honeydreamzz

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happy new year y'all here's a silly thing i drawed

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a message from a mlw grayro-ace transmasc and questioning multiromantic

lesboys and turigirls are valid.

he/him lesbians and she/her veldians are valid.

aromantics, asexuals and aromantic asexuals are valid.

cistrans people are valid.

intersex people are valid.

non-binary and otherwise genderqueer people are valid.

m-spec lesbians and veldians are valid.

transmascfems are valid.

afab transfems and amab transmascs are valid.

straightbians, straightcians and gaybians are valid.

if your identity is considered contradictory, complicated, weird or difficult to understand but it makes you happy and doesn't purposefully harm others in any way, it's valid.

you're all welcome on my blog <3

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i actually don't know the reasoning, i changed the post because i see why it's stupid to group them together and i don't really know what my thoughts process was?

are you truly a queer ally if you exclude or don't support the following?

queer people of color

queer women / queer afabs / feminine queers

queer men / queer amabs / masculine queers

intersex individuals

transgender individuals

non-binary indidviduals

any kind of non-conformity (pronoun, gender, label, etc.)

queer alterhumans

neopronominal / varipronominal / multipronominal / apapronominal / alterpronominal / nullpronominal / crosspronoun individuals

xenogenders

aro- / ace- / aroace-spec individuals

queer people who don't confirm with certain stereotypes of their identities or of queer people in general

the answer is, no, you really aren't. you're an exclusionist.

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are you truly a queer ally if you exclude or don't support the following?

queer people of color

queer women / feminine queers

queer men / masculine queers

amab queers

afab queers

intersex individuals

transgender individuals

non-binary indidviduals

any kind of non-conformity (pronoun, gender, label, etc.)

queer alterhumans

neopronominal / varipronominal / multipronominal / apapronominal / alterpronominal / nullpronominal / crosspronoun individuals

xenogenders

aro- / ace- / aroace-spec individuals

disabled queers

queer people who don't confirm with certain stereotypes of their identities or of queer people in general

the answer is, no, you really aren't. you're an exclusionist.

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“Stay close to anything that makes you glad you are alive.”

— Unknown

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so incredibly relatable? story of my life man

“I lost myself trying to please everyone else. Now I’m losing everyone while I’m trying to find myself.”

— Unknown

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blood makes you related, love makes you family.

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I can't stop thinking about that little homotherium cub they found.

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Reminder that you don’t need to label every single feeling and emotion you have. We’re all just big balls of chemical soup using words invented before we were born to describe an emotion that we can’t possibly share with anyone else as our brains react and produce emotions differently.

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i don't get why there are people who believe that being queer is a choice. why would trans people choose to be uncomfortable with our bodies and have to use up a ton of money and time just to make it what we feel happy with? why would queer people choose to be prejudiced and discriminated against, oppressed and possibly revoked of rights or killed?

being an alterhuman isn't a choice either. why would we choose to wish so badly that we were born in our real bodies, the ones we were meant to take on, that we hate who we actually are?

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lesser known label tuesday

welcome to a new series of tumblr posts in which every tuesday, i will make a post describing and explaining an lgbtq+ identity or label most people haven't heard of. enjoy!

disambiguan/conclusian

a term for when one's gender, sexuality, romantic orientation, relationship desire, identity, etc moves out of the questioning state, and one finally knows who they are identity-wise. this term can be used even when ones identity is inherently confusing, so long as they know they identify as it for certain.

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i don't get why people have the assumption that being lgbtq+ is a choice. why would millions of people willingly choose to be queer knowing they would be harassed, prejudiced, oppressed, insulted, and possibly revoked of their rights or killed just because they were queer?

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friendly reminder that you don't owe anyone an explanation or apology for your identity. as long as you're happy and aren't purposefully being problematic or harmful, you do you.

present yourself in a way that doesn't confirm with society's general standards or society's standards for your gender or sex. use pronouns that don't conform with what people would assume your pronouns are solely based off of your gender or sex. be an alterhuman or a system or whatever people might call weird because it isn't normalized by society. or don't! whatever makes you happy. whatever is you

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“Back in my day, this Autism and ADHD stuff didn't exist!”

the first known case of autism was documented by french physician jean itard in 1799. greek physician hippocrates who lived from 460-375 bc described patients with quick reactions and short attention spans, exhibiting symptoms of adhd.

“Transgenders and gays didn't exist in my day, though!”

gala was a sumerian priest who spoke their own dialect and took on feminine names around 5000-3000 bc. the first known lesbian woman in modern times is from 1821; anne lister. in general, homosexuality rose in ancient greece, ancient rome and ancient china thousands of years ago.

“Gay people are abnormal, humans are the only animals that have homosexuality!”

over 1500 animal species have documented cases of homosexuality. this includes the barn owl, chicken, emu, spider, bottlenose dolphin, bonobo, penguin, giraffe, cat, and dog. the bonobo are even bisexual.

we do exist, we have existed since before the modern day, and we will continue to exist until the end of humanity. we are not the first and we are not the last.

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as a trans man i can heavily relate. i carry the rage of thousands of women and loads of empathy for them too.

[My art, don't steal, tag if reposting]

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reblog if you support:

• pre- or non-hrt trans people

• genderfluid/non-binary people who want hrt

• genderfluid/non-binary people who don't want hrt

• pre- or non-op trans people

• tall transfems

• short transmascs

• fat/plus size trans people

• fem trans men

• masc trans women

• transmascs who don't/can't/won't bind

• transfems who don't/can't/won't tuck

• transfems with wide shoulders

• transmascs with wide hips

• genderfluid/non-binary people with facial hair or tits

• genderfluid people whose presentation is static but their gender is not

• non-binary people whose desired presentation is how society says their agab should present

• transmascs who bind but still have a visible chest

• non- conventionally-attractive trans people

• non-conforming trans people

• non-"passing" trans people

• non-stereotypical trans people

We don't all fit into cisnormative society's bullshit stereotypes!

I'm trying to prove a point to some transphobic relatives. Back me up tumblr.