#the opposite of love is indifference

[fiamat12]

Re: BAFTAs Choices

• The Obligated Choice - L arriving early, utterly miserable, for a red carpet photo w/ his "girlfriend" who appears to have the same mua as Pamela Anderson

• The Expected Choice(s) - N appearing with her sister, and Camilla. Go Sisterhood.

• Interesting Choice - L & N aren't pictured together, disregarding their Memorable Moment nod and thus, the same fans who brought them there.

• Contradictory Choice - In L's Getty interview, he talks about how N prepped him for the big day but we haven't seen them together all Baftas.

•Overcompensating Choice - In N's Baftas interview w/ Suzi Rufell, she talks about BTON S4 being a full pregnancy.

Choices have consequences.

Hope this night gets better for them, but tbf, I'm pretty sure the fans has no f&cks left to give...🤷🏼‍♀️

P.S. Where's N's "boyfriend"? Decided to sit this one out on a beach in Australia? The gays always do have the best taste 😉

[ingravinoveritas]

impalationship replied to your post "| NTAs red carpet 2021 vs. Pride of Britain red…”

I've been in a fandom for quite some time now where there used to be a fan who was a professional body language expert. They taught us a lot about what to look for in photos like this and I have to say it's clear as day that M and AL can barely tolerate being near each other while M and D are exhibiting signs of strong physical and emotional closeness and attraction. Who knows what goes on in their lives behind closed doors but this is what we can see from all of these pics and videos.

rainbowposes replied to your post "New red carpet pics and ugh what is wrong with..."

Anna especially looks so uncomfortable. As a couple they never look quite right. The age difference for one looks too pronounced. Michael looks like her father! I know they have two daughters but I still really can't see them going the distance. Anna's dress is gorgeous, though, and she looks stunning. Their vibes are just so off though. I can only really say that here. In most SM places you get slaughtered for any Anna negativity. Same with Georgia!😳

@impalationship Oh, wow. That is very interesting, and I appreciate you sharing those observations about Michael and AL vs. Michael and David. I think many of us have wondered what a body language professional would have to say about their body language, and so I am wondering if this expert has ever shared anything about "tells" (i.e., small gestures or signs that give away what a person is truly feeling). If so, would you be able to share those/what sort of "tells" you think Michael and David are giving off? I know deciphering subtle body language cues has never been my forte, so your insights are certainly fascinating.

To your comment, @rainbowposes, I agree with you about the vibes between Michael and AL being off. I've said this previously, but for me it's never been about the age gap (although I find that the legitimitiate criticisms many of us have are decried and often chalked up solely to that). It's the "everything else" gap that is so noticeable, IMO. It's that Michael and AL have nothing in common except for the kids. It's that neither one of them "lights up" around the other, and that the normally ever-present twinkle in Michael's eye disappears when he is with her. I'm genuinely at a loss for how Anna in particular seems so uncomfortable holding her own boyfriend's hand and looks like she would rather be anywhere and doing anything else instead. I'm also floored at the disconnect happening with the fans on Twitter saying how happy they both look, as at this point it seems like willfully ignoring everything that is actually happening in those pictures.

I'm glad you felt comfortable sharing your thoughts here, though. Going by the sheer volume of comments on both of these posts, a lot of other people feel similarly. Truthfully, I've never seen this many comments of people speaking honestly about what they are seeing in the last four years. I'm not sure what exactly has caused the change, except that what's plainly obvious apparently can no longer be overlooked. So interesting...

[hopefullysomethinggood]

Caring this much used to feel a little like a curse, but I was raised on the belief that nothing is more powerful than Radical Love. I’m going to care, and I’m going to keep caring, because when we do that we change the world.

It’s going to suck, but one day I’m going to be right and fucking bet I’m going to be smug about it.

[deanaferal]

a new prayer for the new year

May our weariness give way to the wonder of what the next season holds and may our hearts recover and never lose the want to be vulnerable and earnest. May this year be as lovely as you are and may your passions overtake your pain. May we lose the fear of embarrassment and say what we feel when it needs to be said. Let love in. Let love out. Take the time you need but understand that if you wallow too long you will miss the sweetness the world is nudging towards you. Be grateful, do unto others. Fight, kiss, sweat, live, create.

[teyvat-academy-au]

Nahida shook her head in disappointment.

"Your society is so accustomed to thinking in the narrow framework of black and white that very few people ever try to look deeper, to see more colors. You give labels so easily that you don't even care if a person really deserves them."

"And what is undeserved about it?" Yaoyorozu asks cautiously. "We go to hero school and we will be Heroes. If a person breaks the law, then he is a Villain."

Nahida frowns and looks around the classroom, watching as the students nod in agreement with the girl's statement. Except for Teyvat's students, of course.

"True wisdom is to be able to ask questions, both to the world and to oneself. Is it really possible to call a mother a Villain who is forced to steal food for her starving child? Does a man who bullies his own family behind closed doors deserve to be called a Hero?"

The students shifted uncomfortably in their seats. Iida's screams that "A hero would never do anything like this!!" flew past Wanderer's ears, but a sharp eye caught the expression of understanding on a couple of faces.

Nahida clapped her hands, asking for silence in the classroom. The servant was able to arrange a couple of lessons with the Director, so they need to manage their time wisely.

"Heroes or Villains - this does not negate the fact that they are people, and people are very complex. And the world around us is much more complicated than it might seem at first glance. So! I've come up with a riddle for you! The ability to find the truth is very important, especially if you are going to be involved in an investigation in the future." Nahida leans conspiratorially over the table, as if preparing to share a secret. "Emotions guide people, strong and weak, they push them to take action. Understanding emotions helps us understand ourselves and other people. A true Hero can be driven to action by love and affection, responsibility, and the need to protect. But emotions can also cause pain. So tell me, future Heroes, what is the opposite of love? What can hurt more than any blow and has no limit?"

Wanderer snorted, watching the students whisper to each other and shout out predictable answers. Buer had asked him a similar question a long time ago, and even then he knew the answer.

When you want to be happy, you're not looking for something that will make you happy, but something that will captivate you. The opposite of happiness is not sadness, but boredom.

If, having lost love, you try to get at least some emotions from a person, then indifference hurts much more than hatred.

[return-of-the-queen-au]

Last time bothering you all, but hear me out

Like, no scary transformation from the snatcher. Just the shadow version of the prince's corpse roaming around.

like to me it adds to the little bit of fucked up that.. nothing really happened to the prince. No curse or corruption.

Death was the only thing that got him. The only thing that got him was death and becoming a ghost from it.

how did he became evil? It wasn't because of something else making him evil, he just became like that on his own.

Vanessa didn't touch him after the cellar and there wasn't any curse. He just went mad and became the way he is now.

Literally just one misunderstanding ruined him completely and became the sadistic ghost he is now, ain't that fucked up? Especially because he seems so different from how he was! He's basically unrecognizable.

[patrice-bergerons]

Will i ever get over how Francis mentions Fitzy — quite unprompted may I add — in the second ever sentence he speaks on the show mmmmm

[nenoname]

reading two fics in a row where it had an emotional moment of "ford thought of all the times he called stanley by the childhood nickname "lee" 🥺" and my brain as always went "never. he never calls him that. why is this everywhere. why is fanon like this."

[plumheadraven]

Stubborn Love - The Lumineers

[cruel-hiraeth]

dark content is one of my favorite things in the universe but i cannot do it with zoro—i simply cannot. it goes against everything he stands for!!!!!!!!

[alenablack]

real enemies to lovers is so intriguing because it perfectly displays how fine the line between love and hate really is. hate is one perspective shift away from love and vice versa.

both love & hate are passionate feelings; and require a similar level of investment.

[fiamat12]

i really do feel disregarded as a fan who voted her ass off whenever there was something to vote for these two in the last year. nic threw the first stone with bringing jd when the voting was still ongoing, luke ruined everything in the last few days by bringing A everywhere. even if they're obligated to do certain things, couldn't they have been kinder to us fans? they basically did everything they could to make the BAFTAs about two people in their mid twenties we couldn't give two fucks about. and today they couldn't even pose for a photo together just like on thursday.

it's all making me regret all the energy i put into supporting them for the last year. i know they don't know me but fan support is important to a certain extent.

Heard!

[boydykedevo]

Taako is very “my husband and the dogs he ‘didn’t want’” towards Magnus’s dogs btw.

[valyrfia]

something about max verstappen being the only one able to truly get under the skin of cool, media-curated, perfect charles leclerc is something so compelling

[helluvahotmess]

thinking about so many people hate blitz because they loved him so much

and tilla is probably the only one who loved him and never hated him whilst cash never loved him (or hated him until the fire probably) just Did Not Care About Him

[widevibratobitch]

sorry youre apparently getting hate anons now? hope youre doing okay <3

naurrrr i wish i got hate anons. i actually believe that one was genuinely well intentioned if somewhat tone deaf lol