#antitruscum

[just-another-attic-dweller]

Anti-Transmed/Truscum flag

feel free to use 

[paramud]

[androgynousblackbox]

Reblog this if you are antitruscum and pro shipper

[discourse-is-just-a-pastime]

Fuck gatekeepers

I gotta rant and I won’t stay polit, might swear also, but I’m tired and a post surrounding it earlier kinda revived this annoyance I have.

Fuck truscum and exclusionist.

Like, really big fuck y’all, every fucking time I found a new part of my identity I was meet with a fucking brick wall of “You’re just cishet” and “Stop trying to be opressed”.

Discovering I was aroace? Really nice and I was ready to find fellow a-spec that related to me. Find a community I can be part of. What do I find quickly? A big middle finger telling me I don’t have the right to a community and that I’m just fake. What a nice thing, don’t you think?

Questioning my gender? I know from the start I don’t have dysphoria. Honestly didn’t went with all the shit and knew I was most likely NB anyway, just not sure what more specifically (big thank to the guy who helped me on a forum). This time at least I wasn’t taken by surprised, I knew I would be met with “stop playing the oppressed you are just a cishet snowflake uwu”. But still a fucking throw off when you are looking for positivity about a new identity you are less sure about and only finding people saying you are faking it.

At school I’m pretty open about my sexuality, although I still feel like sometime I need to prob around when it come to it or my gender, just because I don’t want backlash for fellow queer folks.

Found out there’s a queer group at my school, you know what is the first thing I felt i needed to do? Make sure they are a-spec inclusive. Yeah, fun time looking through their Instagram post to see if they are good with it. I guess they aren’t truscum either, but that harder to see without going to take a look myself (too awkward and shy to go see alone).

Went to get myself my first binder at a small queer center (was easier for me at the time, since I wasn’t sure how to buy one online in secret), and a little voice somewhere was whispering at the back of my mind “But what if they wouldn’t be fine with you being non-dysphoric?”.

I’m fucking tired of having those thought that maybe I wouldn’t be accepted, just because y’all asshole decided that you were the one dictating what is and isn’t queer enough. Well, when y’all aren’t fucking made because we are using queer for ourselves.

I constantly need to remind myself that most queer space around my are fully accepting of everyone, that tumblr isn’t reflective of what the outside world think, that the most toxic and vocal are always the one heard (and the positive one often just shut down or chased away). For fuck sake, even at the first pride parade I went there were a ace part to it.

This is to a point where online I often feel like it just more simple to say I’m queer just so people shut the fuck up and are left to their corner to wonder if am a “the right” kind of queer or not.

Despite doing that, I’m proud to by aroace and agender. The more y’all are mad about it, the prouder I’ll get just to piss you off; The more I’ll say I’m queer, because I am and you’re opinion ain’t gonna change that. Last time I checked I know better than anyone else what I am.

So fuck truscum and exclusionist. Y’all are an annoying bunch who created this small part of me doubting the acceptance of my own community.

Also, I don’t want truscum and exclusinist of any kind interacting with this post. Stay the fuck away, I’m not in the mood to deal with your bullshit that harm my community because you thought you could be the ones deciding what is and isn’t queer enough. I might as well just block you on sight anyway.

[r0semultiverse]

Hot take: If you’re trans, you’re trans

[darlingnonbinaryqueer]

i love my trans body

i love my queer body

i love my nonbinary body

i love my trans soul

i love being trans

[daveisverydeactivated]

can we try to move away from saying "kids calling themselves [nontraditional gender identity]" and start saying "people who are [nontraditional gender identity]” when stating that oh-so-common argument that “truscum should respect kids who call themselves [nontraditional gender identity]”? its started to make me uncomfortable how a lot of anti-truscum stuff is "let people experiment" instead of "let people exist"

i understand that truscum mainly target nonbinary kids and that your goal is to protect them, but you still send the message that being nonbinary is some kind of phase, when, for a huge chunk of people, its... not. there are nonbinary kids and nonbinary adults, gender non-conforming kids and gender non-conforming adults, and those kids and adults are seeing your posts, and theyre getting the message that there is no nonbinary past the age of eightteen.

and its not that experimenting kids shouldnt be respected and protected! they should. but you need to acknowledge that thats not all that the nonbinary community is. we are something strong and natural and beautiful, and we are something that will last. end of story.

[themadcapmathematician]

Stop believing transmeds when they say they accept nb ppl! Newsflash! They dont! They accept what they THINK nb people MIGHT be in some way they can find palatable! So what? Am i supposed to cheer? They still draw pictures of trans people with "alternate and colorful hairstyles" and "too many pride flags" and "weird clothes" they deem too gnc or not gnc enough! They still fearmonger about transitioning theft, about "wrong" transition goals that match up often with ours! They hate our community, our terminology, our identities, our pronouns!

They still go after people for appearing Fake in a way thats really just "not perfectly aligned with the binary trans narrative OR a very specific nb narrative we picked out for you all (if they remember that one exists at all lmfao)!"

So no, idc what they say, i care what they do, and specifically WHO theyre going after, and forgive me but after a while ive noticed a fucking pattern lmfaoo

[its-nyquilontherocks]

“you need a medical diagnosis of dysphoria to medically transition”

Uh, actually, I don’t. After this pandemic is over, I’ll be starting hormones. Before you ask, no, I didn’t lie and say that I have dysphoria. In fact, the first time I went to a gender clinic, I told them outright “I do not have dysphoria, but I do have euphoria”. My psychiatrist, gender therapist, and doctor all know this, and I’m still getting hormones. Dysphoria is not a requirement for medical transition, incongruence is. Sorry, but I trust the experienced professionals over some 16 year old dipshit who cites sexist studies that have been disproven for years and attacks perfectly harmless people.

P.S. No, dysphoria is not a simple disconnect. It’s distress. Quit watering down the term. Dysphoria is a mental illness because it impacts your life in a negative way.

[mogai-haven-blog]

Here’s a fact: If you misgender someone because you don’t think they’re “trans enough” or you don’t think they’re “as trans as they say they are”, you’re nothing but a transphobe through and through. There’s literally no other reason for you to intentionally misgender someone. Ever.

[foot-jelly]

you dont need dysphoria to be trans!!!

Hey uwu bois :) You don’t need dysphoria to be trans! Your valid no matter what, dont let anyone tell you otherwise. Its not about science, or MenTaL ILlNEss its about how you feel! Don’t feel invalidated because of truscums. Stay positive and Happy! UwU

[paramud]

i had this idea last night but now that i’ve made it i don’t know if it’s blatantly anti-truscum enough or if it could be taken as pro-truscum but anyways you don’t need dysphoria to be trans have a wonderful day everyone

[androgynousblackbox]

Can someone explain to truscum already that even if tomorrow “transtrenders/tucute/whatever the fuck they want to call them” stopped existing and every single trans person in earth claimed to have gender dysphoria and they all express it on very gender conforming ways... their parents would still doubt they are trans, simply because statistically speaking parents have a shitty history of recognizing the transness of their children and will always prefer to believe it’s a mistake from their child rather that they are not cis? Like I see a bunch of truscum being “I hate transtrenders because my parents think I am one” and I am there awkawrdly feeling bad, but also a exhausted “why the fuck is that the fault of trans people who are different than you” mood.  Your parents are transphobic and no matter how many “transtrenders” you yell out online, they are still going to be transphobic. I am sorry, that sucks, and I get it. But also, stop blaming others for it. It’s fault of your parents, not them.

[lnorns]

*shouts from the rooftops* I Am Male!!!! I am male! I swear to GOD I am Male! I am a HE! I am a HIM! The shape of my chest doesn't dictate who I am! The pitch of my voice is my downfall! I! Am! A! Man!

[darlingnonbinaryqueer]

https://medium.com/@hhunkin3/debunking-transmedicalism-you-need-dysphoria-to-be-trans-f50748143870

https://everydayfeminism.com/2015/08/not-all-trans-folks-dysphoria/

https://www.psychiatry.org/patients-families/gender-dysphoria/expert-q-and-a

just gonna leave these here :)

[endermansaystransrights]

New Game: every time someone says neopronouns aren’t valid get another pronoun set. Take two if they’re cis or call themselves a “cis knight”

Anyways if u use neopronouns u r very valid and awesome and ily