#tw panphobia mention

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

That anon really does remind me of ppl who would call pansexuals and asexuals slurs and harass them and make rape threats and death threats and suicide bait them all under the guise of “they don’t face discrimination so it’s okay”.

[freakinhorse123]

Im so incredibly glad that there’s so much more pan/bi solidarity and much less pan-phobia (i can’t speak for biphobia) now than there used to be a couple of years ago. I was on instagram back in like 2018 and at the top of the pansexual hashtag on instagram was a post titled “the problem with pansexual” and fuck if that didn’t make me fucking cry at my phone. I was like 13 and only just comfortable with my identity and seeing that at that young an age took me out. Im so glad that young pansexuals now won’t have to see so many posts like that.

[siffix]

Am I the problem?

I have been meaning to post about this for a while, but i havent had a way to articulate it properly. My main questions is; does anyone else in the lgbtqia+ community use sexuality/gender labels as their own interpretations?

You see I identify as a pansexual non binary person, as I feel, that personally my interpretation of pansexuality fits into my gender identity ie pansexual = attraction void of gender and non binary = personally void of gender. Though this is not exactly the correct description of the sexuality, it is how i identify with it. And i fully understand how pansexual and bisexual are the same yet different to each community.

I'm talking about this as i have been in an argument (if you could call it that), with another lgbtqia+ person in my life over my identity. Essentially they told me i couldn't identify with pansexual as it is and i quote "a biphobic identify and promotes the exclusion of bisexual and trans and non binary people". After this i told them that, even though i am pan, i mainly say i am queer to people i don't know well, and they replied with "thats a slur not an identity". Even after explaining my way of thinking about gender/sexuality, they proceeded to say that "people like me are the reason the rest of the community are ridiculed".

This is when i stopped replying. Although their last statement is certainly laughable, I can't help but feel insecure about my sexuality again. I know i shouldn't have to explain my identity to anyone but it just makes me feel shitty. I have talked to my close lgbtqia friends about this and they told me not to worry about it. They understand how i identify and its not as if i don't know how "problematic" the term pansexual has been in the past. This isnt the firts time i have come across a person who wants to argue over my identity but usually they are not part of the lgbtqia community. I just feel shitty over this and want to know what others think.

TL;DR : I was discussing my interpretation of my sexuality (nonbinary pansexual-queer) with another member of the community and was called biphobic, transphobic, and the reason why lgbtqia people are ridiculed.

[a-lizard-in-disguise]

hi. op of this post is panphobic

he also reblogged the following post from biexboyfriend (another panphobe, you can do your own research on that) and tagged it "fave"

so that's an L. block these people and stay safe out there folks. i love you have a good day <3

[kim-poce]

CW: panphobia, internalized aphobia

While Isabelly tried to force Evie to sleep with men only, she never tried to force Alex to sleep with woman, she didn't think he was worth the problem since Evie would be the one who would lead the organization.

Also, Alex is a gay sex-repulsed ace, and he has no idea ace people exist, he thinks he is broken, and he deserves a whole more lot of emotional whump to go through.

[wildshadowtamer]

haven’t done one of these in a while so:

Being pan is not biphobic

Being bi is not panphobic

Being omni is not biphobic or panphobic

Being ply is not biphobic or panphobic

Being an mspec lesbian is not lesbophobic or mspec-phobic

Don’t let other people police your identity, you know your own identity better than anyone else, don’t let them say otherwise.

(DNI from this post: Biphobes, panphobes, omniphobes, plyphobes, anti-mspec lesbians, exclusionists, terfs, transmeds/truscum, ‘mogai hell’, people that tag posts with ‘q slur’, gold star lesbians, battleaxe bisexuals)

[cyro-starfire]

Meet Samantha the golden retriever and Cassy the poodle! Both are extremely abusive, Homophobic and Transphobic, as well as Genderfluidphobic. Cassy is a TERF

Meet Julian the Cardinal! (Ik i spelled cardinal wrong leave me alone sobs)) he's your typical homophobic cishet man, before Cyro went into the final stage of figuring out who they are, this asshole would make hella homophobic, transphobic and racist comments, he was extremely racist towards knuckles in particular due to the fact the poor guy was the last of his kind, making super fucking insensitive jokes and comments such as "You should've gone with the rest of em, Mobius would be better off without your pathetic kind" he would gaslight the living FUCK out of poor Cy.

With all due respect, all that i request is for you to get your weapons, get your torture devices, and make these three peices of shit make them wish they were never born! You have my full on permission to squish them until their blood stains your hands. Thank you.

DISCLAIMER: I DO NOT SUPPORT THE ACTIONS OF THESE CHARACTERS WHATSOEVER!!! THEY ARE MEANT TO BE UNLIKABLE CHARACTERS, AND HORRIBLE PEOPLE, I THINK RACISM, HOMOPHOBIA, TRANSPHOBIA, BEING A TERF, ETC IS ABSALOUTLEY DISGUSTING AND I DO NOT CONDONE IT! With that out of the way you have my permission to beat these bigots to death.

[g00d-cr1mes-w1th-sc4r-moved]

what isn’t cringey:

‘childish’ interests

xenogenders + neopronouns

typing quirks

being a furry

anything that doesn’t harm people

what’s mega cringey:

homophobia

transphobia

racism

sexism

aphobia

panphobia

gatekeeping

nazism

fascism

[pansexual-pied-piper]

To whom it may concern, I am QUEER

Q - Quickly becoming fed up with all the bad takes surrounding the use of an identity & community that's older than the people "discoursing" about it

U - Uncomfortable with people pushing "gay" as an umbrella term

E - Experiencing the fun combination of aphobia and multiphobia (bi/pan/poly/omniphobia)

E - Endlessly annoyed at "pan discourse"

R - Really glad I'm not straight

(Credit for the format idea goes to @dearmulti )

[watatsumi-island]

God why are all the funny and cool people like, sexist or transphobic or panphobic or sm.

[lonelyidiotonhelium]

me: *grabs mic* me: not all bi people are panphobic, and not all pan people are biphobic. thank you and goodnight.

[a-dumb-bitch-apparently]

Can we please stop saying "microlabels are harmful to the community" because they literally aren't. Like if you think they are just say you're biophobic and panphobic and aphobic and move on. Like yeah some of these sexualities might overlap in some ways, but to some people the difference is important and unless it's your sexuality it literally doesn't affect you

[catboy-joyfriend]

✨when u didn't realize u reblogged from a panphobe✨

[mogai-kin-haven]

I’d like to make one thing abundantly clear

i redownloaded tumblr, and found a post of mine had blown up (well, it had barely any notes and now it has 20+) because a few semi popular trumed blogs decided it was their business to “correct” me.

id like to reiterate that I DO NOT CONSENT TO TRUMED INTERACTION, OR THE INTERACTION OF PAN/ENBY/MOGAI/APHOBES.

[bimtrimmerextraordinaireold]

[[OOC: Okay- real talk, why does Tumblr keep suggesting panphobic and transphobic accounts to me?? Like, I'm pansexual AND trans, and I don't wanna see that shite near my account. ]]

[[Also, a bunch of pro-shipper accounts are being suggested as well. I am NOT a pro-shipper, and I don't support pro-shippers at all (if you don't know what a pro-shipper is, PLEASE look it up because it's not something I wanna talk about today).]]

[sanders-sides-uncorrect-quotes]

It makes me so sad how many people seem to hate pansexuals these days.

Hey, to my pan followers and non-followers!!

I love you, platonically, so much!!!

You're not biphobic because of your sexuality! You're all amazing!!