#how to delete messages on facebook messenger

[may-moth]

My Story

Disclaimer

I do not want any witch hunt or harassment towards his family and friends when/if I reveal their username or their real name. I haven’t got a lot of screenshots of our messages. I do have some during the end of me talking to him and others. I may also delete the post to work on it more, with more screenshots if I can find them. Or, if I find this too overwhelming for me.

Also, if you have any suspicions on who this person is. Please don’t reblog this post with their username and/or their real name as I’m not ready to reveal it.

Throughout my teenage years to an young adult (14/15-19/20) I was in contact with someone who was in their 60s on Deviantart. As of yet, I’m not ready to reveal their username or their real name.

I started my own Deviantart account when I was 12/13, which is now deleted. For the first year I posted my cringe drawings and photos. During when I was 14/15, I started to Like The Beatles and the cartoon that they had back in the 60s and would favourite art and fanfictions of the band. That’s when I came across one of their drawings and posted a comment on it. I can’t remember who sent a note first. If you are not familiar with Deviantart, notes are like privet messages before the Chat function that Deviantart has now.       

At first it was fine, talking about The Beatles and different bands. Normal stuff for around a year like hello and how was your day.

During 2015 when I was 15/16, we got into an argument that got pretty bad. He asked me what year at school I was in and I said I was in year 11. He then replied with “Does that mean your 18?” I replied with No, I’m 16.”

He replied later with something along the line “We can’t talk anymore. Goodbye.��� Again I don’t have any screenshots of our earlier notes. I was confused, why couldn’t we talk. Nothing was going in in a bad way. We argue about it. He blocked me, I blocked him. After a while we unblocked each other, apologized and continued on talking. This would happen a lot. We argue about something, he will bock me, sometimes deactivated his account only to reactivated, unblocked me and then apologise to me.

One time they told me that they had a dream about my trying on cute short dresses. I should have cut contact after he told me that. But I was an idiot and still talked to him.           

We talked on Messenger as well. He asked for pitchers of me. Not in the nude, nothing like that, just of my face. He said one time that he would get a tattoo of my face because I was so beautiful One time he asked for a picture of me and for a joke, I took and sent him a picture of one of my stuffed toys. He got mad at me for doing it and I apologies for the joke. I don’t have any screenshots of these messages, I’ve looked for them but can’t due to them deleting their Facebook.

We also did roplays together. Just silly Beatles roplays that involves some ocs of mine. However, some of the rolpays did involve some fetishes and kinks that I didn’t find sexual. So did some of the art work that they draw for me. Now, I don’t kink shame. If you got a kink or a fetish, then that’s fine. As long as you don’t push it on to other people who find it uncomfortable. Especially onto minors, even if they do have it.

Just after my 17 birthday, somehow one of the staff at the collage that I was attending at the time found out that I was talking to him. I do believe that one or two of my collage friends told them about us. I do remember one of them looking at my computer screen time.  They brought me into a room and asked me some questions. “When did you first start talking?” “Has he ever asked for sexual images of you?” One thing that they said did baffle me a bit. “Well, you are over the age of 13. This person isn’t a paedophile. Do you know what grooming is?”

They phoned my parents and I was allowed to leave early. My parents told me not to talk to them privately but I still can post comments on their art work. But I went behind their backs and still talked to them privately on Deviantart and Messenger.

I was pissed at them for telling the collage staff. I didn’t know who actually told them but I had my suppositions. One of these friends was 24 at the time, we meet in collage when I was 16. The friend group that they were in took me under their wing and we became friends. However, as time went by they wanted to be in a relationship with me. But that story is for another time when I’m ready to talk about it.          

When my parents found out that I was still talking to him after some months passed, they were so mad at me. Screaming at me, reducing me to tears. But after all of that, I still continued to talk with him behind my parents back. Being more secret about it and deleting our privet notes together. And, using other platforms like Tumblr and Twitter. That’s one thing I deeply regret, deleting all of our notes beside some last ones that they sent me before I cut him off.

One of his conversations with me was how I saved him from suicide by being there for him, talking to him. I was there for him when we would rant about politics and other Deviantart users. The fact that we lived in different countries, me living in the UK and him living in America. I would have late nights talking to him and roplaying as well. I would end the night by saying.” I’m going to sleep now, talk to you tomorrow.” And if I didn’t say goodnight to him, he would get mad. 

Another time he asked me to marry him, I was 17 at that time… Again, I wish I kept the notes…I was an absolute idiot for deleting them. When he asked me, I was out with my family and the phone I was using had terrible internet connection with the place that I was in. I didn’t reply straight away, I was shocked… I didn’t know what to say. I moved somewhere else away from my parents when he massage again. I do slightly remember what the message said.

“I’m waiting for the answerJ”

And like the fool I was… I said yes…That I will marry him… I didn’t want another augment to happen or them hurting/committing suicide . He was so happy… This was a man in his 60s, he was married, had children and even had grandchildren… 

In 2019 when I was 19/20, we had one last argument then I block him permanently after that because I have had enough of his threats and the way he was treating me. I then deleted my main account later on. I can’t remember if I deleted it in 2019 or 2020.

The argument was about me having an interest into Wicca and them finding out that I was in a relationship with my third ex-boyfriend.

Below are some screen shots of the notes that I kept from 2019. His username and mine are blocked out, as well as other personal information.

After some time he also deleted his main account but then crated a new one, uploading some if his old drawings.

Other screenshots

This one is from an email that they sent me during 2017. They had some suspicions that I was in a relationship and we had another augment about it. I lied to him and said that I wasn’t in one so that the argument wouldn’t continue.

These messengers are from Tumblr. I must have forgotten to block him on their. I sent him this message to him to him in 2020. I don't have a screenshot of the messages but here is it typed out.

What you have done could be consider as grooming. However, I do not think that was your intention or that you are a podophile. I believe that I appeared in your life when you was in a bad mind state and somehow have helped you. You did tell me that I saved you from suicide once. The reason why I left was the way you was talking and behaving towards me. You did not like the fact that I had a boyfriend at the time who you called a "fag" You didn't like me not talking to you for a day.

I don't know if your lgbtq+ views have change or not. I am Asexual, witch I have told you before. I am also questioning Bi-curious. You have your own opinions witch is fine but they have hurt me.

You called me a devil worshiper for having an interested in Wicca. For some clarification, Wicca is an Religion witch has nothing to do with the Christian devil. I did explain that to you but you didn't listen.

You threatened to hurt yourself and kill yourself if I left or didn't agree with you. How did you think I felt when you said theses things to me? What was your intentions?

I am sorry that you suffered from a stroke and I wish that you will have a full recovery. I don't know if you will see this message as well if you will reply to it. All I want is us the move on.

In 2022 he replied to the message.

Last year in 2023 I found out that this person passed away. I don't think I will ever forget his name so out of curiosity, I Googled his real name and found his Obituary. I couldn't believe it at first. I just stared blankly at the computer screen, my mind racing with thoughts. I couldn’t believe it at first that he was gone.

And that’s my history with this person. Again, I’m not ready to reveal their username or their real name. Not even my parents, my ex-boyfriend at the time when we was together fully knows what happened. Only my closest friends know and I’m so thankful for them taking the time for listening to me.

What I’m still conflicted on is dose this count as grooming? I do believe that used me as their own personal therapist but there is non-sexual grooming. I feel like an idiot for not cutting contact when red flags started showing up. That I blamed myself for getting in this situation. But another part of me says that this isn’t grooming. Other people have had it way much worse than you. You’re blowing this way out proportion.

I’m also worried about the outcome of telling my story. That people will say “Why didn’t you listen to your parents?” “Why didn’t you get the police involved?” “Why tell your story now?” Those are all valid criticisms. I just wanted to get this out of my chest. Again, I may also delete the post to work on it more, with more screenshots if I can find them. Or, if I find this too overwhelming for me.    

[violette-blr]

Does anyone know how to recover deleted messages on facebook messenger or instagram? I need this for a case. Please

[aurora1040]

ok we all know FB is bad for oh so many reasons. But despite that, it had some uses that I couldnt deny, like keeping in touch with people you know IRL.

TODAY FB HAS CROSSED A FLIPPING LINE

I was texting a paragraph to my mom and before i hit send, there was a pop up in messenger announcing AI stickers. Ok, i thought, no big deal, sticker suggestions are common and can be triggered by certain words or phrases.

That is NOT WHAT THIS IS.

Messenger's AI stickers *actually READ YOUR PRIVATE MESSAGES*. How do I kniw this? The very first sticker suggestion was the entire paragraph i typed out AND DID NOT YET SEND on a background.

I immediately scoured the settings and there is NO WAY TO OPT OUT OF THE AI.... unless you DELETE YOUR ACCOUNT ENTIRELY.

Needless to say, im telling the people i wanna stay in touch with my contact info and that im going to delete my account. That is going way too far and i most DEFINITELY DO NOT CONSENT TO MY PRIVATE MESSAGES BEING READ BY FLIPPING AI.

If you needed a final reason to delete you FB account, this is it. This is your sign.

Delete your Facebook.

[mnty-bubblegmyum]

My thing is how the fuck r we gonna be able to contact Luna or sumn to come with us or talk ab it without their godamn mother doing sum annoying shit

well she's gonna be an adult by one time but,,,,,

yeah :( maybe in the future we could find their facebook? ik their momma prolly changed her number n allat, but hopefully like youve thought in the past we can contact her thru raegan

and when lulu finally gets either her phone or their computer back hopefully she'll be able to message us thru something

from what I remember she only had discord and messenger and I changed the tf outta my discord username and so did u

and I didn't get messenger until td 😞

I had her number but I deleted it soon after the incident bc ik it wasn't gonna work anymore

maybe they had ur code somewhere in the notes you gave them? they kept their notes in their bookbag and hopefully their mother didn't look thru her bag after school

[freedomkindness]

For my American Friends

I feel now is a good time to spread this news. Much like how the internet came together to help share information with the Ukrainians for resisting Russia, I’m here delivering help of a similar nature to those that could be impacted by this latest election in the US. There are ways to communicate relatively securely, outside of Big Brother's social media. I bring this up so that we can minimize the amount of gatherable information that could be used to hurt you, or others you know, in the coming years as changes are made. I'm not going to tell you how or why to use them, I'm just going to provide you with the information.

WhatsApp – While not my personal favorite, since Facebook/Meta is the parent company, WhatsApp is free, globally popular, and widely-used, featuring the ability to lock chats with passwords, disappearing messages, photos and videos that are deleted after being opened, profile photo privacy, the ability to lock the app itself so that only your biometrics can unlock it, encrypted backups, the ability to set custom permissions for who can see you online or when you last used the app, and of course End-to-End Encryption for all conversations EXCEPT those with business accounts. WhatsApp is a good option for those who are not really technically savvy, but still value privacy – if one trusts Facebook/Meta to adequately protect their privacy. It does require a phone number to sign up, however.

Signal - Signal is an end-to-end encrypted messaging software. meaning that the contents of your conversation is secure. The protocol they use (which they created) is seen as the best known protocol for asynchronous messaging by cybersecurity researchers. It's so good that it has been implemented in WhatsApp and in Messenger's secret chats. This app has even been mentioned in the Right-wing author Jack Carr's Political Thriller about a Navy SEAL named James Reece, as being a preferred method of secure communication on the civilian side for operators. (Jack Carr is a former US Navy SEAL.) It's run by a Non-Profit organization called Signal Foundation, and it's mission is to "protect free expression and enable secure global communication through open source privacy technology." It allows secure messaging, voice calls, and video calls. The only downside is that app links to your phone number, so while your conversations and content are secure, who you are talking to is not. Signal is available on Windows, Mac, Andriod, Linus, and iOS.

Session - Session is an end-to-end encrypted messenger that minimises sensitive metadata, designed and built for people who want absolute privacy and freedom from any form of surveillance. Session is an open-source, public-key-based secure messaging application which uses a set of decentralized storage servers and an onion routing protocol to send end-to-end encrypted messages with minimal exposure of user metadata. This means no phone numbers, no metadata for digital footprints, and censorship resistance. It features group chats, the ability to send documents, files, and images securely, and has added voice messages, though these can be spotty. It’s slow, but effective, and be downloaded on Android, F-Droid, iPhone, Mac, Windows, and Linux.

Briar - If you have an Android phone, Briar is another option you have. It features a decentralized network (it’s peer-to-peer encrypted, rather than relying on a central server), meaning messages are synced directly between user devices. It also means that even if the internet is down, it can sync via Bluetooth, Wi-Fi, or even memory cards, meaning information can continue to flow even during a crisis. In the event the internet is functioning, it can sync via the Tor network, protecting users and their relationships from surveillance. Other features: - Screenshots and screen recording are disabled by default - Each user’s contact list is encrypted and stored on her own device. - Briar’s end-to-end encryption prevents keyword filtering, and because of its decentralized design there are no servers to block. - Every user who subscribes to a forum keeps a copy of its content, so there’s no single point where a post can be deleted. - Briar’s forums have no central server to attack, and every subscriber has access to the content even if they’re offline. - Doesn’t require any user data like name and phone number. The downside is that it is text-only and limited to Android Devices, but they do offer Briar Mailbox to deliver messages securely to those who are online at different times. Briar’s goal is “to enable people in any country to create safe spaces where they can debate any topic, plan events, and organize social movements”

Protonmail - A free end-to-end encrypted AND zero-access encryption email service based out of Switzerland, you can safely email with peace of mind that your content is secure. Unlike Google, Outlook, Yahoo, and others, Proton's zero-access encryption means they can't even view the contents of your emails or attachments. As a Swiss-owned company they are not allowed to share information with foreign law enforcement under criminal penalty and they are politically neutral, meaning they won't be pressured by foreign governments. Furthermore, Switzerland has a constitutional right to privacy and strict data protection laws. Unlike companies in other countries, Proton cannot be compelled by foreign or Swiss authorities to engage in bulk surveillance.

Additional Information, from Proton’s Website: Switzerland has strong legal protections for individual rights, and in fact the Swiss Federal Constitution(new window) explicitly establishes a constitutional right to privacy. (In the US, this right is merely implied.) Specifically, Article 13 safeguards privacy in personal or family life and within one’s home, and the Swiss Civil Code(new window) translates this right into statutory law in Article 28.

In the US and EU, authorities can issue gag orders to prevent an individual from knowing they are being investigated or under surveillance. While this type of order also exists in Switzerland, the prosecutors have an obligation to notify the target of surveillance, and the target has an opportunity to appeal in court. In Switzerland, there are no such things as national security letters(new window), and all surveillance requests must go through the courts. Warrantless surveillance, like that practiced in the US where the FBI conducts 3.4 million searches per year(new window) with little oversight, is illegal and not permitted in Switzerland.

Switzerland also benefits from a unique legal provision with Article 271 of the Swiss Criminal Code(new window), which forbids any Swiss company from assisting foreign law enforcement, under threat of criminal penalty. While Switzerland is party to certain international legal assistance agreements, all requests under such agreements must hold up under Swiss law, which has much stricter privacy provisions. All foreign requests are assessed by the Swiss government, which generally does not assist requests from countries with poor rule of law or lack an independent judiciary.

Swiss law has several more unique points. First, it preserves end-to-end encryption, and unlike in the US, UK, or EU, there is no legislation that has been introduced or considered to limit the right to encryption. Second, Swiss law protects no-logs VPN(new window) meaning that Proton VPN does not have logging obligations. While numerous VPNs claim no-logs, these claims generally do not stand up legally because in most jurisdictions, governments can request that the VPN in question starts logging. So the VPN is only no-logs until the government asks. However, in Switzerland, the law does not allow the government to compel Proton VPN to start logging.

We’ve also fought to ensure that Switzerland remains a legal jurisdiction that respects and protects privacy.

Nearly every country in the world has laws governing lawful interception of electronic communications for law enforcement purposes. In Switzerland, these regulations are set out in the Swiss Federal Act on the Surveillance of Post and Telecommunications (SPTA), which was last revised on March 18, 2018. In May 2020, we challenged a decision of the Swiss government over what we believed was an improper attempt to use telecommunications laws to undermine privacy.

In October 2021, The Swiss Federal Administrative Court ultimately agreed with us and ruled that email companies cannot be considered telecommunication providers. This means Proton isn’t required to follow any of the SPTA’s mandatory data retention rules, nor are we bound by a full obligation to identify Proton Mail users. Moreover, as a Swiss company, Proton Mail cannot be compelled to engage in bulk surveillance on behalf of US or Swiss intelligence agencies. (Links can be found at: proton.me/blog/switzerland)

[mariacallous]

Meta’s online ad library shows the company is hosting thousands of ads for AI-generated, NSFW companion or “girlfriend” apps on Facebook, Instagram, and Messenger. They promote chatbots offering sexually explicit images and text, using NSFW chat samples and AI images of partially clothed, unbelievably shaped, simulated women.

Many of the virtual women seen in ads reviewed by WIRED are lifelike—if somewhat uncanny—young, and stereotypically pornographic. Prospective customers are invited to role-play with an AI “stepmom,” connect with a computer-generated teen in a hijab, or chat with avatars who promise to “get you off in one minute.”

The ads appear to be thriving despite Meta’s ad policies clearly barring “adult content,” including “depictions of people in explicit or suggestive positions, or activities that are overly suggestive or sexually provocative.”

That’s created a new front in debates over the clash between AI and conventional labor. Some human sex workers complain that Meta is letting chatbots multiply, while unfairly shutting their older profession out of its platforms by over-enforcing rules about adult content.

“As a sex worker, if I put anything like ‘I will do anything for you, I will make you come in a minute’ I would be deleted in an instant,” says Gemma Rose, director of the Pole Dance Stripper Movement, a UK-based sex-worker rights and pole-dance event organization.

Meta’s policies forbid users from showing nudity or sexual activity and selling sex, including sexting. Rose and other sex-worker advocates say the company seems to apply a double standard in permitting chatbot apps to promote NSFW experiences while barring human sex workers from doing the same.

People who post about sex education, sex positivity, or sex work have for years complained the platform unfairly quashes their content. Meta has limited some of Rose’s posts from being shown to non-followers, screenshots seen by WIRED show. Her personal Instagram account and one for her organization have previously been suspended for violating Meta policies.

“Not that I agree with a lot of the community guidelines and rules and regulations, but these [ads] blatantly go against their own policies,” says Rose of the sexual chatbots promoted on Meta platforms. “And yet we’re not allowed to be uncensored on the internet or just exist and make a living.”

WIRED surveyed chatbot ads using Meta’s ad library, a transparency tool that can be used to see all the ads currently running across its platforms, all ads shown in the EU in the past year, and past ads from the past seven years related to elections, politics, or social issues. Searches showed that at least 29,000 ads had been published on Meta platforms for explicit AI “girlfriends,” with most using suggestive, sex-related messaging. There were also at least 19,000 ads using the term “NSFW” and 14,000 offering “NSFW AI.”

Some 2,700 ads were active when WIRED contacted Meta last week. A few days later Meta spokesperson Ryan Daniels said that the company prohibits ads that contain adult content and was reviewing the ads and removing those that violated its policies. “When we identify violating ads we work quickly to remove them, as we’re doing here,” he said. “We continue to improve our systems, including how we detect ads and behavior that go against our policies.”

However, 3,000 ads for “AI girlfriends” and 1,100 containing “NSFW” were live on April 23, according to Meta’s ad library.

WIRED’s initial review found that Hush, an AI girlfriend app downloaded more than 100,000 times from Google’s Play store, had published 1,700 ads across Meta platforms, several of which promise “NSFW” chats and “secret photos” from a range of lifelike female characters, anime women, and cartoon animals.

One shows an AI woman locked into medieval prison stocks by the neck and wrists, pledging, “Help me, I will do anything for you.” Another ad, targeted using Meta’s technology at men aged 18 to 65, features an anime character and the text “Want to see more of NSFW pics?”

Several of the 980 Meta ads WIRED found for “personalized AI companion” app Rosytalk promise around-the-clock chats with very-young-looking AI-generated women. They used tags including “#barelylegal,” “#goodgirls,” and “teens.” Rosytalk also ran 990 ads under at least nine brand names on Meta platforms, including Rosygirl, Rosy Role Play Chat, and AI Chat GPT.

At least 13 other apps for AI “girlfriends” have promoted similar services in Meta ads, including “nudifying” features that allow a user to “undress” their AI girlfriend and download the images. A handful of the girlfriend ads had already been removed for violating Meta’s advertising standards. “Undressing” apps have also been marketed on mainstream social platforms, according to social media research firm Graphika, and on LinkedIn, the Daily Mail recently reported.

Some users of so-called AI companions say they can help combat loneliness, with others reporting them feeling like a real partner. Not all of the ads found by WIRED promote only titillation, with some also suggesting that an explicit AI chatbot could provide emotional support. “Talk to anyone! You’re not alone!” reads one of Hush’s ads on Meta platforms.

Carolina Are, an innovation fellow researching social media censorship at the Center for Digital Citizens at Northumbria University in the UK, says that Meta makes it extremely difficult for human sex workers to advertise on its platforms, she says. “When people are trying to work through and profit off their own body, they are forbidden,” says Are, who has helped sex workers reactivate lost and unfairly suspended accounts on Meta platforms. “While AI companies mostly powered by bros that exploit images already out there are able to do that.”

Are says the sexually suggestive AI girlfriends remind her of the unsophisticated and generic early days of internet porn. “Sex workers engage with their customers, subscribers, and followers in a way that is more personalized,” she says. “This is a lot of work and emotional labor beyond the sharing of nude images.”

Limited information is available about how the AI apps are built or the underlying text or image-generation algorithms trained. One used the name Sora, apparently to suggest a connection to OpenAI’s video generator of that name, which has not been publicly released.

The developers behind the apps advertising explicit AI girlfriends are shadowy. None of the developers listed on Google Play or Facebook as creating the apps promoted on Meta’s platforms responded to requests for comment.

Mike Stabile, director of public affairs at the Free Speech Coalition, an adult-industry nonprofit trade association, sees the apps promising explicit AI girlfriends and their advertising tactics as “scammy.” While the adult industry is banned from advertising online, AI apps are “flooding the zone,” he says. “That’s the paradox of censorship: You end up censoring or silencing an actual sex worker and allowing all these weeds to flourish in their place.”

Anti-sex-trafficking legislation signed into US law in 2018 called FOSTA-SESTA made platforms responsible for what is posted online, vastly limiting adult content. However, it resulted in consensual sex work being treated as trafficking in the digital world, shutting adult content creators out of online life and making already marginalized sex workers more vulnerable.

If Meta wipes the AI girlfriend ads from its platforms, it might emulate past sweeps of human sex workers. Despite diligently trying to follow Meta’s guidelines, the Pole Dance Stripper Movement’s account was banned “without warning” during a wave of removals of at least 45 sexuality-related accounts in June 2023, Rose says. Meta eventually rolled back some of the deletions, citing an error. But for sex workers on social media, such events are a recurring feature.

Rose’s personal account and its backup were also deleted in June 2021 during the Covid pandemic after she shared a photo, she says, of a pole-dancing workshop. She was hosting online pole-dancing classes and posting on the adult subscription site OnlyFans at the time. “My business was gone overnight,” she says. “I didn’t have a way to sustain myself.”

“OK, so I got deleted,” Rose adds. “But these companies are allowed to put out this kind of shit that sex workers aren’t allowed to? It makes no sense.”

[nova-ayashi]

I was reading this article from [a website] that will not be named, since they used and credited Midjourney for images in their article, and we don’t do that. As people who care about artists and the work they do, we don’t generate sludge, and then also credit the theft machines that are making sludge for us, okay? But anyway, the article was about how we need to save discussion forums, and that Reddit and Discord are killing them (a conversation that feels ten years too late). But, is it too late to talk about this?

I’ve personally gone on tangents on here a few times already about how nostalgic I am for the era of the internet when people were less accessible, not always around, and the web was something you explored. How discussion forums were the main place you gathered to form communities, and that these places weren’t a thing with millions of people, but more like hundreds, and rarely, sometimes, thousands.

I’ve also talked about how one of my favorite forums to visit, the mirror of forums of yore, is Melonland (mostly for retro webdevs and community around that topic).

You might say, “What do you mean they’re dying? We have Discourse for modern forum software!”

But, I don’t like Discourse all that much. It doesn’t feel like a forum. It feels like … I don’t know. Something else, entirely.

It feels like modern webdevs who are constantly trying to modernize every single web system that has ever existed, as if something was wrong with the way things were once presented to us, online. There was nothing wrong with PHPBB. We don’t need forums that look like a Slack meeting.

Just like there was nothing wrong with AOL Instant Messenger. AOL totally could have continued developing it, with its current UI, to run much the same way Discord does. That would’ve been neat, huh?

But then Discord did come along, and with instant messaging, they brought servers, and with servers, they also brought channels that you can setup as some bastardized rip of what a forum is. Channels, that you can post to, and have slower discussion.

It does and still feels needless and also pointless.

But then you have Reddit, which has been a mainstay for … so many years. I think it was open to the public around … 2005? So, right around the time that Facebook started replacing MySpace, Reddit was replacing forums with one gigantic “frontpage of the internet” where millions would eventually gather to talk about any and all topics.

Essentially, erasing the need or drive to setup a discussion forum on your own domain, on your own server, for specific topics. Why do that, when you’ve got Reddit, where you can just create a community centered around whatever topic you’re interested in?

And that’s the overwhelming problem with the modern internet, and its many developers. We’re always trying to smash as many things as possible into one thing, under one roof.

Centralization is the anti-thesis of the internet. We shouldn’t put everything into one place, because, as you, the reader, have probably already seen, that doing so is catastrophic, when places like Twitter get bought out.

Not that I don’t like Reddit and its alternative federated clone, Lemmy, which, for all intents and purposes, does a better job at splitting up hosting and data shards. But … I do find myself asking, “Where have all the normal PHPBB forums gone?”

It’s an internet tragedy that the anime forum (that I link to via WayBackMachine at the bottom of the homepage) that I was on as a 16 year old has been dead for five years. Gone. Deleted. Never to be seen again. And, because of the way the WayBackMachine works, there’s no way to extract my old thoughts, my old posts … who I was when I was 16, and put it somewhere that won’t die and be erased.

Decentralization, though, people treat this like it’s a new idea, even though this is just how the internet worked back then. People did their own thing, there were websites for every topic, every interest, and a million discussion forums to cover those topics and interests. But, to save them?

Unfortunately, I don’t see a way through any of this where old-style, or discussion forums, in-general, will end up “saved.” I don’t see this happening in the present day, where “decentralization” is a buzzword corporations and crypto-bros use in order to garner interest in their next pump and dump.

While mass amounts of people are happy to continue posting on Twitter, or to move their posting to Threads under Meta, one of the largest and most evil central platforms in the world.

In my opinion, the average Joe doesn’t care about this stuff. You might care about it. I care about it. But what do two people matter, to a mass of millions who log onto the next central billionaire owned platform to post about the next foozeball game, and then log off, without a thought or care in the world? Even while said platforms are stripping them of their right to not be harassed or hate-crimed.

It’s almost like there’s this thing that’s been happening the past decade, like, some kind of … net split?

The net is splitting, between the hangers-on who know things can be better, and actively are trying to make them that way, and the people who just want to thought-dump, without a care for where they do it. Like a digital Great Wall, or Cyberpunk 2077’s Black Wall, I think there will be an underground web where people speak, communicate, and build for a more humane digital future, and then there’ll be the billion dollar platforms where people post shit like, “Who up? Gotta be on that grind bro, get that bread! $$$” and then log off.

Which, is a shame. Because it will be those people who ask the question, “Well, what do I do now?” When they lose their presence, data, and online identity the next time one of these billionaires has a mid-life crisis.

“But Nova, this is really pessimistic and uncharitable to most people!”

Yup, look what “most people” have done to the world.

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[dancergurl3000]

My personal break up with Facebook.com. An essay.

I watch a lot of TV. And two weeks ago, “Last Week Tonight” issued a stark warning about the social media company on how the website was always a dark sewer filled with conspiracy theories about Covid and Hillary Clinton and now that Mark Zuckerberg has essentially bent the knee to Donald Trump I have ultimately decided to delete my Facebook profile for good. And it isn’t the first time I’ve done it. It’s probably the third time I’ve deleted my profile. I first got it when I started going to community college in 2010. I remember vividly how excited I was to post High School graduation photos of myself, that I was just doing what the platform was intending to do at the time: post pictures to document your college life. But over time I see how that was a mistake because when I went to state university in 2015, free speech was all but gone in the Fall of 2015. I did not know this. I know it now. That if you spill too much information to your messenger application, the cops could be listening in. It almost cost me my college graduation diploma when my college professor told me that he thought I had dyslexia at a college exam. I vented to who I thought was a friend on Facebook messenger who turned those messages into the university police department. And venting to a friend is not a crime. What adult hasn’t said the phrase: “I could kill that person” when speaking about a person in their life that they are frustrated with? But fair warning dear readers; that kind of language could get you jailed now. I didn’t know this ten years ago. Now I do. Also: there are no such things as “jokes” anymore. I’m also a stand up comic. I make jokes all of the time, namely “dad” jokes. I like a good knock knock joke. Oh not on Facebook.com dear readers. Not on Facebook.com at all. People in your friends list really hate “jokes.” They see “jokes” as a personal threat. And with NBC.com posting stories about how other Facebook employees have been sexually harassed overseas, it is no wonder I am finally leaving the platform for good. I don’t believe in a social media platform that expects perfection, that makes you feel badly about yourself, that lets people feel stupid because you’re posting that your life is perfect and that you’ve never made a mistake in your life. It’s all dumb. People are either too stupid or sensitive or don’t believe in the first amendment. They only know the second amendment which did you know that’s originally what the first amendment was intended to protect: free speech protects my ability to not be shot for saying something that you might find “offensive” or “stupid.” I don’t like where this country is going. So I am tending to my resignation of “Facebook.” But it makes sense that everyone else would stay. Your “leader” looks like a rapper with a drug problem who doesn’t care if his employees face sexual harassment or if people publicly post that they are going to shoot someone on their live stream. But definitely “banning” someone for making jokes about being an Italian woman who can take a punch surely doesn’t make any sense to me as someone who is the “problem.” But maybe most people are too stupid to understand the concept of “jokes”, and taking down and tearing people apart must seem like the best solution to someone who doesn’t understand the concept of “irony” as an adult. Fuck Facebook. You’re the new Twitter now and possibly it will even be hacked. Serves you right you dumb looking rapper.

[memoalejandrog]

How to find out if your partner is hiding conversations on Facebook Secret conversations on Messenger can be a tool for those looking to hide an affair. Here are some clues to find out if your partner is hiding something.

Does he or she delete conversations frequently? If your partner deletes his or her messages regularly, it may be a sign that he or she is hiding something. Although many people delete conversations for privacy, doing so constantly is suspicious.

Use the "secret conversation" mode Facebook Messenger has a secret conversations option that allows you to send encrypted messages that disappear after a while. If you suspect your partner is using this feature, they may be hiding something.

Prevent you from seeing their screen If you notice that your partner hides their phone when using Facebook or exits the app when you get close, hacking facebook it may be a sign that they don't want you to see their messages.

Password changes or frequent logouts If your partner changes their password for no apparent reason or logs out of their account when you use their phone, it could be a red flag.

💡 Bottom Line: It's not advisable to spy on your partner's device, but if you have suspicions, it's best to talk directly and clarify the situation.

[bnprime]

truth. i deleted facebook and instagram after this straw broke the camel’s back. (it was pretty broken before though. lots of straws) doing so required a little consideration and only a week’s planning and a few hours of effort. 1. warn the friends who still use facebook regularly that you will do so. give them alternative ways to contact you. look through your friend list and message the ones you want to keep your phone number to text. 2. download your decade’s worth of photos. you can do so in one batch. you have to request it, and give facebook and instagram a few days to get it together. 3.choose a day to pull the plug and stick to it.

basically, the clever thing facebook does is use your family and friends (and conveniently interacting with them) against you, betting that you’ll literally endure any poor behaviour on their part rather than pull yourself away from your fam/friends.

and they’re right that it is hard. but your phone address book works just as well as facebook messenger at sending notes. and there are other ways to do the type of interaction that facebook used to do well. are you using to to organize a nonprofit or volunteering with your friends? start a discord together. sharing photos with your pals? there’s this new thing called “pixelfed” which works like instagram but is open source and decentralized. life updates from pals? move to bluesky (or even better: mastodon) together. you can make a list of JUST YOUR REAL LIFE FRIENDS and read about each others foibles. will you lose out on local restaurants posting special events? and free local classifieds?

cuz listen. facebook is a bad actor. it’s really bad. their main function is tricking businesses to advertise with them over buying newspaper ads. and they do it through a combination of keeping you and your boomer parents captured, and lying to businesses about how many people are engaging with these ads. note that their main function isn’t “a good user experience.” if they did, they wouldn’t have censored all canadian journalism stories from their website. they just want you to be on their site, and they don’t care how. they show you inflammatory political opinions by people you’ll agree with (boomer memes, yo). they show you those algorithm powered viral videos of people doing woodworking scraped off of tiktok. they show you infuriating political posts by fascist groups to troll you. SOON THEY WILL SHOW YOU AI GENERATED CONTENT PRETENDING TO BE FROM PEOPLE TO FLATTER OR ENRAGE YOU.

but good news. your boomer parents are only on there because you are. and young people never really bought in. if enough of us leave (and i don’t mean ghost. most of us HAVE ghosted. i mean delete your account and tell everyone). the boomers will leave, and then? maybe local restaurants will put their advertising money back into newspapers. maybe people will start using other local classifieds. maybe nature will heal. the idea of facebook as a public square is great, but it’s more like a pitcher plant than it is a public square. and the company is batshit evil.

facebook sucks. but like twitter, and myspace, and friendster, and orkut, and msn, and icq… if enough people leave, EVERYONE WILL LEAVE.

Zuck wants affirmative action for douchebags.

[worldtopic6]

Best Spy Apps for iPhone in 2025: A Complete Guide

In today’s digital world, monitoring phone activities has become essential for parents, partners, and employers. Whether you are concerned about your child's online safety or need to track a loved one's device, spy apps for iPhone offer a reliable solution. These applications provide features like GPS tracking, call monitoring, message tracking, and stealth mode to ensure discreet surveillance.

In this guide, we’ll explore the best spy apps for iPhone in 2025, their features, benefits, and how to use them effectively.

What Are iPhone Spy Apps?

iPhone spy apps are software tools that allow users to remotely monitor an iPhone’s activities without being detected. These apps run in the background and provide real-time updates on call logs, messages, browsing history, social media activity, and even GPS location.

Some apps are designed for parental control, while others cater to spouses, employers, or concerned individuals who need to track a loved one’s device.

Top Features of the Best Spy Apps for iPhone

When choosing the best phone spy apps for iPhone, look for these essential features:

1. Stealth Mode (Hidden Spy Apps for iPhone)

The best hidden spy apps for iPhone work undetected in the background, ensuring that the target user is unaware of the monitoring.

2. GPS Location Tracking

These apps allow you to track the real-time location of the target device. This feature is useful for parents monitoring their child’s whereabouts or partners ensuring their loved one’s safety.

3. Call and Message Monitoring

You can view incoming and outgoing calls, text messages, and even deleted conversations from the target iPhone.

4. Social Media & Chat App Tracking

Most spy phone apps for iPhone provide access to WhatsApp, Facebook Messenger, Instagram, Snapchat, and more to monitor conversations.

5. Keylogging and Screen Recording

Some iPhone spy apps include keylogging features that record keystrokes, allowing you to see what’s being typed, including passwords.

6. Web History & App Usage Monitoring

View the websites visited and apps installed on the device to detect any inappropriate content or potential threats.

7. Remote Access & Control

Certain apps allow you to remotely lock the phone, take screenshots, or even listen to surroundings using the microphone.

Best Spy Apps for iPhone in 2025

After thorough research, we’ve listed the top spy apps for iPhone in 2025 based on features, performance, and reliability.

1. mSpy

Best for parental control

Works in stealth mode

Monitors calls, messages, and social media

GPS tracking with geofencing

2. uMobix

Tracks real-time activities

Records keystrokes with keylogger

Monitors social media apps

Easy installation & user-friendly

3. FlexiSPY

Advanced call interception

Records calls and surroundings

Monitors emails and messages

Works on jailbroken iPhones

4. EyeZy

AI-powered monitoring

Tracks deleted messages

Detects suspicious activities

Offers live screen recording

5. XNSPY

Affordable & reliable

Supports remote access

Tracks multimedia files

Monitors browser history

These spy apps for iPhone offer different levels of tracking, so choose one based on your monitoring needs.

How to Spy on iPhone Without Them Knowing?

If you’re wondering how to spy on iPhone discreetly, follow these steps:

Choose a Spy App: Select a reputable spy app like mSpy, uMobix, or FlexiSPY.

Create an Account: Sign up for an account on the app’s website.

Install the App: Some apps require physical access to the target iPhone, while others work remotely using iCloud credentials.

Start Monitoring: Once installed, log into your dashboard and begin tracking activities.

Are Free Spy Apps for Android and iPhone Safe?

Many people search for free spy apps for Android and iPhone, but free versions often come with risks:

Limited Features: Free apps typically offer basic tracking with no advanced features.

Security Risks: Some free apps may contain malware that steals personal data.

Detection Risks: Paid spy apps work in stealth mode, while free apps are often detectable.

If you’re serious about monitoring an iPhone, it’s best to invest in a trusted premium spy app for better security and reliability.

Best Spy Apps for Parents iPhone

For parents who want to monitor their children’s digital activities, the following spy apps for parents iPhone provide the best features:

mSpy – Best for monitoring texts, calls, and social media.

EyeZy – AI-powered parental control with alerts for suspicious activity.

Bark – Focuses on child safety by detecting cyberbullying and inappropriate content.

These apps ensure that parents can protect their kids online while respecting their privacy.

Spy Apps for Couples iPhone: Are They Ethical?

Many partners use spy apps for couples iPhone to monitor their significant other’s phone activity. While these apps provide transparency, they should be used ethically and with mutual consent.

[aireterra]

So I cleared some data on my laptop and it seems I needed to log into the email I've been using before so that the settings I've used ever since will still be the same and the bookmarks to be imported.

However, I seem to have forgotten the password. It doesn't seem to be linked to my current phone number and other accounts so I can't just get another password.

I often leave a note on accounts and passwords somewhere. Be it my diary (physical and digital), journal, keep notes, emails, messages, etc. So I went to browse those.

I started with email drafts. But I only found my gaming account password there. I checked Google Keep Notes but it wasn't there as well. There were only birthday dates, lists, and poems there o⁠(⁠(⁠*⁠^⁠▽⁠^⁠*⁠)⁠)⁠o. After that, I checked the Twitter DMs I sent to myself. Still, it's not there. I checked SMS and Messenger too but to no avail.

My journals didn't have it as well so I checked my digital diary (the Luna app). I found a few interesting entries there from 2020. Young me is sort of naive it seems. She liked listing her likes on that said diary. She talked about the books she have read and even had a list of them. I don't remember some of the titles ngl. But I wanna comb through that list again. Might help me get to know my past self again?

Anyways, my search there was also futile so I opted to browse through my last resort which are my screenshots. There I did find my app passwords but I didn't find the one I particularly need. I also got distracted by some of my screenshots because I found the messages I've written but never sent there. I used to do that. Type messages, screenshot it, and clear the said message. I kinda wished I'd sent them but I'm also glad I didn't. I also found convo screenshots there and that's when I realized that the password I'm looking for must be on a message I sent to myself on my previous Facebook account which I've deleted instead of deactivating, thinking that I can just restore it before 30 days. But I've failed to do that so the account got lost forever. The convo screenshots I have made me wanna reread the whole convo but I cannot access that anymore. I kinda regret deleting my account now😭. But there were also message convos that I didn't wanna remember. So I'm a bit conflicted. I kinda wanna delete my whole screenshots folder now but I know how bad of an idea that is.

The password searching journey lead me to realize how unrecognizable the past version of myself is. Ngl, it was sort of triggering. I don't know what to feel about it all. It makes me both wanna destroy my phone and reacquaint with my past self at the same time. My past self is still me, yes. But God knows how different we are. Suisjddjdisijejdn. The urge to delete the folder is really strong. I stopped browsing it halfway for reasons unknown to me. I just can't seem to find it in myself to read more of what's there. There were some wholesome SS there like quotes, highlighted sentences from an ebook, a manga screenshot, playlists, recommendations, drama and anime quotes, and some interesting and important infos. But still, I don't really know what I don't wanna see in there. Maybe just the convos? Or yjyktkrkdkf... Nvm. I'm rambling due to lack of sleep. Hope I forget everything tomorrow.

[casildamontbo]

Signs of Infidelity on Facebook: How to Spot Them Hacking Facebook can be a space where relationships face challenges, especially when trust is in question. If you suspect your partner is cheating on you, here are some key signs to identify potential problems.

Privacy Changes If your partner suddenly adjusts their profile privacy settings, blocks your access to certain posts, or turns off their activity status on Messenger, it may be a sign that they are hiding something.

Excessive Facebook Use Being constantly online, responding to messages at odd hours, or avoiding using the app in your presence can raise suspicions. This behavior can be indicative of interactions they don't want to share with you.

Suspicious Interactions They frequently comment or “like” someone's posts in particular. Check to see if those interactions seem more personal than they should. Posts with romantic emojis or ambiguous comments can be a giveaway.

Changes in message history If he deletes conversations, changes his password, or seems nervous about receiving Messenger notifications, he could be hiding messages he doesn't want you to see.

Bottom line: Open communication is key. hacking facebook Before jumping to conclusions, talk to your partner and express your concerns clearly and calmly.

[filmkmg]

— 2024...

i wanted to write "10 things" this and that but i always thought that beyond 5 is always too much. i could only go for 3, sometimes 8. however, i've realized that there are just too many to mention or maybe too little to say, so i'd just write here anything and everything that comes to mind.

i'll start with the things i've earned this year. regardless if they were good or bad for me, i'll include them all. in the mood to overshare but might delete them later.

not gonna sugarcoat it but 2024 was definitely a draining year. i think not just for me but for everyone else. and i want this time to validate myself and share that traumas and anxiety from last year, i still carried them this year. sad part is they amplified. and i would still probably have them next year or to the years to come but that's life. there's nothing i can do about them but to acknowledge that my mind is flawed and weak. that my heart is crashed and broken and it might take a long time to heal. so is my soul, damaged and darkened. at least, that's how i see it. i think and think too much and i've witnessed too much. the sadder part here is i didn't know that worse could be worst. what i've seen and felt not just from strangers but also from the people having the same stream as my blood, they were too big for my little brain and heart to handle. i'm well aware that pain and traumas are really inevitable. i just didn't expect the things that happened. it was beyond of what i could fathom that i had to leave some rooms.

even so, i still earned quite of good memories. most of them i can barely remember. actually, all of them may it good or bad. my brain just works like that. it forgets about everything but one thing is for sure. i've met and made friends with people i hope to be with for a long time. i want to be part of them for as long as this life will permit me to live. some of you would probably say, "didn't you hate people?" and it's true. i hate people, especially men. but i have a few of them who are genuine and loving. them, i don't hate. i treasure them because when things are hard and rough, when i am being too much for myself, they are the ones who stayed, be there with me, and they just make things light and easier. something i'm not used to but definitely fond of because i rarely have that. i seldom experience peace of mind and comfort. not even from myself. thankfully, i have them.

hmm, i'd like to also share that i removed a lot friends on my facebook because i realized that i don't even know all of them. there were even poser accounts. and i wanted to keep things lowkey. so i unfriended a thousand users and kept around less than five hundred. besides, i rarely use facebook. i don't even open messenger unless i have messages or calls from the people i am related or closed with. i just hate the fact that everything seems to always be there. it gets too exhausting to see posts over and over again that i don't even like. i just realized that i want to keep things close to myself, almost hidden like rapunzel in tangled. i'm liking this small bubble away from the people virtually and physically. i get to think more of what i want without being influenced by people i am not regarded with by my nickname. some of them even see my worth due to my surname. that's why i removed it there. i feel like being there just let people see me for the person i am not and will not be. which makes me go back to the thought of minimizing interactions and such. most of the people, even my family, deemed it as a not so good of a choice but for me it wasn't. i just don't want to be consumed by people's thoughts and words same as i don't want them to taint my energy cause who knows who are real? i'm not being rude or aloof. i'm simply being secretive of the things that people doesn't have any relevance of thinking and sharing their opinions to.

you would probably wonder why. maybe because i'm now so exhausted of people labelling me due to where i came from, expecting things when i am my own person. i'm tired of hearing rumors that i had to answer for them if it's true or not than being asked how am i. the world is too big and people make it seem so small because they keep trespassing the boundaries. so here are the things i'm grateful and not so thankful for this year. kind of realization posts tbh. a blurry recap of 2024.

i think that's just it? tbh i have more, but these are only the things i want to share. if you've read this all, wow quite impressive. if not, doesn't matter. these are all the dialogues i always have with myself, for myself.

[spousesolution]

Best Cell Phone Hack for Monitoring Your Partner - 2024

In today's digital age, trust and transparency in relationships are more important than ever. However, doubts and uncertainties can sometimes creep in, leading to a desire for reassurance. One controversial yet increasingly discussed method is using cell phone hacking to monitor your partner's activities. This article explores the best cell phone hacks for 2024, focusing on techniques, tools, and services like HackersList, known for providing top-tier cell phone hacking services worldwide.

What is Cell Phone Hacking?

Cell phone hacking refers to the process of gaining unauthorized access to someone’s mobile device. This can involve extracting data, intercepting communications, and even manipulating the device's functionalities without the owner's knowledge. While hacking has a notorious reputation, it's worth noting that it can be used for various purposes, including cybersecurity, parental control, and, as discussed here, monitoring a partner.

How Mobile Phone Hacking

Mobile phone hacking involves exploiting vulnerabilities in the phone’s operating system or installed applications. Hackers can gain access to personal information, track location, and even listen to conversations. Popular methods include:

Phishing: Deceptive emails or messages tricking users into revealing their passwords.

Spyware: Malicious software installed on a device to monitor activities.

Network Attacks: Intercepting data over unsecured networks.

How to Mobile to Mobile Hack

Mobile-to-mobile hacking refers to accessing one mobile device through another. This often involves using specialized software that can be installed on the target device through a text message, email, or direct physical access. Here’s a basic outline of how it works:

Choose the Right Software: There are various software options available, like mSpy and FlexiSPY, designed for mobile monitoring.

Install the Software: The software needs to be installed on the target device, which might require temporary physical access.

Monitor the Device: Once installed, you can monitor the target device remotely from your own phone.

Hacking Mobile Networks

Mobile network hacking involves intercepting data as it is transmitted over cellular networks. This can be done through techniques like:

Man-in-the-Middle Attacks: Intercepting communications between two parties.

Rogue Access Points: Setting up fake Wi-Fi hotspots to capture data.

SS7 Exploitation: Exploiting vulnerabilities in the Signaling System 7 (SS7) protocol used in cellular networks.

These methods require a higher level of technical expertise and are often used by more advanced hackers.

Best Cell Phone Hackers

Cell Phone hackers are individuals or groups with the skills to infiltrate mobile devices. While some work independently, others might be part of larger organizations or offer their services through platforms like HackersList. HackersList is renowned for providing top-tier cell phone hacking services, connecting clients with professional hackers capable of discreetly monitoring mobile devices. Connect with expert by posting new job

Cell Phone Hack Help to SMS Hack

Related: Cheating Husband Cell Phone Spy App for Read Secret Message

One of the most sought-after features in mobile hacking is the ability to intercept and read SMS messages. This can provide insights into the target’s communications. Tools like HackersList  are popular for SMS hacking, allowing users to:

Read Sent and Received Messages: View all SMS communications.

Access Deleted Messages: Retrieve messages that have been deleted.

Monitor Messaging Apps: Track messages from apps like WhatsApp, Facebook Messenger, and more.

Hacking Someone’s Cell Phone

Hacking someone's cell phone involves several steps and considerations. Here’s a simplified guide:

Choose a Reliable Service or Tool: Services like HackersList offer professional hacking services that ensure discretion and efficiency.

Install Monitoring Software: Physical access to the target phone is often required for initial installation.

Monitor Activities: Once installed, you can remotely monitor calls, messages, location, and other activities.

Hack Cell Phone Number

Hacking a cell phone number can provide access to various forms of communication and personal information. Techniques include:

SIM Swapping: Gaining control of the target’s phone number by manipulating the mobile carrier.

Phishing: Tricking the user into revealing their number and associated accounts.

Social Engineering: Using psychological manipulation to gain information.

Hack Mobile Camera

Hacking a mobile camera can provide visual access to the target’s surroundings. This is typically done through spyware that activates the camera without the user’s knowledge. Tools like FlexiSPY offer this functionality, allowing the hacker to:

Take Photos Remotely: Capture images from the target’s camera.

Record Videos: Activate the video recording feature.

Stream Live Video: View live footage from the target’s camera.

Android Cell Phone Hacks

Android devices are particularly susceptible to certain types of hacks due to their open-source nature. Popular hacks include:

Rooting: Gaining superuser access to the device, allowing for extensive control.

Spyware: Installing apps that monitor activities without the user’s knowledge.

Exploiting Vulnerabilities: Taking advantage of security flaws in the Android OS.

Cell Phone Cloned

Cloning a cell phone involves creating an exact replica of the target phone’s data on another device. This allows the hacker to intercept calls, messages, and other communications. Methods include:

SIM Cloning: Duplicating the SIM card to intercept communications.

Phone Cloning Software: Using software to copy the phone’s data.

All Mobile Hack

“All mobile hack” refers to tools and techniques that can be used across different mobile platforms, including Android and iOS. Universal hacking tools like HackersList are designed to work on multiple devices, providing comprehensive monitoring capabilities regardless of the operating system.

Conclusion

Cell phone hacking, while controversial, offers a means to gain insights and reassurance in relationships. With advances in technology, methods have become more sophisticated and accessible. Services like HackersList provide professional hacking solutions, ensuring discretion and effectiveness. Whether it's intercepting SMS messages, hacking mobile networks, or accessing the mobile camera, these tools and techniques offer a comprehensive way to monitor your partner's activities. However, it's crucial to weigh the ethical implications and legal considerations before embarking on this path.

[rebeccabarrett]

Hack FB Messages To Catch a Cheating Partner

Curious about hack FB messages? Read this guide on how hackers target FB messages and better ways to gain clarity.

Related: Best Way To Monitor Facebook Messenger

In the digital age, infidelity has taken a new form—cheating is no longer limited to physical encounters but has expanded into the virtual world. Social media platforms like Facebook have become breeding grounds for secret conversations and emotional affairs. 

If you're worried that your partner might be cheating through Facebook, you may be tempted to hack their messages. But before you take that step, it's important to understand the legal, ethical, and emotional consequences of such actions. This article will guide you through the complexities of hacking Facebook messages and provide alternative solutions to catching a cheating partner.

⏹ Signs Your Partner Might Be Cheating on Facebook

It can be difficult to detect whether your partner is being unfaithful, but some signs may point to suspicious behavior on Facebook.

▶ Behavioral Changes

If your partner suddenly starts spending an unusual amount of time on Facebook, especially late at night, it could be a red flag. Other changes might include guarding their phone or computer more closely or stepping out of the room to use their device.

▶ Hidden Conversations

Many cheaters use Facebook Messenger for their secret interactions, taking advantage of its private messaging capabilities. If your partner is deleting conversations or using "secret conversations" features, you might have reason to be concerned.

▶ Suspicious Friend Activity

Look out for sudden additions of unknown friends or increased interaction with certain individuals. While it’s normal to have friends of the opposite sex, unexplained increases in likes, comments, and messages could indicate something more.

▶ Understanding Facebook Security

Hack Facebook messages is not as easy as it may seem. Facebook has strict security measures in place, but like any online service, it does have vulnerabilities.

▶ Facebook's Privacy Features

Facebook's end-to-end encryption on Messenger makes hacking difficult, as messages are protected and only accessible by the sender and receiver. This level of privacy is why many people feel secure using it for their private conversations.

▶ Potential Vulnerabilities

Despite Facebook's efforts, hackers can still exploit certain weaknesses, such as phishing scams or keylogging software, to gain access to accounts. It’s crucial to understand that these methods are illegal and can have serious consequences.

⏹ Ethical Alternatives to Hacking FB Messages

Rather than resorting to hacking, there are more ethical approaches to addressing your concerns about infidelity.

◼ Open Communication

The most straightforward approach is to communicate with your partner. Expressing your concerns and having an open conversation might help clarify misunderstandings and prevent further mistrust.

◼ Couples Counseling

If communication alone doesn't resolve your concerns, couples counseling could provide a safe space for both of you to work through issues. A professional can help guide the conversation and ensure that both parties feel heard.

◼ Digital Trust Tools

There are apps designed to help couples build trust without crossing privacy boundaries. These tools allow both partners to share certain data voluntarily, such as location or screen time, fostering a sense of trust while respecting privacy. Unlike spy apps or hacking methods, these tools are used with mutual consent and promote transparency in the relationship.

⏹ How Hackers Gain Access to Facebook Messages

If you’re still considering the idea of hacking, it’s important to understand how hackers typically gain access to Facebook messages. Though unethical and illegal, knowing these methods may help you understand the risks involved.

Phishing Techniques

Phishing is one of the most common ways hackers obtain sensitive information, including Facebook login credentials. This involves tricking the user into clicking a fake link that leads them to a page resembling Facebook's login portal. Once the user enters their details, the hacker gains access to their account.

Keylogging

Keylogging involves installing software on the target's device to record every keystroke they make. With this method, a hacker can capture Facebook passwords and other private information. Keylogging is often used in conjunction with phishing to ensure the hacker gets the right login details.

Password Cracking

Password cracking involves trying multiple password combinations until the hacker gains access. Weak passwords are easy targets for this method. Hackers may use dictionaries of common passwords or personal information to guess the password.

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⏹ Tools Commonly Used to Hack Facebook Messages

There are several tools that hackers use to access Facebook messages. However, these tools come with significant risks.

Spy Apps

Spy apps are often advertised as easy solutions for accessing someone’s Facebook messages. These apps are installed on the target’s device, allowing the hacker to monitor their Facebook activity, including messages. However, using such apps without consent is illegal and can result in serious legal consequences.

Software Programs

Hackers also use software programs designed to exploit security vulnerabilities. These programs can bypass Facebook's security measures, but they are often unreliable and can harm the device they’re installed on. In addition, downloading these programs can expose you to malware.

Social Engineering

Social engineering relies on manipulating people rather than breaking into systems. Hackers use social engineering to trick individuals into giving away their login information. This can be done through fake customer support calls, phishing emails, or even pretending to be a trusted friend.

⏹ What to Do If You Suspect Your Partner is Cheating

If you have strong suspicions that your partner is cheating, there are better ways to handle the situation than hacking their Facebook messages.

Investigating Without Hacking

You can look for clues in less invasive ways, such as noticing behavioral changes, sudden secrecy, or increased interaction with a particular person. However, be careful not to jump to conclusions based on circumstantial evidence.

Talking to Your Partner

Approaching your partner directly is often the most effective way to address concerns. Prepare yourself for the conversation by staying calm and expressing your feelings without accusing them. Your partner’s response can provide valuable insight into the situation.

⏹ Alternatives to Hacking for Catching a Cheating Partner

If you feel the need to gather more concrete evidence of infidelity, there are alternatives to hacking that can provide clarity without crossing ethical lines.

Spy Apps for Monitoring Devices

Some spy apps are marketed for monitoring children or employees but may be used by partners to monitor activity, including Facebook messages. While legal in some contexts, it’s important to ensure you have consent before using these apps. Unauthorized use can lead to legal trouble.

Hiring a Private Investigator

If you're struggling to uncover the truth on your own, hiring a private investigator may be a better option than hacking. A professional investigator can discreetly gather evidence of infidelity without violating any laws or privacy rights.

Gathering Digital Evidence Legally

Rather than hacking, you can look for signs of infidelity through shared accounts or public information. For instance, examining public social media posts or financial statements may reveal suspicious behavior without the need for hacking.

⏹ Consequences of Hacking Your Partner’s Facebook

Before attempting to hack your partner's Facebook messages, consider the serious consequences that can result from this decision.

Legal Repercussions

Hacking someone’s Facebook is illegal and can lead to criminal charges. Depending on the severity of the breach, you could face fines, jail time, or both. Moreover, your partner could take legal action against you for invading their privacy, which could result in additional penalties.

Relationship Fallout

Even if your hacking attempt reveals infidelity, the act of hacking itself can damage your relationship beyond repair. Trust is an essential component of any relationship, and once it’s broken, it can be difficult to rebuild. Even if your partner was unfaithful, the knowledge that you invaded their privacy could overshadow any wrongdoing on their part.

Emotional Consequences

Hacking can also take a toll on your emotional well-being. The guilt of invading someone’s privacy, coupled with the potential discovery of infidelity, can lead to anxiety, depression, and long-term emotional distress. It’s essential to weigh these emotional risks before proceeding with any drastic actions.

⏹ Moving Forward After Discovering Infidelity

If you’ve uncovered infidelity in your relationship, whether through hacking or other means, it’s important to think carefully about your next steps.

Deciding Whether to Stay or Leave

The decision to stay or leave after discovering infidelity is deeply personal. You’ll need to evaluate whether the relationship can be salvaged and if you’re willing to work through the betrayal. Some couples choose to stay together and work through the issues, while others find that parting ways is the healthiest option.

Healing and Forgiveness

If you decide to stay in the relationship, healing will take time. Forgiveness is a critical part of the healing process, but it cannot be rushed. Both partners need to commit to rebuilding trust and addressing the underlying issues that led to the infidelity.

Rebuilding Trust

Rebuilding trust is one of the most challenging aspects of recovering from infidelity. Transparency, open communication, and patience are key. Both partners need to be committed to the process and willing to make changes to prevent future problems.

✅ Finishing Sound

Hack Facebook messages to catch a cheating partner may seem like a quick fix, but it can lead to serious legal, ethical, and emotional consequences. Instead of resorting to invasive and illegal methods, consider addressing your suspicions through open communication, professional help, or ethical alternatives. Trust and transparency are the foundations of a healthy relationship, and breaking that trust through hacking will likely do more harm than good.

❓ FAQs

What are the signs my partner is cheating on Facebook?

Common signs include spending more time on Facebook, hiding their devices, engaging in secret conversations, and increasing interaction with specific individuals.

What are the risks of using spy apps?

Using spy apps without consent is illegal and can lead to severe legal repercussions. It also damages trust in the relationship and can make reconciliation more difficult.

How can I safe my Facebook from being hacked?

Use strong passwords, enable two-factor authentication, be cautious of phishing attempts, and secure your devices to protect your Facebook account from hackers.

Should I confront my partner if I suspect they are cheating?

Yes, it’s often best to address your concerns directly with your partner through an open and honest conversation rather than resorting to hacking.