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I work in software support at a university, and I promise that this is as systemic a problem as it gets. It doesn't matter where an undergrad is from, ALMOST ALL that I have spoken with have had an incredibly hard time even IMAGINING that basic computer software has capabilities beyond a phone app.
When my office decided to create a free-for-all tech course, we heard a lot of administrators talk about using it to engage retirees and mature students. But most of the support cases that we used to justify the creation of this course were about students 22 AND UNDER.
A 4th year bio major didn't know that she could organize her computer files! An 18 year old 1st year didn't know that he could type a website url into an address bar instead of googling! A GRAD STUDENT didn't know that Word worked differently on computers because she'd only been using it on her phone!!
I taught a kid to right-click today. He was a lifelong Mac & touch-tablet user. He'd been given a cheap chromebook for school, and everyone in his life assumed he'd be fine learning a totally different OS during his first semester at uni. He came to me nearly in tears because he thought he was "too stupid to survive university", and only started to calm down when I started googling how the fuck Mac keyboard commands worked. I don't know if it was seeing me (a "tech person") desperately searching for a Mac/Windows Rosetta stone, or the validation of me calling the Mac/Windows translation process "a pain in the fucking ass", or just that someone was taking him seriously when he said something was hard. Somewhere in there, HE found a youtube channel dedicated to Mac people switching to Windows OS. And suddenly his world had a bit of hope.
But it took this kid a near-breakdown and a last-ditch attempt to ask for help before someone listened. He was about to drop out, or fail multiple courses. He still might for all I know.
And it pisses me off that he thought that the systemic failure of our education systems was an indicator of his own intelligence. Technology is hard, and he deserved to be taught how to use it.
I still remember being in grade 6 and finding out that it was the last year the school district was offering the computer typing course. We - children no older than 13 - knew that it was a bad idea. We told our teachers to fight for the class. But it was cut anyway, and now I help adults a decade younger than me to figure out how to right-click.
I can't help but see the connection.
seriously, though. i work in higher education, and part of my job is students sending me transcripts. you'd think the ones who have the least idea how to actually do that would be the older ones, and while sure, they definitely struggle with it, i see it most with the younger students. the teens to early 20s crowd.
very, astonishingly often, they don't know how to work with .pdf documents. i get garbage phone screenshots, sometimes inserted into an excel or word file for who knows what reason, but most often it's just a raw .jpg or other image file.
they definitely either don't know how to use a scanner, don't have access to one, or don't even know where they might go for that (staples and other office supply stores sometimes still have these services, but public libraries always have your back, kids.) so when they have a paper transcript and need to send me a copy electronically, it's just terrible photos at bad angles full of thumbs and text-obscuring shadows.
mind bogglingly frequently, i get cell phone photos of computer screens. they don't know how to take a screenshot on a computer. they don't know the function of the Print Screen button on the keyboard. they don't know how to right click a web page, hit "print", and choose "save as PDF" to produce a full and unbroken capture of the entirety of a webpage.
sometimes they'll just copy the text of a transcript and paste it right into the message of an email. that's if they figure out the difference between the body text portion of the email and the subject line, because quite frankly they often don't.
these are people who in most cases have done at least some college work already, but they have absolutely no clue how to utilize the attachment function in an email, and for some reason they don't consider they could google very quickly for instructions or even videos.
i am not taking a shit on gen z/gen alpha here, i'm really not.
what i am is aghast that they've been so massively failed on so many levels. the education system assumed they were "native" to technology and needed to be taught nothing. their parents assumed the same, or assumed the schools would teach them, or don't know how themselves and are too intimidated to figure it out and teach their kids these skills at home.
they spend hours a day on instagram and tiktok and youtube and etc, so they surely know (this is ridiculous to assume!!!) how to draft a formal email and format the text and what part goes where and what all those damn little symbols means, right? SURELY they're already familiar with every file type under the sun and know how to make use of whatever's salient in a pinch, right???
THEY MUST CERTAINLY know, innately, as one knows how to inhale, how to type in business formatting and formal communication style, how to present themselves in a way that gets them taken seriously by formal institutions, how to appear and be competent in basic/standard digital skills. SURELY. Of course. RIGHT!!!!
it's MADDENING, it's insane, and it's frustrating from the receiving end, but even more frustrating knowing they're stumbling blind out there in the digital spaces of grown-up matters, being dismissed, being considered less intelligent, being talked down to, because every adult and system responsible for them just
ASSUMED they should "just know" or "just figure out" these important things no one ever bothered to teach them, or half the time even introduce the concepts of before asking them to do it, on the spot, with high educational or professional stakes.
kids shouldn't have to supplement their own education like this and get sneered and scoffed at if they don't.
#technology#there are no digital natives#software#gen z needs help#i mean that sincerely and compassionately#the education systems have failed these people#and we're going to have to teach them#i wish these people knew how much power they have in every piece of technology#but theyve been denied basic knowledge of how computers and websites work#and i cant help but think that it's intentional
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My Super secret AU were Airplane and Cucumber Bro live in the same apartment building but don't figure that out until the entire building and it's tenants get transmigrated into Proud Immortal Demon Way post realms merging.
It's super secret because the stuff that's interesting to me is the apartment residents banding together to figure shit out. If I wrote this we'd probably be 20 chapters deep before any known PIDW characters showed up, and Demon Lord Luo Binghe isn't showing up until after the retired electrician grandpa and the engineering students (apartments were near a college so there's a bunch of students in the building) have figured out how to make their own solar panels.
(Also this is secretly about giving Mu Qingfang a happy ending because his canon PIDW situation is Real Sad- he shows up at the apartment and adopts the small gaggle of med students and starts a clinic.)
(Also he might start a lil cultivation school because a bunch of the residents got brand new shiny spiritual veins when they transmigrated and they have no idea what to do with them.)
Ok I gotta stop talking about this.
#svsss au#pidw apartment au#like they got a ton of stuff to figure out#there's at least a handful of children they have to educate#they start teaching everyone English so they can talk about stuff privately#there's a token white guy who's transparntly my favorite OC from my original fiction#this is my AU I can do what I want#Shen Yuan is chronically ill in this AU so when LBH does show up he can make a big fuss over him#but first the apartment residents are going to find and adopt some other demons#cough TLJ and ZZL#and any wandering cultivators who seem nice#Airplane and Cucumber Bro do actually look like SQH and SQQ#which weirds out people who knew them#the apartment is at first still somehow connected to the modern world sewage and power lines#but the connection starts fading so the gang has to figure out keeping the lights on and the sinks working#they also start running a tea shop#and someone is smart enough to start propagating the non-native fruits and vegetables they have#this is the AU I play with when nothing else amuses me#figuring out the Logistics is fun#it will eventually be Bingyuan and Moshang but first the demons have to run the gauntlet of getting the rest of the apartment's approval#LBH: We're the two most powerful demon lords in the world. Granny Xue: But are you Nice Boys??? I have seen no evidence of that!
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with the bit abt noelle mentioning berdly saying she should get a crt, berdly being a gamer and the thing abt crts being good for particular games, i could see later down the line susie mentioning offhandedly around berdly that she helped re-home kris's old crt tenna to mettaton and him immediately trying to get her help trying to convince mettaton to let them hang out and play games on it at some point. maybe if mettaton's got the confidence for it i bet it'd be interesting for berdly to drag susie, noelle, and kris over to play games on that crt for a little bit
#salty talks#deltarune#deltarune spoilers#like. gamer berdly with an interest in using crts for gaming purposes finding out that there is a crt in his town. that's something#if i werent busy with the oneshot and lacking in confidence in how to portray deltarune characters id consider writing a fic abt like#just berdly getting everyone together and susie convincing mettaton to let them hang and even play video games with him on that crt she#n kris gifted him. like. i honestly think susie would be kinda stoked at the idea of that even if it means putting up with berdly.#i cant remember if berdly remember the dark world stuff so i wonder if susie would pull him aside and be like yeah we're all calling the tv#mr tenna bc thats his name in the dark world we kinda met him n all that. he probably thinks its cool that you wanna play games w/ him btw#like. seeing mettaton's improvement and confidence gain + berdly (and noelle) getting into contact with this crt for gamin#and susie having an excuse to check up on tenna so to speak and like idk kris just. being there for the games and also since they figure#for old times sake tenna might like to see them again just for a bit. based on him recalling stuff b4 the fountain. do you see my vision#im still ill as fuck over that tv rn n i remembered th combo of gamer berdly + crts being in demand for some games + that noelle dialogue#idk how deltarunes story is gonna go in the future chapters but i kinda just thought abt this and like. yeah#someone handing mettaton a controller ajd teaching him how to play whatever game they’re on
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how do the jones boys feel about recent subcore creation developments?

They haven't finished researching High Mechtech yet, so they haven't had any 'recent developments' unless you count the subcore softscanner they've had for a while.
When they do figure out ripscanning, I think Mechi (as the evil twin) will probably be fiendishly delighted at the opportunity for revenge on any raiders who dare try to interrupt his peace and quiet, while Kwahu (as the good twin) would have one or two reservations about killing people in the name of furthering his Mechlord aspirations. He'd still do it, though. He's not that good.
#asks#rimworld#gracie plays#A Mechanitor's Message#art#my art#traditional art#rimworld art#unpolished art#I look forward to having a handy way to deal with prisoners from permanently hostile factions#usually the Jones Boys release any prisoners#we're trying not to make tooooooo many enemies in case we need to befriend people for Archonexus Map pieces#but if the faction isn't going to appreciate us releasing healthy prisoners then what's the point?#scan 'em and build a centipede or something#much cooler that way#that'll teach them to come onto our lawn#silly raiders#thanks for the ask!!#have a fabulous day!! xoxo
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just got the funniest idea for a stream
#snap chats#ok hear me out you know how back in like middle/high school or w/e when the teach would wheel out the projector#and she'd put a paper on that and Project It onto the white board imagine if i did that with comic reading JVLEJAKVJ#i was thinking of doing this for the manhunt event. which i think ends this week no.....#SPECIFICALLY getting the projector out too no idc about reading off a site. we'll make this complicated#i wish i could read it live with yall thatd be so funny...#project that on the wall like 'class we're all studying this panel for the next thirty minutes. in this dark as hell room'#no itd be funny cause imagine having a lil laser pointer and everything. or one of them wooden pointers#'right here on this panel you can see the exact moment this plot goes downhill' vjEARLKEAJL#man that'd be funny. if only i streamed vELKVJAKL#anyway im supposed to be writing data down ssh ill go back to it i just need my government-mandated five minutes of stupidity#i just had dinner . happy premature st pattys day. so that of course also means my organs are dying#YOU KNOW WHAT MY MOM SAID THE OTHER DAY i take antacid tablets now and i tell her this#and she's like 'why dont you go to the doctor- you shouldnt self medicate :('#ok well 1.) It Aint That Easy Anymore You Wanna Remember Why 2.) what do you mEAN DONT SELF MEDICATE WITH ANTACIDS#ma'am if i die from antacids so be it im not coughing as much anymore my life is 2% less painful. for now.#whatever im going back to writing data down bye everyone... this is balls...
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I'm currently unsure whether I should be happy or stressed about the fact that there are only like 5 more weeks until the end of the semester - on one hand the summer holidays can't arrive fast enough so I can rest and have free time again but on the other hand there's still so much to finish within that time frame and ugh I'm just tired😵💫
At least today (or more like yesterday by the time I post this) I had a fun day, I went to a wildlife park with friends (a trip we've had planned since a couple weeks already), I'm sure I haven't been to the place in like a decade but it was really fun! I didn't think to take a lot of pictures of the animals, but here's a plush trout I got at the souvenir shop🐟

#idk why but I've somehow always had a weak spot for fish and other aquatic animal plushies in particular. they're just cute#also no joke it always makes me happy whenever I remember that as an adult™ I have the power just buy plushies for myself if I want to#even when my mum would've deemed them to expensive (which wasn't the case here this fella was like 10€ but like in general)#I dunno what this post is actually but I thought I could sometimes just talk about random things from my life#I don't have the energy for much else right now tbh. and it's my blog so I don't have to stick to a theme or just specific types of posts#I used to do this type of stuff more on instagram stories actually but somehow haven't really been feeling it the past months#better gonna go to sleep now though I'm just awake bc I'm stressing about an exam I have on tuesday#though I better should be rested tomorrow so I can use the remaining time to study for it#I'm just annoyed about it bc 1. the topic is company management which isn't something I'm particularly interested in#and 2. the exam setup is hella stupid. it's an online multiple choice test (which is fine) but you only have one try to answer each questio#and can't go back afterwards to recheck or maybe change your answers again#which just pisses me off because it's so damn stupid. like in literally every other exam situation the teachers encourage you to -#read through your answers a final time before handing it in. or just generally answer the stuff you know for sure first and then -#return to the questions you struggle with. that's nothing new that's literally the regular process to do it for exams written on paper#from what I heard it might be though because the professor of that course is generally kind of an idiot when it comes to teaching#we don't even know him properly bc we had like 2 classes with him and everything else was self-study#but apparently we're gonna have to deal with him in the coming semesters as well. yay ._.#okay this got a bit longer than intended but I needed to complain for a bit#selnia talks
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Star Queen Exyl
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#'ok we're going to make darvanshels wife. his wife he adores. whos smarter and more experienced than him. what should she look like'#'she should be 22!' REALLY? REALLY???? REALLY??? FOR REAL???? WOULD YOU DIE IF YOU PUT A WRINKLE ON A WOMAN?????#exyl#water#bf2#brave frontier#palette#she recieved a special education from an early age and is an astrologer for sama. her shit is kinda similar to mariela but with stars#instead of water. her first meeting with darv was watching him ignore and fight with his boss and she stepped in to give darv advice#and he immediately went oh ok:) and obediently followed her every word. king shit. shes also not good at housework#darv came to see her often afterwards for advice From Someone Smart (aw) and despite other people thinking he was stupid she#liked his earnestness despite having a fiance chosen by her parents (SHE MIGHT BE YOUNGER THAN 22....)#she teaches the kids of the royal family (i think her and darv were some number of decades before the god war so i dont think shed have#taught selena). she thought her current fiance was just going to use her magic and darv kept asking her parents for her hand#he worked really hard and rose up through the ranks of the army and her parents finally gave them permission. my god
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like as somebody who does invasive species management / removal in my free time i still think its so fucking stupid whenever people freak out about hybridization of an invasive species with a v similar native one like. ok you little eugenicist obsessed with purity. i think youre wrong AND an asshole.
#my fucking textbook was like WE'RE DESTROYING SPECIES BEFORE THEY CAN EVEN FORM#and im like. thats stupid as shit man#granted i want to do more reading about the subject but theres so much insane eugenicist shit in the literature///#like wtf is this obsession with 'purity' in the organisms DNA.#not to mention this is the same textbook that was giving credence to overkill hypothesis (racist garbage theory)#so like. ughh it is really all the way down all the way down.#pomodoriwhines#i have a lot of complicated feelings about invasives in general (not their fault people are weird about them) and 100% of it stems from how#xenophobic the attitudes are about them. I believe in empowering people thru land management tho so they are an excellent vehicle for --#--teaching. but yea i dont think they're ever going to 'exterminated' or w/e AND wanting that is incredibly short sighted. cruel. and wrong#like especially if the hybrid is even better adapted to the area than either of the parents you know?#you could make an argument that the hybrids might not be able to continue the relationships they have with other organisms but i think thats#extremely unlikely#esp as many species can adapt p quickly to small changes. not all of them obvs#but like/…..
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my whiniest most negative most exhausted seemingly not interested class when i say I don't think we're going to finish David Copperfield: noooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo
#teaching tag#lol#just goes to show you!#anyway we have a little over 30 chapters left#and I am still debating whether or not we're going to do it#i would LOVE to. i hate not finishing things. on the other hand. i need to teach them hamlet and finish that before christmas.#hmmmmm
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You know if your church has an attitude that child education is a waste of time because God and revolutions is coming anytime and the world's just gonna end so the children don't need to waste time to know math and that you need to train them up right they just need to study the Bible and love God your church is lit just a dooms day cult and not even trying to hide it
#just thinking about bullshit i went through as a kid again at that evil place#Christianity is a pox on humanity#like yes let's just not put any effort into making our children's lives better because the worlds gonna end we don't need to do anything to#make the world better or anything#that and oh we cant send our kids to public school the government will deprogram them from our indocrination and indoctrinate them with evil#worldy thoughts like it's okay to be different and it's not okay to be mean to people who are different! and because someone might catch on#that we're abusing our children and you knoooow the government just wants to take Christian children away from their families#and tear up Christian families so we can't let Bobby go to school where tattletale atheists might stir up trouble to pursecute me the#Christian parent who thinks it's okay to hit their kids#I'm not kidding i spent so much of my childhood afraid that I was going to get taken away because the government hates Christian families#like for real people mention CPS I get scared even though I'm a grown ass adult because that's how everyone in the homeschool community#talks and that's what they tell their kids they want their kids afraid that any second on the radio they're going to hear Christianity's#ilegal and we're all going to get shot I don't understand why you would teach a child that unless you were a cruel monster#I'm sorry but I would never teach my children to be afraid constantly yeah I'll tell my kids hey don't talk to strangers don't go#take candy from randos don't run off in the store don't stick forks in the microwave you know stuff like#teach my kids to keep their areas clean and have a direct path in case of a fire stuff like that#but I wouldn't have them terrified and my God Id want my kids to have the best education they can get my kids are smarter than me I am happy#comes down to it that I literally don't have any other skills or knowledge other than trad wife skills and i just wow#definitely need to educate your kids
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The fact that there was once a time where I was like, "being a theatre teacher is not for me. Alas, I must find a new path posthaste".
When I directed my first play in literally 5th grade and then got to middle school and was like "I think I want to do this for the rest of my life" is kind of hilarious, I'm not gonna lie
Like the kids ask me about my life path or whatever, and I'm like yeah this will be my 10th show I've directed, and I knew in middle school I wanted to do this forever. And then I have to be like - but worry not! For there was a time in my life that I was incredibly stupid and thought this was, in fact, not my correct path 🤦🏼
#like my students do not even want to be in my class#and everyday I wake up so happy because I love my job and it's the best job ever 😁#I'm gonna make them like my class if it kills me#honestly the challenge is part of the fun I'm not gonna lie#rubs hands together evilly#sometimes I think about teaching in some suburb where the kids are all super passionate about theatre and I'm like. where's the fun in that#the fun is when they try it for the first time and catch the bug#the fun is when they're all 😠 and then you make them play the game and they're laughing and having fun and it's like aha! gotcha!#and guess what? you also haven't looked at your phone in 20 mins!#mwuahahauhaha#and watching the students challenge themselves to get out of their comfort zone? priceless#watching a kid who has done nothing all year read aloud from the play we're reading?? priceless#the kid who ices me out at every opportunity finally finally complete a hard assignment in class?? boy I die!!#just to see them go from cold reading to growing as performers is so ✨✨#ugh sorry I just literally have the best job ever#recruiting a talented kid from class only to have him be TERRIFIED the whole process - he is ??himself at every turn& the audience LOVES him#I swear there is nothing better man#and even if ALL I do is give these kids a third space to goof around in - a place where they feel safe - that's enough#I am so honored to give them that space
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my therapist telling me i'm his point of reference when he deals with other trans patients

#��👈 it's an honor m'lord#i mean that + the fact that i make sure to always feed him the Most open-minded takes i can incorporate in conversation#like just today he was like ''i wanted to ask you about this i saw there were women growing beards and deciding to keep them''#and i was like. yeah that's a thing ! good for them ! if they're happy that way it's all good !#and he was like ''isn't it kinda weird though like they're really feminine but they have a beard which is usually masculine?''#and i was like hmm! not really ! it's just not something we're used to seeing so it can seem odd at first but it's harmless!#and he went Yeah you're right maybe it just seemed weird to me because it's unusual#and i like mentally went 😎🤏 got'em. teaching this guy to be okay with other people one topic at a timeeeee#in any case it's just. really cool to know that like... i'm indirectly helping other trans folks ?#at the same time i want to make sure he understands that My personal experience with being trans isn't universal#it's not ''This is how you trans'' like. what's working for me rn may not work for someone else and it's fine#so i always make sure to throw in little reminders that every trans person will want different things for themselves#some will need medical transitions some Won't some will need ''all'' surgeries some Won't some will need them done quickly some Won't#some will feel This way about their egg selves some will feel That way about their egg selves etc#simultaneously Yes please do use your experience working with me to work with other trans people#but No please don't think they are all going to be like me or should do things the way i did them
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*screams into the void*
#about tto start crying because I'm so stressed about school starting this week#and graduating at the end of the semester#And having to call a guy at work to set up a leave of absence for the semester#since I'm gonna have myahands full student teaching#and getting finger prints taken tomorrow for the background check for my student teaching position#And figuring out what I want to do for my birthday#(Cause I don't want to call my friend and be like hey wanna come to my birthday party pls don't bring a gift#Cause they will bring a gift anyway and that feels selfish)#I just want to hang out with my friends#Like maybe just ask a few if they wanna do like a girls night out and go get supper at chili's or smth#But also I don't want to invite too many people if we're going to a restaurant#cause more than like 5 people at a restaurant feels crowded and over stimulating#And i.have some friends who if I invite them I would feel like I have to invite their moms#cause I'm also sorta friends w/them and my mom is friends with them (my mom will also probably be coming)#And the two friends I'd normally just be like “hey do you wanna hang out on X day” are out of state at college#so I'm nervous about doing that with my other friends who I don't know as well
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are we really back to "oh you support (blank)? name ten people who (do/are) that right now or else youre lying for allyship points and everything you have to say should be disregarded". i thought we left that back in like. 2012 misogynist nerdbro culture
#i have seen it on two entirely separate topics lately and its like. hello?????#'if you cant name 10 trans authors off the top of your head you shouldnt be talking about trans issues full stop.#i dont think thats an unreasonable expectation for anyone wanting to engage in rational discourse' how about we all go outside#because like yeah i couldnt name you too many trans authors but given my transgenderismness i think i do in#fact still deserve a seat at the table. and i dont think there should be a prerequisite academic education level to be allowed to talk.#'but you could find them for free-' yes‚ you can‚ but people should still be allowed to a) choose what they read based#off of what interests them and not mildly-to-extremely dense nonfiction writing and still Talk About Their Own Lives And Have#Opinions#shockingly not reading a lot of one specific type of author doesnt prevent a person from having reasonable and valuable opinions#if youre not capable of parsing someones argument because theyre not well-read enough then that just imo means you dont actually understand#the things youve read to be able to give them a synopsis#this isnt school. we're not being graded. there is no required reading and you are perfectly capable of giving people an#explanation on your stances if theyre unfamiliar with them#i had a b) but i dont remember what it was‚ i think it probably was part of what i covered there that i thought was a separate thought#but yeah just like. idk you can just say 'hey i would really recommend reading xyz but to summarize‚ (thing that disproves them)'#it is not . difficult to either Explain yourself or‚ if that is not possible‚ Not be condescending to the person youre not willing to teach#for not knowing#ill stop there bc ive already done that ramble before but. yes#origibberish#edit: ok upon reread i got turned around and switched from addressing the less educated one conveying their arguments#to the more well read one#bc that was the b is i was gonna talk about both#yall get what i mean though just like. split it in half and flip it turnways
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#this is so mind numbingly exhausting i don't understand how everyone else seems to just do it?#it was such a weird day#started out in a good mood but then boss scolded these two interns cause of a mistake#and like he wasn't shouting exactly but he raised his voice and said so many things like you are so careless im suffering so many losses bc#bc of you outsiders are going to think i don't have a good team and i don't have control over my team#and how we should always note things down because we're so distracted and not serious#and how before going home everyday we should report to him what work we did today#i understand that he's being reasonable (maybe? idk) but it sounded so eerily horribly like my dad i couldn't function properly for an hour#why are men so similar everywhere#why am i SO scared i could feel the disappointment radiating off him and he wasn't even mad at me and i felt like a failure#which is so embarrassing like girl stop you are a 20 year old adult woman you will not cry at your workplace because an angry man triggered#your dad issues#and upar se there was a new intern at work one year younger than me and oh my god he was so annoying#like i talked to him first bc i pitied him like what if he felt alone it was only his second day but boy literally could not stop talking😭#like ok it's kinda cool that this senior di she trusted me enough to be like you teach him this project report this when ive only been#here for 3 weeks but bhai😭 he's so annoying 😭 i have newfound respect for the di how does she handle all 7-8 of us interns i would go#crazy and shout at everyone and tell them to leave me alone 😭 but she's so patient and kind and answers dumb questions 100 times#but she's leaving this office permanently from next month bc of her ca final :( i mean very good for her she deserves better more money#better work hours better office etc. but :(( she's leaving :((#as you can see i have both dad issues and abandonment issues so fun lol
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treating my family friends like my cousins has 100% improved my relationships with most of them.....like i can finally admit that theyre annoying as shit sometimes but i will still love them forever <3
#idk it took the pressure off and now i look forward to seeing them. yaay everyone wins#i have family friends i am friends with (+ cousin dynamic) and i have family friends who are just family. and are so fucking annoying.#and 80% of my blood cousins dont show the same level of care that they do towards me n my family so well#especially after having so many weddings over the past few years its like ok we're never gonna be FRIENDS but its you guys who are going#to like....give me away when i get married. weird phrasing but yeah. anyway my girl is getting shaadi'd next summer its all hands on deck#she's annoying as shit too but she was really there for me once so i love her forever and will plan her sangeet and teach her white friends#aaugh its going to be a lot though she's. a lot.
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