#KEEP YOUR FUCKING OPINIONS TO YOURSELF

[plumgarten]

Something happened during Covid that I didn’t anticipate happening. Covid literally started immediately after my 30th birthday, so this may have happened eventually anyways. When we first began wearing masks, I didn’t like how my foundation always ended up on my mask, so I stopped wearing foundation. Eventually, I stopped wearing makeup all together. Now, two things happened once I stopped wearing makeup. Friendly, flirty attention from men abruptly stopped. Also, I’ve always thought I look pretty without makeup, but I just got tired of people telling me I look sick without wearing it. If I wore it randomly, the men would start flirting again.

So firstly, I began to become more comfortable in my skin, to the point where I feel bad about myself for wearing makeup. Wearing makeup made me feel like I wasn’t pretty enough to go without.

Secondly, I realized how much I absolutely hated attention from men when it comes to my appearance. It made me want to look ugly every day. I went through a gender dysphoria in which I couldn’t even decide if I identified as a woman. My therapist helped talk me through the realization that my gender is for me. I like being a woman, I’ve always identified as a woman, but because of the way women are treated, it makes me want to be genderless.

I recently found a picture of my husband and myself where I was wearing minimal makeup and I thought it looked really sweet.

Shortly after, I found a picture of us together at a different wedding. I was dressed to the nines, full hair, full makeup, very pretty (and yes, in a tasteful way). I had a lot of people complement me that evening, and some people actually said disgusting things about me being fuckable.

I could not look at this picture. I acknowledge that it is a good picture of my husband and myself but I cannot relate to that picture. I hate that I lost myself in that hair and makeup. I hate that I felt the need to “feel pretty.” I am pretty, why am I still trying to look different? Because it’s a wedding and I’m supposed to dress up? I guess, but here’s the bottom line. I love how I look without makeup. People only compliment me while I wear makeup and that’s okay, because my beauty is for me. I do not care what you think or what you say, I like how I look.

[mnmlover]

"are you gonna eat all that?" "damn you sure can eat🤣"

shut. the. fuck. up. you insecure little shit. fuck you and your diet (ED in disguise) WE DO NOT CARE‼️

[marypsue]

If you're going to reblog my (admittedly very ADHD) post about, to borrow someone else's excellent summation, bees in the brain, to say 'OP check your medications', have you considered:

not doing that

[sammrz320]

Imma get serious heat for this, but at the same time, I'm about to make a point that'll make others even more heated.

Found families are a magnificent trope, when you gather a group of strangers together and live with one another as a family. But the problem with that is claims of absurd bs like incest.

If the papers haven't been made, let others ship characters of a reasonable age gap who are part of said family, but DON'T YOU FUCKING DARE GO OUT AND DECLARE IT INCEST!!

Me and my buddies are trying to have fun with the Ahsoka series cuz we're also massive Sabezra shippers, but if y'all are one of those people who wants to claim certain characters as incestuous, you've got a fucked up mindset and in desperate need of a reality check.

[finniestoncrane]

PLEASE who comes into a fic and comments “ew” like how much effort does it take to not be a cunt???

[public-trans-it]

Listen, if you go digging through a transfemmes blog, looking for reasons to cancel her, and then find a post about her lusting after trans men and prop that up as evidence that she is transphobic and all trans women are predators, then you are quite frankly being incredibly transphobic and are playing into a callout based culture that has a history of prosecuting trans women just for the crime of existing.

However, if you go digging through a transmascs blog and find a post about him lusting over trans women? That is clear evidence that he is a predator, and it is your responsibility to take up a torch and pitchfork and rally a crowd to warn everyone about this dangerous person that no one is safe around. For the children.

[livingincolorsagain]

People are getting so bold lately with how they interact with things created by fellow fans, so here’s a firm reminder that it’s never acceptable to leave criticism/ratings/disagreements in the comments/bookmarks/reblogs, whether it’s fics, art or gifs. If you don’t like/agree with it, just scroll by, no one wants to hear it.

[apple-os]

ppl who like making friends solely with one-note cardboard boxes who will hang out with them when it's convenient and never open up about who they are as people and what their lives are like dni

[calkestis]

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[grey-tones]

Really wish people could mind their own fucking business and leave strangers alone

[ouchgnf]

twitter stans when you tell them that they dont actually need to tweet every single negative opinion they have about the dteam especially about their physical appearances

[the-casbah-way]

places my hands either side of your face and holds you there fucking listen to me. maybe you're just fifteen. maybe the world's not ending. maybe you are just fifteen

[pansear-doodles]

i shouldnt have answered that ask like that

im sorry

[glutenfree-rootbeer]

Contrary to popular ‘belief’ and rude opinion

My dad was literally the best father ever, absolutely the best role model. Probably the best dad ever. He just fucking died way to young.

My ultimate struggle is with the fragility and unfairness of life.

How can someone who was such a good person and so important to so many people die that young, when the shitty people of the world still get to live.

Also probably mom issues because she had to raise me alone in my teenage years while my dad was sick, so it was a struggle.

[0ystercatcher]

like you know what you do when a woman you disagree with needs an abortion? you shut the fuck up put your retarded differences behind you and try to help. thats it. theres no ifs or buts and if there are sorry youre simply not of use to any kind of feminist movement ever. you want to offer "criticism"? you want to talk shit abt her relationships behind her back? and retain any kind of respect or feminist principles? then shut up! at the very least shut the fuck up learn to do better and leave if youre not willing to help.

[itsnotcontagious]

This catholic guy back at my dads town said our culture was made up and fictional and I’m going to fly back there and fuck him up how dare he