#i’m just a girl 🎀

[darkfictionjude]

Oh coding God, be merciful on poor IF writers

[s-brant]

used the amazon gift card i got as payment for a mental illness research study to buy a vibrator so i don’t have the urge to go to my ex’s house during no contact - a song by lana del rey

[luxbub]

The bond between a girl and the middle-aged actor she saw in a movie years ago and now coincidentally has a big fat crush on is unstoppable

[abongthadoll]

[straightlinesunwindher]

queen of disaster 🎀

[enchanted2meetuuu]

no idea which one I like most but I had a vision 🥰

[coochieholder]

Please I love the girls that interact with my blog. I wish you all the best in life!! <3

[venice-witch60s]

[straykeedz]

sometimes i wish my english was better yk? like, it should be better, right? i’ve been studying it for over 10 years now, i have a degree and i’ll graduate again in a few months so it should be better. yk especially when i’m writing i feel like my writing it’s missing something, like a spark. each word i use feels… boring, like it’s been used thousands of times and everything feels just plain. i wish i knew more synonyms or more verbs or more collocations and stuff. more idioms, more phrasal verbs. and sometimes i just tell myself that it’s okay, that english is not my native language and it’s okay i’m still learning and getting better but it’s frustrating when i want to write something specific and like i can’t find the words.

i feel like every sentence i write nowadays it’s just boring.

[princessbrunette]

my toxic trait is making all of the boys girl dads in any dad!au

[pathologicalrambler]

any agent in those bullet proof vests >>>

[cwreampwuff]

ᰔ mi a magical girl ᰔ

[fluffymaxsworld]

when a man finally breaks down in my arms and tells me about his weaknesses and doubts in life:

[straightlinesunwindher]

me girlblogging

[sweetscentedmascra]

⸝⸝⸝🎀 ୭ ˚. ᵎᵎ 🦢 ⋆.ೃ࿔*:･

[coochieholder]

5 EASY STEPS ON BECOMING AN “IT” GIRL

⊹ 🐻˚₊⊹˚ʚ☕️੭ ⋆˙🧸 ⟡♡

1.) have clear boundaries girl!

if you want to be an It girl you need to have the mentality for it. The first thing you need to know about having a it girl mentality is you need boundaries. You can’t have an it girl mentality if people are constantly destroying your boundaries by walking over you and defying your space. If you don’t like something put it out there! Tell someone no if you don’t want something and be the assertive bad bitch you are.

2.) don’t hate like a man.

As girls or more importantly IT girls we should uplift other girls. This is not a 2000s show where being a complete bitch to others gets people to like you. If you want to be liked be likeable it’s as simple as it sounds. Don’t be afraid to help other girls out if they are in need, check on another girl if you see them upset or disappointed in something. As girls we can all agree we get shitted on enough by males, exactly why we should embrace our girlhood by helping other girls. If you help someone they are more likely to see you as a Role model or someone they want to be.

THIS DOES NOT MEAN BEING A PEOPLES PLEASER—- and too my next point!

3. Please yourself, not other people

All these tips are all correlated, having boundaries can also be letting people know that you are on your own journey and are living your life for yourself. Don’t be a people’s pleaser, this gets people thinking they have control over you and will most likely take advantage of the fact your a good person.

4.) Embody yourself

Adapt your own personal style and don’t follow everyone’s path. An easier example for the girlies; If everyone is wearing skirts and low rise jeans but you are feeling to wear yoga pants, where the yoga pants bitch. Its similar to how I mentioned your on your own journey and your simply co-existing with others. Be creative, and don’t follow the bunch. You can of course adapt your own style from things you like, but just make sure your wearing your clothing because you feel comfortable in it and you feel good in them!

5.) You deserve to be loved

The most important step of all is loving and taking care of yourself. If your stressed take a nap and chill, remind yourself that you have control over your life, nobody else. Take the day off and do your skincare or give yourself a warm bath or eat that extra piece of chocolate you’ve been holding out on! Enjoy life angel and know that all It girls take care of themselves

Xoxo Coochieholder💋