#i just wanna affection my friend

[mikoshubofchaos]

why can’t i super boop my friend back after he super booped me...........

[batbrainrot]

starting a praying circle for dc to give juni ba a red hood book next. we'll meet every thursday 11pm lmk if you're interested

[somegrumpynerd]

One of my hcs for the truce au is that Killer and Dust are both kinda touchstarved but Killer reacts to it by provoking people (because fight is a kind of touch right?) and Dust reacts to it by isolating (because he doesn't feel he deserves touch after what he did).

The cats are a big help for Killer because they provide a lot of casual touch and affection without annoying somebody into throwing him across the room (Cross also does a little of this once he's settled and starts to pick up on this). Horror is like Dust's service skeleton and slowly acclimates him to gentle touch without the flare-ups of guilt that he used to get.

[dylanlila]

the thing about me is i will cut you off because i'll inevitably grow so tremendously bored of you, but i will also jump into the fire for you if that was the only thing that could help you. personality secret unlocked

[hwajin]

it's so weird seeing every person around you develop complete different interests than yours

[nearestend]

sorry but i'm going to need everyone to stop writing autistic / "gifted" (in quotes because i hate that term) characters who were little baby geniuses that skipped grades and graduated as valedictorian and were every teacher's pet because it's the most unrealistic shit ever and kind of just perpetuates this ableist misconception when in reality most autistic / gifted kids are more likely to be abused and exploited and bullied (both by peers and teachers), especially if they are not rich and especially if they are not white

[plinkcat-gif]

got called a faggot (derogatory) for the first time today i made it big guys

[transgender-catboy]

can I just message one of my friends with

HEY GORGEOUS!!! I missed ya, haven't talked to you in a hot second, hope you're well!

or is that too much?

[lightblueminecraftorchid]

Today was the last DND session for a three-year campaign and I am big sad :(

One of the players brought whiskey for a last toast, which was very kind of them. I had never had whiskey before. Turns out I do not like whiskey. Unsurprising.

It tastes like slightly nicer hand sanitizer.

[daydadahlias]

public service announcement to my wonderful beautiful followers: i love yall deeply and i love when u send me asks sm but can y'all pls stop trying to talk to me about the twitter situation now <3 I've established (multiple times) that I think it is all baseless bullshit and that I'm going to carry on happily vibing away here on tumblr where people are capable of critical thought <3 so y'all don't need to keep sending me asks about it

[bunnihearted]

🐁☁️🌫️

[diathadevil]

Reading through a couple of german interviews for A Sign of Affection, I just love that suu Morishita described Itsuomi as just being a Simple Dude.

Man's just literally the epitome of a Friendly Extrovert who's good at making friends and acquantances in his travels, but only has a handful of people he would consider his closest friends (Shin and Johannes).

It just... it makes sense why he's so seriously in love with Yuki. It just clicked for him that he wants to hang out with her and spend the rest of his life loving her. He literally fell in love with her at first sight. He's already placed her in that special part of his heart that never wishes to let go of her no matter the distance. And that's why he quickly wanted to introduce her to his best friends.

[blujayonthewing]

I'm really glad elyss came several years before melliwyk, because mel's alignment shift from chaotic neutral to chaotic good sometimes feels a little embarrassing in an 'I can't keep my own feelings to myself for the sake of committing to the bit' sort of way, but the counterpoint to that is that elyss, steadfastly true neutral, just simply Does Not Care about anyone other than her own loved ones or anything outside her own immediate interest no matter how much I sometimes wish she would

[manasurge]

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[hazmatazz]

realizing how much physical affection means to me literally. like i always get that as my #1 love language for every fun test i do but oh my god they're right. i don't get enough physical affection or i don't get people saying they're giving me physical affection when they can't and suddenly i'm staying up that everyone hates me

[jellycreamjammedart]

Do NOT get invested in a Discord server where every breath you take has you walking on eggshells (at best) despite trying to be careful and compliant as much as you can, to the point you not only feel discouraged and unmotivated to share anything in there because it made your brain replace the giddy first thought of "I hope they find joy in it like I did!" with the ghoulish first thought of "I wonder what problematic thing they could still find in it after I already sanitized it as much as I possibly can," but also give you crushing anxiety over whether or not you should share a thing in there to the point it takes you all day to actually make your choice: you choose not to, or you do it and still regret it despite your utmost care-- doing it and succeeding are extremely rare lucky shots at best.

And you must know you're having it bad when whenever you get a ping/@ from there your brain thinks first thing instead of "Oh my! Someone thought of me when saying/showing something or wants to show me something or just talk to me!" it's a thought like "Oh boy! I wonder what I could possibly be getting grilled for this time no matter how careful I tried to be."

Dont do this to yourself hon. You dont need that anxiety and creativity-hindering environment where youre basically doomed and set up into getting in trouble from the start bc of the way things are handled. Yes even if people there are (apparently) nice-- just ask to add those you wanna keep in contact with and then hit da bricks, man. There are many other *actually* friendly servers out there even if theyre smaller-- bigger doesnt necessarily mean great, after all; ive certainly felt much happier and more positive in my smaller servers and now aim to stick with them <3

Tldr; dont stick or get invested in Discord servers (or any other online spaces really) that makes you anxious and paranoid of your every typed word or image/content shared or your every online move there to the point of unmotivation and discouragement- that place's not healthy for you; leave it hit da bricks, there are better places just waiting for you to come across that will *genuinely* take you in with open arms