#capaces

[leregirenga]

"Las mujeres tienen otra opción. Pueden aspirar a ser sabias, no meramente agradables; a ser capaces, no meramente serviciales; a ser fuertes, no meramente graciosas; a ser ambiciosas por sí mismas, no sólo por sí mismas en relación con hombres y niños. Pueden dejarse envejecer naturalmente y sin vergüenza, protestando activamente y desobedeciendo las convenciones que surgen del doble estándar de esta sociedad sobre el envejecimiento. En lugar de ser niñas, niñas el mayor tiempo posible, que luego se convierten en mujeres de mediana edad de manera humillante, pueden convertirse en mujeres mucho antes y seguir siendo adultas activas, disfrutando de la larga y erótica carrera de la que las mujeres son capaces, mucho más tiempo. Las mujeres deberían permitir que sus rostros muestren la vida que han vivido. Las mujeres deberían decir la verdad." -Susan Sontag, "Contra la Interpretación"-

[secretenthusiastdream]

[liones-s]

one of the biggest things I can advocate for (in academia, but also just in life) is to build credibility with yourself. It’s easy to fall into the habit of thinking of yourself as someone who does things last minute or who struggles to start tasks. people will tell you that you just need to build different habits, but I know for me at least the idea of ‘habit’ is sort of abstract and dehumanizing. Credibility is more like ‘I’ve done this before, so I know I can do it, and more importantly I trust myself to do it’. you set an assignment goal for the day and you meet it, and then you feel stronger setting one the next day. You establish a relationship with yourself that’s built on confidence and trust. That in turn starts to erode the barrier of insecurity and perfectionism and makes it easier to start and finish tasks. reframing the narrative as a process of building credibility makes it easier to celebrate each step and recognize how strong your relationship with yourself can become

[great-and-small]

I have strong opinions regarding the walrus/fairy poll

[solarwreathe]

in another universe they could have been playing at the beach

[fineapple20]

Portraits

Retouched this set from last year, because it was haunting me laying there 80% finished

[blondie-drawings]

working on some silly tlt memes for my friend's bday and I liked how this one came out 🥲

[equilibriumnatural]

La Cocina y la Biodiversidad

[traaumaa]

insane to me that because of how my parents acted towards me as a child my brain was irrevocably changed and now i just have to suffer the rest of my life because of it

[almostsweetangel]

NYT article abt goncharov has comments like 'what is the purpose of this film's existence these kids are just lying' motherfucker how do you think our ancestors survived. how do you think folklore formed. culture. music. art. PURPOSE????? do you think everything must be commodified? sold? weighed to be valued? has the rot in your soul spread so far you cannot find value in anything not spoken in numbers??? it's FUN. THAT'S WHY. THE PURPOSE IS THE ACT, THE MESSAGE IS THE MEDIUM, THE SYMBOL IS THE STORY. it brings people joy for its mere existence and that IS the point. existence is its purpose alone

[digitalfossils]

[drawerbread]

always your sword, my umbral sovereign

(finished rereading htn and i am not afraid to admit that it made me bawl like a baby… again)

[onebadnoodle]

[🍒]

[valtsv]

the thing about "callout/cancel culture" that convinced me it's rotten to the core is the dehumanisation you face once you become the subject of a campaign like that. a lot of criticisms of callout/cancellation attempts appeal to the humanity of the subject, pointing out that it's unfair and unproductive to treat a person, a fellow human being, regardless of how much harm they've caused and how genuinely unlikable they are, like that. but unfortunately the reality of being the target of a mob mentality often means facing the very isolating and traumatising experience of realising that you've ceased to exist as a person in their eyes. you're a representation of your transgressions, an embodiment of harm that needs to be erased like a blemish, a spectacle for entertainment, a means of earning social approval by publicly condemning and humiliating you in what quickly becomes a competition to see who can strike the blow that knocks you down so you never get up again. nobody cares about who you are outside of what you did. people make mistakes and hurt one another, but there is always the capacity for change, for regret and reparations. you are an irredeemable monster. you can't change. the only way to make sure you can't cause harm ever again is to neutralise you entirely. to drive you off and hurt you so badly that you never consider coming back. and it often succeeds. but it doesn't make the world a better or safer place. it just tells everyone that certain behaviours will be punished, so you should conceal them, and harshly condemn them in others so that everyone knows where you stand; nobody will stand up for you if you're accused and brought out for judgement, so you shouldn't trust anyone, and always be on the lookout to take them down before they can do the same to you. you're not creating a safe, welcoming community. you're creating a panopticon built on fear and punishment.

[coffee-scrub]

Coffee break ☕️

[rainbow-sunshine-unicorn]

Remember when Anthony Bridgerton said:

And then it turns out that this is him with his wife: