#gender is fake

[depressdbitch]

When It comes to criticize Dylan Mulvaneys new song, TRAs go by "oh but cis girls makes songs about stereotypical girls things too!"

The difference Is that these cis girls are forced into female stereotypes from birth and they suffer from internalized misoginy, or ironize their experience.

Dylan was Born and raised a male, and everything about their online persona Is a caricature of a woman. Their Song Is a mockery.

[shitty-goose-quack]

psa: you don't have to look a certain way to be enby

you don't have to wear oversized button downs and bagy jeans to "pass"

you don't have to wear intricate and colorful makeup so people know you're queer

you don't have to shave your head to look more androgynous

you don't have to bind everyday to prove that you're really trans, and not just faking

you don't have to use they/them or he/him or fae/faer pronouns to not be a girl

jesus christ i just want to go and shake 14 year old me and tell her she can wear dresses and miniskirts and bras if that makes her feel good

tell her that if wearing mascara threatens her carefully crafted gender identity, then its not a great gender identity

just because you came out as "genderfluid/enby/gender queer/agender/transman/demiboy/unlabelled", masculinity doesn't mean shit (neither does femininity for that matter) and if coming out makes you feel like you're in more of a box, coming out did not serve it's purpose

screw that teacher who asked "why are you wearing girl clothes?" because you came to school in something pink

screw the imposter syndrome you felt wearing a bra instead of a binder

screw the people that say you're misgendering yourself when you call yourself a girl

I can be just as trans in a miniskirt as i am in mens jeans

i can have a gender crisis with or without lipstick on

i can be a lesbian with french braids or a buzz cut

i can flip off gender with long, unkempt cuticles, or 2 inch acrylics

my gender expression is for me, and me alone. if someone with shaved legs, eyelash extensions, waist length hair, and a pushup bra asks you to use he/him pronouns for him, you had better damn well respect that

[star-is-cool]

it/its pronouns

people tell me my pronouns are de-humanizing.

however, darling, THATS THE POINT.

im not human, im a funky little alien that happened to land on earth. it didn't get birthed, I fucking spawned from chaos.

so no, you may not only use he/him for me.

dont be a pussy, use my damn pronouns.

[number1racoon]

no more cis, trans, and nonbinary. there is only boring, cool, and normal

[ashtastiic]

NORMALIZE FEMININE TRANS MEN

[nezu-mi]

they're definitely dating

[transautisticmikewheeler]

so... headcanons?

[pink-lesbo]

when i feel like a boy its always gonna be a “femme boy” way not a “straight guy way”

[korva-the-raven]

But seriously though, forget gender...

I need to know what cute animal eraser you are:

[elfyprincess]

TRAs be like “gender is fake” and then threaten to kill themselves when you misgender them.

[moonysfavoritetoast]

this kid in my art class over here saying whatever gender you were assigned at birth so i said gender is a social construct, sex is biological and gender is not, and he just “no. gender is sex. sex is gender.” and i said “i’m, biologically, female. however, i do not give a fuck about my gender. call me whatever you want.” and he said “you’re a girl.”

[hjellacott]

Sex doesn't need to be changed to "biological sex"

Sex can only EVER be biological, it's the absolute definition of it. Just like you don't need to change the definition of night to "dark night".

We cisgender women and men, heterosexual, gays, lesbians, bisexuals... WE are not confused. WE are not in desperate need of therapy. WE don't need to undergo incredibly expensive treatments and transform the whole of society just to avoid the feeling of committing suicide. WE ARE FINE. But yes, we are getting rather pissed off, because it's infuriating (not to mention, rather terrifying) to see the world go from offering help to dellusional people with severe mental health issues, to trying to convince us all that they're right when we know they're not. And I'm not going to let a bunch of sexist, anti-women, misogynystic people with severe mental problems like these:

...tell me I am the crazy one, the confused one, when I fucking am NOT.

I also refuse to let them tell US we're becoming violent like they're innocent victims. You're the ones murdering women, threatening women, and opening the door to invite all kinds of sexual predators into women's spaces. We were a protected category long before you, you scumbags.

[lightpinkstuff]

Sometimes I feel like I'm going crazy. Do I like feminine guys, or am I just a lesbian? Then, I see a drawing of a very musculine hairy male character and I'm like, huh I guess I'm still bi. But then I'm like. But is my brain just registering this as a dude, or as a butch lesbian?

[viridianvales]

i do not subscribe to the notion of gender, it subscribes to me.