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covid-safer-hotties · 2 days ago
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this is no meant to be a hate ask. but you are like... kinda mean :( telling people "dont want long covid? dont get long covid". calling people who were hopeful of a possible cure for long covid "fangirling" (i mean if that post was misinfo just say so and move on? that felt like a really cruel word to use given the context). telling people "i dont care + not my problem" when youre told something you said sounded ableist and almost victim blaming. telling @/the-hypocrisy theyre so stupid should just kill themselves. i understand being frustrated and getting mad, but this all seems so far beyond that. its really not hard to be kind and treat people with empathy. and you must know in some regard that this way you occasionally act is bad given how youll delete things. and maybe you wont even publish this ask for that reason (not wanting others to think badly of you is normal! i get it!) and will ignore it. but if you do ignore it, i rlly hope youll at least try to lash out less in the future. i mean this blog is meant to help people isnt it?
Another one to file under "God forbid a woman do anything beyond customer service voice."
Like some of this stuff I straight up didn't do? If you think the only way to get things done is by rainbows and puppydogs coddling, fuck right the fuck off and make your own blog. Do your own activism. Build and populate your own fucking archive. This isn't middle school, and I couldn't really care less about the feelings of literal adults who get butt-hurt over one phrasing when I've got literally thousands of other statements to kinder and calmer effects sitting all over this blog. Telling people who don't have long covid to not catch long covid by masking isn't dismissing or hating on people with long covid, stupid. Go have a sensitivity attack somewhere else.
"Fangirling" is a new one to be called cruel, too lmao. That one's going in my diary. Get back to your Steven Universe criticism or whatever you normally do instead of cowardly attempting to manipulate me with anon messages. Have the guts to show your face if you think I have a real problem. Otherwise, you're as real as the sunglasses on that circle to me.
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ejudollz · 24 hours ago
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bottom fuma insanity
BEING ON HIS KNEES AS MULTIPLE HANDS ARE TOUCHING HIM?!?! STROKING HIS HAIR?!?!?! THE PRAISES?!?!!? he will never beat the sub bottom allegations. me euijoo nico and kei can take him
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my dick HARD AS FUCK! ohhh oh my god ohhhhuuuhhhhh fuckkkuuuhhhhh 😖 fuma with multiple doms... the ultimate switch from his usual demeanor.. i cannot be fooled.. im not falling for fuma ultimate dom propaganda no im not no im not..
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there mxm freak nasty stuff under this read more 🤠
thinking about fuma having multiple doms including you and the rest of hyungline.. he's the only one fully bare and he's being doted on by everyone. everyones praising his body, patting his head, running their hands all over him.. he'd thrive off of the attention, slight shying away from trailing hands that tickle his skin.. i feel like his nipples might be a little bit sensitive sometimes so i feel like anytime someone touches them you'd all be able to watch his cock twitch and leak. it's somewhat humiliating yet so invigorating.
kei would go at fuma without much shyness, probably the first one to kiss fuma and to really initiate things. fuma would be sitting there like the pretty bunny he is, nobody puts restraints on him cuz he's such a good boy, he holds his hands in place as if they're tied with invisible rope.. kei would lift fuma's chin just taking in his big round eyes and would place their lips together. kei would lead the kiss immediately, swallowing any of the little whines that fall from fuma's lips. euijoo's hands would wander curiously, finding all the little spots that get fuma going.. i think euijoo would have so many unintentional successes. his hand would go to fuma's side, gently brushing over his skin there and fuma would moan at the feeling.. so euijoo would try again,, only with more pressure now and fuma would react again 🤤 nicho on the other hand is sooo the type to keep playing in fuma's hair, pulling and tugging and patting him on the head, he'd run his nails over fuma's chest, scratching so gently.
all of the attention and all of the sensations would get fuma overwhelmed in the best way possible. you'd get to sit back and watch your boyfriend get completely ravaged by his friends and it's such a good sight to see.. i like the idea that only you're allowed to touch his cock though,, it's sitting there twitching and needy, super hard and red by this point but nobody's dared to touch. fuma would look at you through hooded eyes, body still being touched all over. he'd look so desperate, legs almost slightly rubbing together needily.
the sight in front of you is like winning the ultimate reward, four desperate guys.. three of them making your boyfriend feel like the most special boy in the world <33 before i imagined he'd be in a chair but he'd move to the floor when you're ready to play with him, on his knees just waiting patiently for you to say something. it's like the other boys are fully at your command too, they're all waiting patiently for your next move, makes you feel so powerful. fuma would be such a pretty and sweet sub too like ughhhh
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miscellaneous-mes · 2 days ago
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There is something so, so specific to me about growing up as a child having fibromyalgia, but not knowing it.
I always thought that the way my body feels and how sensitive I am to touch was normal, was what everybody feels. I couldn't fathom how many people were happy to take walks every so often, I couldn't fathom people who would do things like gardening or other stuff like that because I couldn't understand how they just dealt with the pain.
I would react so, so easily to just a poke because it hurts and my brother would shame me for it and scoff, like the idea that just poking me hurt me was so ridiculous and stupid to him and he was convinced I was lying.
Even when I'd watch cartoons and watch characters do certain activities, I'd just be thinking about how much horrible pain I'd be in if I had done them.
Idk, I feel like so much of fibromyalgia discussions are from people who developed it later in life, but I grew up like this (this is a neutral statement and not meant to be interpreted as downplaying the experiences of those who developed it later in life).
The more I think about my fibromyalgia nowadays, the more bitter I feel tbh. Especially when using my wheelchair. Even when I have a wheelchair now, I'm always devastated by being unable to do something because it's not accessible. Even going on walks through the forest trails are only sometimes accessible - can't go down a path if it's too rocky, too much dirt, too steep, and so on. Like, nature isn't even accessible sometimes.
I feel so angry and upset and bitter that I have spent my whole life like this, I just wish I didn't have any chronic pain. I wish I could go outside and have fun and do fun things for long periods of time without being in excruciating pain the entire time and the next week following it.
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coldwind-shiningstars · 2 months ago
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I know I keep saying this but I keep seeing it: stop being ableist in your anti-AI posts. half of the people I see reblogging these are disabled themselves and it makes me so angry! "I don't even know where chatGPT lives, I can make my own grocery list" great for you! I have no idea where it lives either because I've never used it! but also making your own grocery list involves multiple complex skills a lot of people do in fact have trouble with. writing a 900 word essay involves a lot of complex skills a lot of people have trouble with. writing professional emails involves a lot of complex skills a lot of people struggle with. yes, I assume most of the people using chatGPT to write their high school essays aren't cognitively disabled and most people making these posts are thinking about A Hypothetical Neurotypical Person Being Lazy etc etc but that doesn't matter, the fact of the matter is that thinking yourself superior for being able to write a grocery list is in fact ableist.
you have all GOT to be able to talk about this and be able to make your points without acting like you're better because you don't find these tasks hard. "I can write an essay without asking the lying machine 🙄 you guys are weak and can't do anything" good for you. I can dislike the lying machine and think that practicing skills that are difficult is an essential life skill without putting down people who struggle with academics etc when I talk about it 🙄 you guys are all being really ableist. skill issue.
the disability community here has SUCH a problem prioritizing certain types of disabled people, especially disabled people who are higher functioning linguistically etc, and it's incredibly frustrating when people who I know are usually good about this or who try to be good about this throw it all out the window when it comes to LLMs. stop it. stop.
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inkskinned · 8 months ago
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we were sitting on the floor and i was cutting out tiny pictures to make a collage for a friend's birthday. you were on your phone and you laughed about something, and i was still in love with you then, so i asked what had you giggling.
"sorry. i was just..." you took a moment and went back to texting. "i was telling someone about how you're afraid of the dark."
i'm afraid of the dark because something bad happened. "oh." i felt a little slinky of shame crawl down my throat.
you glanced up, and maybe it showed on my face, because you rolled your eyes and held the phone to the side casually so i could see the group chat. "what? was it a secret?"
i looked down to the scissors in my hand. "i just..." no, it's not a secret. it just felt like something private, something serious. saying why would you tell someone that just feels like an accusation. it's unfair. i honestly am not even ashamed of it, it's just a fact about my person that i don't usually share.
what a strange experience. is this a human thing or a generational thing? for our grandparents: did they need to worry about how quickly someone can just... share your personal information? again, i didn't even really have a true objection. what could i say? i want any person in my life to feel they can be honest with their friends. it's not like i said don't tell anyone this.
i cut out another letter to complete the rainbow happy birthday, started hunting for the exclamation mark. i heard you sigh dramatically.
"don't make a big deal about this," you said.
this entire conversation was a pattern for us, and this was when we got to my least favorite part of the pattern. i would get my feelings hurt in some oblique not-technically-terrible way, and then it would be making a big deal about something. you'd get frustrated for me for being soft, but i was born soft. you knew i was soft when you pierced me. it's one of the things that made controlling me so easy.
"i'm not," i felt my voice crack. the question came without my wanting. "why are you guys talking about me?" and why are you saying that thing? why not like - i'm telling them how you're generous and kind and pretty.
you let out this low, tragic groan. "oh my god." you tossed the phone away from your body. "there, see? i just won't talk to them if you don't like it."
the rest of the hour went the way it always went, between us: i said i don't actually mind if you talk to your friends but -, you found a way to call my minor expression of discomfort "being dramatic." you got upset that i had been offended. i ended up apologizing, even though i hadn't actually done anything.
afterwards, you picked up the phone again. after texting for a little bit, you snorted. "okay," you said, "but it is kind of funny you're afraid of the dark. i mean, when you think about it."
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namira · 3 months ago
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I have so much animosity towards whoever made 'gut health' trendy, so much you can scarcely comprehend. Like as a proud IBS warrior I am just like always going to be prone to stomach issues and thus always going to have people giving unsolicited advice about it but like literally every "gut health" tip makes it infinitely worse and when you are like 'actual medical professionals have advised me to limit my fiber intake' they will not accept it.
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uhbasicallyjustmilex · 2 years ago
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milfbrainrot · 7 months ago
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I feel like in the past the mix of this site being used for both activism and fandom helped contribute to a lot of unhinged politicized fandom discourse where yeah ofc there's a political tie to media but ppl used it as... a form of activism where it was given disproportionate importance compared to other activism discussions? Whereas now we're swinging to the opposite site of How Dare You Care About Meaningless TV Shows When Politics.
Like... we can have a mix of realizing there's more important stuff to focus on than shipping discourse in the world at large without also minimizing the insane doxxing and death threats behavior going on in fandom that people in fandom have to take into consideration to be able to do their hobby, esp given how those attitudes stem from irl political climates at times in ways that are telling to study. Hobbies are kinda how we prevent activism burnout also. Crazey how that works.
#Txt#I am also not immune to overly politicizing fandom#But also I use the site in the curated fashion one would use fandom dedicated forums in#So of course that's my focus here and ofc i process a lot here specifically thru a fandom lens#Ofc other people do too if you look at it in that way#So it's probably bizarre for ppl who do come here primarily for activism to see posts abt#fandom drama btwn posts abt the world being on fire#Ofc that contrast makes fandom stuff all look totally meaningless#when... every community has these discussions esp within curated spaces#It's not stupid to care about fandom bs that impacts me in fandom#And it is in fact weird to assume my posts here are a reflection of my understanding of the world and#a performance of everything I'm doing or not doing to help a cause#Just like someone who uses this site for activism probably has an irl club they're in#for a less stressful hobby. Or at least I hope they do#The difference is that's not under surveillance bc it's offline lol#And im sure clubs or whatever have their insane drama too that needs attention sometimes#Maybe I'm overly sensitive to these things as a person w health issues that make#my options for socializing fairly limited - so the specific brand of unhinged social shit#that happens in online fandoms does weigh more heavily for me and the tons of other ppl#like me who hang out here bc we don't have anywhere irl#But idk I don't think it needs to be an extreme case for there to be some basic understanding#of why fandom is like... important to people... and that other people on a site#where you can so easily curate ur experience are gonna be talking abt stuff#relevant to the way they've curated their experience#Barging into the crocheting subreddit like why aren't you talking about pothole maintenance in New Jersey#Ik tumblr is more mixed up but that's what this feels like sometimes#Specific spaces for specific things. What a concept.
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halfbaked00q · 3 months ago
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catboy ask anon here. sorry i didn't mean to make u feel bad!! saw a mention of ficlets in your bio so i thought u wrote fic. mb. dont let me interrupt ur vibing <3
Oooh, hi babes! Thank you for coming back and clarifying the tone/intent/context and yea like I acknowledged,,, it kind of was me being bitchy about it :') and also I think whoopsie it might have been a bit of a NOO THAT'S THE THING IM SENSITIVE ABOUT.jpg kinda thing lmao,,, also since I'm pondering self-reflectedly, ig I don't do well without context due to personal stuff probs (lets face it, it's the mother; when is it not the mother- but yea,, ig when I get not enough context I jump to *narrows eyes* is this a trojan horse...)
but also lol,. Ahhhh okay I see where the confusion may have come from!! Unfortunately lmao, I have nothing so realized or respectable as a ficLET to my name,,. no, you see but alas, the bio says ficBIT,. as in.. crumbs lol. I have like the leftover scraps of cake after you make cake jars. and sometimes I squish them into cake pops!! but often I just serve them up as is,. bone apple teeth <3 still yummy, I hope! but you are indeed spooning alternate mouthfuls of cake bits & frosting here lol
#asks answered#anonymous#oh and also addendum to the smalltext oversharing part. I think perhaps part of my defense mechanism is snark lmao...#which does NOT stem from a childhood trauma also this bit is going off the rails now#let's go back to the cakes metaphor- if we spin it. I am presenting a diy cake pop station!! but you could also just be spooning scraps#of cake directly into your mouth lol#there was something else I wanted to overshare while I had this soapbox...#oh yeah! lmao okay so. maybe I sometimes pretend I am posting this altruistically. for the love of the craft. but rly I am kind of#a fake ho about it and Im doing that *cracks an eye open* applaud me pls#yes pls it's free real estate the thots!!! but also attribution plsss#...how is this related..#o yea the. THATS THE THING IM SENSITIVE ABOUT. like. yea I have to tell MYSELF that there are various roles that are all necessary to#the fandom ecosystem. and that like the voice of Authority or Importance in fandom doesn't start and end with Author#of which I am Failing to Be Successfully. or at all :')#thats also maybe why I like. jump to being a bit defensive about it :')#this technically is a me thing ofc. but with the ask coming - from my pov - out of the blue & with no context to me. yea I let my demons wi#(very Bondian of me actually. smh (LOL))#okay enough off brand humor to try to dispel the situation. anyway yea. thank u and heart emojis back#it's all good I wasn't like UPSET upset I was a sussy ho abt it but like I externalize a lot of the negative stuff so I don't internalize it#and Im also a yapper lmao. but it does mean I can come off as more Worked Up about something than I am at times#but yes hopefully I didn't like. put YOU off or like scare you or make YOU feel bad/too bad either <3 im a sarcastic snarky bitch but like >#it's gucci it's cool we vibin here <3
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saecookie · 1 year ago
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the-lark-ascending69 · 1 year ago
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Still rewatching S1. Surprised by how hecking smart Hopper is, like dude is a talented detective. I need to make him Nancy's mentor in my monster hunter/comphet Robin AU.
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phagodyke · 11 months ago
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yeah I'm not gonna talk abt it am I...
#well thats okay. eventually itll come up naturally. and if not well. it doesnt make me feel very okay. but its not a big deal#and i guess ill meet ppl in the future who will curate a different idea of me and maybe therell be fewer misunderstandings#<- coward who CAN communicate to save their life but not in any lower stakes situation for their happiness n quality of life#we <3 repression n insecurity. maybe if i keep digging at the corner of this bit of the labyrinth with my spoon ill get out someday 😌#anyway.. theres my daily vague vent post got it out of my system#wanted to do it earlier but ended up not having much time after work n then called friends which was nice :^)#also i never have signal at work these days.. my boss has said shell get me on the staff wifi tho cuz i do need it for work reasons#its rare to need it for work purposes bc we all use work pcs n stuff anyway and not rly supposed to use mobiles in the lab#but yeahh.. god i have so much admin shit to sort out also gotta text family back before i sleep i forgot to earlier#its all good.. also my memory foam pillows turned up so i no longer have to steal my roomies extra one for my neck pain <3#ik she was missing it... not to sound like a creep but it was nice that it smelled like her a little. just familiar innit#we're always around each other so its just what being home smells like to me.. listen i have a sensitive nose 😔✋️#if we were a lot closer i would ask if i could sleep in her bed while shes away but we're not so it would come across sooo weird..#and i would feel rly weird abt someone sleeping in my own room without me there. well maybe not actually. as long as they werent snooping#<- guy whose mother used to go thru their shit all the time n struggles to not feel paranoid and distrustful when it comes to privacy#was thinking recently my ideal living situation w a partner would be separate rooms but we still share the bed sometimes#but not every night bc im a sensitive sleeper... but we can switch bedding so i can still smell them if i wake up in the night alone#like how new mothers trying to get babies used to cot sleeping each have a cloth or blanket and swap every night#so the baby is comforted by the blankets smell and sleeps more peacefully.. and momma finds it easier being apart from the baby too#sorry this is getting gooey and weird my meds have been wearing off the last couple hours im so sleeppyyyy 😭#well.... maybe everything can wait until tomorrow..... bed is calling..#goodnight everyone muah#.diaries
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youricariancarrion · 10 months ago
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i havent seen blink twice so i cant really speak on whether it had a sufficient trigger warning but seeing some of the people talking about it come to the conclusion that no sexual content should be shown in movies ever is making my blood boil
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sad-fool-i-guess · 1 year ago
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Currently fighting back tears because of something stupid
How fun /s
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mootmuse · 1 year ago
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the downside of subscribing to a substack telling me about US trans news: i now know about US trans news
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sadgirlautumn · 1 year ago
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(This is no one in our corner of tumblr I just lurk a lot of random tags) This is such an insane thing to say:
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Sure yeah you don’t have to spend every second of every single day advocating for Palestine but it takes 30 second max to double check which country is killing thousands of children. Why would you even admit that you aren’t going to make the effort to check what the internet decided take is completely beyond me. Like clearly it’s just a trend to you.
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