to talk to someone u like & have an established rapport with on a regular basis#and tell them stuff and rant abt like a book or whatever. ask them details abt their life bc u know them and enjoy knowing them#i cant just transfer all of this to someone else. i dont feel like yapping abt the book im reading into the void or someone i barely know#i just dont know... i need that sm and it was so amazing w someone i like sm. & it makes me sad i takes me too long to get fully comfortable#bc of this time were it was the most intense and long lasting for me but also im in love lmao. but other times too...#i take too long and why would someone wanna wait like actually a year (which is how long it often takes me to pass a certain barrier)#im not special. im nothing that great. it is easy to find someone else who is x1000 better than me and wont take an eternity to warm up#i just feel so sad bc i try so hard and then all of my effort just goes down the drain and then i have to do it again if i meet someone#then they'll leave me behind too and get tired of me and not like what they see and then im back at square 1 again
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dollfairy · 2 years
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guess who got offered a key to someone's apartment ;o;
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proteus-no · 1 month
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Pestering the recruiter who has been pushing back giving me an answer for almost a month but in a way she can't get mad bc I'm being sooooo nice and understanding
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coffincoitus · 1 month
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I wish we had gotten to see more of daemon training jace. not bc I think it's relevant at all but simply bc I'm nosy
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theriverdalereviewer · 11 months
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Second month of teaching down I am officially a jaded being
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