#wendy vents

[candycatstuffs]

Shes venting lol

[musashi]

i JUST realized this might be related to one of my other friends in the mvk fandom suddenly hardblocking me so uh

hey y'all! if you frequent the mvk tag, there is a regular blogger there who i will not name, but who has some sort of pathological attachment/obsession with me. they and i were tumblr mutuals but we were not close. we DM'd twice and had scattered interactions here and there.

they are accusing me of:

being abusive toward them

being otherwise cruel to them

being ableist against disabled folks who are high-support???

sending suibait/having my friends send suibait

probably other things.

EDIT: someone's informed me they're accusing me of posting private stuff from their vent account? the only account i know of theirs is the one we were mutuals on

i can't stress enough that none of this is true. there is no proof of it and if you press this person they will have none. all that happened was some time about a year ago when we were mutuals, i feared they might be vagueblogging about me when i was having depressive episodes and i sent them this message about it:

i was being honest here, but they then turned around and said i was spot on--they were vagueblogging about how badly they wanted me to shut the fuck up, stop whining, etc (paraphrasing, but that was the vibe exactly) every time i needed social support. they have since deleted their message admitting to this. i am so sorry i cannot prove it.

since then multiple mutual friends of ours have unfollowed them because they squat on ym blog and, again, pathologically blog about me. they revel and make posts about "justice" and "karma" whenever i am upset on here. they scream and yell and cry whenever i am happy. they have admitted to wanting to convince their mutuals to abandon me:

again, i can't prove this is about me but i have a lot of testimonials from people who noticed this being in both our circles and can vouch for it. initially i was just going to roll my eyes and move on but i think they might be telling other people i'm some horrible fucking abuser who mistreated them when i wasn't even close enough to them to do so.

anyways, sorry to everyone who tracks the tag! i don't know how to prove that i didn't hurt this person. but... like... if they approach you, please do your best to use best judgement and consider the facts in front of you.

again, i will not be naming them. this is not a callout post. this is a preventative measure, because i am a traumatized wreck and i really cannot deal with things of this nature.

[w3ndytheraccoon]

Man, don't you love it when you're being called an oppressor by a stranger on the internet because you like a character who happens to be white (I am a minority) ?

[ragingadhd]

PSA that unhealthy/toxic power dynamics can and do exist within spaces designed to help your mental health. Never let a therapist tell you that you’re totally helpless on your own, that you ‘need’ them if you want to be healthy. Never let a therapist tell you you can’t trust yourself. Never let a therapist tell you you’re weak, that you need someone else to make your decisions for you. If a therapist ever tries this shit, rip them a new one. They are an asshole who is trying to make you dependent on them. Don’t let them do that.

You are not weak. You are not helpless. You are capable.

[skylarthethompson]

[jtownraindancer]

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[lemme-just-oops]

I need some fastfood chains to offer depression meals wherwe you get chicken nuggets and a hug

[twistedsea]

Every nightmare has a meaning

[tomcharslvt]

art dump

[no-good-username]

where are all my fellow Thompsons of the group at?

[hopusthebrainlessfloof]

"I let a man hurt my family once. I'm not letting another get the chance to."

Broodal v Koopaling drama cause why not!

[w3ndytheraccoon]

I hate it when they're like "I'm trying to be better!" Okay ? And ? What does that have to do with me ?

Like congrats on trying to change, the people in your life deserve better from you, but why are you telling me this ? I'm not in your life anymore and it's not gonna magically undo all the shits you did and make me forgive you.

Yeah you're trying but I deserve more than you just trying. I deserve more than you. You trying might be good enough for others but not for me. You're trying but how long are you trying for ? You're trying but in the end will you actually change ? Hm ?

So yes, you're trying, but until I see some actual changes, to me, you still do not deserve forgiveness. Until I see some actual changes, to me, you are still the same person. Until I see some actual change, to me, your words are just another promise you'll break.

[augmentedampharos]

You don’t have to answer but how’d you break your wrist/arm? Or is it sprained? I can’t tell…

It's complicated! <- is in a situationship with my own wrist ig

Good news: it's not broken

Bad news: no one knows why my wrist hurts so much. I'm on my 3rd specialist. It started in late September when I tripped and hit my hand on a doorframe. This cast is very much a "Hail Mary" to see if totally truly resting it will resolve the issue. And of course since my wrist can't move at all it doesn't hurt - but wearing a cast for 3 weeks sucks ass lol and is painful in it's own way for sure. So fingers crossed when the cast comes off it's like WOW PAIN FREE!!!

I've also never had a cast before but hey at least this one matches my hair

[moonknightsonata]

Haha I said my next wip was going to be something fluffy again because I’m usually pretty good at fluff and its what I gravitate towards.

HOWEVER. Your girl is going Through It and I might be uhhh 1200 words into something a little more angsty with Marc.

Sorry. But also not because this is super cathartic for me and I’m putting Marc through the ringer so him and I can go through it together.

Anyway maybe once my mood is better I’ll be more active with like, sharing and reblogging stuff but I gotta get through this first.

[maryvioletique7708]

Day 6:

Sisters.

{x}

[notmonaca]

lucky for two people in particular, rc cola didn't stain my white shirt or i would have had blood stains on top of that

did you know that if someone fucking yells at you to stop doing something in a serious tone rarely heard from them, that probably means you should stop

anyways i had a panic attack and screamed at a few people earlier but im feeling better (feeling so extremely bitter and violent about this)