hi i heard we were shitting on double life and gotta say some of the fanon interpretations were untagged and traumatizing. grians not a shitty abusive cheater stop writing torture porn and make an oc
What gets me the most is how a lot of people don't even seem to realise they're writing an abusive relationship.
They go "haha yea desert duo is so funny they're both fucked up <3" but then it's just. Abuse.
If you're writing a desert duo or a scarian fic and Grian is hurting Scar over and over again and Scar then goes on to forgive him AND GIVE HIM COMFORT AFTER GRIAN REPEATEDLY HURT HIM BECAUSE HE LOVES HIM I'm sorry to say but that is borderline abuse.
Doesn't matter if grian is traumatized, that's still abuse.
I know people who have been in abusive relationships. They might refuse to leave their abuser because "I love them tho." and because their abuser is sometimes nice to them.
Maybe if you're writing scarian like this you should realise that Grian hurting Scar over and over again is not healthy and not good and it definitely shouldn't be portrayed as anything else besides an abusive or a toxic relationship.
Because you never know who will read it. Is it someone young who might get into a relationship like this in the future? Is it someone currently in an abusive relationship that will read this and think it's "okay" and a normal relationship??
If you're writing angst like this I'm begging you to think about what you're actually writing to and TAG IT PROPERLY.
Not asking you to stop writing this, just asking you to tag it properly
I'm sorry this got so heavy but good lord it seriously fucks me up HOW MANY PEOPLE don't even seem to realise they're glorifying a borderline abusive relationship.
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was playing yokai watch and
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im sure im not the only person who goes "lmao he said little meow meow!!! like the tumblr people do with pathetic fictional men!!!!!" but still
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I see your dog-coded Agrippa and Cassius, but what about Crassus ? Kind of like feral dog coded
for me, Crassus skips the dog coding allegations on account of no one being able to put a leash on him, and there's no person he seems to be singularly devoted to in a way that dictates his actions
Dating The Praetorship of Marcus Licinius Crassus, Martin Stone
like, there's Sulla, but Crassus also did a lot of that of his own accord, and Sulla shut the door on him politically so Crassus climbed in through a window and worked a different aspect of Roman society-politics with magnificent skill. he ALSO skips the dog allegations because if anyone is bringing someone to heel, it's Crassus doing it to other people. there isn't a specific person that Crassus' actions can be dedicated to in a way that makes me think of a dog the way Agrippa's actions for Octavian do.
I also don't think he's feral! what he is: really fucking ruthless, or has the potential for ruthlessness, which isn't the same thing to me as being feral. and being ruthless is not uncommon for Late Republic politics
Lucullus: A Life, Arthur Keavney
but its that pivot point between being firm, ruthless, and likeable that makes him interesting. he's actually. he's--
okay, so in my mind, he's Machiavelli Prince coded. there are only two Romans I have ever made a compare and contrast analysis using Machiavelli's Il Principe, one is Augustus, the other is Crassus. and for once my connect the dots of thematic tomfoolery has something I can cite, someone ELSE has also made a comparison to Augustus
Dating The Praetorship of Marcus Licinius Crassus, Martin Stone
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ADDA (pathfinder kingmaker) // ZOYA (pathfinder wotr)
VIKTORIYA (cp2077) // FALKA (dnd/bg3)
BELLONA (m*cu/the sandman) // PRIYA (ofna)
the lovelies @chuckhansen and @blackreaches tagged me to make a couple of the girlies in this cutest picrew! ty so much! (and saw @roofgeese do this too!)
TAGGING: @griffin-wood, @risingsh0t, @leviiackrman, @shellibisshe, @florbelles, @queennymeria, @dihardys, @arklay, @multiverse-of-themind, @aartyom, @swordcoasts, @virassan, @adelaidedrubman, @jackiesarch, @yennas, @belorage, @jacobseed, @rosebarsoap, @trvelyans, @celticwoman, @loriane-elmuerto, @shadowglens, @aceghosts and you!
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I, very sadly, lost a lot of my screenshots of stuff I wanted to cover before my hiatus but never got around to, so instead I'll just bring up stuff that I see currently. Right now, that's this:
Now there's a lot to unpack here, but basically the context is that they're responding to a TikTok about proshippers all being pedos when they write problematic fanfic.
I'd love to dissect everything that's wrong with this statement in the screenshot, (because seriously what fucking evidence do they have that being a proshipper makes you relapse???) but I instead have one very simple response. Ahem.
If you are not my damn therapist, you have no say on what is ethically, morally, or hell even legally, is "wrong" about my fictional coping mechanisms. You don't fucking know me, I know me, and while dark fiction might hurt you, it's amazing for me to mentally go through things I don't want to personally go through irl ever again. No one needs to justify themselves to you, especially not survivors of SA or pedophila, because you have a moral high horse (and moral back bone of soggy spaghetti) and think that dark problematic fiction is 'icky' so it shouldn't exist.
TLDR: If you police coping mechanisms, mainly ones dealing with fiction, fuck you. Shut the fuck up, no one cares, go cry to your mom about how butthurt you are that people are more worried about their human rights being taken away then the poor sad fictional character being written into darkfic.
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Humanizing the dogs I turn trans is very fun.
I'm only really used to drawing skeletons in terms of body types, so I'm trying to figure out how to be more diverse with my art. I'm using Dannielle here for practice.
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