#Attachment Disorder

[split-kitty]

nobody can find out how much I need love

[serenityquest]

[therpistlr]

to the ones who crave closeness but fear it at the same time — this is for you.

if you’ve ever found yourself pulling someone in, only to push them away moments later…

if vulnerability feels like a trap, yet loneliness aches just as much…

if your heart says “stay” but your nervous system screams “run”…

you might be carrying a fearful avoidant attachment style. and that’s not a flaw — it’s a survival strategy your mind crafted to protect you.

but protection isn’t the same as connection. and you deserve both.

🌿 there’s a resource that might help:

📘 The Fearful Avoidant Attachment Workbook

this workbook gently guides you through:

understanding the roots of your attachment patterns

identifying and healing core wounds

practicing self-compassion and emotional regulation

building healthier, more secure relationships

it’s not about fixing you — because you’re not broken. it’s about understanding yourself, offering grace to your younger self, and creating space for growth.

healing isn’t linear. some days will be harder than others. but with each step, you’re moving closer to the love and connection you deserve.

reblog if you’re on this journey. let’s remind each other: we’re not alone in this. 💛

[bl3eding-st4r]

It sucks when your mood is dependent on a single fucking Person. Like bro let me decide if i wanna be sad or not

[mindfulldsliving]

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[boybasher]

He’s a headache 🔫 (my attachment disorder girl music video)

[tommys-love-and-war]

Explore the deep emotional impact of parental alienation, shedding light on hidden wounds and paths to healing for affected families.

[ofgardenandsea]

And if anyone asks, “What are these wounds on your chest?” each will answer, “I received these wounds in the house of those who loved me.”

Zechariah 13:6

[whatdoidowithallthislove]

I’m a sucker for you, say the word and I’ll go anywhere blindly

…you’re making the typical me break my typical rules, I’m a sucker for you

[valkyr7e]

Exactly 🙏🏽🔥

(dw i Take this very serious, i know that this is a Problem. This is just my way of Coping with the Same thing/agreeing)

Dealing with my fear of rejection by never asking for anything, and my fear of being a burden by never doing anything that involves other people. Foolproof.

[tellingtruth]

I’m compelled to point out for those people in comments and reblogs saying it’s not a big deal… Do you know what happens when the cry for help isn’t answered? When the baby is left to “cry it out” instead of receiving the help they need?

I’ll tell you what happens.

The baby’s brain becomes flooded with cortisol which knocks the baby unconscious. Not asleep, unconscious. The baby’s brain has just experienced trauma, and hormones responded to mediate the trauma.

And now that baby is set up to automatically, instinctively, biologically, understand that help may not come, years before it can ever cognitively conceive of these things. That baby will grow into a child who instinctively thinks they can trust no one, least of all the person they should have been able to trust the most.

So yes, it is an extremely big deal. And an even bigger deal that we respond each and every time the infant says “I need help” as OP so eloquently stated.

The research on attachment and trauma in early childhood is profound, and it is everywhere. If you’re willing to read any. Never leave a baby to cry. (Research isn’t conclusive on this aspect yet, but I’m compelled to add my personal opinion that it’s a likely cause of SIDS.)

Have you ever considered how fucking astonishing babies crying is?

The young of other animals don’t make noise, or if they do, barely any at all. Baby birds only start chirping when their parents come back with the food, kittens meow to their mothers because cat communication is extremely subtle and drawing your caretaker’s attention may require a sound when you have eight siblings. At this point, they can already see and walk.

 But human babies? Crying is essentially the first willful action that they learn. Months before being able to move on your own, or even hold your own fucking head up, or being able to choose when and where you defecate. Before anything else, a skill more valuable than anything else, is a distress call.

 A distress call specifically intended to be impossible to ignore.

 Before object permanence or theory of mind, without even an understanding of what help they need, who could provide it, and whether they choose to do so, a human being is capable of expressing that there is something wrong in the state they are in, that they are powerless to correct on their own.

 This is what was evolutionarily selected above silent babies that did not attract predators. This is what was selected instead of young who could instantly walk. This is what was selected as the ideal offspring for the human race. Not one that runs. Not one that hides. Not one that can fend for itself. A creature that can communicate, if only the simplest, most inherent message: I need help.

[wowlookwhosspirallingagain]

the “i wanna go home” never leaves my head even when i’m physically sitting in my bed

[bl3eding-st4r]

I feel like i am losing them, pls help 💔 I think my favourit people in the whole wide world start to dislike me/enjoy somebody elses company more than mine. Are my delusions comming back or is this fr Happening. I feel Like Our Connection fades away and we start to Distanz ourself/are drifting away from each other and i have no idea how to stop it.

[notmutev]

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Attachment disorder

[valkyr7e]

Attachment disorder so bad you just wanna thr0w up. But emetophobia so bad you would rather d!e than have to v0mit too 💀

[split-kitty]

I'm just here waiting to be hurt again