#traditonal wife

[barefoot-a-pregnant]

Do you have a favourite deity and, if so, why?

(I think favourite deities are a thing pagans are allowed to have - am I right in this?)

Hey! Yes, I have and I know many that have. *laugh* Even when we say, we mostly work with pantheon xy doesn't that mean, that we worship all the gods the same or that we will not get astray and maybe will worship an outsider once in a while. When we took it from a traditional point, it's really natural. A farmer, as example, wouldn't honour the same god as an skald (norse bard) or a "payed warrior". At the moment I'm working with Frigg. If you know norse paganism, it's very clear why. She is the wife of Odin, first of the aesir. "Foremost among the goddess", like the edda call her. She is the godess of "rightful" (from society and family approved) marriage, of pregnancy, childbearing, motherhood and domestic arts. So as a Wife, Mother, Homemaker and fiber artist (I love this word, sounds so eleant), I find it quiet natural, that I'm drawn to her.

[everlastinghistory]

[twyz]

yk it was bound to happen eventually

[dabunnyvm]

boom

[pekopekokuma]

Happy Birthday to my wife! 💕

[eerieechos]

Okay but what if Curufin’s wife was at Alqualondë hmmmm?? 👀

[jammingly]

i wish all the “traditional women” would follow their own teachings and not voice their thoughts and opinions

[mandaloriandragontrainer]

Tumblr is definitely super weird about m/f ships. They never want the girl to be the more “traditonally for girl things” like shorter, little spoon or be saved/protected by the boy. I guess they believe it’s empowering but it’s just plain stupid (this is coming from a girl). So glad TDPo doesn’t falls into these and lets Rayla be all of that, she’s enjoying her strong boyfriend as she should.

You’re right and you should say it.

M/F pairings are only valid on here if they’re a “girlboss and her malewife” (as if being a wife is someone inferior?) A female character has to display traits traditionally considered to be masculine (never positively masculine traits of course—just being cold, angry, combative, and physically dominant) or else she’s a “bad character.” I remember seeing posts after s4 complaining that Rayla was now “too girly” and that it was stupid she’d adopt a pet. How is that not misogynistic?

Rayla is a strong character. A genuinely strong character. She’s a force to be reckoned with, especially with her blades, but her fights always feel realistic, if that’s the right word. She’s an elf, so her agility and speed are superhuman, and she relies on that as well as her wits to win a fight. But she’s not invulnerable. Amaya, who’s bigger and stronger and far more experienced, absolutely clobbered her in season one. She held her own against Corvus and Soren, but both times she outsmarted and outmaneuvered rather than physically overpowering them.

Rayla is deeply kind, sweet, nurturing, romantic person. And Callum lets her be her true self. And I say good for her. Good for her for finding a gentleman like him who makes her feel safe enough to be soft and vulnerable. And good for the TDP team for writing a female character who gets to be a warrior while still having a love interest.

But yeah. Rayla is shorter and smaller. She’s girly. She’s the little spoon. She loves cuddling her handsome, strong, dorky boyfriend who sometimes saves her life. So what? She also can and will kill you. #dealwithit

[kaitlin-kate]

Another fun thing here. I have this feeling Rhys is worried one day Feyre can look back and see what damage Rhys done to her or her family. Lol, I am a big believer that Rhys is paranoid Nesta hasnt bow and kiss his ass because Nesta is in a huge position to slap reality to Feyre and pull Feyre from this IC bubble.

Lets be real, I doubt Feyre even understand how society work. She dont even understand why Tamlin threw party and introduce her FORMALLY with respect to his court member. As opposed of Rhys introducing Feyre as his whore. Yeah, i acknowlegde Tamlin has done bad thing abd ignoring feyre feeling and freedom but this man wanted Feyre to be respected in his court. Introducing her formally.does that, it give her access to see who is the team player in Spring Court.

Whereas Rhys, totally stripping Feyre chances of being respected in the curt where they held tight to their classis and aristocracy practice. Velaris seem like exception but what does this 1/3 court have compare to 2/3 of the Night court?

And I see nesta, someone who has help her father with the business and managing parties, manor and part of society might have at least an insight of how it work. Really,Elain and Nesta have chances of pulling Feyre out of this IC bubble. Feyre dont even have friends outside IC. She don't even seem bothered by it.

So i was thinking the death pact also make it impossible for Feyre to leaves NC , especially Rhys. In term of law right, Feyre is still Spring Court bride. What has Rhys does to annul this engagement? And this engagement is well known across Prythian. Their mating bond? Last I check, their mating ceremony were private and not announce. Out of nowhere Rhys announce Feyre as High Lady but their marital status is not convincing to me.

Why I am concern over marital status legally? Because marital status can help a lot when it come succession, wife and husband right and the children right. Can feyre have claim on rhys treasure in case Rhys die without the death pact? Yes, her name is put on the account but what about the inheritance traditon/law in Prythian? To whom this treasure will go first? Their son? The wife?

If Feyre is not legally and declared wife, can she claim it? Can she manage the court and send in command if she has not legal status in Nigh Court? Will the NC take her command? Then if they have children? Is he consider a bastard or legal child? I really curious what Rhys does to annul the engagement between Tamlin and Feyre. Even Cresseida of Summer Curt acknowledge this you know. And Rhys is irked by it.

Hence why I think he pushed the death lact along with submission of Nesta into IC. Molded into a good docile wife of the NC general

Rhysand doesn't seem like a fool. The fact, for me at least, seems to be his way of making sure she stands by his side. And your theory about Nesta is amazing. I haven't really thought about Nesta showing Feyre the truth, but that makes so much sense.

I don't really know about Prytian politics, but I know that, as their marriage was done in secret, there should have been at least a witness. Also, if they don't have a witness, and Rhysand dies, others might claim the right to the throne, saying Nyx is a bastard, especially if the magic doesn't chose him (like, I bearly know what that means).

Also, the Court of Nightmares and the Ilyrians might not want him as High Lord, claiming he is a bastard. And if that happens, the Night Court will be in civil war.

The thing is, I can't really answer your questions because Sjm doesn't give us enough information about the Night Court's laws. For example, if those laws would be like during Anglo-Saxon England (before all the kingdoms were united), Nyx could be High Lord (in Anglo-Saxon England, the Witan decided who would be king ( and there is even a similar situation with King Aethelstan who was allegedly a bastard, but he became the first King of England). But if the laws are like in the Middle Age, Nyx could be simply considered a bastard and not allowed to take the throne.

Unfortunately, there is no way of knowing. The thing with "the magic chooses the High Lord" is weird, and Sjm doesn't give us enough details. How does the magic makes a choice? And how does the chosen know they have been chosen?

It would be great if Feyre would look back and see what Rhysand actually did to her, but Sjm seems to love him...

[norts-trolls]

Tree.. Nikola!!

His favorite traditon. Hangover cuddles. Him and Casnii will spend the whole day snuggling in the dark with soup. Of course he's already sent gifts and calls to his pals and not so pals but now is the time for him to be cozy and crushed under a weighted blanket with him wife.

[barefoot-a-pregnant]

Just had the thought, how my mother once told me, that a household should never run out of salt. It's bad luck for them, it should always be salt in the house. This sat so deep with me, that I once send my husband to buy salt, when we run out of it. We don't needed it at the moment, but it didn't felt right to have none.

[aliveahahaduck]

He's dressed up for a date with his wife (:

[eerieechos]

Curufin’s wife bc I can’t stop thinking about her

[raggydraws]

I would like to remind everyone of my bnha oc Usagi Raitama, I love them.

Thank you and goodnight.

[enelica]

Ineffable Wifes? Ineffable Wifes!

[nightlydreamer]

Outting myself as the big harvest moon nerd I am. I was excited at the new remake announcement!!! Please, enjoy Elli, my fave wife as tribute 😤😤😤