#this goes for cis and trans men

[lifeonkylesfarm]

If you're the guy who pissed on the disabled stall toilet seat today: I hope you go to hell <3

[yourlocalcorviddad]

Dead on main teacher/single parent au? If you're still doing them :D

Hi there! Sure am! You're the only one who's sent one so far lol.

Alright, Dead on Main, parent/teacher huh?

Update: I started writing this when you sent it, but got busy and forgot to finish it, this is what I have so far! Anyone can add to this if they want!

Danny sighed as he rubbed a hand over his face, walking into the building, always uneasy in school buildings after usual school hours, call it trauma or old instincts but he'd never gotten comfortable in them.

But Dante had gotten into a fight during English and Ellie had jumped in to help, so the teacher had left him a voice message asking him to come by the school.

"Hi, Professor Todd?"

Danny poked his head in the room with the correct door number he'd been provided to go to. Dante and Ellie looked up at him and grinned at him unrepentantly.

Well, Ellie did, Dante just looked unrepentant, chin jutted out, but both of them had their heads raised defiantly, shoulders set, even as Dante had a bruise peeking out from under an ice pack on his cheek, and Ellie had the tell tail signs of a nose having been bloodied and a split lip that was already, to his keen sight at least, starting to heal.

"Hi mom.""sup mom." Dante and Ellie greeted.

The snort of amusement from behind the desk drew Danny's gaze from his wonderful, amazing, chaotic neverborn children to the teacher behind the desk finally. He wasn't going to say that the man wasn't a sight worth a 20 year voyage, but he kept himself composed other than a sheepish grin.

"Mr. Fenton I'm guessing?" Professor Todd motioned to the chair between the two kids before offering his hand to shake.

"Dr, actually, but yeah that's me. Just call me Danny, please, professor." He took the offered hand and gave it a firm shake, noticing the callouses not often found on academics but not minding it.

"Just call me Jason then. I presume you heard the message then. Since then we've had a few more updates about Dante and Ellie's fight and while they will still be being suspended for the way the fight ended up going," Jason started, a file in front of him being opened and a set of papers with various notes on then in it becoming visible. "But they will not be the only ones."

"Damn right we aren't! They were hateful biggots and I regret nothing!" Ellie cheered, fist pumping in the air as she did so.

On his other side, Dante snorted but grinned in a feral way Danny recognised as very much his own, "I only regret not punching harder."

The sigh let out by both Jason and Danny at that had a snicker and a grin gotten in response from Ellie and Dante.

"Right, be that as it may, your determination to protect your classmates from discrimination is admirable, as is stepping in when you did. But please, next time just come get me or another instructor or adult." Jason's request was met with a nod and a grumbled agreement.

[linktothefags]

For any guys that need to hear it: you matter. Your feelings are important. It's not okay for people to take their anger at others out on you because "you're a man and you need to deal with it". You can have boundaries. It's okay to not talk to people who mistreat you.

Also: you're all cool as fuck. Men are cool. Being a guy is awesome. We're princes and kings and rock stars. We're fathers and brothers and sons. Don't let people bring you down for enjoying that.

[brazilian-whalien52]

Scenes that made queer people realize they live in a world full of straights

[orcelito]

Like OK so I've been reading a fic with trans wolfwood in it that is so. HONEST. About how it affected him and still affects him. In a way that's very much not an average cis writer portrayal of a trans character.

Like. Either this writer is trans or did plenty of research, but it just feels REAL to me. And it has me thinking about my own way of writing trans Wolfwood.

I'm not there yet. But I've been thinking about it. The ways that what the EOM did fucked him up... but it also acted as HRT that affirmed his gender. So what do you do when you're in a body you don't recognize, but looks much more like a man than ever before? There's some gender euphoria in a way, but dysphoria at the same time bc you didn't grow into this. You didn't watch yourself transition. Suddenly you just Were this, and it's not you, but also it's nice to finally be seen as a man, but it also feels wrong to feel grateful for any part of what they did to you...

On and on and on

You see? This is what I want to think about with him. This is why trans Wolfwood is so compelling to me. It's just so Complicated, he'd have such Complicated feelings about his body and the way he lives with it. He learns this new body, it starts to feel more like his, but he also mourns the fact that he didn't get to watch it grow into this like he should've.

That kind of thing.

[c1airidryl]

You know what is so funny is twice now I've had interactions with cis gay guys who comment on how faggy I am. Like verbatim. One time an older fellow told me this, another time it was a younger guy I was making out with at a club. Both times were when I was wearing a tank top, and I haven't had top surgery so they could see that I have tits.

This is amusing to me and validating on one hand bc is like hell yeah I am a fag and it's great to be seen by other fags. But on the other hand it's telling. I think maybe people expect tguys all to be basically lesbians? Which is so funny to me. Maybe you people need to just be friends with more trans people, I'm really not that unique at all when you get to know more of us. Plenty of us have mastered the art of flagging dyke or gay or whatever at will. It says a lot about other people's perceptions doesn't it?

[stephaniedola]

rancid vibe i am entirely sick of being subjected to:

"oh he doesn't eat pussy? wow dump that bastard"

"men who don't give head don't care about women's pleasure"

listen, it's important that men care about your pleasure! but SEX ACTS ARE NOT REQUIRED OF ANYONE!

i do not care how lame you think it is that a man doesn't perform certain sex acts, i personally find that an extremely limiting and creepy view of masculine sexuality

sometimes men have sensory issues, medical conditions, or even simply preferences that will cause them to not enjoy giving head to people with vulvas.

sometimes men are very good at penetration. other times they're good with their fingers, or okay with toys, or good at kissing, or just touching you. sometimes human intimacy is just good and nice.

men who cannot, do not, or simply do not want to perform oral sex on vulvas are not worse men or sexual partners for it

[anothergameofwickedgrace]

Having a period and a working uterus feels like a betrayal by my own body. It feels like I'm being held hostage. Its just awful and wrong and I can't explain how viscerally uncomfortable it makes me that it exists and occurs. It's is very upsetting to me.

[peachybeins]

That gross feeling when you find an author who writes bio dom/sub(like being a dom or sub are intrinsic biological immutable aspects of a person. I don't like it but it came up in my Trans romance searches) and they have multiple trans men characters and I want you to just GUESS what immutable biologically determined D/S role every single trans man takes in these stories. If you guessed 'dom' you're extremely wrong but I appreciate your optimism lol.

BTW the cis women in the stories can be immutable doms the cis men are of course the doms, the trans men are all smol subby twink "boys" who call the cis men "daddy" and shit. Just fuck man fucking hell. Just dark sided shit.

[ourstarsystem]

“butch men” yeah I’m sure there’s something so revolutionary about men rejecting femininity in favor of full masculinity. you guys have no idea what butch means

[natugood]

Question for people who know man gym etiquete: my engineering prof works out at the rec center at the same time as me in the mornings (one hour before class). He also has a locker that’s four away from mine. I only noticed him for the first time this morning. I have barely ever talked to him, but he is also my graduate advisor. Do I acknowledge that I see him at the gym, or do I avoid it? And if I acknowledge it, do I do so at the gym or in another setting?

[catboyrightsdefender]

dear god please deliver me from this specific side of queer tiktok

[menlove]

most of the time when there is a moral outrage and panic from anyone saying "(x group) is trying to FORCE their way into our space so they can HAVE SEX with us" u look over and that group is just dating each other and would cause 0 problems for u and ur dating life if u just like. minded ur business.

[hotdyke-hardstyle]

"you guys aren't even normal about non-binary / he/him / trans lesbians" say the people who aren't even normal about lesbians full stop

[pbandjamsammich]

for someone who says he doesnt need validation from cis men i sure do seek validation from cis men a lot.