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like there comes a point where you think something is fundamentally wrong with you. and then it turns out it’s just Friday and you haven’t washed your hair in three days and maybe you’re also just a little lonely and the combination of all three of those things is whittling a hole into your chest every time you breathe. but also the sun’s up. and you’ve survived everything so far, so you’ll survive this too, even if it hurts, even if you have to survive it many times.

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Joan of Arc - Ward Thomas

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Babe, uncomfortable feelings are a part of life. They will come, as they have right now. They will go, as they always have. Then they’ll come back again, but they’ll also go again. There is no ‘peak existence’ that doesn’t include emotional discomfort. So, make some space for it, watch your little show, eat a little treat— a little enjoyment can co-exist with your discomfort. Try again tomorrow.

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learning to stop hating yourself isn’t something that happens overnight.

it’s a series of negotiations you make with yourself over your whole life. it’s making one less self-deprecating joke. it’s looking at yourself in the mirror with a little more generosity. it’s forgiving yourself for that little mistake.

it’s not one thing and then you’re good. it’s many small choices you can make that slowly make your brain and body a little less uncomfortable to live with

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No, you aren't "behind in life".

But, it's okay to grieve the time you spent surviving. The time spent trying to figure out what was wrong. The time spent healing to become a person again.

It wasn't your fault.

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it's okay to not be okay

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Staying patient 💕

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Unlearning a lot of bad habits 💕

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Source: Dipstick

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🕷️Sailor Moon🕷️

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Hi again friends!

I hope everyone doing good, but remember that even if you're hurting, going through something really rough, Or having: bad memories unwanted thoughts angry outburst crying spells dissociation hallucinations or delusions Or any other uncomfy feelings that it's ok to feel what you're feeling, and it doesn't make you wrong or bad. It's normal and human. You're doing good, this is exactly how you're supposed to be feeling in this moment because how you feel is the right feeling no matter what that is. Everything may feel like it's crashing down around you but just know it's ok to take as long as you need to cope with those feelings and let yourself process those feelings. Just please try to do so in a healthy and safe way. It makes the healing process a lot easier if you're not hurting mentally AND physically. I hope you find something that brings you joy today <3