#behelp

[biographiness]

Words have power; use them wisely!💭✨

[thecpdiary]

Learn to be a Support

When I tell others I have autism they usually say ‘sorry,' but you don't have to be sorry, it's what I get to deal with, you don't have to apologise. We all deal with something. I am okay with it… it has opened more doors than it has closed. But please be a support because I deal with difference. With autism I think and interpret the world differently. Do I wish I’d had more support? Yes, but what I have learned is that I need to continue to focus on the things that allow me to ‘be me’ and worry less about what others think about me and what I deal with. I have a disability that encompasses, a physical, mental and emotional disability. Does that make me different? Yes. Does the fact that I deal with difference change the status quo? Yes. Not everyone understands (or wants to understand) and if they do they forget. I don't look disabled and that tends to work against me. Is it an issue? Yes, it’s more of an issue than it’s not. The world and those close to us need to work with difference and allow us to thrive through ‘difference’. Do people need to change their attitudes to allow us to be ‘different?’ Yes... and if the shoe were on the other foot, others would expect us to do the same. Can people change? Absolutely they can. Like everything, they have to want to. Have I changed? Yes. Through 12 years of writing for The CP Diary, I have spiritually and emotionally grown. Do I see the world differently? Yes, I see everything differently. I don't have a normal thinking. Yes, my lifestyle has changed to reflect my spiritual values. My blog helps others to change. Can others change? Yes, through spending time reading and absorbing my literature, they can change. Not all disabilities are obvious, or visible... be accepting, be kind, be supportive, be patient, be understanding, we're doing our best.

So why not pick up a copy of my books Cerebral Palsy: 'A Story' or Spirituality, Healing and Me,' you can order Kindle or paperback copies on Amazon, and through the following link https://linktr.ee/Ilana_Estelle

For more inspirational, life-changing blogs, please check out my site https://www.thecpdiary.com

[zonspeedofficial]

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[ikeallen]

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[toppatturmoil]

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[clarissaxrose1212]

#PraiseGod #PraiseTheLord #GodIsGood #Christian #Love #LoveGod #LoveJesus #LoveEveryone #Faith #Hope #BelieveInGod #BelieveInJesus #HelpOthers #DoGood #BeHelpful #BeKind #BeLoving #Pray #GiveThanksToGod #Repent #Forgive #BibleQuote #ChristianQuote #Quote #BibleVerse #Acts20v35 #KJV #🙏 #❤️ #🙌 https://www.instagram.com/p/CleWF4dJuCZ/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[nasreenscape]

No1 is perfect in this world 🌎. So stop judging others...You might not be aware of the problems, situations and pain #bepositive✌ #behelpful #lessjudgementmorelaughter #spreadkindness #standforsomething #behumble #behuman #feelblessed😇 #gratitude🙏 https://www.instagram.com/p/ClIyoePtK3s/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[scarahours]

The exact number is: 4334

Of what 😰

[ssaalexblake]

I also need to be stopped because I was gonna buy a usb disk player for the new laptop and i am considering a bu-ray one because those dw steelbooks taunt me 

[carolrego-blog1]

#Repost @behelp.oficial (@get_repost) ・・・ 💥💥EXPLOSÃO TOTAL!!!💥💥 Nós chegamos e já estamos batendo recordes! Ainda na idealização do projeto já fomos chamados de “A onda azul da solidariedade”, pois trouxemos para vocês a maior união de empreendedores já vista! Através da rede inteligente baseada em solidariedade e do nosso slogan já consolidado, “A caridade nunca falha”, onde temos como um dos principais objetivos angariar fundos que serão destinados à instituições de caridade no país todo, JÁ SOMOS SUCESSO TOTAL! Agora a “onda azul” já se transformou em “tsunami do bem”! Já estamos em TODOS os estados do Brasil e em mais de 10 países, JÁ SOMOS MAIS DE 8 MIL afiliados em menos de 36 horas! E você, gostaria de fazer parte da transformação na vida de milhares de pessoas? Vem com a gente! Vem fazer a diferença! ➡️link na bio⬅️ #marketingmultinivel #mindset #multinivel #mmn #marketingderede #behelpclub #behelp #empreendedorismo #caridade #sucesso #solidariedade #network #networkmarketing #mindset #business #forex #coaching #negocios #blockchain #gopro #foco #criptomoedas #objetivo #ecommerce #responsabilidadesocial #açaosocial https://www.instagram.com/cheftrilheira/p/BwkY07BFuM1/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=pwgiqfbzgbgv

[zinaondemand]

National Daughter Day. You Are The Reoson Why I Want To Be A Better Person You Are The Reason Why I Continue Fighting Against The Adversities Of Life God Has Giving Me The Power To Be Who I Want To Be And All I Want To Be Is The Best For You LOVE U Little Princess (ZINA)❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 #daughtersarethebest #knowledgeispower📚 #educationmatters #behumbleandkind #metoomovement #fightagainstracism #beabetteryou #shareyourstory #helptheworld #beavoice #speakitintoexistence #speakyourtruth #behelpful #belovely #bethebestofyou #overcomeobstacles #overcomefear https://www.instagram.com/p/CURKzfJFoqr/?utm_medium=tumblr

[lostinpeacesoothingemotionsnj]

A true act of goodwill, always sparks another.

Quote from KLAUS.

[thebeesneezmom]

🌿 You are not a storehouse; you are a distributor. 🌿 Influence is an entrustment. 🌿 Everyone has the capacity to influence. 🌿 The more reach one has, the greater the opportunity. 🌿 When we understand that capacity and opportunity are gifts from God, we can take our focus off of our circumstances and let God work through us to positively impact others. 🌿 Never before has there been a greater opportunity to be a positive influence. 🌿 The entire world is experiencing the same pandemic. 🌿 What capacity and opportunity to influence, has God entrusted into you care? . . .🐝🌻💛Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters, (Colossians 3:23) . . .🐝🌻💛And we know that all things work together for good to them that love God, to them who are the called according to his purpose. (Roman's 8:28) . . . #bekind #behelpful #influence #opportunity #responsibility #pandemic https://www.instagram.com/p/B_h1FcmlqYm/?igshid=e462e97dbyd7

[gymquotesco-blog]

In the end what matters most is what's on the inside. ✖️ It doesn't matter how fit you are, how ripped you are, how massive you are, the size of your chest, biceps or how toned your body is if your inside is ugly AF. 👉 I don't give a shit how many followers you have or how many adores you for the way you look. ✖️ How you treat others, how much you help others, how friendly you are, how much love you give, how you good make those around you feel and overall how good a person you are is what matters the most! 🙏🏻 Every single day I see people who are fit AF, but lack that other very important thing on the inside. People who are incredibly superficial AND who look down on pretty much everyone else. 👉 Your outside don't matter at all if you don't have something REAL on the inside. Just my 2 cents. 🙏🏻 Like and share if you agree. 👍 #treatpeoplewithkindness #beagoodperson #bekind #behelpful ✖️ @gymquotes.co #gymquotes https://www.instagram.com/p/BqH0-70hcN3/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=qf5a52ja66jt

[altering-perspectives]

Chronic

Y’all, I have a chronic illness.  I didn’t choose it, wish for it, or want it.  I’d prefer to not spend tens of thousands of extra dollars.  I’d happily give it away to whomever wants it, they’re more than welcome to it.  I had a lunch today with a friend and I swear she is literally like the twin version of me (so funny how that works).   I sat there and we chatted, talked, cried, laughed.  Most of all, we were just there to support one another.  As we talked and I was thinking about things – life in general amongst them, there is one thing that kept coming up to me.  Something that I keep running in my head over and over.  It is the one thing that troubles me and it is when someone doubts themselves or their innate goodness because of other people.  It breaks my heart when I see countless stories of people searching for help (medically or otherwise) with no avail.  So when I have people who get mad that I discuss my illness and the shit I went through, I really want to punch them to be honest (read on for why & I wouldn’t really).  Almost ALL of the people I speak to, who reach out to me, have many members of their family that don’t understand and most importantly DON’T support them.  Compounding that is the fact that they are having trouble finding answers from our medical system and the costs those answers require.  These people who desperately need help can’t find it!!!  Think about that – people in need of help desperately but they are turn away or shuffled to doctor after doctor.  To make matters worse medical professionals, family, and friends all tell them they’re crazy or making it up (it’s a vicious cycle & it’s painful to watch).  

These people aren’t crazy, they in need of help, and yet they get doors slammed in their faces and people telling them that it isn’t real that they’re not sick.  I can promise you that every one of these people would gladly trade with you.  Hands down.  These people are selfless y’all.  You know those medicines that help??  You know those advances in medicine??  That newly discovered pathogen, the new treatment for food allergies, for a certain cancer??  Those things that help advance medicine??  There are people out there FIGHTING for those things FOR EVERYONE.   Let that soak in.  These people are sick, spending tens and hundreds of thousands of dollars for therapy, and yet almost ALL of them will still come out to FIGHT for those who are too sick to help or who DO NOT yet have this illness and hopefully never will.  These people are literally dying on treatments I wouldn’t wish on my worst enemy and they’re there fighting for the good of others.  What then does that say about the group that shun them??  Ignore them??  Vilify them??  All because they have the common human decency to WANT to better this world for those coming after, to make a change in an unequal, unfair world where they fell in the cracks.  Dislike my illness, I HATE it with a passion.  Dislike how I talk about it in a public forum, but keep it to yourself because once again you never know the good it is doing.  (**Just to clarify these words were written very matter of factly there is no hidden tone other than a slight sarcasm occasionally.  I’m quite serious and logically no one knows 100% why the human body works how it does thus it seems reasonable that no one person can know everything medically**).

Let’s think about this.  My entire life I have had certain things that I wanted for myself and my #1 was children.  I wanted desperately to have many munchkins.  I wanted to be the mom with the cute holiday décor, the sweet lunches, the mom who visited and volunteered, the one who did crafts and played with her babes, I wanted to make the best meals, create the best life, so why on earth would I give up almost every single one of these things FOR YEARS that I will never get back.  My illnesses are expensive – I’d rather a beach house.  My meds for January and February of this year so far are about $5000 (not counting prescriptions, lab work, copays, organic food, special vitamins, supplements, covered by insurance – and NO I didn’t add co pays).  So in reality if my illness went away right now, I could have a beach condo at the very least (follow my logic here).  If having one of my biggest wishes come true was within my control would I pick the hard road (illness) or the easy (beach condo).   Let’s be 100% real here, I highly doubt that anyone would pick option 1.  Those people who would choose to pick option 1 may need to see that doctor anyway, as for me I’d gladly go for #2.  

The medical establishment in this country and in many others is broken.  It’s broken for many, many reasons that don’t fit the needs of this blog post.  I DARE any doctor out there to sit down and explain every minute detail of the human body to me (and I mean every single bit – not just what we as humans know…. I want it all tell me every single thing every single part of my body does – in detail.   All the functions known and all those special bits around the brain that we don’t have any real info on yet.  I’d like any doctor/scientist to tell me with 100% certainty that every pathogen that can cause human illness has been found.  I’d like for one to tell me with 100% certainty with PROOF why my condition cannot be chronic when it is already stated that it can become a long term issue by the creation of Post Treatment Lyme Disease Syndrome which is listed on the CDC website.  The CDC says Lyme is a symptomatic diagnosis because the testing for it is so bad (I’ve got medical publications for ya if you don’t believe me – straight outta Johns Hopkins).  Beyond that the other -ish that comes with lyme is hardly ever recognized because there are new things that are compounding and creating massive issues.  Add to that mold issues and genetic variations and we have a recipe for disaster.  I am generally logical in my thinking processes and to me it logically would be impossible for any scientist, doctor, or other to ever claim that they definitively know 100% about the human body.  This means that there always will be new things coming along, unfortunately the people who go first don’t always get the best treatment.  People legitimately push you away or shut you down because they do not believe you.  They legitimately think you’re nuts.  That’s fine, think I’m nuts all you want.  However, I’ll be laughing my ass off when my 12 years of arthritis doesn’t cause me a bit of pain (99% of the time) and I’m not on meds for it.  Going from literally pain all the time to none is a HUGE change.  What changed??!!  TREATMENT by a truly gifted physician who also happens to be an amazing diagnostician.  I was led to that treatment because someone spoke about their illness and it resonated with me (similar symptoms).  While not every person who happens upon a post or blog may not be in need of help, some are.  More and more are as our healthcare industry is broken and our food is less and less fresh and safe.  So hate me all you will, my heart is big, I love BIG, but I will HELP whomever I can and whomever needs help.  

**This post is to challenge the perception that many people have about those who are chronically ill. That is its SOLE purpose!**

[anaprose]

I saw this video on @impacttheory Tom's guest, Vishem Lakiani. "Relationships are so important. The age of individuality is ending. Today, everything we do is collaboratively. The world is too complex for anyone to strike it out alone." This is awesome. Personally, the problem I notice in many individuals is selfishness and greed. It's all about the money and me me me. "Oh, you're using me because I have money" or because "I have a talent" or because "I have the knowledge." Poor mentality. Poor state. The most creative, innovative, and successful people believe in collaboration. How do we all benefit from this, and how can we help others or partake in a global way? How do we impact the world? Then we have those who only collaborate with those that can give them something in return. They don't give the little guy/gal a chance. Be creative. Be conscious. Be helpful. #impacttheory #tombilyeu #collaboration #creativeminds #creative #entrepreneurship #FridayMotivation #fridaymood #workethic #globalimpact #worldconsciousness #consciousness #helpothers #behelpful #business https://www.instagram.com/p/BpvcSAnhfoM/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=18olan5yumyj