#better-than-nothing communication
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poorly-drawn-mdzs · 19 days ago
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Don't worry, they're into that.
(Want to know if this ancient sea god of destruction gets more belly paps? Or perhaps...a kiss? Find out in Tiger Tiger!)
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capydoodle · 7 months ago
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have compassion for yourself and for others. it seems hopeless but any small amount of good you can do is just that much more love in the world
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owlheartt · 7 months ago
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Something I really like about timebomb is that Ekko actually knows what he's getting into.
I'm not really seeing it get talked about but in season 1 they mention that Ekko and the firelights help people addicted to shimmer get off it and lead more fulfilling lives within the community. I should probably rewatch the scene for the exact wording (might be misremembering tbh) but that comment implies A LOT.
First: Ekko's mission is helping people where he can, he would probably try and help Jinx even if he wasn't in love with her
Second: He has experience dealing with severe mental illness as that often goes hand in hand with drug abuse, namely depression/suicidal ideation like what Jinx was exhibiting
Third: He's probably mapped out best course of action FOR dealing with this and has already figured out his own limits/boundaries. Meaning he knew what he was getting into trying to talk Jinx out of suicide, and was thus more equipped to deal with the aftermath
Fourth: He's probably helped ex members of Silco's gang. The firelights seem to have a theme of healing and repairing and recovering, so they've probably also learned to forgive. If they're mission is to rebuild the lanes into a safe space, they can't exclude people they don't like, they have to make room for them. I think they fought Silco out of necessity, and I doubt Jinx would be the first person they help who's killed one of them.
These all might be a bit of a stretch but I think it really fits. Beyond that, it shows that Ekko can ACTUALLY help Jinx. As much as unconditional love can do, Ekko has the tools for Jinx's recovery and a path ready for her. He also probably knows that her "healthy" will look different from AU Powder's "healthy." On top of that, I expect he knows how to respect her even in the middle of psychotic breaks and won't agitate her already frail mental state
#if you would like to (respectfully) disagree with me I'll GLADLY talk with you. I can think of nothing but Arcane atm#timebomb#ekko arcane#putting it in the tags bc I want to let people agree with my timebomb takes without having to listen to my other ship opinions#uh on that note I have some Caitlyn and Vi opinions that go a bit hand in hand with this#but I think that in contrast Caitlyn and Vi are mutually self destructive#see neither of them seem to make the others mental health... better.#Vi is desperate and needs love wherever she can get it#and Caitlyn... I'm not sure. I have a hard time reading her but a lot of the vibes I get off her feel like she just likes having the power#over vi#I KNOW THAT'S A STRONG CLAIM#hear me out#Vi in her search for unconditional love does a lot of enabling#a good example is when Caitlyn arrests that henchman in episode 3(?)#Vi is VISIBLY uncomfortable with that and for good reason!#Caitlyn just locked someone up for life for... nothing?#kinda like Marcus did to her (yes Marcus was trying to protect her but I doubt that's how Vi sees it)#but Vi doesn't voice this or push Caitlyn on it#instead she asks Caitlyn not to change#not great communication on Vi's part#but also indicative of how little their values align#and how little Caitlyn actually considers Vi and her problems and history#Caitlyn doesn't help Vi heal and she turns on Vi the second Vi stops enabling her and letting Caitlyn do as she thinks is best#neither of them are ready to deal with the others problems or communicate well#again. willing to discuss this. my opinions are swayable.#I just personally found Caitlyn made the most sense and was most compelling when she was going down facist dictator path#sure she could be more but I don't think the show ever really transitioned her away from that#you can see it in the way she treats Maddy#hhhhhh I should go to bed rather than spill every last thought I've ever had
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vicciouxs · 2 months ago
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🍿💤 friday night at hawthorne's house
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introspectivememories · 18 days ago
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thinking about shanks and buggy and how the love was there!!! it was there and it was clear and it was real and it was tangible and it still was not enough!!! the love was there when they grew up together and the love was there when they traveled the world together and the love was there when shanks gave up on the one piece for buggy and the love was there when shanks dived into the ocean to save buggy and the love was there when they promised to go to raftel together on their own ships and the love was there when they lived together in loguetown in the hiatus before roger died and the love was there when buggy damaged luffy's hat and the love was there still when they saw each other at marineford after two decades and shanks still trusted buggy to get the strawhat back to luffy and the love was there still, still, still, when rogers' body was cooling on the execution stand and his blood was being washed away by the rain and shanks put out his hand, palm faced up in supplication, and said "i'm not going after the one piece" and said the words he's been saying since he was a child, a plea, a prayer, "come with me buggy" and buggy who had given up on his hopes and dreams, crushed under the promise of shanks' shining future and his brilliant potential, humiliated by his cowardice and his belief in his would-be king, his friend, his brother, his shanks, slaps his hand away, closes his ears to the plea, the prayer, the devotion shanks is saying, and said "i'll never come with you!" the love was there still and it was not enough.
#smth smth they are each other's dogs#smth smth 'i love you and i always will and i'm sorry. what a useless word.'#smth smth 'me and my husband' by mitski#and also ofc the love was not enough when one of you is the golden boy and the other is just. there.#they found shanks in a treasure chest. they probably picked buggy off the streets.#and i think about what that would do to a child. watching your brother/friend/smth more constantly be better than you. watching them reach#heights you cant even possibly dream of. watching your father figures seem to favor him more. watching him get your father's symbol#watching him excel and move up and you are still stuck mediocre. and at what point do you give up on what you want? if you cannot excel#at least you can watch him do it. at least you can make him into the king you know he'll be. at least if they cannot see you at your own#person at least they will see you as part of him and that has to be better than nothing right? right? and then he gives up on the dream he#promised you. the dream your captain your father died for. the dream you thought you were gonna acheive together. and then he says#'come with me'? and what sail around the world living in his shadow? spend the rest of your life trying to get ppl to see you in his#shadow? yeah no fucking thank you. ofc you leave. there is nothing else left for you here.#and shanks genuinely cannot see this. he thinks the world of buggy. why would anyone else not see what he sees?#at a certain point love turns into suffocation.#buggy has an inferiority complex the size of zuneisha and shanks is the world's worst communicator. this was never gonna work out.#the love was there and like so often‚ it was not enough.#if yall have a diff interpretation of shuggy pls let me know in the tags/comments!!!#i love getting my heart ripped out by them#op shanks#shanks one piece#akagami no shanks#red haired shanks#buggy one piece#op buggy#buggy#shuggy#shanks x buggy#op#one piece
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julianplum · 4 months ago
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while there's a lot of nonsense and chaos in the air right now, I've been using 5calls to call my reps pretty consistently, and here are some things I have learned from doing that: -practice makes perfect, I am so much less nervous now than I was two weeks ago -scripts are great and helpful, but honestly I've had better luck using them as a base and making it personal. Talking about how I am a trans dude who really wants to stay in my state and does not want to have to flee the country and if they could please help with that has gone over VERY well. I'm in a blue state, so ymmv. -picking a single issue to call about each day / every few days helps focus my emotional energy -you can just be like "I'm mad and I want you to do something." that's fine. the call is what matters. -it literally takes like 2 minutes it's so fast actually is this going to singlehandedly fix anything? no. not at all, but it makes me feel better, gives me a useful place to put my fear and anger, and lets me push my very-annoyingly-center-left reps further to the left. they cannot escape me. I will be a thorn in their side until I die
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triple-pupil · 3 months ago
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Woe, toxic Stipple idea be upon ye. Post-S3
Wade and Stone are just chilling in bed, just after being intimate, Wade so happy and yapping and smilling, looking at the former villain with nothing but excitement, affection and joy.
Stone isn't reacting Tho, he may stretch, but doesn't look at Wade back.
With a, ironically, stone cold face, out of nowhere Stone says.
"You're just a fleshy placeholder of the man I loved to cope with my loss"
Wade looses his voice right then and there, his mouth closes with an audible click, his body goes stiff with tension and looks up the ceiling like "Yeah, ok, great chat, Yep, was great, good talk, mhm, cool..." trying to hold back tears, that comment really shot straight to his heart.
Meanwhile Stone silently reaches for his phone to scroll mindlessly, both of them feel empty and alone while sharing the bed.
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wings-0f-sorrow · 23 days ago
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i think i burnt myself out bc this was all i could muster but idc my limitations will not stop me from trying anyway
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hatboxhunger · 1 month ago
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Howdy! I´ve been meaning to contribute to this community for a long long time! Without further ado, enjoy:
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Colton had packed a weeks’ worth of rations, sure, but only for his horse and not for himself. Perhaps if he´d turned around as soon as he realized this, he could have still made it in time. However, he´d already dawdled quite a bit at the bar before heading out and he reasoned that if he made his client wait any longer, the man might get worried that he´d died!
He couldn´t just make his new client worry like that, it wasn´t right, and he´d rather starve than have his horse Beans overexert itself. No, he´d just have to go hungry for a little bit, it was the right thing to do. He´d be fine. He had a slow metabolism, after all, barely needing two meals a day to feel full. Maybe his stomach would grumble a little, maybe he´d get a bit of a stomach ache but he´d make it to Windy Stone in exactly one week, right on time.
Three days in, he realized that maybe he´d underestimated the severity of this “stomach ache”.
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qoldenskies · 2 months ago
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How do u get your faces/expressions to look like that TEACH MEEEE
with my faces? honestly the best advice i can give is like. whenever i notice a face looks off, it usually has to do with the eyes. they're either too large, or too high up on the face (its very common), or spaced out too much. tbh the second i switched from glittery anime eyes to a more simple style of them i improved EXPONENTIALLY lmao especially when it comes to my expressions
^^^ simplistic eyes also means you can get a little more liberal with the shape, which helps when you're trying to do more dynamic expressions imo. just depends on the style youre going for really. never be afraid to go "off model"
uhhh im not as capable of articulating my process with art as i am with writing because im less confident in it lmao but i'll try and get my thoughts down ... tbh a lot of it is just. little lines for me. the rebecca sugar method i suppose. the line under the eye to represent stress/exhaustion honestly carries my expressions ... that and doing it with the mouth especially, when im trying to represent strain. pushing the nasolabial folds/making them visible especially helps. chin creases when crying too, a little concave line under the mouth if their lip is supposed to be wobbling, you know.
also specifically when it comes to Teetlez i really like that they dont actually have any irises, which is usually why i dont draw them with very traditional eyes because it means i can make them emote like cats. people's pupils already do constrict when they're stressed/alarmed and dilate when they're relaxed but its very easy to push here especially (actually one of the biggest reasons i draw wwww!leo exclusively with cat-eye slits is because i want to imply he's Always stressed lmao). also i dont mind exaggerating the shape of them/making them look more unconventional if im trying to get something across, like the way i make cc!donnie's pupils get all big and wavering and watery when he's sad. i think its cute
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^^^ best examples tbh
also eyebrow creases with furrowed brows. they always help. is any of this helpful i dont know its like midnight im gonna crash in. 2 Second
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uhohbestie · 3 months ago
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Hey! I am nearly finished reading TAMN (owie) and I just wanted to say that I've never seen the guilt of hiding emotions portrayed so well before. I was halfway through before I realised. Oh. I am Grian. And it was just so incredible to see words put to things I've gone much of my life with without realising exactly what they are. The fear of getting close to people because either you're going to hurt them or they're going to hurt you. The fear of loved ones getting close to people because why would they want to stay with you when there are so many better options. The guilt of hurting those closest to you without knowing how to stop or fix it because the moment push comes to shove, you fall right back into those awful defense mechanisms.
Anyway, it really helped me understand a part of myself better, and now I can actively try to do something about it, which is honestly such a relief, especially since I'm planning to start trying to date soon (19 years and not one relationship because. The Fear.) and I don't want to handle it better than G.
Idk if I communicated this well At All, but what I'm TRYING to say is thank you <3
(Also, as a writer myself, the whiplash of crying at the angsty bits while simultaneously nerding out about the good writing was. An experience lol)
Ahh, thank you so much for this incredibly thoughtful message :")
It's really flattering for us as authors to hear how much people relate and resonate with Grian in our fic. Especially when his actions help them see something about themselves. I think one of the most important and biggest things about Grian (to me) is that, even with all his flaws and his self-sabotage and insecurity, he is still incredibly loved and appreciated, and the people who meet him still really like him, no matter how much he sometimes hates and sabotages himself. He's absolutely a frustrating character at times, and being in his head can be an exercise in testing your own patience, but we hope we showed that at the core him- as with everyone- there's a person worth the love that gets heaped upon him, and that his journey is one of learning to let that love in, and trust that it will remain there through the night and into the next day.
There's always time to grow and change, and we're all forever on a journey of subtle (and sometimes drastic) self improvement. Luckily most of us won't have to go through a zombie apocalypse to force growth the way Grian did, however. (And I'm soooo grateful for that lmao. The lack of showers and wifi would have me snapping on day one, lbr.)
That's such a ramble, sorry! We're so happy you enjoyed TAMN, and good luck with everything you've going through! <3 <3 - 🔒
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the-pea-and-the-sun · 17 days ago
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i will never forgive community for acting like britta is insufferably annoying while acting like JEFF WINGER is likable and charming
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thefairyfellermasterstroke · 6 months ago
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I was searching for something in the internet archive, when I stumbled upon a
"CAMILLE DESMOULINS MONOLOGUE DRAMATIQUE"
that apparently took place in Paris in 1849.
It's a 4 pages long play, divided in two scenes, in which Camille recites a monologue in his prison cell (???)
I can find little to no info about this. Plus, its completely in french and I understand like 2 words lol.
Here is the link, if anyone is interested and is willing to share some more info about this!
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anistarrose · 1 year ago
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On the note of the last "disability rights to do fuck all" reblog: I don't know what environmentalist/vegan needs to hear this, but "humans are parasites" is literally Ableism 101, regardless of whether or not you claim you're only talking about "the capitalists" and not the disabled community when you say it.
And I'm not just talking about the harm that phrase does to disabled people who can't support themselves on their own — I'm also talking about disabled people who need things that aren't considered "environment/animal-friendly" in order for them to live with dignity, or live at all.
If you're willing to resort to dehumanizing language when you see someone using a plastic straw or eating an animal product, then I don't fucking trust your plan for a post-capitalist solarpunk utopia or whatever to be a safe place for disabled people, of any form.
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fluffypotatey · 7 months ago
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Macaque really needs to scream about wukong being willing to die for mk but not willing to live for mac, and not willing to let macaque die with him. Does he hate macaque that badly? Does he truly want macaque to be away from him forever?
the sad irony is that even the Wukong in the past probably would not have given up his immortality for MK. this is very much a Eleanor “if she was always capable of change, then that means i just wasn’t worth changing for” from the Good Place scenario
Wukong was always capable of change, but it had to be done by HIMSELF which, unfortunately, was made when MacBook was no longer in the picture of his life. and i think Mac, by s4 recognizes that, but the pain is still there. the hurt is still there. it can’t be instantly removed even while being aware that nothing he could have done in the past would have changed the outcome. and, in my humble opinion, there’s still an ounce of jealousy and resentment that he sees in how Wukong treats MK and their relationship
so yeah, i can see Mac, emotionally compromised and reeling from death and a tangible Wukong right in front of him, snapping and telling Wukong off, breaking into tears as he shouts “WHY NOT ME? WHY COULDN’T YOU DO THIS FOR ME?”
but Mac knows why (or maybe he thinks he does). he knows they no longer share the same closeness as they did millennia ago. he knows they are not a relationship that takes up precedence (but it was progressing towards something….something Mac hoped for)
and he aches. he aches for it like when Wukong admitted his renewed trust. like when Wukong looked at Mac for reassurance following MK’s speech. like how they worked in tandem battling enemies. like how Wukong reached for him when the world was set to end
“What do I have to do to?”
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bitchfitch · 9 months ago
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I've started playing Potion Permit, and so far it's one of my favorite games I've messed around with, but the most big brained move the devs made was giving you a dog on day 1, and then making that dog able to track NPCs and lead you directly to them no matter where they are in the town.
#im still early game but i like the play and the writing is passable#like#Theres a flatness#the characters Are distinct but theyre mostly just their jobs#with only a few who stand out and have like. something to really grab onto#Like rue? rues entire deal is little girl you can date. Nothing else behind those eyes. She has nothing better to talk to you about#than the fact her favorite color is red#Sorcelia? Sorcelia is a goth nun who loves singing and teaches one of the village children#Reynerd? sure is a guy#got nothing else to say about him. hes just a Guy™. Victor? Has ghost friends and loves bugs and cares deeply about the cemetery#he tends to. At the moment it feels like they're trying to imply there aren't actually ghosts. and hes just talking to himself/#insisting his imaginary friends are real people#and so far? The games been cool about it. Victor's a member of his community and his eccentricities are accepted and not ridiculed#all four characters ive mentioned are romance candidates. but its just as hit or miss with the regular towns folk#Opalheart is an older woman and a world renowned blacksmith who only takes jobs if they will do Good. regardless of whether or not they#pay well. She declines to make a dagger for a rich man but makes a helmet for a childs father bc the girl asked#and olive is here#anyways you can be best friends with a cat (shes just a regular cat) and i appreciate that#idk im putting it above sun haven in my ranking of life sim games#purely because there are older romance candidates.#no fat romance candidates. but sun haven doesn't have thise either.#and sdv has neither fat or old candidates Nor can you fuck a cat boy. it goes at the bottom.#gameplay wise sunhaven is at the bottom then sdv then potion permit at the top. sunhaven has the Most™ but having#a lot of crap doesn't mean its fun and it ends up making half the game feel really incomplete#idk. Sdv is a game you should've started playing a year ago. sun haven is a game that perpetually needs another year worth of updates#before id say its worth it bc the devs keep pushing content ™ updates instead of quality of life or polish so what is there is uh#Bad. plentiful. and a large portion is good#but a Lot is just bad.#its insincere and cant take itself seriously it gives you (the right dialogue option) an (the shit joke option) which is worse than just#i ram out of space. tldr. potion permit is good Now. sdv Was good. sun haven Might be great Eventually
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