#and think this is being too sensitive and stuff

[covid-safer-hotties]

this is no meant to be a hate ask. but you are like... kinda mean :( telling people "dont want long covid? dont get long covid". calling people who were hopeful of a possible cure for long covid "fangirling" (i mean if that post was misinfo just say so and move on? that felt like a really cruel word to use given the context). telling people "i dont care + not my problem" when youre told something you said sounded ableist and almost victim blaming. telling @/the-hypocrisy theyre so stupid should just kill themselves. i understand being frustrated and getting mad, but this all seems so far beyond that. its really not hard to be kind and treat people with empathy. and you must know in some regard that this way you occasionally act is bad given how youll delete things. and maybe you wont even publish this ask for that reason (not wanting others to think badly of you is normal! i get it!) and will ignore it. but if you do ignore it, i rlly hope youll at least try to lash out less in the future. i mean this blog is meant to help people isnt it?

Another one to file under "God forbid a woman do anything beyond customer service voice."

Like some of this stuff I straight up didn't do? If you think the only way to get things done is by rainbows and puppydogs coddling, fuck right the fuck off and make your own blog. Do your own activism. Build and populate your own fucking archive. This isn't middle school, and I couldn't really care less about the feelings of literal adults who get butt-hurt over one phrasing when I've got literally thousands of other statements to kinder and calmer effects sitting all over this blog. Telling people who don't have long covid to not catch long covid by masking isn't dismissing or hating on people with long covid, stupid. Go have a sensitivity attack somewhere else.

"Fangirling" is a new one to be called cruel, too lmao. That one's going in my diary. Get back to your Steven Universe criticism or whatever you normally do instead of cowardly attempting to manipulate me with anon messages. Have the guts to show your face if you think I have a real problem. Otherwise, you're as real as the sunglasses on that circle to me.

[ejudollz]

bottom fuma insanity

BEING ON HIS KNEES AS MULTIPLE HANDS ARE TOUCHING HIM?!?! STROKING HIS HAIR?!?!?! THE PRAISES?!?!!? he will never beat the sub bottom allegations. me euijoo nico and kei can take him

my dick HARD AS FUCK! ohhh oh my god ohhhhuuuhhhhh fuckkkuuuhhhhh 😖 fuma with multiple doms... the ultimate switch from his usual demeanor.. i cannot be fooled.. im not falling for fuma ultimate dom propaganda no im not no im not..

there mxm freak nasty stuff under this read more 🤠

thinking about fuma having multiple doms including you and the rest of hyungline.. he's the only one fully bare and he's being doted on by everyone. everyones praising his body, patting his head, running their hands all over him.. he'd thrive off of the attention, slight shying away from trailing hands that tickle his skin.. i feel like his nipples might be a little bit sensitive sometimes so i feel like anytime someone touches them you'd all be able to watch his cock twitch and leak. it's somewhat humiliating yet so invigorating.

kei would go at fuma without much shyness, probably the first one to kiss fuma and to really initiate things. fuma would be sitting there like the pretty bunny he is, nobody puts restraints on him cuz he's such a good boy, he holds his hands in place as if they're tied with invisible rope.. kei would lift fuma's chin just taking in his big round eyes and would place their lips together. kei would lead the kiss immediately, swallowing any of the little whines that fall from fuma's lips. euijoo's hands would wander curiously, finding all the little spots that get fuma going.. i think euijoo would have so many unintentional successes. his hand would go to fuma's side, gently brushing over his skin there and fuma would moan at the feeling.. so euijoo would try again,, only with more pressure now and fuma would react again 🤤 nicho on the other hand is sooo the type to keep playing in fuma's hair, pulling and tugging and patting him on the head, he'd run his nails over fuma's chest, scratching so gently.

all of the attention and all of the sensations would get fuma overwhelmed in the best way possible. you'd get to sit back and watch your boyfriend get completely ravaged by his friends and it's such a good sight to see.. i like the idea that only you're allowed to touch his cock though,, it's sitting there twitching and needy, super hard and red by this point but nobody's dared to touch. fuma would look at you through hooded eyes, body still being touched all over. he'd look so desperate, legs almost slightly rubbing together needily.

the sight in front of you is like winning the ultimate reward, four desperate guys.. three of them making your boyfriend feel like the most special boy in the world <33 before i imagined he'd be in a chair but he'd move to the floor when you're ready to play with him, on his knees just waiting patiently for you to say something. it's like the other boys are fully at your command too, they're all waiting patiently for your next move, makes you feel so powerful. fuma would be such a pretty and sweet sub too like ughhhh

[miscellaneous-mes]

There is something so, so specific to me about growing up as a child having fibromyalgia, but not knowing it.

I always thought that the way my body feels and how sensitive I am to touch was normal, was what everybody feels. I couldn't fathom how many people were happy to take walks every so often, I couldn't fathom people who would do things like gardening or other stuff like that because I couldn't understand how they just dealt with the pain.

I would react so, so easily to just a poke because it hurts and my brother would shame me for it and scoff, like the idea that just poking me hurt me was so ridiculous and stupid to him and he was convinced I was lying.

Even when I'd watch cartoons and watch characters do certain activities, I'd just be thinking about how much horrible pain I'd be in if I had done them.

Idk, I feel like so much of fibromyalgia discussions are from people who developed it later in life, but I grew up like this (this is a neutral statement and not meant to be interpreted as downplaying the experiences of those who developed it later in life).

The more I think about my fibromyalgia nowadays, the more bitter I feel tbh. Especially when using my wheelchair. Even when I have a wheelchair now, I'm always devastated by being unable to do something because it's not accessible. Even going on walks through the forest trails are only sometimes accessible - can't go down a path if it's too rocky, too much dirt, too steep, and so on. Like, nature isn't even accessible sometimes.

I feel so angry and upset and bitter that I have spent my whole life like this, I just wish I didn't have any chronic pain. I wish I could go outside and have fun and do fun things for long periods of time without being in excruciating pain the entire time and the next week following it.

[coldwind-shiningstars]

I know I keep saying this but I keep seeing it: stop being ableist in your anti-AI posts. half of the people I see reblogging these are disabled themselves and it makes me so angry! "I don't even know where chatGPT lives, I can make my own grocery list" great for you! I have no idea where it lives either because I've never used it! but also making your own grocery list involves multiple complex skills a lot of people do in fact have trouble with. writing a 900 word essay involves a lot of complex skills a lot of people have trouble with. writing professional emails involves a lot of complex skills a lot of people struggle with. yes, I assume most of the people using chatGPT to write their high school essays aren't cognitively disabled and most people making these posts are thinking about A Hypothetical Neurotypical Person Being Lazy etc etc but that doesn't matter, the fact of the matter is that thinking yourself superior for being able to write a grocery list is in fact ableist.

you have all GOT to be able to talk about this and be able to make your points without acting like you're better because you don't find these tasks hard. "I can write an essay without asking the lying machine 🙄 you guys are weak and can't do anything" good for you. I can dislike the lying machine and think that practicing skills that are difficult is an essential life skill without putting down people who struggle with academics etc when I talk about it 🙄 you guys are all being really ableist. skill issue.

the disability community here has SUCH a problem prioritizing certain types of disabled people, especially disabled people who are higher functioning linguistically etc, and it's incredibly frustrating when people who I know are usually good about this or who try to be good about this throw it all out the window when it comes to LLMs. stop it. stop.

[inkskinned]

we were sitting on the floor and i was cutting out tiny pictures to make a collage for a friend's birthday. you were on your phone and you laughed about something, and i was still in love with you then, so i asked what had you giggling.

"sorry. i was just..." you took a moment and went back to texting. "i was telling someone about how you're afraid of the dark."

i'm afraid of the dark because something bad happened. "oh." i felt a little slinky of shame crawl down my throat.

you glanced up, and maybe it showed on my face, because you rolled your eyes and held the phone to the side casually so i could see the group chat. "what? was it a secret?"

i looked down to the scissors in my hand. "i just..." no, it's not a secret. it just felt like something private, something serious. saying why would you tell someone that just feels like an accusation. it's unfair. i honestly am not even ashamed of it, it's just a fact about my person that i don't usually share.

what a strange experience. is this a human thing or a generational thing? for our grandparents: did they need to worry about how quickly someone can just... share your personal information? again, i didn't even really have a true objection. what could i say? i want any person in my life to feel they can be honest with their friends. it's not like i said don't tell anyone this.

i cut out another letter to complete the rainbow happy birthday, started hunting for the exclamation mark. i heard you sigh dramatically.

"don't make a big deal about this," you said.

this entire conversation was a pattern for us, and this was when we got to my least favorite part of the pattern. i would get my feelings hurt in some oblique not-technically-terrible way, and then it would be making a big deal about something. you'd get frustrated for me for being soft, but i was born soft. you knew i was soft when you pierced me. it's one of the things that made controlling me so easy.

"i'm not," i felt my voice crack. the question came without my wanting. "why are you guys talking about me?" and why are you saying that thing? why not like - i'm telling them how you're generous and kind and pretty.

you let out this low, tragic groan. "oh my god." you tossed the phone away from your body. "there, see? i just won't talk to them if you don't like it."

the rest of the hour went the way it always went, between us: i said i don't actually mind if you talk to your friends but -, you found a way to call my minor expression of discomfort "being dramatic." you got upset that i had been offended. i ended up apologizing, even though i hadn't actually done anything.

afterwards, you picked up the phone again. after texting for a little bit, you snorted. "okay," you said, "but it is kind of funny you're afraid of the dark. i mean, when you think about it."

[namira]

I have so much animosity towards whoever made 'gut health' trendy, so much you can scarcely comprehend. Like as a proud IBS warrior I am just like always going to be prone to stomach issues and thus always going to have people giving unsolicited advice about it but like literally every "gut health" tip makes it infinitely worse and when you are like 'actual medical professionals have advised me to limit my fiber intake' they will not accept it.

[uhbasicallyjustmilex]

~ inseparable opposing images ~

[milfbrainrot]

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I feel like in the past the mix of this site being used for both activism and fandom helped contribute to a lot of unhinged politicized fandom discourse where yeah ofc there's a political tie to media but ppl used it as... a form of activism where it was given disproportionate importance compared to other activism discussions? Whereas now we're swinging to the opposite site of How Dare You Care About Meaningless TV Shows When Politics.

Like... we can have a mix of realizing there's more important stuff to focus on than shipping discourse in the world at large without also minimizing the insane doxxing and death threats behavior going on in fandom that people in fandom have to take into consideration to be able to do their hobby, esp given how those attitudes stem from irl political climates at times in ways that are telling to study. Hobbies are kinda how we prevent activism burnout also. Crazey how that works.

[halfbaked00q]

catboy ask anon here. sorry i didn't mean to make u feel bad!! saw a mention of ficlets in your bio so i thought u wrote fic. mb. dont let me interrupt ur vibing <3

Oooh, hi babes! Thank you for coming back and clarifying the tone/intent/context and yea like I acknowledged,,, it kind of was me being bitchy about it :') and also I think whoopsie it might have been a bit of a NOO THAT'S THE THING IM SENSITIVE ABOUT.jpg kinda thing lmao,,, also since I'm pondering self-reflectedly, ig I don't do well without context due to personal stuff probs (lets face it, it's the mother; when is it not the mother- but yea,, ig when I get not enough context I jump to *narrows eyes* is this a trojan horse...)

but also lol,. Ahhhh okay I see where the confusion may have come from!! Unfortunately lmao, I have nothing so realized or respectable as a ficLET to my name,,. no, you see but alas, the bio says ficBIT,. as in.. crumbs lol. I have like the leftover scraps of cake after you make cake jars. and sometimes I squish them into cake pops!! but often I just serve them up as is,. bone apple teeth <3 still yummy, I hope! but you are indeed spooning alternate mouthfuls of cake bits & frosting here lol

[saecookie]

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[the-lark-ascending69]

Still rewatching S1. Surprised by how hecking smart Hopper is, like dude is a talented detective. I need to make him Nancy's mentor in my monster hunter/comphet Robin AU.

[phagodyke]

yeah I'm not gonna talk abt it am I...

[youricariancarrion]

i havent seen blink twice so i cant really speak on whether it had a sufficient trigger warning but seeing some of the people talking about it come to the conclusion that no sexual content should be shown in movies ever is making my blood boil

[sad-fool-i-guess]

Currently fighting back tears because of something stupid

How fun /s

[mootmuse]

the downside of subscribing to a substack telling me about US trans news: i now know about US trans news

[sadgirlautumn]

(This is no one in our corner of tumblr I just lurk a lot of random tags) This is such an insane thing to say:

Sure yeah you don’t have to spend every second of every single day advocating for Palestine but it takes 30 second max to double check which country is killing thousands of children. Why would you even admit that you aren’t going to make the effort to check what the internet decided take is completely beyond me. Like clearly it’s just a trend to you.