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h-ypno · 8 months ago

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Talking to my roommate is horrible. It's like two terrified animals having a standoff in a room.

#i cant even really blame them with how iv been acting recently #iv not been hateful TWORDS them but iv punched 3 holes in my wall. ive never had that behavior in my life. this shits new.#but i in general hate confrontation #kinda the reason i needed to talk to them. Mfers gotta pay rent hes not for like 6 out of the 8 months hes lived here #and its starting to take a tole on me mentally #i cant talk to my therapist all the bitch wants to talk about is how 5g network towers are making everyone crazy #that and how much she hates mentally ill people #i mean shes retired so.#shrug.

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jessenitrogen · 8 months ago

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you were supposed to rule by my side,

(edit: not ship art. don't treat it as such in reblogs)

#i fucking HATE HIS ASS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!#but alas. i like angst. or whatever #forever reeling over their confrontations in the show #like. what the fuck!!!!/lh #3below #general morando #val morando #varvatos vex #tales of arcadia #fanart #art #trollhunters #jnart #jntoa #toa #this would make more sense if i gave morando an akiridion crown but man. nah #i aint giving him that #but horrors to varvatos? 100 more/affectionate

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comradesummers · 8 months ago

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btvs season 7 episode 16 storyteller my beloved! episodes that start out really fun and zany but end up being surprisingly sad and poignant my beloved! reflections on the act of narration, on who is telling the story and what their perspective is my beloved! buffy being the badass speech giving girlboss general for most of the episode (because that's how andrew sees her) but then actually admitting how desperate and vulnerable she is to andrew of all people because she knows no one will believe him if he tells them about it my beloved! buffy refusing to let andrew deflect the guilt of murdering jonathan because if there's one thing buffy "you have a choice, you don't have a good choice but you have a choice!" summers can't stand it's people who refuse to take responsibility for their actions my beloved! andrew actually admitting that he murdered jonathan my beloved! the episode ending on andrew not being able to narrate to the camera anymore because he knows there's nothing he can say that can make it better my beloved!

season 7 mostly sucks but when it hits it hits okay

#i gather that people aren't generally fans of this episode #and i think it's because people hate andrew #and they have every right to (he's done some horrible shit)#but a) i just don't hate him for whatever reason and b) i think the episode actually does a really good job of addressing that #and forcing andrew to directly confront his mistakes and actively decide to be better #in a way that other characters in this franchise (ahem wesley ats) never do #which makes andrew a pretty compelling character to me idk #buffy summers #andrew wells #btvs #buffy the vampire slayer

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thatswhatsushesaid · 7 months ago

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imagine being so bereft of joy that you cannot stop yourself from leaving this comment on a benign "look at this fun fandom mug my spouse bought me, enjoy this funny personal anecdote to go with it" post

sorry for existing i guess???

#the hoops this person must have had to jump through to see my post #since i imagine they are one of the users whose main accounts i have blocked #did they create a burner account just for this purpose #do i take up that much real estate in their brain #how flattering #salty peak sect 🧂#edited to add these incidents make me laugh because i am so routinely called a fandom bully for #/checks my notes #politely but not timidly confronting people in the general tags when they tag their character hate #and matching the tone of the person i'm talking to if they decide to get cunty with me #look i'm sorry that you feel uncomfortable when someone tells you you're doing a rude and assholish thing #but that does not make the person who is confronting you into an asshole or a bully #someone being firm with you when you're making other people uncomfortable is not bullying #but literally all i have to do is exist in proximity to these pissbabies and suddenly they just cannot stop themselves #from regurgitating their feelings onto my posts #or vagueblogging about me and dropping it in the general fandom tags #like damn if i bother you that much then block me for god's sake

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empressofthewind · 7 months ago

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Not to be That Guy but I'm so happy to see that meme format used with someone other than Mello. Like yeah Mello has very deeply complicated feelings about Near that are often most effectively summarised as hatred but he never wanted Near dead and that's a hill I will forever die on

#'hates Near and wants Near dead' is Light #'hates Near because it's easier than confronting his own personal failures' is Mello #anyway hjsdhgjsdg by no means attacking anyone who has posted about that obviously. it's a harmless meme etc etc i don't actually care #i just think there are a lot of misconceptions about Mello and Near's relationship in general #and also people really undersell the Near & Light dynamic imo??? like Mello vs Near was one of the rivalries depicted in the second half #but Near doesn't really seem to buy into it #whereas Near and Light had a very vicious and bitter rivalry that imo depicts the purest form of hatred we ever see in the series #as opposed to L and Light for example. who had So Much More going on

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camelspit · 2 months ago

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its stellarlune hating hours again.. 😠

#i just like. got blasted w the memory of what shannon did to stina.. she didnt deserve that #linh and fitz as well... they didnt deserve that😭#genuinley i dont think any book has made me as actually pissed off when i read it as stellarlune did #like im not mad at shannon since she usually has ridiculous deadlines and she had just had a baby but.#im angry in general. like this didnt need to happen and was super stupid #and its not just the characters in that book !!#the only like. high stakes action scene was at thd VERY END in the last like 5 pages #the only other scene that could maybe count as one was the trix confrontation. but nothing happened in that either.#i could go on forever but ill stop for now❤️#hating hours r over im back to being a lover ❤️ peace and love i just needed to get this off my chest #kotlc

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dgct2 · 18 days ago

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You and Dante are unbelievable. I was just trying to do the right thing, and you two have to keep thinking the worst of me.

Glad to hear that Dante doesn't believe your act either.

You know what? Fine. Blame me, but at least now you and Gio know you are mother and son. However that plays out now is up to you, I'm out.

You think it is going to be that easy? You're just going to blow up my life and walk away, because if you do you are in for a rude awakening.

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i-dont-talk-for-days-on-end · 1 year ago

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What if Sherlock Holmes had always been short for his age and then he turned 13 and grew and grew and grew like half a meter in a year and he's been long and thin ever since what then

#just imagine the shock of people who knew him as odd small boy suddenly being confronted with odd very tall boy #like mycroft coming home and sherlock suddenly looks like a stick insect #in general i think poor teenager holmes would be SO awkward #he would hate his change of voice so much i think he would not be very willing to speak #unless he's really comfortable to infodump (mycroft gets him) then he wouldn't mind #sherlock holmes #headcanon #headcanons

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yoihino · 5 months ago

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The infantilation of goofy/dumb characters is real and I hate it

#This is specifically about Luffy from One Piece but also applies to others #It's just #He's just bad with traditional intellectual things and faces guys #He's a low int really high wisdom and charisma character #And he gets so many serious moments where his ability to empathize and startegize come through #They just get overshadowed by the antics from other moments #And I just feel like the fandom in general kind of takes him as a joke??#The gear 5 transformation didn't help I think even if I love it very very much #It is not the typical ultimate power up shonen protagonists tend to get and I fear it just solidified in people's minds the silly/comical #Part of Luffy's character #Gear 5 is supposed to represent his ability to break out of the box; to not have to follow the rules imposed by those in power and instead #Make his own path; his own way to battle; his own way to live #Luffy is a person who is confronted with a world full of darkness and corruption and very serious things #And in fron of that says: I will not bavk down; I will not hide the joys that bring light into our life to prolong thw darkness #One Piece is a world where those in power want you to suffer so you continue to follow their rules in hope of stopping the pain #And ultimately Luffy's journey is a fight against everything that represents; to be king of the pirates is to be the freest man in the world #And a free man is not afraid to show joy #I just hate that some fans have taken that and twisted it into Luffy just being naive/stupid #When he's shown time and time again how very much he is not that #one piece #monkey d. luffy #mine

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acuar-io · 1 year ago

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Can I say something……😞

Idk, aita moment??? I don’t want to feel like an asshole for saying this or feeling like this?? I love when ppl get inspiration by others. I am the same way!! But…

It kinda upsets me that the editing format I use for my globetrotter challenge gets used bc inspo ofc nothing wrong with that but I have never gotten properly credited for it.

I obviously did not invent virtual collaging but that editing format was never used for the globetrotter challenge (TO MY KNOWLEDGE) when I decided to start the challenge, hence why I did it. I wanted to do something different and bring something new to the table.

Not asking for much here all I wish is for credit, that’s all 🥹

/nm

#fae.txt #idk dl I hate confronting ppl and look at me confronting ppl with a general post KDKDKDKSKS #I went to check the tag today to see if anyone is still playing and stuff and yea I noticed a surge of posts that seem a little similar #but I’ve been having this exact feeling for 2 months? since I started posting globetrotter tbh

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astrobei · 3 months ago

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speaking my truth for a mo but likeeeee sometimes i see the self deprecating shit that ends up on my dash like “me when my friends say they like me but i know the secret truth which is that they HATE ME” followed by the way people talk about their feelings and the way they perceive the world and in the kindest way possible like. it’s a joke and lighthearted until it’s not a joke or lighthearted and sometimes y’all are just making yourselves miserable for no reason by interacting with and feeding into this shit i’m sorry

#this is not a vaguepost in case you are a mutual who has been miseryposting as of late bc i have been there and i am there rn even #and sorry if this is a hot take or whatever. i don’t think it is but im convinced i have to put a disclaimer under everything i post #so 2 b clear i am not except from this at all it is just a general thought but LIKEEEE.#*exempt #no shit if you are constantly interacting with posts that feed into your unhealthy mental narrative that #all your friends secretly hate you and despise you and don’t want you around and that #you know it’s the anxiety speaking and irrational but you’re gna operate like it’s true anyway #without ever stopping to address tht mindset and put in any work to change it #like real active work confronting those feelings #no fucking shit you are going to feel like it’s true lmfao #sorry not trying 2 be preachy or wtv i just likeeeeeee. HAVE HAD IT UP TO HERE. LOL #i Know it’s hard and i Know it’s mental illness and i Know it’s not that simple but unfortch #anxiety and rsd and everything else is a bitch i can testify firsthand but like.#sometimes you have to do things that are hard if you don’t want to be miserable all the time #ok thts all thanks to the 2 people who will see this for listening #/astro posts

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fatedvoyage · 6 months ago

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people being loud in a cube farm first thing in the morning during my quiet planning time is actually my villain origin story

#[ general ] ooc.#[ i did not move upstairs to get away from noise ]#[ just to be confronted with more noise earlier ]#[ at least if i went downstairs it'd be quiet bc no one's there yet ]#[ i miss max telework more every day ]#[ bc i can't go to my supervisor and say 'hey i hate the sound of people breathing; speaking; and generally having fun' ]#[ and not sound like a grinch ]#[ 'oh dean just wear headphon--' *no* ]#[ that's just replacing sounds with other sounds ]#[ *i want no sounds* ]

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midnightwind · 7 months ago

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I love Dragon Age companion quests, but sometimes I wish we had more that didn't culminate in fighting a Big Personal Bad, you know

#I think I'm like maybe a third or close to halfway? through DAV right now #and I started doing the thought exercise of “what would your Rook's companion quests be”#and realizing that all the DAV companions have like A Person or Entity they're trying to confront and fight #I think Taash and Emmrich are the only ones who don't and I am Fascinated with their internal struggles #and maybe that changes in the next leg of personal quests idk #but I wish we got more of that stuff in general #just people dealing with how messy life is and how hard it is to find your place #anyways my Rook Mairenn would have quests where you collect something before sitting down at like #the edge of rooftops or the canals in Treviso and she'd start sharing what her life was like before the Crows #like first quest would be her scouring the markets for a proper Dalish trinket #popping down on a roof looking over the sea and going like “I hate my family you know- the one that forced me out”#all the “just a kid angst” you can have before she just Chucks the item as hard as she can into the water #and quest two would happen after your first big decision #where she'd have you trail along the rooftops collecting crow feathers and flowers from trelisses #before setting them afloat with a candle on the canals #“for the ones who don't get to see the sunrise tomorrow”#before you get her lamenting how she doesn't know if her old clan survived everything #how she doesn’t want to go back to them- will /never/ go back to them but how she can't help but worry and wonder #how she's from the Dalish but never felt like she was Dalish #that the Crows are her family- her real family- and it feels like a betrayal to still wonder of those who came before #before capping it off with like “but my clan kicked me out and I got picked up by slavers for it so fuck them right?”#trying to laugh it off before pushing you to get back to the Lighthouse #maybe a little more on how Scared she was for Treviso- for her 'maybe older brother maybe adoptive father' Viago not being there at the end #(I haven't fully clocked the vibes there but the letter you start with from him gives older brother vibes lmao)#I dunno what the next quest or culmination of this is yet but it's been fun to think about

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sillysymbol · 2 years ago

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normally, especially when it comes to classics, i find that people either wanna engage with the intended themes of the work or they wanna draw gay people real and ignore the point. thank u so much for being the world's bravest soldier and doing both at the same time.

(this is completely 100% genuine and also in this specific case about dr strangelove)

THANK YOUUU SOOOOOO MUCHHHHHH mfw i like analyzing themes and understand media but i also like fictional characters gay kissing so im stuck with all you losers

#its a balancing act. im normal #tbh i love the themes of strangelove #a real period piece abt how dumb the cold war was #while also confronting toxic masculinity and how proving ones masculinity can lead to doing dumb damaging shit #but also MANDRAKE WAS A FAGGOTTTTTTTTTTTTT #GENERAL RIPPER SHOULD HAVE BEEN AT THE CLUBBB #MERKIN MUFFLEY IS FTM BECAUSE HIS NAME IS MERKIN MUFFLEY #and also the whole vibe of the movie UGH. AHHH #symb replies #also i somewhat know how to draw old people. i hate when people give bald characters hair. stop theat

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alltimefail-sims · 1 year ago

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Getting online when T Sw**t does literally anything...

Every tag. Every fandom. Fanfic titles. Retconned characters (this character is a sw***ie, this character is this song coded, this ship is so that song coded and so on). Fan Edits out the ass. Audio clips, lyric quotes, hot takes on Twitter/Instagram/Tumblr/YouTube/TikTok. A cruel, unending slew of exposure you did not ask for lmfao

#when will my suffering end #and the worst part is that I generally have no strong feelings about her 😭 I enjoy several of her songs fr #I feel the same way about like the superbowl for example - when everyone apparently is collectively obsessed with this one thing and you ar #not... it's weird. Idk how else to describe it like everything I know about this subject is against my will lmfao #and I can't emphasize enough that I think her music is like... fine!!! It's not my fave but I do enjoy a handful of her songs but the last #48 or so hours have been absolutely a miserable time for me lmao. I cannot go anywhere on any website without being confronted with #content I do not care to see lmfao and I don't mean that in a bitchy way it's just weird!!!!#and I censored her name because I do not want any fan to get pissed at me or say I hate girls winning or something lmao #that's all I really had to say. It's just weird and I don't want it to come off like I'm trying to steal anyone's joy or like I'm some #entitled music snob asshole... it's just weird when you actively are not looking for a person's content but it doesn't matter because #the content WILL be pushed in everything you enjoy and then you are the asshole or a hater for committing the crime of...#just being uninterested lmao 😭#ignore me #personal #nonsims #just shitposting #gif warning

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tmnt-obsessed-ace · 2 years ago

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My mom keeps going on about fucking AI, how you can write an entire story in seconds and make an entire website using AI, or even using Midjourney to create anything

Meanwhile I'm just sitting here, dying inside as she's stabbing my creative heart to pieces because she wants me to HELP her use the stupid AI because she thinks it will make us a lot of money (it wont she really needs to get off of facebook and stop being so gullible)

I want to cry this feels like a fucking betrayal

#one of her friends told her it was a scam and she was gonna lose her money #and my mom sure as hell isnt listening #even though her friend is RIGHT and she is an idiot #seriously how many times is she gonna habe to get scammed out of her money to fucking LEARN #and AI is just evil in general #bro I want to cry I feel like a fucking traitor because Im gonna have to help her #or risk starting a full blown argument and I avoid confrontation like the plague #i fucking hate it here #why why was I a moron and didn't get a job as a teenager and save up enouh money to MOVE OUT OF THIS HOUSE #so I wouldn't be dragged into this?#god fucking damn it

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