#i’m probably going to delete this

[uh-oh-kinky]

Tw: personal post, light sa reference

Someone explain to me why when someone says something I’m uncomfortable I usually reciprocate or reinforce it because I’m what, scared of being ghosted? Think I’m supposed to? Don’t want to disappoint people? All of the above usually.

It’s such a serious problem. I imagine other people have this too. And it’s probably ✨trauma✨ related but damn especially when I know someone for only a little bit and they’re suddenly super sexual I struggle to say no even when I want to and then I always feel absolutely awful after. Like I don’t blame the people who initiated the sexual stuff, it’s not really their fault. I just really struggle with being afraid to say no, especially in person.

If anyone else struggles with this I just want you to know you’re not alone and it’s not your fault that you react like this. It’s valid. You’re healing and that’s okay, it will get easier. And I’m here for you

[toastietier5]

THERE AINT NO GODS DAMN WAY SHIVER WON…AGAIN FOR THE 6TH FUCKING TIMES. FRYE HAS WON ONLY ONCE. ONE FUCKING TIME

HOWHOWHOWHOWHOW

LIKE HOW TF DID FRYE GET 17%⁉️⁉️LIKE HUH

I FUCKIN HATE SHIVER AND HER SIMPS THIS IS THE SAME THING THAT HAPPENED WITH PERAL AND MARNIA. WHATS TBE POINT OF A SPLATFEST IF SHIVER IS THE ONLY ONE WHO WINS. I KINDA GET DEPRESSED WHEN I KNOW THAT SHIVER IS GOING TO WIN. WHY IS 30% OF SHIVERS POPULATION THESE STUPID FUCKING JAPAN SIMP ASS BAFFONS. YALL WAS TAKIN “Era of shiver” TO FUCKIN REAL. WASNT LIKE EVERYONE HYPING UP TEAM FRYE FOR LIKE 2 WEEKS OR SMTH?

IM OVER THIS, SHIVER FUCK U, WE STAN FRYE AND BIGMAN

Ik splatfest is supposed to be all fun and I get that but I’m fed up with the shiver simps and their BS I honestly and to punch shiver in the fucking face.

also can we talk about how Frye was the only one to do her outro right at the end of her boss battle. Like Shiver drops hers and FUCKING EXPLODES, Big Man throw his and it gets stuck THEN FUCKING EXPLODES. FRYE WAS THE ONLY ONE WHO DID HER SHIT CORRECTLY. AND SHE ACTS LIKE SUCH A LEADER BRO.🧍🏽

I JUST WANNA SEE WHAT FRYE SAYS WHEN SHE WINS AND THATS GOING TO BE NEVER

Also for the other splatfest can you guys like actually pick something YOU would do AND NOT PICK SHIVER FOR ONCE IN UR LIVES

sorry for this stupid ass rant, I’m just feelin a lil goofy silly, ggs yall and happy anniversary to splatoon 3

But I still want to beat the ever living shot out of shiver fans.

also how the hell are your guys breaking ur Nintendos and tvs😨im going to delete this at some point🧍🏽

[moonlayl]

Angry Rant:

Nothing bad can ever happen in America without it immediately drowning every other problem and so many Americans feeling entitled over the rest of the world.

And it’s frustrating as fuck.

Two women, both 21 years old, Naiyera Ashraf and Iman Rashid were brutally murdered at their respective universities in Egypt and Jordan, only 3 days apart on June 20th and June 23rd.

These two murders have triggered a widespread fury across the Middle East and North Africa and rightfully so, because this is NOT uncommon. People, especially Arab women, are calling for greater protection against gender violence and femicide in those regions.

AND YET, outside of Arabic news, any post or article talking about this on ANY social media, about this real issue that Arab women have been facing, about this reality in our countries, about the fact that women are brutally killed and assaulted, has mostly gotten English comments like “yeah this world is so misogynistic. Just look at what happened in the USA today”

Except we’re not talking about the fucking States, so jot that down.

What happened in the states is disgusting and terrible and awful and Americans have every right to be upset and disgusted, but for the love of GOD, recognize that it’s not the only bad thing that has happened to women recently and that the world doesn’t revolve around the US.

If your first thought when hearing about how a 21 year old women was SHOT to death because she refused to marry an asshole and rejected his ass is “sucks, just like how women can’t get abortions in the USA anymore” screw you.

And I’m not saying “Non American women have it worse”. That’s not what I’m saying. It’s not a competition.

All I’m saying is, when we’re talking about misogyny, and abuse, and assault that women face in other countries, the conversation is not about the USA, and that goes for everything else. Also, you can talk about both at the same time, without so clearly making it seem like one doesn’t matter as much.

And I’m sick of there being this expectation that you have to always talk about any terrible thing that happens in the USA because “it affects everyone else” or “it makes you a shitty person if you don’t” WHILE SIMULTANEOUSLY, Americans are the first to preach about how difficult it is to stay up to date on all the terrible things that happen to the rest of the world. “It affects our mental health. We can’t keep talking about these things. We need a break.”

[eddiessidegirl]

sudden onset of insecurity of my writing has happened i now want to delete everything and never post again

[littlefantasies93]

My boyfriend accidentally revealed to my grandma that I had a tattoo and she was hysterical. Now my family are mad at me for apparently ruining Hanukkah, I’m pissed off at my boyfriend for even saying anything, and now I’m at my place all by myself because I don’t want to see anyone and I’m sad.

Chag Sameach I guess. 🕎

Update: my mom called and said to come back to have a family meeting…….over a tattoo. ABSOLUTELY FUCKING NOT . This is incredibly dumb and we’re only having this meeting for my grandma, my parents don’t even care if I have a tattoo. This is dumb.

[isth4tth3gr1mr34p3r]

“The asshole is a breed who always thinks about themselves and is the worst friend a friend could ever have! Nocturnal assholes get little to no sleep (hence the name). Most assholes are either in love with themselves or are insecure. Some assholes are insecure about themselves so they decide to compare themselves to others and make their self-esteem devolve. That is all we know about this species.” Yo it’s my species bruh (I typed this in discord dude)

[willmike-what]

Just found out that I’m on a proship blocklist lol, It hasn’t even been a month (actually if I’m right it hasn’t even been two weeks)

[sugarpasteltmnt]

(whispers) hey friends I appreciate your excitement but gentle reminder it’s not very polite to ask fanfic writers when the next chapter is gunna come out

[phoenixmetaphor]

Oct 13 &

Oct 14 - Chreon Aquarium Date (prompt from @cerul-skyefrost ‘s ask to @thebrandywine 😛)

[eternal-moss]

When people continually whitewash my favourite characters.

[ID: A black and white, rough digital drawing of someone sitting at a desk and clutching their head in their hands. End ID.]

^thank you @describe-things

[zeb-z]

okokokok I know it’s funny and silly and bad takes every opportunity ever to mess with missa but the two of them constantly saying he doesn’t have a home making him a little room in the aquarium with a whole way stone that says ‘missas home’ or whatever when missa’s name is already on the warp above when missa already does have a home with phil i feel sick I feel ill

[moonyswarmsweaters]

Marauders era characters as my self deprecating thoughts

cause I’m not doing well lol

James: Do people really like me ore do they just like the version of myself I decide to show them?

Sirius: If i will be dramatic enough when It’s not that bad people would normalize my real breakdowns

Remus: Keep a smile on, maybe this time “fake it till you make it “ will work. People don’t need to see when you struggle, it will make them sad and sorry for you

Peter: I don’t do enough for others, I’m not enough for others. Why can’t I be like the Others?

Mary : I worked SO hard not to be a people pleaser i think I became such a bitch people hate me

Regulus: God, I corrected them again I didn’t mean to be mean she is my friend she must hate me now, god that’s why nobody likes a know it all

Even: my friends told me they are a bit scared of me again, am I bad person for not completely hating it or am I just overprotective of myself after so long, I won’t hurt my friends, but maybe they wouldn’t hurt me again. I don’t want them to be scared of me, not really, I love them. How do I even have friends?

Barty: I got a good score on the test WHY DID I GET A GOOD SCORE ON THE TEST I didn’t study enough., it must be a mistake, just pure dumb luck I’m not smart enough everyone think i smart when i feel so fucking stupid

on a sirius note- if you need help, please get help. You matter and can rant to me any time 💕- edit written AFTER the breakdown lol

[littlefantasies93]

😌

I’m just as smitten with him as I was a year and two days ago.

[onceuponaneverafter]

i get the vibe that jacks gives really nice hugs. like, he never hugs anyone (not, like, EVER) so literally nobody knows but if he did. it would be surprisingly amazing

[weenhands]

a lot of pop feminism ideology today isn’t even rooted in actual meaningful change for all women it’s just rooted in laziness and not wanting to fight for anything anymore and wanting to relish in lack of self awareness and be blissfully ignorant because “you’re just a girl”. all this progress we’ve made going down the drain

[sprout-fics]

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