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add1ctedt0you · 10 months

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Underappreciated how much worse is for jc that he couldn't kill wwx

#He couldn't kill him or save him. He can't hate him or forgive him #IT'S WORSE #'jiejie jiejie sorry. I couldn't kill your husband' s murder. a-ling sorry. I couldn't kill your father's murder'#THE REGRET #'if I took action before maybe jiejie and her husband would be still alive and jl would have an happy family...'#DO YOU UNDERSTAND IT???#mar!nonsense #It's about what you think you should do/what others think you should do/what you want to do/not knowing what's right and what's wrong #Most black/white takes I see downplay mdzs's characters grief and tragedy imo #jiang cheng #mdzs #Also. I've seen people liking the takes that jc killed wwx because they want wwx bitter and resentful. Girl. HE'S bitter and resentful #He's just repressing everything. He's such an unreliable narrator #to each his own obv

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cubbyhole-for-flea-bee · 2 months

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Apologies

#shadowpeach #six eared macaque #sun wukong #lmk #lego monkie kid #monkey king #liu'er mihou #I just think it'd be neat if they apologized to each other and then cried and hugged about it #(cuz on god they both have some shit they should get off their chests and own up to)#like holy blue hells they're both just like “I think i shall spend my immortal life ruminating on my greatest regret and letting it fester”#everytime i watch the scene where Macaque is like:#“its good to talk about feelings! obv i don't do it”#i turn into the hands on hips guy meme #DUDE GO TO THERAPY #wukong too lets be real #been reading jttw the west (haven't actually gotten to where SEM shows up in the book yet tho)#and i think that if therapy existed back then tripitaka and sha wujing would've been gently but firmly #herding wukong into the local therapist's waiting room in as many towns they pass as possible #he'd probly grab the door frame and have to be literally pried off #these hypothetical ancient-chinese therapists all have claw marks on the hallways and doors going into their offices #hey how about an au where shadowpeach get therapists who end up getting all the monkey drama news first #and end up on the business-rivals-to-drinking-buddies pipeline #stopped while drawing this like “hey why'd i make mac be touching wukong's face in both sketches?”#and then i remembered that between the two mac's the one who wants to be something to the other #to the point of desperation #its like if they're both cats who got coned swk is the one who sits there miserably accepting his fate #while mac is that one video of the tuxedo cat shrieking and trying to paw it off #i'd read the hell out of a fic where they end up swapping attitudes about their dynamic #in canon wukong's the one who seems like he would like to never see mac again (at times) even tho he really regrets it and it hurts #like mac just gives up on trying to convince himself he can make swk see him as a significant part of his life again

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beethefallen · 3 months

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i hate siding with either stolas or blitz and i can acknowledge the hurt both are experiencing and the wrongs both have done. stolas should have thought about things a bit more before making that deal with blitz, and during the full moon episode he should have given him time to think about his answer

and then blitz should stop assuming everything stolas does isn't genuine or that he's got some other motive as well as can't get hurt. stolas has heard nothing but insults thrown at him his entire life and the only one who made him laugh during hard times was blitz. blitz doesn't know this and it's not his fault for not knowing. he didn't know stolas could get hurt. but he can, and blitz needs to actually look and see that.

he's acknowledging it now. stolas' singing. his crying. getting blackout drunk at a party and talking about how he just wants to be cared about. blitz sees it and needs to apologize when stolas isn't drunk

also, the demon that invited stolas out for a dance. i do think it's a little weird that he saw how drunk stolas was and went for it right after stolas just went on about wanting to be cared about. but anyway lmao

blitz and stolas were never together. they had a sexual relationship but blitz denied that it was anything more constantly. stolas knew that it was wrong to even be in to begin with, and that's why he wanted to take the time to genuinely ask for more. but he did it wrong, probably should have done it on a day that wasn't the full moon to begin with. misunderstandings were bound to happen

but even so, stolas isn't in the wrong for getting as hurt as he did, nor is he in the wrong for not wanting to talk right now. he's devastated, he wants to make it work with blitz eventually but how will he do that if he's being pushed away, yelled at, insulted, and made fun of through meme format. and when he gets an apology it's while he is drunk and he might not even remember everything.

so yeah, both did things wrong and both are valid for being hurt. they need to spend time alone to heal because rushing into it while feelings are big is going to make it hard. let stolas do his thing. as long as he doesn't just try to cope by sleeping around because that won't do anything for him! same for blitz! they need time by themselves to think and feel, as hard as it will be for them.

#helluva boss #my rambles sorry if its not consistent or coherent #obv blitz is full of self hatred and that is fully understandable but like stolas says- if people didnt care about him ever then why are-#-they so heartbroken that they throw an entire party every year?#he needs to get out of that fog and see it and work on himself #and stolas needs to allow himself to be his own person and work on his anxious attachment #he needs to allow things to settle #he needs to let blitz be for a bit #and then they both need to hear each other out!#apology tour #stolitz

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comraderoscoes · 2 months

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#yk when people take a second clip of lewis and lando laughing and are like see!! they DO like each other!!! agdjdhd idk what to tell u …#lewis might like lando ill give u that. that’s on him. wouldn’t be the first time he has questionable taste #but the other way roundddd? even if on some surface level lando likes him. he obv has so many deep rooted hang ups and grudges against him #not to psycho analyse but i think a lot of it stems from lando's own insecurities + unhappiness about his career #and lewis represents everything that any driver. let alone a british guy who’s driven for mclaren his whole career. wants to achieve #but anyway 😽

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bmpmp3 · 4 months

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how did i not know there was an amnesia: memories musical..... an entire decade ago...................................................

#actually really difficult to find english language info about it. it seems they had like #a system where each performance had a different ending for the different boys LOL #so if you wanted to see kents ending youd have to come on a specific day etc #there was a dvd release which appears to have all the endings included which is neat. another reason to practice my japanese #id definitely like to check out the songs specifically. you know im already tracking down the cd. you KNOW #i do love amnesia. not the greatest game. theres complications with the artist too LOL #but it was a WILD ass game. especially for my first full otome game i had ever played #i still havent played anything else with this intense genre whiplash between routes #i didnt care much for shins romance but i loved his route because it was straight up just a mystery thriller #tomas was a horror and it was awesome obvs #kents was like a sweet and nice little romantic drama #ikki was like a normal showbiz drama complete with darker elements but also hes an accountant for some reason instead of a celebrity #which is really funny to me HKJDSHJKLDADSd and ukyos his own thing going on. his own intensely otome game-ass thing <3 #it was awesome. i need to play more otome games again so many have been released in the past couple years #i need my tonal and genre whiplash. i neeeeeeeeeed it

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shannonsketches · 1 month

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something something foils moving in opposite directions Goku's always happy to seek and fight stronger opponents because he spent most of his life being the strongest guy in the room and Vegeta wants to be the strongest/is always exhausted to find stronger opponents because he spent most of his life having to navigate his survival around the whims of the strongest guy in the universe room and so Goku has a foundation of safety and stability and so spends his time craving challenge and adventure and Vegeta has a foundation of challenge and adventure and spends his time craving safety and stability and the overlaid section of their venn diagram is that the only way they know how acquire and maintain those things is through battle

#thank you this has been the laziest media analysis post of my career #dbtag #media analysis #something something a game to goku is a threat to vegeta etc #there's a pinned thought here about how Vegeta also didn't learn about the dragon balls until he was ?? 30?? and so all loss is permanent #and goku has been familiar since he was ~12 and hasn't faced a permanent consequence since he was 10 years old and even then he got closure #sometimes I think about how Vegeta saw Trunks die and how Krillin was mad at him for reacting since they could fix it with the dragon balls #but Vegeta has very limited experience with the dragon so to him in that moment that was permanent and Trunks was Dead. Forever.#And we talked before in a 2am post about Vegeta having never experienced grief born of love and I stand by it because his feelings then wer #still very new and very odd and not something he'd accepted until that moment so it was raw power but not as powerful as it could've been #all this to say in my heart of hearts I think Vegeta deserves to retire at the end of super (if super continues) -- not as a warrior #but as an infantryman. he's a prince and now he's got his domain and his family and his planet to look after and I think he deserves #to go home and stay home and help piccolo bully gohan into training more often when goku inevitably leaves to hop the multiverse #geets wanted to take a sabbatical when Bulla was born but didn't get the chance because Freeza coming back freaked him out too much #but whether freeza gets a redemption arc or gets defeated -- Granolah's arc seemed to shift his perspective on being the strongest #and I just grips fist I just think it would be a really nice full circle for Vegeta to inherit his throne in a way he never expected and #finally get his kingdom to look after and protect in the way that he was looking forward to being king of his own planet all those years ag #Goku's got Broly and Jiren and Hit and all the others to keep him busy and happy now -- and if Freeza gets a redemption arc he'll probably #continue playing slap-ass with Goku for the rest of his life -- and Vegeta's got Gohan and Piccolo and Goten and Trunks #I just think them getting a nice bittersweet 'This is where we part ways' would be really nice for both of them because !!#They couldn't have done this without each other. They couldn't have known this kind of life was possible without each other.#So they swap lots and live happier than they ever imagined they could be #especially since Vegeta has proved to himself that he can close any gap Goku creates in progress that's not a concern anymore #And obvs the door's always open!! There's no point closing it Vegeta's tried the locks they don't work on Goku #anyway here's me putting the whole essay in the tags again #this isn't an essay as much as it is stream of consciousness tag blogging #anyway i'm too lazy to write fic or draw comics so we get ramblings instead

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sendmyresignation · 1 year

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truly nothing on this earth is more foul than supernatural familial abuse discourse but specifically the discourse people have about if sam or dean "had it worse" like ok cool you have already missed the point of this show very hard.

#the things ive seen in those trenches.....#its like actually their circumstances were based on their positionality in the family and the expectations each had #but on another level the discourse never truly explores what sams life was like as a child. hes either a spoiled brat or a martyr #in ways that make him one dimensional in ways fanon child dean just. isnt.#sam isnt just isolated. hes also controlled and surveilled. any wrong move (unbeknownst to him) proves to john hes irredeemable #like the center of john telling dean he might have to kill sam. is always dean like i feel crazy with how little consideration there is #toward the mental headspace of a guy whose whole childhood is suddenly warped by the realization his father suspected he was evil #and might need to be put down like a dog. and then. sam accepts this!!!! he truly believes is he Crosses A Line dictated by deans judgement #then oops oh well! because fundamentally sam has been conditioned to believe in his own inability to make decisions about himself #so the 'dean protects sam! dean keeps sam innocent and gave him a childhood' becomes much more insidious when u realize #that is one side of the coin wherein sam is under the complete authority of another person #and obv dean is not evil for that. its learned behavior!!#but instead of teasing out this reality when we learn what john told dean... it becomes aww poor dean :(( instead of a horrific glimpse int #the hierarchy of information and control fundamental to their relationship. guys its a cult.#my posts #spn

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hislittleraincloud · 5 months

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This was so beautifully done 😭👔JAIRO🎀💖✨

#the ending of this puts a new twist on the ending #and the meaning of 'i came'#bc then it would mean that he ultimately DID leave his wife for her #whoa #and that's part of why she's shocked to see him at first #sheds a tear but then smiles BEFORE he tells he that he came (to be there for/with her) there's zero other explanation why the accused would #even dare talk to his accuser unless he was caving to her wants #plus in that essay she is asking directly “is this what it is to be an adult? the same exquisite longing of adolescence but with the burden #of constant accountability...No excuses for your choices for they are yours and yours alone?“ she's asking that cuz she got caught #i always thought it was weird that he would tell her that he came to his OWN hearing bc i mean that's kinda obvs to go to ur own hearing #miller's girl #cairo sweet #jonathan miller #jenna ortega #martin freeman #jairo #they do belong to each other #you belong to me #teacher student #teacher crush #under virgin circumstances #miller's girl fan works #miller's girl fan fiction #benson is my happy place #at least benson can only be spoiled by us

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biskael · 8 days

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the celeste & qistina birthday asks got me feeling things :'(

#celeste & quilge's relationship is so . idk . complex #they DO NOT like each other but also cannot kill one another so . :'))))))))#they obvs don't see eye to eye & are very different #whereas with Qistina she & Quilge are ? honestly ? KINDA SIMILAR #& they've been friends for literal centuries #little german hunter boy & little german witch girl #fairy tale storybook vibes #in my mind they've saved each other's lives a few times #they're best friends literally inseperable #& even joined the wandenreich together #I WANT TO EXPLODE #I HAVE A LOT OF FEELINGS ABOUT QUILGE'S RELATIONSHIPS #BEYOND HIS RELATION WITH HIS HUSBAND #because these two in particular have their own unique sides to Quilge in them #that are so different #AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH #outofchara .

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iphigeniacomplex · 2 years

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disco elysium and personal apocalypses.

disco elysium (2019) | working for the knife - mitski | disco elysium (2019) | a song on the end of the world - czeslaw milosz, trans. anthony milosz

#it speaks!#disco elysium #web weaving #took so many screenshots of like everything dros/the deserter said like theres sooo something there re: harrys own persona but idk WHAT yet #but like the idea of something horrible happening to you and wanting the world to end because of it. obvs a breakup is different than war #but like each trauma is apocalyptic for the person. you know. like regardless of what it is.#i was thinking abt that bit in percy jackson after his mom dies where hes like nothing should have color. but it felt a bit silly.

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add1ctedt0you · 10 months

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I suppose that my unpopular opinion is that jc enjoys his job lol

#This is a grey area where it's more about projecting than anything else. Because we don't have canon informations about jc's pov on general #But imo he enjoys what he does #mar!nonsense #Also. When people make jc's character about jealousy. I am mmmmm #To each his own obv

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magicalgirlsasuke · 2 years

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shawn’s colour being green, gus’s being purple and henry’s being pink but since shawn wears plaid shirts, gus wears striped shirts and henry wears hawaiian shirts, they’re usually wearing something that incorporates each other’s colours <3333 i love families i love costume design i love psych

#psych #and the type of t shirt obv fits them so perfectly too #i don’t think it’s always utilised as a story telling technique but even when it’s just subliminal it works really well imo #it’s brill when it is used tho #i just watched s2 ep6 where gus is pretending to be the psychic to his uncle and at the beginning gus wears plaid and green #and shawn wears purple but for the conclusion when they find a way to riff off each other they’re both back to their own colours

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ivyithink · 1 month

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I just want to let you know that I am obsessed with the reverse AU where Claudia is the adult and loustat are the teens in the family. It's such an interesting idea and loustat look so cute in your art! Thank you for making it

Thank you so so much, I’ve very glad you enjoy both the idea and the sketches for it!!! I gotta admit I’m kinda obsessed with it too, I would LOOOOOVE to read some fics exploring this new, very different dynamic! And, like, it obviously changes the plot as drastically as everything else, but wouldn’t it be interesting to try and keep certain key moments unchanged somehow (but reversed), and then how would it end ultimately? The same horrible way for the boys that it ended for Claudia? THE ANGST POTENTIAL. But in a different fic I literally just want to see a much better functioning (because Claudia’s running things) (though it still would not be totally healthy…) vamp fam taking Paris by storm, stealing Armand’s theatre (would he still even have it, without Lestat in the picture??? see so much stuff to explore!) and enjoying life being two proud vamps + one still a bit on the fence about it all, but at least his family loves him and lets him read quietly in the back row.

Anyway, sorry for this essay, as you can clearly see, I’m also quite fond of this au, so 1. might draw for it again, nobody be surprised! 2. if you have fics with this idea — gimme gimme gimme those links, I’m very curious!!

#this is so unnecessarily long all I had to say was ‘thanks lovely anon’ but I have FEELINGS and THOUGHTS ughhhh #the whole charlie situation?!???!!? my silly head is full of ideas unfortunately for everybody (myself included because ouch it hurts)#we literally have the perfect moment for them to realise ‘OH NO I’M QUITE FUCKED’ but now you have two people in the same boat and you can #contrast their situations/realisations/ways of coming to terms with reality of their circumstances #because it obv wouldn’t just be the charlie disaster 2.0 it would look different for each of them #great way to include nicki and make it fucking HURT man/contrast it with jonah who at least stays alive but plays his role in delivering th #message ‘you’re gonna be forever 14’ to Louis… bonus points if you sneak in a line that he STILL IS actually a bit younger than Louis #it’s just that he gets to grow up into a ‘real man’ que the crisis of identity… meanwhile lestat’s too busy being wild and self-destructive #because his first love just killed himself AND because his own realizations are running after him biting his heels…#Claudia is starting to really regret wanting any children at all me thinks…#also I’m sorry for getting a bit dark when you specifically said you enjoyed the cuteness anon #you’re obv free to completely ignore my mad ramblings #interview with the vampire #iwtv #asks #cw: suicide mention

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trujellyfish · 2 months

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thinking too hard abt how this rise of "mental health" discussion still only seems to focus on the Cute and Quirky symptoms and still demonizes other mental health (personality) disorders

like my carefully curated tumblr space is fine, but everytime i get sucked into insta reels i inevitably see tens of different reels of the same 3 symptoms of autism/adhd

like im glad theyre getting this positive moment but it just kind of fucking sucks to listen to people talk about how they ToTaLlY have a "touch of the 'tism" and ur friends are sending u "relatable adhd memes" so u think u have a little more support and understanding but then u mention how ur struggling with self harm and suicidal thoughts and violent/disturbing intrusive thoughts and suddenly everyone's like

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whats the matter babe, my mental health problems not palatable enough for you? :/

#told a coworker that some ppl have intrusive thoughts like assaulting ppl #and his face was just like the emoji #'ur not a terrible person'#would u still feel like reassuring me if u knew abt the thoughts i was beating back with a stick?#like i could absolutely use a therapist #not for a diagnosis mind u just for. fucking. counselling.#bc obvs i cant be chronically relying on my friends to emotionally support me #they have their own stuff and emotional labour is a lot and i know that but still #sometimes i just feel like. fuck. like just.#could u just listen to me for five fucking minutes #and reassure me that im not a terrible person #and that everything will be alright #because i can tell myself and do self affirmations but fuck #sure would be nice if i felt like someone other than me believed that too #like i think i could rely on my roomie but she doesnt do physical contact lmao #and i could prob talk to my sis or mum but i would Rather Not plus they would probably cry #and i want someone who's gonna be calm about it hahaaa #dont ask if im back on my meds yet <3 #as unhealthy as my childhood friendships were they were also the most honest #we were Very Open abt how fucked up we were #unfortunately we just like fed into each other #but now trying to be honest just feels like a Fucking Joke #and not even in a 'trying to downplay so i dont cry' way #more like 'im not taking this conversation seriously Unless ur crying'#gods i feel like a fucking teenager trying to get ppl to take my emotions seriously again what the fuck #like sorry for being an emotionally unstable 30yo i guess?? are u really gonna try to shut me down abt it??#like who are u my father lmfao fuck OFF #like im fine with the person that i am!!! why isnt anyone else?? im not a child!!!

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jeanmoreaue · 4 months

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Matt is def hot. The tallest character in aftg and Nicky immediately is like omg he’s a snack when they meet, Dan had to be like back off slut 😤

thank you for backing me up on this you’re so right on Dan having to fight off suitors. if i had to pick an aftg that would be the best partner it would be Matt. he’s hot, tall, kind, funny, and has a slightly homoerotic friendship with an interesting fellow (Neil). Matt for president

#andrew and neil are perfect for each other and like nobody else #kevin.. no. he’s obv hot but he’s doing his own thing idek w him #jeremy would be a strong next contender ngl #he’d be a good boyfriend bless up jean #renee and dan would prob be good girlfriends tbh #this may be biased but i feel like jean would be a good partner as well bc he’s got such a kind heart #i think he’s gonna treat jeremy very gently and i love that for them #aaron is lowkey prob a good contender too LOL #nicky kind of pisses me off fr sometimes with the edging on not consensual #ik he apologizes to neil for lowkey (not lowkey) assaulting him and neil forgives him but it kind of turns me off nicky in general #the rest of them don’t get enough time for me to feel strongly one way or another i’m sorry #aftg #tfc #tsc

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balladetto · 11 months

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more things to say about speech, actually. link has never been able to speak "properly" but also never felt like it was something lacking on his part in kokiri forest. for all that mido hassled and ridiculed him over the lack of a fairy, his voice wasn't something anyone seemed to think to touch. that was just link. that's just how he talks. when they can still understand him, what did it matter? link knows what it is to be listened to — and to suddenly not be. to suddenly not want to be, if only so any judgement and condescension will be left out too

#* lionheart / study.#* intermission / ooc.#mildly low-effort copy and paste from disc but shh. only one person will be hit with deja vu is okay asflksjdgl #once again i am taking from the game re: background and honestly. mi.do's the only kid who makes a point of saying shit about being #fairyless sdflkfj everyone else is either pretty pleased on link's behalf or like. Whatever about na.vi. which i am running with alfdkjslj #he's Different. yeah. no doubt they say that. but i don't think it stopped him from making friends outside of sa.ria #in the sort of. the ko.kiri are their own village way. they look after each other -- even the designated 'outcast' -- because they gotta #obv sa.ria is his best friend. but they gave him a treehouse!!! ladder and everything! no graffiti on its roots but a cute little drawing!!#he was not unloved there. he wasn't :(#long tags cw

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