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Your trauma does not make you dirty or ugly. Your trauma does not make you less valuable or less worthy of love.

You are still here, and you can still write new, wonderful, amazing chapters in your story.

You are so much more than your trauma.

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Do more things that make you feel good about yourself, no matter how small.

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Other people really have nothing to do with you controlling your life. Of course, there can be inspirations or motivations here and there, which is wonderful. They help us along our journeys. But those inspirations and motivations you get from others are nothing if you don’t do anything. It’s all up to you. Your own move is all you need.

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A message to my fellow passive people… People who aren’t willing to compromise aren’t worth your time ᕕ( ᐛ )ᕗ

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I still have a lot to learn and a lot of things to work on. But that’s completely okay. I like working on myself. I like changing and learning for the better. I like getting stronger.

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Love you guys 🐸💕

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anyway literally everyone is going through something all the time!!! everyone is wounded!!! everyone is human & no one makes it out of this life unscathed!! maybe try approaching people in good faith instead of always defaulting to the worst possible interpretations of each other

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shout out to people who's family isnt entirely bad or entirely good, but something in between and you dont know how to feel about them. you feel angry but you also feel guilty, because you know they genuinely love and care about you, but sometimes they show it in a way you know its not okay. your feelings are valid, your anger and sadness and grief are valid, and you dont have to prove this to no one. bigger shout out to those with memory issues who know something isnt right but can't recall all of the bad events, only the feelings, which only increases the guilt.

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When you're healing, there are shitty days, but it doesn’t mean you go back to your old shitty attitude. It’s easier said than done, but once you start, it will get easier.

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You have options. I promise you, you have options. Even if you blow up your whole life, change your name and train hop half way across the country- you still have options. So long as you are alive you have choices and chances. If you can’t see them, ask someone else. Ask a stranger or someone who loves you. Anyone not in your situation will have different a perspective. Stay safe and stay alive.

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No matter what you've done in your life or what you think of yourself, you did not deserve your trauma. The universe is not punishing you. Bad things happen to people regardless of their morality. And you are no exception. You do not deserve to hurt

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There is no old self to get back to. There is a new you to create and nurture.

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Your self worth does not depend on your productivity.

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The more you love yourself, the more you’ll detach from things that don’t love you and that’s a blessing