#buckley fam

[aromanticbuck]

AITA for coming out at my sister's wedding?

I (32M) recently realized I'm bisexual and I have my first bf (45M), he's a rescue helicopter pilot (this will be relevant later). I'm out to my sister (41F) and my coworkers, including her husband, who I have worked with for years, but not to my parents or most of the other guests. Everyone has joked that I'm a little too close to my best friend (32M), and we might as well get married, but he's straight and has a gf. They're not relevant to this story, but to give context to how much my sexuality probably shouldn't be a surprise, even if it took me by surprise.

I told my sister and her husband I was bringing a plus one, and they both knew my bf, they were supportive of it because he makes me really happy.

Everything kind of started at the bachelor party. It was just me, my brother-in-law, and my best friend, and we did the usual stuff. We stayed a night in a hotel, went out to get drunk, sang some karaoke at our usual spot. It should have been a super chill night. Until my best friend and I lost the groom??? But it way more stressful than The Hangover makes it look.

He'd been taken by these guys who tried to kill him (no, I don't know why) and we didn't realize he was missing until less than an hour before the wedding. My mom kind of threw a fit about us being late, and then blamed me for losing the groom, which is kind of a normal reaction from her. My dad didn't yell as much but again, this is a normal reaction, I'm kind of the disappointment child. Basically, we had to find my brother-in-law because he still needed to marry my sister.

Before anyone worries: they did get married. He's fine. The hospital says they're discharging him tomorrow to go home. They're gonna reschedule their honeymoon so he's well enough to enjoy it.

Long story short, it turned into a rescue mission, and driving would have taken too long, and my best friend suggested we ask my bf to borrow his helicopter again (long story, but we had to borrow him for something a few months ago, it's how we met!) so I asked him for the favor. My mom asked who he was, since my best friend just used his name, and I told her he's my boyfriend, and she freaked out about it.

When we go to the hospital with my brother-in-law, my parents both yelled at and scolded me for taking attention away from the biggest day of my sister's life by pulling some "stunt" with my bf (to SAVE my brother-in-law from being violently murdered), and I think my dad somehow grounded me?

AITA?

[kitweewoos]

Buck and Tommy agree to watch Jee-Yun one afternoon while Maddie and Chimney are out running errands, and Tommy is sitting with her while Buck cleans up their play time.

"Do you need help, Evan?" Tommy asks.

"Eban," Jee-Yun copies.

"That's my name now. I'm Eban, you can only call me Eban from now on."

[feral-peacock]

Abc: welcome to the abc family how do you feel about Buck being queer?

Oliver:

[murdockbuckley]

chimney "chronic migraines" han (it's why he's always chewing gum)

bobby "chronic back pain" nash (broke his back before la, has had buildings collapse on it multiple times since, like in mayday)

evan "chronic leg/whole body pain, insomniac, HoH" buckley (he got crushed by a truck and then struck by lightning come on now)

eddie "chronic pain" diaz (he's been shot so many times)

can't believe i forgot him but:

ravi "in remission" panikkar

[exhuastedpigeon]

I will hold your heart more tenderly than my own. insp

ID Image 1: Buck and Eddie in Eddie's hospital room before Eddie is discharged after being shot. Text over the image reads "I will hold your heart"

Image 2: Christopher and Buck hugging on the firetruck during the tsunami. Text over image reads "more tenderly than my own"

[georgies-ftts]

the way Buck scoops Ravi up and Ravi is literally just like “okay, cool, this is normal” i mean man’s face doesn’t even twinge as he’s hauled off his feet by this cuddly giant

so in conclusion Buck walks around the station just pickin people up for shits and giggles and it gets 10 times worse when he’s happy or excited

I feel like the 118 crew/gang initiation involves being bench pressed by buck (eddie definitely bet him money that he couldn’t do it and buck definitely won that money)

[drinkcrywrite]

Buckley-Diaz Family Recipe: Roasts

ID under cut

[image description: 8 large coloured gifs of of Buck, Chris and Eddie from 911 Fox. Every 2 gifs are from a different episode. Gif 1: From 414, in the Diaz dining room, Chris gets up from the dining table and says, "But I'm gonna need a nap later. Because of all the snoring."

Gif 2: Buck grins and looks down at the table.

Gif 3: From 511, in the Diaz dining room, Eddie looks from Buck to Taylor over dinner and says, "All this time everybody thought I was a bad cook." Chris looks at him and simply says, "You were."

Gif 4: Eddie looks at Chris, insulted. Across from him, Buck just grins at Eddie.

Gif 5: From 601, in Buck's kitchen, Chris tells Buck, "Buck, you don't even have a couch."

Gif 6: Eddie laughs at Buck and fist bumps Chris.

Gif 7: From 613, in Buck's kitchen, Chris laughs at Buck and says, "Buck, I'm from Texas."

Gif 8: Buck leans on the counter and grins at Chris.]

[devilsbrokerank]

5x14 / 6x01 / 6x12 / 6x13 IT’S HAPPENING

[salemsvlog]

No bc there’s something on “dating a really sweet person after realizing you’re bi by then figure out your in love of your best friend” that just be studied bc WHAT DO YOU MEAN I BECAME EVAN BUCKLEY.

[deanturtle]

Someone let Buck take them on a date so he can realise it’s a date already!

[aromanticbuck]

AITA for panicking on my first date with a dude?

I (32M) got my first kiss from a guy, T (45M), last week. It was great, I really liked it, and we set up a date for over the weekend. I've only ever dated girls before, so this was really, really new for me. Saturday night, we went out to dinner at a nice place and had a tentative plan to go to a movie afterwards.

Dinner was great. I mean, it was mostly great. I made a little bit of a fool of myself.

We were done with pizza and just finishing up the drinks we ordered, and I guess T could tell I was a little anxious, and I told him it was my first date with a dude. But it wasn't weird or anything. I'm an ally! I even put a rainbow flag in my instagram profile every summer! Go pride!

But, like I said, things were going good. We went out because I owe him a beer, but T paid for dinner, and we got to talk and kind of get to know each other. It was fun.

Things got complicated when my best friend, E (32M), showed up with his girlfriend, M (??F). Obviously, E knew that T and I were friends, we met T around the same time. At the same time. Different story. So E probably thought we were just hanging out and getting dinner, and T mentioned the movie. But friends can see movies with friends, right? It wasn't a big deal.

But I panicked, because I haven't told anyone that T asked me out or that we kissed. So no one else knows I might like guys. So I said that, after the movie, we were gonna go find some hot chicks (because hot chicks like firefighters!), and E didn't that that was weird.

But T called a car to take him home, instead of taking us to the movie theater. And I stood there on the curb feeling that a stupid fraud because I panicked about my best friend knowing I was on a date with a guy.

AITA?

UPDATE: I told my sister about my date with T and she's okay with it and asked me to tell her about him

UPDATE 2: I was gonna tell E that he interrupted me and T on a date but apparently M moved in with him and he found out she used to be a nun??? WIBTA if I told him that I like T while he's already going through something?

UPDATE 3: I told E about my date with T and how T basically dumped me after pizza. E said I should call T and try to talk to him about what happened, so I'm going to see if we can meet up for coffee and talk. E said nothing about our friendship is going to change even if I do like guys. and he hugged me! so now I just have to call T and tell him that I can't stop thinking about him

UPDATE 4: T is gonna be my date to my sister's wedding!!!

[kitweewoos]

The Buckleys are from Pennsylvania.... Which means they know not to look in the trees

[dandelioncasey]

Everyone out here talking about Ryan's lack of shirt and background buddie (valid tbh) and y'all are SLEEPING on Gavin being the happiest little dude there ever was!!

LOOK AT HIM tell me that is not the face of a kid having the time of his gd life

[murdockbuckley]

the 118 constantly

[gibuckaroo]

if buck gives christopher dating advice and it somehow goes to chris asking, “well how do you know that it’s right, that they’re the one?” and buck thinks of how chris is impossibly too young to know and that buck’s not even sure because has he found the one? doesn’t everyone feel like the one at some point? don’t you hope that it’s right, that this person is it?

and that’s his first initial thought, to say that, at this point the important thing is to have fun, to enjoy it, to make sure that he’s nice, that he’s also being treated nicely. but somehow in that thought process wouldn’t the one also feel like that? that you’re having fun with them, that you’re enjoying, that you love them and they love you back.

does the one make you feel like they have your back and you have theirs? do they make laughter come to you like nature intended, how easy it is for smiles to come? does the one make you want to start over recipes just to perfect it and see the satisfaction on their faces? does the one make you all warm and glowy inside when they say something that makes you want to crawl back to a younger version of yourself and hug that kid? does the one make you want to be better without even saying anything, with just the intention of being yourself with them? does the one think you’re worth it? do you think there ever needs to be pretending with the one?

and he’s silent but there are thoughts in his head and all he can choke out is, “you’ll know” and chris is curious see and he wants to know so he asks “how did you know? how do they make you feel?” and it’s not like they’re talking about a specific person and it’s not like specific person may be eavesdropping but buck’s voice comes out very soft and quiet and just, he didn’t even know it five minutes earlier but somehow he’s certain, “like i have a home.”

and it’s chris smiling up at him and it’s the somebody outside his door and yeah buck has found the one

[beanzykin]

Bobby: JESUS BUCK, WE SENT YOU TO GET MCDONALDS AND NOW YOU'RE IN NEED OF A MAJOR SURGERY!!?? WHAT HAPPENED?!!

Buck, in a hospital bed: I was Mc-hit by a Subaru.

Bobby:

Bobby: Don't do the surgery.