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Friendly reminder that you're not required to publicly take sides in any geopolitical conflict you don't understand.

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This but every morning for me 😔

System Culture is..

Waking up from a long nap and feeling extremely tired because there's a lot of people in co front, you don't know why they're there, or why so many have decided to front, but it's really hurting your head and everything feels blurry, and you just want to pass out.

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sys culture is where the FUCK did our MONEY go. swear we got like 80 dollars two days ago where IS IT.

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Life hack: introjected his ass too 🤑

[Text: This fictive misses his source boyfriend.]

Like/reblog if you save or use!

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hii um I just wanna lyk that pluralgang is a pro endo tag im pretty sure,, just wanted to point it out since u have pro endos as a dni and the tag might bring pro endos to your blog

TYSM!! That was only on one of my earlier posts when I didn't know they kinda claimed the word plural on here, I removed it from that post ty again 🙏

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Shout out to the systems that went through a “I’m fiction kin, oh also im gender fluid, and.. sexuality fluid? My face looks weird but I’m just gonna ignore it. I just have a bad memory, it’s nothing. Why does my name not feel right anymore? I wish I could just wear wigs everyday.” Kind of phase

And all the systems that had a “I refuse to call myself anything other than fiction kin until further notice,OR EVER” phase

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Hiiii if you find yourself saying "it's not that deep" to someone earnestly expressing concern or offense over something, you will be evaporated immediately!

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I have never read a more excellent article

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System culture is blinking and suddenly three weeks have gone by.

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the thing about disability is it really does sometimes boil down to "wow i wish i could do that" and then you can't. and it sucks.

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(agreeing and adding into the original response)

It's a very important distinction to add that the alter is not a POC !! Please please do not describe the alter as being (for example) Japanese and instead describe their appearance. An alter can have an olive complexion and almond shaped eyes but, unless the body is Japanese, cannot be Japanese.

This is an extremely common mistake I see white people making because they don't understand that being a POC is about more than just your physical appearance!!! It reduces the lived experiences of POC to their appearance and is generally very uncomfortable for every POC system I've met including myself

myself and my friends have been wondering, what if someone is white and has an alter that's poc? is that possible? /genq

we've been wondering this for a while as someone who has an alter with a bit darker skin then our body and we're wondering if there are other systems with this as well

sorry if this is worded shittily idk how to word this-

It's possible and not uncommon, the alter isn't actually a different race or anything but their inner world appearance can be a different than the body's

It's pretty much the same as having a nonhuman alter, an alter that's a different gender, or an alter that just doesn't look like the body

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sysculture is being jealous of systems who are willing to tell others they exist and everything’s about their system

i can’t even say who’s fronting without feeling scared

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me: man idk if I have DID, my trauma isn't even that bad...

alter that successfully keeps away memories I'm not ready for yet: 🤑

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I HATE when i say that "system" comes from medical and therapeutic research, but endos calls me sysmed 😭😭 what

Endos when disorders are medical : 😡

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When I say "my system" or "my alter" it's like when people say "my grandma" or "my family", not like "my car"

Hate filled vent . Sorry .

But I am so VERY , VERY , fucking tired of people assuming that since I ‘ m the host that I ‘ m the only “ real ” one .

No , “ my ” headmates aren’t MINE ; no , “ my ” system isn’t MINE . I am just as much of an alter as anyone else you ‘ ll talk to .

Stop thinking of systems in your binary ass ways . I am SO fucking done with it , and so is everyone else in “ my ” system .

( This isn ‘ t aimed at systems who prefer the me/mine language , just singlets who can ‘ t FUCKING FATHOM a system being multiple SEPARATE PARTS . )

!!! Yes, I get that completely. It's so fucking annoying when people refuse to accept that the host is ALSO an alter and that they do not "own" any other alters. It sucks that the people in your life cannot understand that though, and I'm sorry you have to deal with that. I do hope they understand some day, or that you manage to cut off people who treat y'all that way 🫂

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I don't do discourse because I've listened to endos before, engaged completely in all the evidence they had, none of it is reliable or substantive.

If you parrot ableist talking points to me, I will make fun of you and block you.

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Endos entire thing is being systems without trauma that's. that's what the endo is short for 😭 Endogenic as opposed to traumagenic

You are reading so much extra shit into a one sentence post, very Twitter coded and exactly why I have the endos DNI tag on Every. Single. Post. I. Make.

This is why you need to block the endos DNI tag btw. It's there so you don't humiliate yourself like this

Leave disabled people alone.

"demedicalizing" complex dissociative disorders caused by severe and repeated trauma is wild