#anti-transmed

[boy---interruptedd]

The thing I find really funny abouts transmeds is that they blame literal children for the decisions of creepy old white dudes. Like I just saw a post that said (verbatim) "xenogender kids, you are making things worse" and I'm just wondering if the op actually considered the fact that they used the word "kids", acknowledging they were talking about children. Like bro lemme be real with you for a second kids experimenting with gender in a way you fail to understand isn't actually such a big deal. Like yeah i don't really understand it either but I don't fucking care. Liklihood is they're not gonna walk into some interview and say "hi I'm pumpkingender" and most of them (at least in my experience) are a ok with being called they/them along with xenos/neos. Accept that children aren't responsible for deep-rooted societal and systemic transphobia PLEASE. if someone is transphobic it is purely their problem and not to be blamed on kids who just wanna express themselves.

[drudeger]

just a general reminder, your radical queer inclusion isn't actually radical at all if it doesn't include critical analysis of things like history, particularly in regards to the history of exclusion against bipoc and appropriation of their cultures in the queer community.

critical analysis of this, and in general, are paramount in creating a truly radical queer space, don't forget that.

[kethabali]

transmeds are like "if u don't mind being perceived as a female that means ur a female" ok so if someone perceives me as a terrorist am i a terrorist?

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

what happened

[alien-insomniac-05]

I can’t believe transmedicalism exists

[izzye-girl]

Would you let me ride you Daddy 👉👌💦💦🤤

[sluttyvioletx]

Hey Mister! Are you letting me suck your 🍆 or you give me a back shot🥵🤤👉👌

[deandraxon]

Not to be that guy, but saying “I hate all men, including trans men because I’m not transphobic.”, doesn’t make you less hateful. Nor does it make you less transphobic.

You’re essentially saying “if you choose to express yourself in the way that makes you most comfortable, I am going to hate you. I hate you for a core part of your being that has very little to do with whether or not you are actually deserving of hate.”

Discouraging trans men from actually being men because they do not wish for you to hate them, is transandrophobia.

Being a man and/or being masculine is not inherently evil, nor is it worthy of hate. Men are not a monolith and treating them like they are is only pushing them into the “well, you hate me so why should I help you?” camp.

[hadeantaiga]

I would like every transmed to know they are wrong.

Non-dysphoric trans people are trans, and they can go on hrt. It will not "prove you're actually cis" or "cause dysphoria". It has only made me happy.

I have to shave twice a week now. If I was a cis woman who cared about facial hair, I think I'd be pretty upset about this change, but I'm not. I love it.

[textk4kira]

I've noticed a trend behind the use of the label "transsexual" vs. "transgender".

Oftentimes transmedicalists use transsexual to differentiate themselves from the rest of the trans community.

It's disheartening and quick frankly, appaling.

You will not achieve acceptance in a cisheteronormative society by distancing yourselves from the "bad" or "confusing" trans folks.

Transsexual is a wonderful label, and we cannot allow transmedicalists to take ownership of it.

[queerism1969]

[cynthicaster]

daily reminder that an identity does not need medical protection to be valued, important, and worthy of respect.

[izzye-girl]

Come take it off Daddy, Don't like having fun alone 😩🥺

[sluttyvioletx]

Would you turned over to give me a ride on the couch daddy 🔥🥵🤤👉💦👌

[thee-radio-host-is-a-kookaburra]

"real trans men want to go on hrt" "real trans men want surgery" "real trans men only present masculine" shut uppp omfg literally the only requirement to be a man is that you must be swift as a coursing river, with all the force of a great typhoon, with all the strength of a raging fire, mysterious as the dark side of the mooooon

[receivingtranny]

just saw a post saying that men shouldn't be allowed to become therapists because they *will* rape women/girls or at best... mentally ill women and girls *will always* catch inappropriate romantic/sexual feelings for a male therapist (not even gonna touch the flaming pile of internalized misogynistic shit lying within the later statement) and just...

what the fuck you guys.

like yeah fuck the "not all men" attitude that's just a fucking scapegoat abusive men love to say for why they never hold themselves or other men accountable, but actually *genuinely* saying all men will rape and abuse if they became a therapist does nothing to offer solutions that will actually make therapy safe for people.

because i'm sorry but i've had nearly 40 therapists in my life and unfortunately i've had a mix of really harmful experiences from both male and female therapists. the best therapist i had was actually nonbinary. the second and third best were male.

i've had both male/female therapists try to convert me to christianity and say my illness was god punishing me for sinning. i've had female therapists enable my father to continue being sexually/psychologically/physically abusive under the guise of "you're probably just being a dramatic teenage genderfuck" they didn't say genderfuck but they definitely thought my queerness had given some reason for why my dad should be the one to help "get me on the right track".

so i ask you radfem bioessentialists, in your utopia without male therapists, what's your solution for people like myself? multigender/nonbinary people who are seeking therapy, or *gasp* perhaps even schooling to become a therapist? do i get a female therapist because i was AFAB? or no since i identify as a man and have a penis now I must be planning on raping her so i'll need a male therapist. but wait, i'm AFAB and i identify as a woman so he must be planning on raping me. so another multigender AFAB person i'm guessing? wait but if i identify as a woman and a man... and they identify as a woman and a man... who's the one planning on raping the other in this situation? I just wanna make sure I know what to do here, being part man and all, is it in my nature to rape her? or is it his nature to rape me? or do we just rape ourselves all the time since we're both men and women simultaneously.

sorry not to sound like an asshole there at the end with the sarcasm, but like, i was human trafficked for several months and am now severly agoraphobic and even i'm not this terrified that everyone i meet is going to rape me. so idk man. get a grip? have some compassion beyond yourself? some critical thinking skills maybe?