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Eggs for Killie is over!
I award myself the 150th egg for all of the little bits of art. Thank you so much for inspiring me to make them! It’s been really amazing to see all the hard work and to truly appreciate the wide range of crafts and activities everyone can do. Bobbin lace? Shoemaking? Knife forging? Translating Irish? It’s genuinely incredible.
I also really appreciated the people who were taking a rest, too. Thank you for that as well.
And I SUPER, SUPER appreciate everyone who was going through saying encouraging words, leaving replies/reblogging with comments, or liking all these posts. That was also a huge outpouring of kindness and time. I saw you doing it (and tried to make sure OPs did too) and any credit for people feeling empowered? That’s for YOU.
I know for a fact that people were following each other simply because they spotted one of their people through doing this. Thank you for being here - and being brave enough to find each other! 
If you have a project you were working on specifically for this, and missed the inbox, drop me a message - I don’t want to miss you.
150 eggs x 60g (weight of medium-large chicken egg) is 9000g of eggs.
That’s 16.8% of Killie’s body weight in eggs.
I am planning to write a book about Killie and I think it will be very VERY funny to acknowledge every single username who contributed in the acknowledgements…
…. Because I am planning to throw them back at you.
Now rest up, everyone. April Fools tomorrow, we gotta make the REST of the website unusable.
#eggs for Killie#to be completely honest in the tags: this was also a lot of work and lost a lot of followers! the follower loss rate worked out at a rate#of 1 follower per egg. however a lot of them were randoms who followed and then unfollowed.#I only noticed because I was wondering what the heck was going on.#I am not interested in having followers and I am far more interested in YOU and YOUR WORK#but just to be real about this kind of thing because the other side of creativity and bravery and encouragement and support#and to be quite frank - visibility and attention - is that you WILL annoy people!#and that is also perfectly okay and part of the bravery of the process - putting stuff out there and sharing it knowing that its purpose#is NOT to be Loved By All. It is to CONNECT you with other people who will UNDERSTAND you#not to grovel for clout from people who aren’t really interested. we don’t make things to be liked by bots. we make them to find each other.#so this tag essay is here to explain the other side of the courage and determination of egginess really. this is why I do stuff on tumblr.#this is why I enjoyed this so much. this is the political manifesto behind EVERYTHING I make and do really.#this is not for everyone. it would be worse if it was. but if it’s for you? come take a seat.#-#and also to be fair this definitely probably made your dash unusable#and I’m sorry.#and my own sibling wanted to snooze me. you are in excellent company (my sibling.)#but yeah. thank you. this was fun.#be kind to yourselves and each other!
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Have a ~classic~ meme to round this year!

#rusty lake#rusty lake paradise#david eilander#jakob eilander#meme#wishing you all a happy new year!#at first I wanted to write ''may 2025 be kind to y'all''.. but you know what I'm tired to put faith in some numbers that mean so little#take care of yourselves and each other#do not harm and take no shit#and most of all be kind#we all gonna need that
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If you know what this is from without looking in tags, I love you so much
Anyway I got reminded of this movie recently cause it just feels like there’s not enough of praise and artwork for it. I think the lesson can be applied to a lot of what’s wrong with the current world. No one is a villain, we all belong to this earth. I hope people take that to heart cause that’s all I want my message to the world to be is: be kind to everyone, even if you disagree with them.
#i love this movie#be kind to everyone#be kind to each other#be kind to others#be kind to yourselves#nimona#nimona movie#shapeshifter#nimona ballister#ballister boldheart
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Hey Good Omens fandom. While I’m not in a full ptsd triggered state, my nervous system is still sometimes misfiring. So I’m going to make a different kind of post.
This has been my safe space the past year to really get into exploring my identity and sexuality. Because while Good Omens has changed my life, all the fanart, fanfic, people on here, you’ve all done so as well. And big special thank you to anyone who wrote or shared a fanfic with asexual romantic characters because those are really what helped me understand myself. (I’ll link some of those under a cut!)
I encourage everyone feeling in anyway impacted to practice self care. Try to take a break from everything whenever you need it. Here’s some positive self care things I did today:
-redid my nails and did a hair mask
-did yoga, and for the first time since my endo surgery my abdominal scar tissue spot only felt kinda like a pull, not stabby pain!
-did some online shopping because I’ve been gradually trying to make my wardrobe more “me.” (Kinda with the identity, for a long time I kinda just assimilated myself to either my relationship or my location due to fear of not fitting in and I stopped caring about that this year)
-sat by the pool and started to read a new book and the main character is nonbinary aroace. There is so much diversity and representation in it which is beautiful to see.
-I studied. (Yes that is self care! There’s actually a low chance I’ll pass, but if I do, it will let me move. I even have job offers pending my passing)
-I’m about to go to my town’s only gay bar with a friend for happy hour
Reaching out with compassion and love to anyone feeling hurt, anyone who was triggered, anyone who is angry, anyone who is confused. Please take care of yourself 🖤
In case anyone else needs some ace fic recs!
Live In Thy Heart, (Maybe?) Die In Thy Lap by larkthorne (E) note the smut is kinda not skippable in this, it plays a big role in Crowley’s realization that he’s asexual
Ships in the Night by tishae (G)
Big Name Feelings by ghostrat (E) the smut in this is skippable
An update regarding that post of mine that was reblogged
#good omens#good omens fandom#please be kind to each other#please be kind to yourselves#fanfic rec#good omens fanfic
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Given today's news, I feel like I should put this out there:
"Liam Payne was one of/my favorite member in One Direction and was a big part of my childhood, so a part of me is sad that he's gone and I'm sad that he passed the way he did"
and
"Liam Payne did a lot of terrible things that hurt a lot of people and as sad as his sudden death is, it doesn't absolve him of his actions for me"
are two ideas that can and should mutually coexist with each other.
Liam did awful things and ended up hurting people with his actions, but I know he was also a part of a lot of people's childhoods when it came to music and boy groups and was a favorite member to people (me included) and was considered a safe place for others. So it's completely understandable to have mixed emotions or even just genuine sadness at him dying so tragically.
So please, don't feel guilty for having mixed feelings about this. Just feel how you feel and take care of yourselves.
#one direction#directioners#1d#liam payne#news#celebrity news#I know this is a complete shock#my whole two timeline is asking the same questions#I just don't want to see anyone feeling guilty for feeling bad about feeling certain things about this man's death#it's okay to be confused#it's okay to be shocked#it's okay to be sad for the man who was once your idol#it's okay to feel bad for the way that he died#it's okay to feel conflicted given all of the things that he's done since 1d broke up#as long as you're not going after certain people#or blaming certain people for Liam's death#or coming after people for rightfully questioning his actions or just not grieving him the way YOU feel they should#then it's fine#just be kind to yourselves#AND each other#not tying to sound like a preacher or anything#I just know how things can get
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bamhee this, bamhee that. fuck, tae should learn how to be a person without a partner before planning a whole ass thing to get back with his ex who cheated on him with the hot supervisor.
#the trainee#the trainee the series#i kind of saw this coming tbh but pls pls teach these very young people some self love#tae and bamhee are not good for each other and it's fine bc they are young and it's their first relationship#but my dudes be respectful of yourselves
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i did think about richard siken saying there's no such thing as unrequited love, just unrequited desire for probably longer than i should've, but idk. feelings are complicated. 'unrequited' is complicated. i've never felt so consistently failed by language before...
#realizing in hindsight that we made some kind of crazy promises to each other in march/april that have been hard to follow through on#bc they're just hard. scary. involve a lot of vulnerability and trust and trusting in both chance and each other#i feel like i'm not old enough for it lmao. i was naive about the effort it would take to stay open about myself#much harder than staying open about him! because i find it easy to care about him#and i find it much harder to care about myself.#but i am finally understanding why the attitude you have towards yourself is so important when it comes to things like this...#because the thing that lies between you and the other person is made up of how you see them and how they see you and how you see yourselves#and what you see when you look out together. and any part of it being held back because it's full of guilt and shame and self hatred#just fucks it all up. puts pressure on everything else.#which is a terrible realization but yknow. infinitely valuable to know for the rest of my life. just terrible to contend with.#a tag
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i have met god (watched the cinderella’s castle digital ticket) and will be posting/reblogging about it with spoiler tags
#just a heads up#this blog will no longer be spoiler free but spoilers will be tagged rest assured#love y’all#tag your spoilers#don’t bootleg from independent companies#be kind to yourselves and each other <3#cinderella's castle#cc#starkid cc#starkid cinderella's castle
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Doctor Beverly Crusher @SpaceDocMom I'll always defend the medically vulnerable against the selfishness of the health-privileged regardless of how the health-privileged feel about it. Eventually the privileged folks are likely to join the vulnerable group and be glad I'm defending them at that point. emojis: black heart, blue heart, masked x 5 3:06 PM · Mar 28, 2024
#star trek#doctor crusher#star trek the next generation#star trek memes#star trek tng#kindness#support#care#compassion#disabled lives matter#medically vulnerable lives matter#chronic illness#the pandemic is not over#masks are variant proof#mask up#protect each other and yourselves#doctor's orders
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Hey if we could have less nonsense that would be great I don't want my friends to leave
#I don't even want to get into this shit but like#Can we PLEASE be fucking kind to each other???#If something is overwhelming or upsetting consider taking a walk or talking to a friend and not being hateful to people online#Like obviously I understand if people have to take breaks for mental health or don't want to write for the fandom anymore#But I hate the idea of anyone getting *driven away*#Like grow the fuck up! Get over yourselves#There are people behind the screens that we should be considerate of
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This is funnier without context so: to Chilchuck, what does Laios Touden smell like, you think?
I think probably just Bloke! man! Varying levels of unwashed! Coworker-coded
#in weasel heart I think they have to pretty much be hugging to be more specific and possibly may only notice#specific signatures among their own people? but I think it would be fair enough to play with that a bit more#the idea of pheromones in weasel heart was to give half-foots an extra dimension of human experience that is reasonably reality-locked#but gives a sense of being a different kind of human with a different lens on the world. and a mechanism#by which they can share moods and intuitions allowing to build on the theme that their strength is each other#hold hands. make yourselves look bigger. hold on to each other. a village isn’t the place it’s the people.#so the actual sense of smell thing should operate in whatever matter serves the story.#and weasel heart is a completely different beast to any of the canons it’s making out within#I am handing my answer back to you. yours maybe different and better.#weasel heart in defiance
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If leander "good" end is him dying (breaking free from his fucked up cycle), then imagining MC having to mourn and live on without him
#I LOVE PAIN!!!!!!!!!!#redstrewn talks#THATS THE PROBLEM WITH FLOWERS THEY DONT LAST LONG AAAUGGGGHHHHHHH#THE TIME WITH YOU MAY HAVE BEEN SHORT BUT IT WAS WELL WORTH IT#TRAGIC HERO CODED. HE MUST DIE.#hey what i love is forever unrequited love. bc i love torture#there are bad ends where you have each other but its like obviously not good. yeah it can be sexy but obviously the toxicity of the#immortal endless bad end “loveWillNeverEnd” still remains as a toxic kind of thing. yes sexy but still fucked up and “incomplete” feeling#you have each other but at what cost? something is missing#for completion to break out of the cycle. finality of death. freedom from the torment of eternity.#UNREQUITED LOVE HE MUST DIE#idk im talking out of my ass i just love pain#in the idea of “loveWillNeverEnd” you are TRAPPPED. TRAAAPPPED INA CYCLE.#neither of you are complete. you are both holding each other BACK. there is all this space for growth SCREAMING at you both that youve#locked yourselves from#I WANT TO CRY AND I WANT HIM CRYING#FOREVER SEPARATED BY A BARRIER OF SOMETHING MISSING OR DEATH.#Hes long overdue for death i think. Running away from it. Death is catching up. Death will find him. He must let go.#AAARGHHRBRH you must embrace loss or that youve lost#idk wtf im talking abt i just want his route to DESTROY me
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good morning! new monday new start to the week, i hope everyone is doing well & im wishing everyone luck and love per usual. you’ve got this, we’ve got this!
#it’s not feeling like a good day#so i might be a little quiet#not sure if it’s social battery or sickness but yeah#be kind to yourselves & each other out there!#rambling nonsense / ooc
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💚 Mental Health Matters Badges, for Mental Health Awareness week in May
#mentalhealthmatters#wellbeing#endthestigma#mentalhealthawareness#badges#ukhandmade#koolbadges#shopsmall#buttonbadges#bbloggers#25mm#badge#pins#craft#buttons#handmade#badgemaker#you got this#be kind to yourself#be kind to your mind#be kind to each other#be kind to others#be kind to yourselves#love yourself#mental health#end the stigma
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What’s something that cheers you up or makes you happy ??
For me it’s going outside and being surrounded by nature makes me feel so safe and content
#question and answer#questions#hopeful#peace love unity respect#community#peace and love#hope#spread love#hopecore#happiness#spread happiness#love not hate#happy news#answered#what makes you happy#think postive thoughts#spread positivity#spread kindness#spreadjoy#togetherness#take care of each other#take care of yourselves
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adorable sparkly people in my electronic device i love you very much i wish you sweet dreams and warm morning sun
#sorry for losing my temper over nonsense earlier and generally being a sad girl lately#seeing fragments of badness on the dash again please be kind to yourselves and each other#ilu all#jess.mess
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