#but someone sent me a screenshot of someone claiming to be me in their inbox

[chipistrate]

Hey if y'all get any asks about a "Garfield bot" or whatever and it's signed by me, then that's 100% NOT me and please ignore it.

Honestly if you get ANY asks signed by me that's from either an anon or another account that's not this one, please just block them and move on- don't give it any attention.

[persicipen]

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all fics i’m working on and that are listed here are available for sponsorship through fics for gaza project. if you wish to sponsor any wip, please refer to @ficsforgaza for more information.

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USEFUL INFO — minors do not interact! i write adult fics for genshin impact and honkai star rail, mostly afab reader, no pronouns or gendered forms used unless stated in content warnings at the beginning of the fic (despite me adding fem labels to avoid displeasing someone).

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first priority. prompts may slightly change (the base stays the same, i may add content warnings) or switch order. regardless of the word count (which definitely should be above 2k per fic as my average writing length is around that), each prompt is for an individual character and $5 to sponsor ノ except for the last one featuring more characters for $10 to sponsor.

✔ oct. 1st — emotionally charged sex

SPONSORED! ₊ ˙ ⊹ . genshin impact ノ zhongli

✔ oct. 8th — edging . orgasm denial

SPONSORED! ₊ ˙ ⊹ . honkai star rail ノ jiaoqiu

✔ oct. 15th — corporal punishment

SPONSORED! ₊ ˙ ⊹ . genshin impact ノ kamisato ayato

✔ oct. 22nd — secret gothic romance

SPONSORED! ₊ ˙ ⊹ . genshin impact ノ capitano

✔ oct. 29th — gangbang

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₊ ˙ ⊹ . these take a lower priority than five kinktober works, but i will focus on them once fics above get sponsored. will be regularly updated if anything changes or gets sponsored.

you can pick a short story from my work in progress list (also copied below) and sponsor it for $5 to force me to write them faster ノ a lighthearted joke, but technically true. i will feel obligated to finish them in the chronological order of receiving proof of donations. no sponsoring for longer wips for now.

CURRENT SHORT STORIES (not) AVAILABLE—

SPONSORED! ₊ ˙ ⊹ . feixiao’s favourite concubine visits her in a tent during the resting hour to bring a special scroll from lingsha…

SPONSORED! ₊ ˙ ⊹ . waking up from a nightmare where you died — aventurine . dr. ratio . sunday…

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[sirensskai]

Who is the Unbortimer anon

Some of this info is now outdated because some new information came out. Specifically @bandom-simmer played a bigger part than we originally thought and a lot more shit happened showing pete isn’t that great a person. I’d advise you not to interact with pete.

There’s been a recent thing on Simblr where people are receiving asks about “Unbortimer” which is the ship name of Unborn Baby Broke and Mortimer Goth. But who is this person? Well me and some discord friends might have found out who it is.

At first I thought it was @bandom-simmer who created this ship in the first place, but it wasn’t Wentz as Pete had gotten Pete’s own asks. Pete sent only some asks to two people, some actually being Ripp related (my recent posts, not all of them though) but not to the entirety of Simblr. The ship has become sort of a meme in the discord server of its origins, which is the Lazy Duchess Server (which I’m banned from now but that’s a different story.) Basically the story is UBB (who was an adult now) was supposed to be paired with Alexander but had high chemistry with Mortimer (who had been staying alive from a custom age span.) And Alexander was gay and better with Daniel Pleasant apparently. It’s a pairing I find extremely weird but it’s not my game and also not as bad as if UBB was actually still a fetus lol. And in the end it’s The Sims.

Someone also thought it was me lol (It isn’t, I only post obsessively about Ripp Grunt as you can see by my Tumblr, and also if you know me on Discord.) Also I apologise if I looked like I was involved in some way 😭 (I was unfortunately blocked by someone.) I haven’t sent any asks.

So who was it? Neither me nor the discord people in the small server we were in had any idea.

The tea started brewing when I got messaged by this account though.

This account belonged to no one on the discord server and I started to highly suspect this was the person behind Unbortimer asks because they made this.

This account sent me a bunch of messages including some selfies and this one (which looks like the kind of thing you get on Simsecret) which had me really confused.

These are all screenshots from servers i’m in or was in so I thought must be from someone in there 😭 But when I asked in announcements, still no one knew lol.

Then this appeared in another server (specifically the Lazy Duchess Server, the one where Unbortimer was founded) before being quickly deleted and the sender being removed. Also claiming that the Unbortimer server is theirs (it’s not, it was created by @bandom-simmer ) From there we could piece clues together.

We looked through the invites for the same code and they matched up here.

Charlytical was questioned and apparently she had sent an invite to a friend. The selfies I was sent also matched her. This friend then confirmed through texts they were the serial Unbortimer asker.

She also confirmed making this

So that’s the Unbortimer person figured out now right? Well maybe not quite, cause apparently there’s multiple people sending asks and they aren’t all down to this person

So I guess that’s the story of the great Unbortimer asks scandal. We know who you are (or at least one of you if there’s multiple) but apparently nothing will stop you from still flooding my inbox with Unbortimer asks.

[chr0macide]

6/26/2024

Content warning: mentions of pedophilia, mentions of grooming

EDIT 7/17/2024 - We believe every message sent to us was actually puppy_tearz impersonating Karter. Karter no longer believes I am a pedophile. This post and the document have been edited to reflect this

Sorry to invade the Break In tags with weird stuff, but puppy_tearz and Karter will do the same thing if they end up releasing his document.

I have received information that Karter is planning on releasing a document accusing me of pedophilia. I have enough information to speak preemptively about this. I am aware that some people who are/have been associated with me have already been sent messages claiming that I am a pedophile.

Junk and Moss received these strange messages from puppy_tearz attempting to impersonate Karter anonymously in their Tumblr inboxes on 6/25/2024 (I deleted the strange messages that were sent to me without screenshotting them). The user also messaged Junk privately on Tumblr to ask whether it was in a pedophilic relationship with @blanketmoss (A.K.A. Moss or Buggy) and I:

This is what initially tipped us off about what was happening. On the same date, Karter was contacted by someone who used to know @junkzsillystuff (Junk) and was convinced by the user that I am a pedophile based on the way that I speak to Junk and Moss + the fanart that I have drawn of our Roblox characters.

That user used to share an account with Junk, was able to log into Junk’s current account, and pulled a screenshot of the #vent channel in Junk's server that had been sent into our group chat by Moss:

Junk also received a message through Straw.Page threatening to dox it:

The dox threat was sent by puppy_tearz.

Puppy_tearz, on 6/26/2024, informed Junk of what they had done. They expressed regret (which, in light of future events, did not last) user gave Junk access to their own Discord account so that Junk could view their conversation with Karter itself. These screenshots of the conversation are linked here because there is more than a dozen of them.

The user also refused to ask Karter to stop and expressed that they could not handle seeing Junk happy with others. This was Junk’s conversation with the user:

Just to be clear… no, I am not a pedophile. No, I am not involved in an online relationship with a minor. If you are out of the loop, Karter was a user who cyberstalked and harassed Junk for a couple of months, but has since stopped. We have not had direct contact with Karter since late May this year. Junk was innocent of Karter’s accusations, so I produced a document clearing its name and informing people of things Karter has done that I feel they should know about before interacting with him. Evidence was included.

Karter was misled into believing that I am a pedophile, but as of the date of my edit to this post, he no longer believes this. The other user’s motive is that it would like to harm Junk for ceasing contact with them.

Again, I am not a pedophile. I am not involved in an online relationship with a minor or minors.

For completeness, I am linking every document that has been created relating to these issues:

Document I – Harassment and Cyberstalking Campaign Perpetrated by Karter and the Wrightworths Against JunkzInterlude (authored by myself)

Document II – Karter’s response to Document I

Document III – Junk’s response to Document II

This list will be edited to include Karter’s document accusing me of pedophilia if/when he releases it.

Document I will be updated with the above events (along with any future events).

I understand that puppy_tearz’s allegations are very severe, but please do not harass them or Karter.

[melynnwater]

someone sent me a gift for ad-free tumblr browsing which is a thing now I guess, but it won't show up in my gift inbox for me to claim or reject, which means that the big and intrusive notification on my screen is just stuck there for seemingly ever (screenshots submerged in water so you don't get confused what is real and what is fake)

[dreambeloved]

you don't think that the snaps were sent to someone else? he's said on his twitter that he had relations with someone over age back in 2020, from where I'm standing it looks very much like that person was possibly nat, who has admitted recently that she's been in contact with the people behind the burner.

not to mention that the evidence of the alleged exchanges between dream and the victim are images of screenshots of screenshots of a video of someones phone.

I just think it's way too soon to go throwing everything away, he hasn't even released his video yet!

much love and i hope you're ok <3.

There are over 50 asks in my inbox right now, but this one is actually worded kindly, so I’ll answer. Believe what you want of course, I’m not here to harass people into seeing things the way I see them, but just an explanation on the way I view it.

It’s very clear to me that he lied about who he sent those snaps to when everything is put together. At first, I wanted to attribute it to just forgetting who they were sent to, or mixing people up- but the way he went about proving that lie is what makes it obvious that this isn’t some mix-up.

To start, I want to point out that both the burner account and Nat (who Dream says is the actual recipient of those snaps) have denied Nat’s involvement with the burner beyond sharing the “chia seeds” discord screenshots. She also provided proof (linked here) that she hasn’t been in contact with him on snap since 2019. (burner account confirmation linked here).

Now, when he provided proof of Nat being the recipient, he provided this screenshot (seen below on the left). It should be noted that the “Sam” in discussion was a mutual between them both on Twitter, and not his ex, like some think. In the screenshot Nat provided (seen below on the right), there are voice memos that were either edited out or deleted before Dream posted them. Nat also provided videos (linked here) to show that the messages are authentic.

Okay I’m going off on a tangent here. I don’t have the energy to go through every little piece, so for now, here’s my conclusion for the Nat thing. To me at least, it very clearly isn’t her. But if the actual recipient of those videos wasn’t someone that shouldn’t have been sent them in the first place, why go to such lengths to claim so? Why go through all the trouble of bringing in someone completely uninvolved if there was nothing wrong with it in the first place? Even as a stan, I could admit that he has a thing about lying at first when he’s in the wrong, so all this just feels like the final nail.

Now, even if this was just some elaborate set-up to get him cancelled, I still find it really uncomfortable and strange that he sent something like that to a fan anyways? I feel like a lot of people forget the whole power imbalance aspect when it comes to youtubers with their fans. The fact that he has so many intimate relationships with stans/fans strikes me as weird whether they’re legal or not.

That’s all I have for now, at least on the “could be Nat” situation. There are a Lot of asks and messages that I don’t have the energy to go through, so I’ll probably make a final post and then never look in my notifs again.

[sophieinwonderland]

It's fun going back in my inbox to the r/systemscringe drama...

To recap, I sent a request for them to censor my name when they were making the hitlist and then got several responses from both sides.

Here's a few from that period:

You know what, with time and separation, I can admit... in response to the second anon... yeah... it WAS hypocritical.

It was very, incredibly hypocritical to ask r/systemscringe to not mention my name while responding to their posts with the full usernames on my blog.

I mean, I do think there's a difference in scale of course. They're a subreddit with 30k members. But now that time has passed, I can say aloud...

The goal of demanding they not mention my name was always to ensure a spot on their hit list.

I run a pretty average-sized blog. I'm not actually a public figure.

When I heard r/systemscringe was considering putting me on their hitlist that they claim targets public figures, I made a post about it. In that same post, I screenshotted the users in that thread. I threw it in their face that they couldn't put me on their list because my following was too small, and practically dared them to try.

Maybe they would have added me regardless, but I didn't want to leave that to chance.

So to the last anon, were they doing things to get a rise out of me? Yeah... And I was sure to give it to them.

I made certain to act appalled and indignant, and give them all the emotional reactions they would expect to see from someone if they were getting under her skin. I didn't lie and say I was hurt or angry by their actions. But I tried to at least give that impression and make sure they felt they got the rise they wanted.

All while editing my pinned post to include a list of r/systemscringe lies that hopefully the subscribers of that subreddit would see the first time they followed my name to find my blog.

I think r/systemscringe thought that all the hate posts they sent my way would get to me and tear me down. But I've played this game for a couple years now, and all they did was bring back old posts that I had already addressed and dealt with.

In essence, the incident with the hitlist was reverse psychology. It was me advocating they not mention me in a way that was intentionally designed to ensure I'd get added to their list.

Not everything worked out as I wanted in the end. For one thing, I was hoping they would have made more despicable posts about me on Reddit so I could make a solid harassment claim and hopefully get rid of their hatesub for good. Unfortunately, a lot of the worst posts about me were in their server, which Reddit wouldn't take action against.

That was always a long shot though, and I'm satisfied with just getting on their list and putting my small blog on the radar of their hatesub.

[wardogsong]

Good bye. I hope everyone who bullied me is fucking happy. I hope everyone who got my account deleted is happy. I'm done.

cw: mentions of self-harm and mutilation under the readmore, and also just basic dash consideration. I realize I have not been here in months, owe everything and everyone, etc... which adds an extra layer of mind-bending hilarity to this all.

Stray,

You are both breaking my heart and wearing my last nerve out. I'm only human. I'm not a saint. While I am genuinely very sorry that tumblr deleted your account, did you read the email that they sent to you? I know that you screenshotted it. You have it posted right now on this iteration of your blog.

Truth be told? I don't know if anyone reported your account. I can say with a clear conscience that I didn't. I had no reason to. The last I interacted with you and/or that account was when I was in the comments of your pinned post, talking to you there.

I am not exactly certain that your account would have required much reporting, to be honest. I think that you are imagining a bandwagon of people joining together to work against you, given the way you are currently in several inboxes, calling people bullies and so on. Again, I can say with a completely clear conscience, I have never participated in any such link up or bandwagon against you, or anyone else.

So let's keep it a buck. You do somewhat routinely post about the things mentioned in that email. It's your blog, you have a right to talk about the state of your mental health if you want to, but in this case, it was tumblr itself taking notice and action of the frequency of that, and what specifically you were saying.

Hell, let's go back in time a bit. You and I literally met and became mutuals BECAUSE you posted a farewell note on your blog, several deletions and remakes ago. It was written as if it were a done deal, and having been familiar with your url in the fandom tags, I was immediately worried for you, stranger that you were, and desperate to reach out to you hoping it would come before a too-late kind of moment. You know what the saddest part of that search for you was? Encountering people who did claim to know you and who said, with great shame, that this was somewhat regular for you.

You know it too, because even in our conversations you mentioned having been blamed or accused of attention seeking in the past and having callouts written about you.

The answer is right there, Stray. Your blog was deleted for mentions of self-harm. You may not have been glorifying it or promoting it, but you posted about it enough that you finally tripped a flag somewhere. That's it. That's all it is.

As for the rest? This is the second time you're calling me a bully. Yet again, I am asking you to prove it. Please show me the instances in which I bullied you, or the actions that I took against you. What, exactly, did I do? Because to the best of my recollection? I spent a while trying to be your friend, trying to be as supportive as I could be, introducing you to other friends of mine to help widen your circle, gaming with you, plotting things to write with you and then the one night I couldn't stay up late to talk with you because I was literally recovering from being incredibly ill AND had to take my son to an appointment the next day... ended up with you having sent me overnight screenshots of deleting your blog and either blocking or unfriending me on discord. Which one of those things was the bullying, Stray? Because the way I see it? You're the one who ditched me the second I couldn't be of use to you.

last but not least, rumor out of the hell part of this country says you have a problem with sharing mutuals. you don't like it when someone you like writes or interacts with someone you don't like and that may be the root cause of your distress. if so, rumors of my and @lt-ghxst's relationship are both greatly exaggerated and misunderstood. it's not my fault I tagged and bagged him, as that is what you do with wild gators. however, if he has slighted you, I don't take any responsibility for him. he's untrained and not yet housebroken. it's a miracle if I can get him to only piss outdoors. he bites. he's ornery and nasty-tempered. Honestly, he should probably be put to sleep but I am determined to break him in.

[caffeinated-chaos-bean]

So... I'm going to say this here and now, just as I did back when we had to deal with that religious nutcase.

People are allowed to have differing opinions and takes on things. People are allowed to have their own comforting reason for how they view things. Both of these instances include how they view a fictional character, and it has come to my attention that a dear friend of mine is currently being harassed for indulging in just that.

Not only is Kaz being harassed, this person seems to have made multiple sock accounts with absolutely no content tied to them just to continue sending hate her way.

Now, I'm not going to share the name of this account. What I will show, however, is a screenshot of their archive:

This person has only been around for two months. The way they post about the fictional character of their choosing is outright obsessive and delusional. Also, have they forgotten that internet translators exist? If you intend to talk crap on someone in another language, make sure its one that isn't added to a translation database, buddy. We know what you're saying with the help of Google Translate and DeepL.

If you want to be delulu and claim that Straizo, a fictional character, is your husband then fine. You're entitled to have that opinion and belief, especially if it is something that brings you comfort (so long as you can be rational and recognize that he is not a real living person).

What you are NOT entitled to do is go batshit crazy and harass someone for having a different opinion of said FICTIONAL character. Keyword: FICTIONAL.

If Araki came out today and said his personal view on the character and those views differed from your own, would you do the same to him? The literal person responsible for Straizo existing in the first place? Would you harass him and say the things you've said to Kaz in confidence? Would you make sock account after sock account to sent hate and badmouth and play the victim over it? I highly doubt you would, and if I'm wrong... well, that just shows how much help you truly fucking need.

Now, if you'd like to fill my inbox with garbage instead, go for it. I deal with far worse irl than I do online. You won't get the reaction you're seeking from me.

Because that's what you want, isn't it?

A reaction. The attention.

That's why you do this. Because you're spiteful, arrogant, and want a reaction out of people because it brings you the attention you crave.

You're like a mosquito. Useless and annoying.

[themessengervevo]

Hi, this isn't my usual art post or occasional reblog, but this has been bugging me for an amount of time now and I can't help myself but to share this.

So as of recent with the whole Palestine vs Israel ordeal I noticed quite a lot of reblogs and asks of palestinian and (gazaian? gazan? idk) people wanting support due to the whole thing, and before i decided to deep dive into this I thought not much of it, "they need some help right now, and that's fine", though I implore a no advertising policy for my online presence so I can't help with that.

I recently got an inbox message while I posted my recent art piece on here archive, which is a little weird for me but it happens sometimes. It's from one of those accounts claiming to be from Gaza, and it's written pretty sad and all, but the thing that made it weird is the timing of this ask being sent out. It was sent about two days after another one of these. The scratched out part of the screenshot below is a gofundme link.

Now of course I'm a little bit of a skeptic, and I also empathize with people of Gaza and Palestine and the horrors They're going through, but this specific message ticked me off on a bit of an oddity so to say. As I said back in two paragraphs ago, I've been noticing more and more people rebloging posts and asks about people in Gaza who are suffering and all, but after looking into it, they all seem rather similar, aren't they?

Now of course this is the internet, there will inevitably be someone in Gaza posting on Tumblr, but there's a weird repetitiveness of these numerous accounts. Many of them are in the ranges of 17 to early 20's, many of them claim to have a prestigious position like a degree in medicine or science, many of them detail in overly long prose about many tragedies, and many of them end in a gofundme link. And that's practically the only charity website that's used. A bit weird, but whatever, it's just for letting people know, right?

This is the account I showed earlier, the scratched out part is, again, a gofundme link for support, understandable, but weird. But look at the post history, and you'll see that every single post, starting straight from the first one on August 19th, and only breaking at milestone posts (like the 5 posts one), is entirely devoted to advertising this gofundme link, and it is the exact same one. Wouldn't this user, who purpotedly is on Tumblr and in Gaza, be doing any other activity, like liking posts, reblogging other's posts that arent his, anything that isn't just constant advertisement?

Now of course this wouldn't be all that odd with only one guy doing this sort of thing, but I have witnessed so many accounts that do nothing but post their gofundme links with formatting so similar, you'd think they are plagiarizing from each other. From the same giant titles saying "Listen to me" or "Read this message", to the same coloring of texts, to even posting this stuff as soon as they create their account and pinging alot of random, seemingly unrelated accounts. Why are there so many of them, and why do all of them have gofundme links?

Now this might piss off a grand amount of people considering the whole Palestine and Gaza strip stuff, but there might be a miniscule, really tiny chance, that this stuff might be illegitimate? That all of these accounts with nearly identical post history, style, and substance might be all a ruse to funnel a ton of money from clueless people? Maybe they are using random's identities, maybe these randoms get a cut from the overall funding, but there's always a chance it might be a scam. It's all too artificial and bot-like for me.

I don't know though, maybe it's just me being skeptical of everything these days.

[justleaf]

Long post ahead. Looking at what's going on around our fandom, here's a pre-emptive guide on..

Reporting someone who is harassing you on AO3 and on Tumblr.

Making your case clear-cut

You're defending against an attacker, not instigating the attack. Find a post in which your harasser was the first to antagonise you, and use that.

It should be very clear that the harassment is meant for you. Were you tagged in a post in which you were harassed? Did your harasser leave a nasty comment on your post or fic? Did your harasser send you an Ask? Those will work. What's not going to work is if someone writes an essay on "People who step on legos for fun really suck", and you assume that it's directed at you because you like stepping on legos. There's no clear link in those cases.

Leave the evidence intact. Don't delete anything. If you're sent an ask, let it marinate in your inbox. If you're gifted a fic, don't reject it. Just leave it be.

Document. The harasser might delete their post or comment. Save the URL, and obtain a screenshot with time and date visible somewhere in the screenshot.

Reporting On AO3

Before you report...

Know what you're reporting by reading the terms of service. Search for "IV. Content and Abuse Policies" to get to the bit you're looking for.

After that, here's how to go about your report.

Click here to get to the page where you can file your report. If the link doesn't work, it's under "Policy Questions & Abuse Reports".

Keep it to just the facts. There is no character limit, but the people reading these reports are human and it would be nice if you made their job easier by being concise. State what the problem is, what you've tried to get it to stop, and what the harasser has done. Provide evidence, otherwise it's all hearsay.

Here's an example: I would like to report a case of Harassment (section IV.G of the ToS) directed at me by the user boatyard18. On 3rd January 2020 I was gifted the work linked in this report by boatyard18. The work included a message directed at me, in which they falsely claimed that I "love stepping on legos". To provide some background, boatyard18 has explicitly been asked to stop communicating with me on 1st January 2020 via a Tumblr post (linkhere). I have also blocked them on Tumblr in an attempt to stop communication. This has clearly not worked, as they have looked for me on a different platform to try and communicate with me. Thank you for your time.

Don't submit more than 1 ticket. AO3 works quite quickly and they look at every single report.

Reporting On Tumblr

Before you report...

Make sure you've blocked the user prior to their continued harassment.

(optional but helpful) Explicitly stated publicly or in a DM that you don't want them to interact with you.

Read and understood which policy is being violated.

These steps are important, because it will show that you've done what's in your power to prevent the person from harassing you and there's nothing left for you to do but take it up to Tumblr.

If all these check your boxes, here's how to go about your report:

Don't respond negatively, or just don't respond at all. Don't give the harasser you're reporting anything to use against you. Don't say anything that invites them to talk to you.

Click here to get to the form. Keep it short. The report form has a limit of 360 characters. State what the problem is, what you've tried to get it to stop, and what the harasser has done. Keep it factual.

Here's an example: I'd like to report that I am being harassed by the user boatyard18. I blocked the user as of 1st Jan 2020 and told them to stop communicating with me [linkhere]. Since then, boatyard18 has made a post linked in this report, in which they uploaded screenshots of my blog, tagged me, and wrote a message to me. Thank you for looking into this.

Don't submit more than 1 ticket within 14 days, unless you have something new to report. In my experience, Tumblr may take some time to take action and probably will not get back to you about the resolution. Unless 2 weeks have passed, then maybe it got lost or there was a glitch and you might want to submit another one.

That's it. Good luck, and I'm sorry you're being harassed.

[d-aydreamaway]

Hi. Sorry for the horrible messages you have been receiving in your inbox. However, respectfully, I don’t think kingkonoha is the one sending you hate. It logically does not make sense. When you first suspected them, they would have stopped because they are caught and they don’t want to make themselves look worse. I believe this because I sent them an ask about this entire situation off anon and they didn’t answer, so I don’t think they would draw any more attention to this situation and themselves in a negative way. I’m not important enough to take sides in drama like this. We’re all writers and everyone knows how to tell a good story, hard to know who to believe with all the different claims. However, that one thing doesn’t make sense to me and I felt compelled to speak up. I wouldn’t be surprised if that anon is someone trying to make this situation worse than it is by taking on a vengeful, hateful tone you would imagine kingkonoha would have in order for you to blame her and worsen this chaos.

However, I think it is wrong for both kingkonoha and ambassadorarlert to accuse each other of horrible things on a public platform based solely on their suspicions. I don’t know. That’s my opinion. ❤️‍🩹

hi, thank you <3 but i'll be honest, i never thought nor publicly speculated that she was the one sending me anonymous messages.... i got the hint from being called a "dickrider for a lying snake" which is not true, kels is not a liar. i've seen all the screenshots i need to formulate my own opinion.

however, there's a pattern of behavior between the anonymous hate kels and i have received which inclines me to believe it's the same person.

for example. nitpicking and calling things out that are not truly harmful.

why does it matter that the song i've referenced in my pinned is about a gay man? is it really an issue just bc i'm a woman? i've been listening to troye sivan for a long time and i just adore those lyrics. why is that a) an issue? and b) relevant??

clearly,they're purposefully trying to make me out to be a bad guy because i'm not taking the opposing side.

[aemiron-main]

Okay last thing on this bc someone just dm’d me this screenshot- i have never sent an anon ask to dani at any point in time ever about any topic. I’ve sent like two anon asks in my life, neither of which were even anon hate.

If we want to talk about receiving harassment, let’s talk about you accusing me of being an IRL rapist apologist because I’m analyzing Henry- and let’s talk about the metric fuckton of hate I get in my inbox as a result of this + of your other bs claims about me being biphobic.

This isn’t just me being bored, this is me being floored that you accused me of being a rapist apologist & that you’re spewing really gross ableist rhetoric.

Dani, your victim complex here is really something. And whatever rancid asskissing anon sent that ask can rest assured that I haven’t sent a single one of those asks. Like I said, I’ll just call Dani an idiot on main for her ableist & weird takes. I don’t need to hide behind anon!!!! Since when have i shied away from discourse???

[lakka-arts]

I have no idea if that was targeted at me or Marina but either way, yeah, that’s absolutely true - it's funny to hear this from someone who plagiarizes screenshots for the sake of the battle of little ships and and who drew the hateful art with vernonciri. And then you pretends to be innocent victims and surprised that a person is offended. What you're all doing to Marina is monstrous. You all have no conscience.

okay WHAT

??? The plagiarism thing was disproven several times as a result of Marina overreacting. I was using a Twitter meme as a reference. I have screenshots of one of my friends asking me to draw Vesiri USING THAT MEME. Not once did I consider using Marina’s edits to copy off of, I didn’t even KNOW it existed.

Marina already came to me about it. This was my response. ALSO. It’s not alike at all. Don’t know what y’all are talking about with the plagiarism claims.

(My drawing on the right for comparison)

(Not to mention?? why would I plagiarize. i know how to draw)

Also “hateful art”— if you’re talking about that Calanthe-blocked drawing, that was not hateful! Yes, it was meant to troll Marina, not the ship, and it was after she had harassed me and my friends numerous times, but if you’re taking it that seriously and still supporting her, I suggest you go outside and touch some grass. thank you <33

Side note: we are victims of marina and in this sense, we are innocent. we have never interacted with marina majorly before this. It has ALWAYS been marina interacting with us first, harassing us first, sending us dms and asks in our inbox. To push this point, I GHOSTED her. I sent her NOTHING in response to the TENS of texts where she sent me random keysmashes, ‘go to hell’ ‘VernonCiri is objectively a beautiful ship’

Genuinely. How do you justify and defend this:

Also as a last note, for every other ask defending marina in my inbox, I will respond with a vesiri, ceryis, or veseryis drawing.

[songofsoma]

taking a break

tw for SA and racism

if you’re wondering why this is coming today instead of yesterday with @ladiemars’s post it’s because yesterday i was absolutely furious over everything and fully prepared to go scorched earth with how upset one of my best friends was. i slept on it, took a nice shower, and am calm since said friend is doing much better today.

i’m sure many people have seen the call-out post made by @ava-du-mortain about almost two weeks ago now. this person and i have a long history beginning three years ago. we had a conversation that ended up turning into me being mansplained what counted as sexual assault. i don’t talk about my personal life very much on this blog, but when i was in high school i was groomed and then sexually assaulted by a man in a way many people would probably brush off or say i was overexaggerating. so someone trying to explain what was about sexual assault sent me into a spiral that night three years ago. i avoided them ever since 1) not wanting to worsen the situation and 2) i didn’t need that in my life.

i will not be producing screenshots because i deleted our dms soon after it happened. seeing that in my inbox every day made me feel sick. something one person might think is harmless in saying can truly send someone with diagnosed ptsd into a spiral. there is no way an opposite party could've known before, but it was handled poorly even after i explained my experience with sexual assault. I

in regards to the black woman i allegedly called “aggressive,” this person and i used to be friends as we ran in the same friend group. i cared about them but sometimes friendships don’t work. i didn’t like the way they treated other people and decided to no longer be friends with them. we were all teenagers whose friend group imploded and went separate ways. it happens. pap wasn’t even involved in said friend group and was never there. when everything blew up all over again in 2021, things were brought up again and it sucked. i’m a confrontational person. i will call out bad behavior. if you’re an asshole, i will call you an asshole. that is something about me that will never change. 

at the same time, someone who i had been friends with had been told by pap i was being racist in posts toward mason because he’s brown and that i was oversexualizing my brown oc in a way that it was the only reason she existed. mason isn't my favorite character because, around the time that this happened, his characterization held a lot of the same mannerisms as my assaulter. the pushiness and toxic hypersexuality of his character in 2021 (which was something m*shka finally addressed and, to my knowledge fixed) was very similar to the man who assaulted me. i've never had an issue with people who love mason, these were my own issues and something i made light of as a way of coping.

instead of talking to me straight up, they were trying to plan some sort of “intervention” that felt more like an ambush when it was talked about with my friends behind my back. knowing how that friend group could act from witnessing it in the past, my friends told me, worried something like the before-mentioned “call-out” post happening. i’ve always been open to criticism. if i’m doing something wrong, i trust someone to come to me like an adult and discuss it. that didn’t happen and it was twisted into me not wanting to be held accountable when really people who loved me were worried about something similar to this happening. i still tried to have the conversation with the person i am no longer friends with because of this, but tempers were high on both sides and it ended up just being one big disaster. 

that leads me into the point of i have never once claimed to be a person of color. a lot of tumblr accounts don’t have their race listed in their bio. the “evidence” linked was a three-year-old broken about me page that i haven’t had working since i was nineteen and an ask wondering what ethnicity my oc is. 

speaking of my oc, specifically linking asks where she’s sexual or me explicitly stating she likes sex does not mean that is her entire character. she’s developed over the years and has turned out to be a wildly different character than when i first made her. characters grow and change. she does not just exist to be sexualized. if there truly was a problem with her character, i would hope one of the people of color whose opinion i trust would let me know after three or so years. pap’s opinion means little to me in multiple senses from personal experience which is why one person having these specific problems no one else has had is something i disregard. i don’t live my entire life on tumblr. i have people outside this app that i know will hold me accountable. 

as much as i enjoy writing and making content for wayhaven, it’s truly not fun to me anymore. i’ve rediscovered the pleasure of writing for just myself and my friends this past year and have several personal projects i’m working on. many of my mutuals have been lost over this, mostly because they didn’t want to get involved which i could never fault them for, or they were afraid of being blasted in the town square in a similar manner. i wasn’t hit as hard as my friends. once you’ve been doxxed before, someone who hates you on the internet isn’t a huge issue. 

overall, i want to explicitly state—i do not care what you think of me. if you read the post and think i’m awful, block me, unfollow me, it doesn’t really matter to me. i absolutely do not want anyone attacking the person who made the original post, i find that behavior unacceptable. i would simply like to go back to genuinely forgetting they exist like i have done for the past three years. this post is the most attention i will ever give that account ever again because i know the main motivator is looking for a reaction. 

all my prior writings and such will stay up. i don’t know if i’ll continue posting my fics and such. i may take a long break or i may just use this for reblogging purposes, i haven’t decided. 

have a great weekend

lindsay <3

[folklauerate]

It wasn't you that wrote that santhony fic but all the rest checks out, too many bitches in this fandom fake love Kanthony seeing the god awful and out of characters fic your write and how much you love to bring Siena into their relationship and have Kate and Anthony cheat on each other. Also I can't wait for Bridgerton to cast Sophie since you like to invent gay ships and ignore the existence of canon women of this saga :)

I wonder if the anon message someone sent me earlier was from you or from someone else, and that anon sent you a screenshot of what they sent me and you two have discussed it together! That, you silly billy, is fan behavior <3

This has really tickled me because it couldn't be further from the truth, and so, I really wonder how much of my work you're 1) reading and 2) comprehending and 3) if you have any reading comprehension skills at all whatsoever. I think this message proves that you do not.

Honestly, I feel as though I really don't write anything remotely angsty lmfao. I don't write them cheating on each other or in relationships with other people because I personally cannot always handle writing certain subject matter because it makes me a touch sad! You can come comb through my AO3 and see that this is exactly the case.

That being said, even if I did write those things, it is none of your business that I do. It's literally fanfiction. Since the beginning of fanfiction, from the dawn of the internet, people have been writing and shipping random characters together for their own fun. For me, at least, I enjoy having a creative outlet and exploring different scenarios, and I would never begrudge another person to write whatever they want and whomever they want. If I don't like a certain ship or the setting of a fic--I don't read it! It is as simple as that! And I certainly don't take time out of my day to go into the inbox of someone on tumblr and send them a cowardly anon message, riddled with untruths, that is only spreading hate. Funnily enough, in attempting to "stick up" for "women" and/or "woc," you are quite literally harassing a woman of color, who, I assure you, does not at all have the same amount of money or connections or influence Simone Ashley does. You are quite literally sending hate and rude comments to someone who faces plenty of racism, sexism, and homophobia, and who lacks the privilege wealth and influence might provide as a shield that a very famous actress does. On what planet is continuing to harass someone anonymously--which you do because you know that these comments are wrong, and if you sent them from your actual account, you'd be reported and lose your privileges on the internet, and rightfully so--defending the very same people you claim to love and "stan"? Do you think they would cheer and be joyful that you are spreading such hate and vitriol in their name? Do you think anyone in their right mind would support such actions?

I know that this sort of misplaced hatred comes because you lack power and the ability to have control over your own life, and likely because you are deeply unhappy with yourself. While I have never taken the time out of my day to harass and spread hate in this way, I've suffered from feelings of depression and unhappiness before, too--a lot of people have. I promise you, this is not the way to find happiness with your life. It is not the way to feel any power over your life, it is not the way to feel any joy or find meaning out of your life.

If you need to speak to someone about your feelings, I urge you to call up a friend. I urge you to write a letter and then throw it away. I urge you to get all these feelings out of your head and then take a long, nice walk, with good music. Find a hobby--you can even start writing fanfiction, which is free, fulfilling, and you can do it in your own free time that you will now have because you've stopped spreading hate, and you can make friends who share your interests!

There is a brighter, better world out there, and I want you to discover it for yourself. You will feel so much more fulfilled and happy with your life when you do. Yelling at people you don't know online and sending them hate messages is not the way to live a happy, fulfilled, meaningful life. It is not the way to feel content and at peace with yourself. It is also not the way to make friends! Anon, let me tell you something; I have written plenty of fanfiction about Kate and Anthony. A lot of it is actually quite good. When people are kind to me and are my friends, I send them snippets of that writing before I put it up on AO3, just because I know they'll enjoy it. I talk about AU ideas with them, I talk about characters with them, I make jokes about those characters! It's fun. It's nice. I could do all of that with you, too, if you were kinder. Lucky for you, I am quick to forgive and like to see the best in people. I urge you to look for the best in yourself, work on yourself, and then come back. It doesn't have to be this way.