#fictosex

[kakushusband]

💟 FICTOSEXUAL and FICTOROMANTIC flags! 💟

I've had issues with the current ficto flags for a long, long time. So I took it upon myself to make new ones.

The first three stripes of each flag are taken from their respective spectrum flags (acespec and arospec), and the bottom three are shades of red and pink chosen to represent romance/sexual attraction since they're colors commonly associated with those feelings. The bigger stripe represents a bridge between attraction and lack of attraction, and it's white to encompass every possible way that connection is formed.

I also thought the 💟(heart decoration) would be a good symbol for us, since, while it's only a decoration, it is, still, a heart; a representation of how objects of our affection are fictional, but our feelings are still real and meaningful all the same. I used that specific one because I find it cuter, that's all!

And while these flags were primarily designed with aro/acespec people in mind, I don't really care if allo people use it. I made them this way as a reflection of myself but, again, I am not gatekeeping these flags if you don't fall under the aro and/or ace umbrellas. Be free.

If these are positively received, I'll make an aroace version as well!

*note about the DNI: Pro/comshippers are NOT to use this flag. I despise and abhor you. If you're desperate enough to use a flag made by someone like me, that's on you. Also, Devilman Crybaby fans are welcome to use this, just don't put it where i can see. Same goes for people who share Kaku.

[ballsalsda]

Being a fictospec cavaero is so wild because most of the time its like this

Me: pleaese... i jUst want to be nOrmal and lOve reAl tangbile pEOPLE 🥺🥺🥺

Brain: No. Instead you are going to feel four (4) tertiary attraction for the same 6 fictional characters

[chillyneon]

*Me pulling out my aroace flag and waving it aggressively before anyone accuses me of speaking over aroaces even though I'm an aroace selfshipper because apparently that's fucking required.*

Selfshipping aroace characters isn't erasure, they still exist as aroace canonly and it's not the fandoms job to hold strictly to canon. It's not an individual artist's job to not DARE draw anything sexual or romantic of aroace characters.

"But it feels like erasure to see porn of an aroace character. We don't get to have aroace characters often, and I want to hold on tightly to their canon." That's not erasure, the character is still 100% canon aroace in their media. Stop trying to shame or put down people for you being uncomfortable.

Selfshippers (or shippers in general) are NOT responsible for keeping to canon. They are NOT required to leave aroace characters alone because "if you do you're erasing aroace representation." It's not erasure to make porn or romantic works with aroaces characters, because it's not the fandoms job to hold to canon. It's not aroacephobic to adore these characters in non canon ways.

Anyone telling you that you're committing erasure is bullshit and detractors know it, fandom policing to ensure no one touches the aces or the gays or any other canon sexuality that's not straight, it's fucking garbage.

ITS NOT FANDOMS JOB TO BE CANON. ITS NOT A SELFSHIPPERS JOB TO BE CANON. FANON FANART DOESN'T ERASE A CHARACTERS CANON.

Drawing aroaces as anything other than aroaces doesn't make you bad nor are you horrid for enjoying it. You're not erasing their canon because the canon still exists.

Again. That canon still exists, it's not erasure to do something non-canon with your selfshipping. You're not a bad person for going against canon sexualities.

And I'm absolutely going to continue smooching and cuddling and holding my aroace F/Os because it absolutely makes me irrationally happy to have canon aroace characters. <33333 and sometimes I wanna date and fuck em.

-Sincerely, an aged selfshipper that hates the rise of fandom purity policing

*aggressively waves my aroace flag as a selfshipper to ward off evil purity spirits trying to control fandom.*

Fictosex/rom is on the acespectrum btw thank you go drink water!!!!

[selfship-confession-void]

question! I've never seen the blue ficto flag variant that you use in ur PFP. is there any special meaning to it or no? :0 I've only ever seen the purple and green one.

Oh yeah! The pfp flag is the Fictorose flag!

Fictorose is basically like saying FictoAroAce ('ro' is from romantic and 'se' is from sexual, so mixed together they make the 'rose' suffix!), it's basically a term for people who are both Fictoromantic and Fictosexal

[plasticnightmaredoll]

Mini rant: As a good friend of mine has learned, as well as myself, real (straight) men are full of crap. I'm cursed, I accept it, and I don't care anymore.

Does this make me a misandrist?

Yes, most likely.

Do I care?

No. If straight men are going to be idiots, then why should I feel bad?

(Gay men, you're cool, we're cool)

This is why I'm a fictoromantic/fictosexal. Fictional significant others all the fucking way!

[giraffetdick]

¡¡¡Welcome¡¡¡

Name: Nero

Pronouns: he/they/it

Age: 23

Main: @cockyroaches

Misc: avid exophile and technosexual. Got a size kink and don't really care about gender or morality as long as they're cute. Very light puppyplay, feralplay, medfet, and dadmommy kink (it's a gender thing).

Fictosex/rom - K.aku is my actual husband, I don't share him.

!!!fictional characters only!!!

I usually only talk about top + dom stuff but sometimes i like being passive. That's exclusive to ~3 characters though so don't expect a lot of subby content, sorry!

Absolutely no minors

Dni: terf/swerf/radfem/gender critical/truscum/transmed, exclusionist of any kind, into ddlg or variants, into forced feminization/detransition, yandere, cnc, etc

The kinks aren't necessarily amoral but I want them away from me.

Sighs. Character tags. Incomplete and I will have more in the future.

🦒/🍾🍊: k.aku/mimosas

🏛️: s.antana

🐑: abba.cchio

🍈🥩🧀🍚🎣🪞🧊: la s.quadra. Figure it out.

🌙: tsukishima

🌻: k.oito

🪻: ana.sui

🦝: shira.ishi

🦡: sugi.moto

🐝: w.aspinator

♦️: ter.rorsaur

🚦: blit.zwing

⭐: sta.rscream

🕷️: blac.karachnia

🪫: malware

🔋: b.az-l

[kakushusband]

I have a flag idea that'll make ppl send me to hell but tbh i feel like I'd deserve it

[plasticnightmaredoll]

I swear, I feel like I'm losing my mind. Ever since I had a negative experience with a shipper in a certain fandom, I've had so much difficulty self shipping, or, in some cases, pairing canon characters with the o/cs I have. It also inhibits my ability to write anything. Well, anything that isn't extremely dark and depressing.

I used to self ship as a means of comfort because it's difficult in real life for me to form relationships, especially romantic ones, which have been very few and very far between). I'm used to rejections, being ignored, and creeped on. So I turned to self shipping and being fictosexal as a way to cope and find some sort of happiness.

But thanks to a shitty experience, now I don't feel good self shipping. I mean, what right do I have to self ship with the characters I've chosen when in real life I'm so undesirable and undeserving? I'm not hot. I'm not very confident. I'm not all that bright. I'm not social. In a fictional world, I'd be just as unappealing because that's just how it is.

It's a terrible feeling when your insecurities are thrown st you hard and things you liked before now seem impossible or improbable.

I mean, you have fucking BlackCage in MK, RiddkeCat in Batman...like, who am I to self ship with, say, Riddler or Erron Black or Thorin Oakenshield? They have better options even as fictional characters. It's the same in reality. I'm not good enough apparently because I'm not "ideal," I guess.

And god forbid I come between someone and their fanon pairing!

I'm not sure what to do right now because in feeling like I'm in a rut again. I feel insecure to self ship because these negative feelings are popping up again...all because I stupidly listened to someone and their b.s. for too long. I feel inadequate in every aspect now, and maybe it would be therapeutic to write something that's heartbreaking and depressing but it may also just make things worse.

I just want to enjoy something since I have no luck in real life with love and dating but fuck me, I have no right to be a fictoromantic either I guess.

If you all don't hear much from me or if post some very depressing writings soon, you'll know why. I can't even self ship with Riddler right now! And he was a comfort character for me. Dammit.