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lads…… it’s march. how we coping

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I wish I could say I did this on purpose https://www.instagram.com/p/BvY8vpBlipD/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=92cyyycfoabp

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Foster kittens 🐱

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You like my hair? Gee thanks, just washed it.

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I’ve been tearing around in my fucking nightgown, 24/7 Sylvia Plath

Lana Del Rey

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All of the people that could pull me back from the brink hover above me in my mind. I can see them circling around me but when I go out to reach them my hand goes straight through

In my mind you’re so close I reject the fact that you are not here with me

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Would invasive questions be acceptable if they weren't accompanied by victim blaming? I ask because I ask a lot of questions and most are pretty invasive but I almost never judge or blame.

I think questions are only invasive if they are unwanted. I will happily talk about any aspect of my abuse if the person has the right attitude and are willing to really listen. So in a word, yes, I think questions about the nitty gritty aspects are fine and good, in fact. It just has to be the right time, place and coming from the right person.

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one of the things i hate about being a survivor is the feeling of disrespect and humiliation. often when i try to open up to another person about my abuse it results in victim blaming and invasive questions. its hard to open up when i know thats a common reaction and its hard to not internalize some of it and feel responsible for my own abuse. it feels like very few people care and discussing abuse and bringing awareness can kind of feel like yelling into a void

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reblog to hex any and all men who have hurt you

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Could this month not be shit please & thank you

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Got released from a psychiatric hospital on Halloween. I’m going as me.

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My wonderful amazing super special friend sent me a gorgeous card and a bunch of other nice things to cheer me up! I’m not crying you’re crying

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Fifth time in hospital this year 🙄

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I feel like I’m constantly screaming internally

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I’m just like my mummy and daddy. I guess the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree.

Lily Allen