#i hate gender

[threecheersslxt]

I hate gender I hate gender I hate gender I hate gender I hate gender I hate gender I hate gender I hate gender I hate gender

[vizthedatum]

I'm getting to the point in my trans journey where I just need to fucking man up and accept that I DON'T CARE THAT I LIKE MAKEUP AND FEMININE THINGS AND STILL BE A MAN.

Like, I'm NOT transitioning to fit whatever patriarchal cis-man ideal of masculinity.

I'm being my own version of gender-fluid masculinity!

And I also don't need to perform it unless I want to perform/flaunt it.

All the changes I do medically or externally ARE FOR ME. Not for society.

But... it would be nice to be gendered as a man or simply not-a-girl more often.

It would be nice to be perceived as the gender-fluid, masculine peacock femboy I know I am.

[twelfth-dykector]

making picrews of myself looking androgynous to battle the crippling gender dysphoria😎💪

[maddies-chronicles]

GODDAMMIT I WANT TO BE FEMININE AND PRETTY BUT IN A MASC WAY BUT IM AFAB AHHAHAHAHHSJAJS

[insaneplane]

guys would I be bigender if I went by she/he but like I don’t want to have a specific gender I just go by she/he or would I be agender with she/he pronouns I’m so confused

also I like my preferred name obviously but like I’m chill abt ppl calling me my real name Idgaf tbh💀 I just am anything and everything but also nothing at all 😜

[iateyourbonessorry]

my gender is back at it again!!!!!!!!!!!!

fucking EXPLODES

[sickwithemotion]

when getting perceived as fem in a straight way gives u lowkey dysphoria… like im barely a woman, let alone a straight woman

[iwillbanu]

ran so far away from traditional masculinity “he” that i forgot that silly little guy “he” is still perfectly valid

[murmurmurl]

what the hell where'd my gender go

[your-friendly-neighbourh00d-fag]

im five seconds away from cutting my hair like mikey way in danger days era

[sadlittleratboy]

I was joking with my friend about the fact that me making really gender-neutral OCs was the first sign that I was non-binary, and me making a lot of male OCs recently (which of I have always had some of because I am male adjacent) and then all of a sudden the last two have been trans men which I've never done before, and that it could be like a secret sign that I'm a man even though I've said over and over that I'm definitely not in the past. And then I started thinking about it...

Often times on other social media where pronouns in bio isn't readily available like in YouTube comments I just kind of masquerade as a man, because it's easier and I'm lazy and my username has boy in the title. And like I've always been of the mind that I would prefer to just be a man because it is simpler but like I am non-binary and it's a pain in my ass and I hate it. But like am I? Probably idk.

Anyway the last time I used he/they pronouns I didn't like it but we will be test driving it again because idk... My gender is cooking up something funny.

[radiodeerr]

UGHHHH i hate being confused by my own gender

[gyustellations]

the love hate relationship i have with my gender is the worst thing ever. while i say it doesnt bother me how people continue to call me she/her pronouns i always say "oh i use all pronouns i just perfer he/they" i really mean "you can use she/her but id rather you not." the constant misgendering i do to myself and feeling guilty, knowing ill never be happy about how i look because i want to be everything at once yet nothing at the same time. all people see me as is a girl and i cant stand it "alaina hes probably gay" im not a woman though? so why would it matter if hes gay? i present more fem whilst wanting to present masc at the same time. i just want to escape my body and return to nothingness then i would feel more at home

[caramelapplesauce]

i want to be as gender as conan gray does gender

[callahannnnnn]

i hate gender. i know i use like he/him and sometimes he/it/they but i want to be a girl but not in a she/her way and i dont want people to see me as a girl but i want to be a girl but i know i want to be a boy.

[viridianvales]

i do not subscribe to the notion of gender, it subscribes to me.