#why not smile

[girlstressed]

can’t stop smiling in inappropriate situations

[rickollie]

A 'Million Dollar Baby' Story with Song Lyrics

A 'Million Dollar Baby' Story with Song Lyrics #storytime #songs #lyrics #music #NeilDiamond #CyndiLauper #Cher #MarvinGaye #TammiTerrell #RichardMarx #TommyRichman #Whodini #EltonJohn #JamesTaylor #writerslife #heatwave #CancerSurvivor #HeartDDisease

I use them ‘Time after Time’ We all have our take on our favorites, and non-favorites, when it comes to songs but how much stock do you put into the lyrics? If you’re following me on Instagram, you’ll notice I share ‘a lot’ of stories and posts with music. I believe my followers find them more interesting with songs attached and I do go lyric hunting before doing so. Neil Diamond As to never…

[chloesimaginationthings]

Glamrock Freddy's life is so hard in FNAF...

(Based off @/sweepswoop’s comic)

[pissfartboy]

Ist es over für mich?

[reineydraws]

this is a scene from opla s2, black leg gazpacho told me himself!!!

src by @op-trash-blog-of-hell

[zillychu]

human form reveal! he wears his hair in a variety of styles, which include: whatever Sam or Tuck want to do that day (if left alone he will simply do nothing and get it caught in everything)

[demaparbat-hp]

She will (and he'll let her)

[baemboa]

INSERT COIN 🪙

[giantkillerjack]

Today my therapist introduced me to a concept surrounding disability that she called "hLep".

Which is when you - in this case, you are a disabled person - ask someone for help ("I can't drink almond milk so can you get me some whole milk?", or "Please call Donna and ask her to pick up the car for me."), and they say yes, and then they do something that is not what you asked for but is what they think you should have asked for ("I know you said you wanted whole, but I got you skim milk because it's better for you!", "I didn't want to ruin Donna's day by asking her that, so I spent your money on an expensive towing service!") And then if you get annoyed at them for ignoring what you actually asked for - and often it has already happened repeatedly - they get angry because they "were just helping you! You should be grateful!!"

And my therapist pointed out that this is not "help", it's "hLep".

Sure, it looks like help; it kind of sounds like help too; and if it was adjusted just a little bit, it could be help. But it's not help. It's hLep.

At its best, it is patronizing and makes a person feel unvalued and un-listened-to. Always, it reinforces the false idea that disabled people can't be trusted with our own care. And at its worst, it results in disabled people losing our freedom and control over our lives, and also being unable to actually access what we need to survive.

So please, when a disabled person asks you for help on something, don't be a hLeper, be a helper! In other words: they know better than you what they need, and the best way you can honor the trust they've put in you is to believe that!

Also, I want to be very clear that the "getting angry at a disabled person's attempts to point out harmful behavior" part of this makes the whole thing WAY worse. Like it'd be one thing if my roommate bought me some passive-aggressive skim milk, but then they heard what I had to say, and they apologized and did better in the future - our relationship could bounce back from that. But it is very much another thing to have a crying shouting match with someone who is furious at you for saying something they did was ableist. Like, Christ, Jessica, remind me to never ask for your support ever again! You make me feel like if I asked you to call 911, you'd order a pizza because you know I'll feel better once I eat something!!

Edit: crediting my therapist by name with her permission - this term was coined by Nahime Aguirre Mtanous!

Edit again: I made an optional follow-up to this post after seeing the responses. Might help somebody. CW for me frankly talking about how dangerous hLep really is.

[astradella]

New show coming soon to nick jr: Smiling Babies

[happi-dreams]

Woahza!! Spongbob critterpants?! (Again?!)

As well as huggy hassleholf

And another art because im insane

[rickollie]

What’s the one luxury you can’t live without?

What's the one luxury you can't live without? #dailyprompt #questionoftheday #mondayvibes #justforfun #truthinhumor #beautyneeds #selfcare #birthdaymonth #geminiseason #lucky13 #writerscommunity #writerslife #healthcare #giftideas #bloggerslife #followme

What you say 🤔 Toilet paper and I’m not talking the cheap one ply wipe either. Gotta be the best! Charmin Ultra Strong, is not only strong enough to wipe you, but ‘Mama (aren’t I good) and Papa Bear’ too, not to mention spills on the countertop and tears from broken hearts. Plus, they make great commercials! But remember, ‘Please Don’t Squeeze the Charmin!’ You can find my sites at…

[datcravat]

Ace Attorney Investigations Collection X Among Us Collaboration promotional artwork by Datcravat (me haha)

[pissfartboy]

smiling farts

[ratfest]

the world is full of beauty that can’t be captured in photos or picture books!

[afterthelambs]

Ann's confidant wins the most sapphic confidant award in the game. Obviously there's rank 9 with Shiho saying "I love you" but there's also whatever the hell Ann has going on with Mika? Mika spends the entire confidant being rude and mean and underhanded, and Ann just goes "ugh she's amazing"

and in the end when you find out Mika has been sabotaging other people to get jobs this is Ann's response:

GIRL GET UP??? Beautiful girls make her weak asf. This is why Ann being supportive over Joker dating his assassin is in-character, she knows what it's like to fawn over a mean hottie