#idk i mean they're super long lived so maybe there was only like a million of em

[ijusthavesomanyblorbos]

can we take a moment to talk about the straight up hilarity of tf prime's setting

i gotta be honest i have no idea what the deal is with the vehicons. i dunno if they're canonically sentient or not but for all intents and purposes their only real role is cannon fodder, so they're basically like... megatron's little roombas. except instead of vacuuming they do crimes.

but ASIDE from that. guys. prime has such a small ass cast. and like they hype everything up so much and the stakes are supposedly so high. BUT THIS WAR IS LITERALLY JUST LIKE 10 GUYS. AT LEAST G1 HAD LIKE PLATOONS. BUT PRIME?? THERE'S NO ONE!! THEY'RE FIGHTING OVER A WHOLE PLANET WHEN THEY LITERALLY COULDN'T MAKE UP A SINGLE AMERICAN FOOTBALL TEAM!!!!!!!! I WILL NEVER GET OVER THIS!!

[niuxita21]

My life will never be the same again hbu

[corviiids]

hi rook sorrgy I'm back but I've been thinking about your akeshu as girls genderfuckery tweet for 20 million years. idk if you can share anything in good faith here on the Tumblr corner of the internet (if not then by all means ignore this) but if you did I'd owe you perhaps my entire soul!! thank you very much either way :3

i would LOVE to talk about this thank you so much for asking

[under the cut in case anyone would not like to see genderfuckery stuff]

okay so first of all.

on the topic of boobs

this is important to lead with do you understand. most of the akeshu as girls stuff ive seen around has akc as flat-chested and ren as boobed. and that's valid i support that. but personally. personally to me. i think it's the opposite. tbe reason (well one reason) i think it's the opposite is because i think girlren is a little rat of a creature and akechi who is prim and feminine and perfect is so FUCKING angry about her crush on ren like she's barely surviving it and then this is the nail in the coffin. she's like why can't i stop thinking about that messy unassuming thing. she doesn't even have boobs

my other reasons for tihs are that i think joker is more androgynous charm while akechi is more feminine/masculine duality i think this makes sense to nobody else. i think ren regardless of agab is riding the rail of the gender spectrum 🛹 while akc is collecting extremes of gender presentation like they're pokemon do you understand. are we on the same page here. ren being into drag is important to me for this reason (again regardless of agab). meanwhile akechi having very clear feminine secondary sex characteristics but presenting gradually more and more masculine in terms of clothing/hair/personal style etc. is also extremely important to me. and that includes being biog of tity while her style veers more and more into masc as time goes on

ok

the detective prince

i think girl akechi (at 17-18) presents very femininely because it's what's effective for her. i would call her style................... kawaii corporate chic. does that make sense for everyone. it's like schoolgirl girlboss. she has a bow instead of a tie but it's a very classy one not a kitschy one. smart blazer, uniform pleated skirt, patent leather shoes, u know the drill BUT. people still call her the detective prince. this is VERY IMPORTANT to me. no detective princess. only detective prince. do you understand the importance of the genderfuckery of a super feminine girl being called by masculine terms. to me. we're continuing the legacy set by my hero naoto shirogane bigender queeng. bigender kin. bigender genderneutral non-monarchical ruler

i think by third sem girl akechi is starting to dress more androgynously/masculinely. more pants. i think her third sem outfit is unchanged from canon. just a smart coat, sweater, buttondown, slacks. postcanon she gets a haircut.

just trying to live an honest student life

ren is like so fundamentallyuncomfortable with the fact of his existence at the beginning of canon so to me girlren is like... she dresses like she's trying to hide in her clothes. messy hair. i have no strong feelings about whetehr her hair should be long or short, or whether it's loose or pulled into a tail, but i know it's messsy. untamed curls. and she uses it to hide her face. none of her clothes fit. she's in oversized everything. i have a very clear image in my head of a ren idle animation where she leans down to pull up her leggings because they keep falling down. she also has terrible posture. she's androgynous at this stage not on purpose but because she's too self conscious to like... exist... and present... in any notable way at all

i think as she gets more confident and as the year progresses she starts to dress more distinctively. i like the idea of her getting more comfortable prettying up. maybe working at crossroads helps her with this 🤔 i dont know how to explain this but i think she's still feminine in a gentlemanly chivalrous way rather than a girly cute way. girlren has that same steady calming vibe that guy ren does

joker & crow

crow has a magical girl skirt. i have a drawing of this but im too self conscious about my own lack of drawing skill to show it off so i cropped out the key part and put it into an ms paint void in the distance as my visual aid

there. i hope this is illustrative

i think given girl akechi's use of her feminine charms to gain popularity, her hero complex would be similarly gendered given we have confirmation that robin hood represents not (only) heroics for altruistic reasons but also the theatre of being seen doing good. there's a real drama element to the idea of a magical girl transformation that i honestly wish we got for male crow too. i always am depressed that we don't get to see much theatre for akechi's initial appearance as crow and summoning of robin hood, anyway, girlcrow has ribbons and a capelet that flap in non-existent wind.

black mask's outfit is unchanged from canon. i'd like it to look a little less stupid but that has nothing to do with gender i just want it to look a little less stupid.

joker's outfit is also unchanged from canon. listen. im back on my bullshit. in the metaverse her behaviour gets more feminine and more sly and confident than in reality. she's got that femme fatale shit going on. however, she is still a gentleman thief. she has the long coat. she has the poofy trousers. she has the waistcoat. she's still smirking and fixing her gloves and flipping her knife and doing that thing that canon ren does where he lifts his chin and does the little "come on" thing with her fingers. do you understand? do you understand me

[thefuzzzz]

What Pets I Think Different Karasuno Ships Would Have In The Future:

KageHina would have a turtle for reasons I do not know and cannot confirm but just suspect deep in my heart. Like, Hinata seems like the type to think turtles are cool and Kageyama seems like the type of guy to really like reptiles (they’re autistic. bite me.) Turtles can be left alone for a while, as long as they have food, water, the right habitat and someone to at least check in on them daily, so I think it would fit their super fast paced pro volleyball player lives.

DaiSuga would have this giant ass ex-police dog that retired after working with Daichi for a while. It’d be a really sweet, but huge, German shepherd that lives only to torment Suga. It’s Daichi’s dog, but will happily stand directly under Suga’s feet while he’s trying to do literally anything. Suga pretends to hate it, but Daichi has like a million of those “my husband and the dog he didn’t want” pictures of the two of them being pals when Suga thinks no one is looking. Sometimes Daichi brings his huge dog with him when he drives to pick Suga up from the school. All the kids love that dog, and Suga bends and lets Daichi bring it for career day one day. The kids lose their minds.

TsukiYama would have Yamaguchi’s childhood dog that I SWEAR he had in the manga, but I just googled it and I may be crazy or mixing him up with someone else. Either way, he has a childhood dog now. It’s this mega-old Shiba that they’re both convinced will outlive them. Tsukishima pretends to be indifferent about the dog, but he treats it like a king when no one is looking. They also have like a lizard or something because they seem like the types to have a lizard. Maybe like a frog. Idk, but a reptile of some kind that Tsukishima just stares at sometimes.

AsaNoya would have two cats (Asahi’s) and a dog (Noya’s). It took the two of them a while to settle down, due to the nature of their careers, but after they did Asahi kept finding cats outside their house and begging Noya to let him keep them. Noya, of course, folds. They're both pretty scuffed-up alley cats, but they adjust to domestic life. I imagine that they’re both special needs cats of some kind and Asahi takes insanely good care of them. Noya decides that he needs a little high-energy friend, and they get a border collie. Noya very frequently goes on runs and stuff with it while Asahi stays home and cuddles with his cats. The dog is very gentle with the cats, and they like to cuddle pile while their humans take a million pictures of them.

TanaKiyo would have literally the dumbest looking pit bull with the biggest heart and a super sassy pretty white cat. The pittie is a super sweet older dog that Tanaka had for a long time, but is still super playful and silly. The cat is Kiyoko’s little princess, and is treated as such. That cat is a menace. Constantly antagonizes everyone and is so mean for no reason. Tanaka threatens to sell it daily. The only thing stopping him is how much Kiyoko loves it.

(P.S. I haven’t watched the show in a while and am just going through my annual summer Haikyuu withdrawals, so please excuse anything that’s OOC. Also, sorry if there’s a ship you don’t particularly like. I’m a huge multishipper, and would love to see your interpretations of other ships in the replies or reblogs!!! I sadly don’t know enough about the other teams to make one of these for them, so feel free to ham it up and make one of your own! Tag me tho cuz I wanna see lol)

[acaciapines]

Your nanowrimo pieces are soooo goooood they hit so hard fr fr. I’m especially LOVING today’s one with the owl & the collector even tho I don’t rlly know that much abt toh bc I haven’t watched it but I can tell that u LOVE IT & I can’t wait to learn more thru osmosis once the fic is poooosteeeed✨ (i WILL read it i PROMISE i SWEAR)

Anyways give us the thoughts, the tea, tell us how you make the words do that✨ anything u wanna give in regards to today’s bit!! We’re not picky!

Hope y’all are doing okay! Gal says hi :) Remember to eat and drink something, take breaks, and look after yourselves and each other! We love you! This has been a Daily Interaction Ask <3

he he :3 im glad youre enjoying!! its been really fun to pick out my favorite bits even when usually those are the ones w/out context lol. look at my owl and weep boy. firefly <3

YOU WILL LEARN SO MUCH VIA OSMOSIS....literally now that im also doing something for s1 its like. why watch owl house we have owl house at home (the owl house at home is a 1 million word daemon au) (<- 1 mil is not a joke btw idk if it'll hit it but itll at least come very close. no idk why i did this.)

as for today! hmmm...

its truly so fun to write the collector. like im not joking about him being my favorite owl house character despite his maybe twenty total minutes of screentime, so its been such a JOY to expand his role in this series!!

bc like. god. actually i think i wrote a whole like. bit of flash fiction/prose poetry type thing for them a while ago. probably in my files somewhere. but just. youre an immortal eight year old. you are in these years where you need to interact with other people for your own mental stability and health. to figure out the whole Being A Person thing. and you are trapped for like, centuries. trapped away from everyone and everything and DUST, which, in universe, in literally connection personified. you're cut off from all of this.

and you are, let me say again, eight years old.

truly the collector is just. hes had everyone he ever cares about leave him--his siblings the other archivists left him behind not out of any sense of cruelty, really, but because caring about people just isnt really a thing they do. quite frankly they live so long they didnt even notice. theyre far-away stars. not far because they're mean. just because thats what stars do.

and then king's dad (who um. doesnt have a name <3 this is why the collector calls him 'the big bully' its literally bc i never gave him a name--) was an adult the collector actually trusted and looked up to (he meshed REALLY WELL into titan society until the archivists started Doing A Murder since titans are the only beings that match them in power and they have very very different ideas about dust). like ive said before the collector is owlbeastkin but before that they never had a super stable sense of identity--in another world where they stayed w/ the titans they wouldve ended up a titan.

and then king's dad just. trapped him in a tablet forever.

and like, to be fair to king's dad he was reacting out of fear and the best knowledge he had (he assumed the collector led the archivists to the titans, and like, he did, but its not like he knew he was doing that, and, you know, poor guy had seen a huge chuck of his fellow titans killed including babies and eggs of which he had an egg to consider), but it still TRAPPED THEM. and then he died and so did all the rest of the titans so nobody could free the collector even if they wanted to.

and then BELOS, who manipulated and lied to the collector for so long and was also literally his only friend after being alone forever, so like, of course the collector just blindly went along with whatever he said. he was gonna free them!! he listened to them when they talked about stardust which nobody else ever did! he had no idea what the fuck a witch was! he just liked being able to see the stardust sometimes, and belos brought him to places with a lot of stardust. to destroy it, but like--you know. it was THERE.

but all these people were just USING them, and they never really understand that until king comes around. and king's also a scared eight year old!! but like. king's also not wrong. the collector did aid belos in destroying the entire isles. like no joke belos SUCCEEDS here. like not long-term obvi this has a happy ending but at the point we're in at for the future? it doesnt matter that the draining spell failed. all the palistrom trees are dead. witch society Cannot come back from that even if they did end up beating the collector. theyre doomed.

anyways what was i saying. collector. right.

so like, then they meet firefly/grr-click-growl/wings-across-night/the owl beast (king of having so many names i love her <3) and shes like, the first person who cares for them and ISNT using them. even king is using them!! but firefly has seen Some Shit. she sees the collector as a hatchling who was kicked out of his nest and is doing her best to be some sort of stable figure for him, but she doesnt Not see the stuff he's done.

the collector took over the world bc he's scared--all he's ever known is being used and trapped so he doesnt exactly trust most people easily. firefly would Love to not be in this world anymore. shes also got a loyalty to eda and king and luzmari. and, like, cool motive, still trapping an entire society of people.

but like. shes the one who is here right now and nobody else is trying to help this kid.

but the collector just. hes just an eight year old. a very, very old eight year old. but he doesnt understand things like "you can make the wrong choices and still choose to do better later" and "im mad at what you did but that doesnt mean i dont care about you."

he just sees someone upset with him. just sees another person who used him and doesnt care and is going to leave bc everyone leaves him and in a world where EVERY SINGLE PERSON comes in pairs, hes the only one who stands alone.

basically tl;dr: collector my beloved <3

[phoebehalliwell]

Ok ok ok do you think the next gen (plus your lovely non-canon next gen ocs like the twins, Dency, and her crew) would go to Pride? What would their experiences at Pride be like?

okay okay okay okay okay

wyatt - gay - i think wyatt was one of those kids who knew he was gay from like. elementary school age like young and i think that like lowkey scared piper in the sense like oh my god how do i be a progressive mom like how do i like umm you know like how do i like gay good!! aaaaaaaa um. so i think you know i think there are a million and one gay witch couples so like you know piper and leo like idk meet up with one of leo's old charges maybe leo was like a whitelighter for this one gal and then she had kids so leo was a whitelighter for them as well and one of them is a lesbian and she lives with her partner (also a witch) in the castro and piper and leo are like hi. you're gay. to which they're like yes?? and they're like. how. like. how would you like to be raised. like. if you were. if you were say you were nine right now and also a boy and also our son and you just came out as gay, how would you like to be raised. like what would you like your parents to do. so i think wyatt grew up in like a super supportive environment occasionally just a lil too supportive you know like not everything's a gay thing we don't need to bring it up all the time but also wyatt does bring it up all the time so hey. i think he definitely like bought a big ol pride flag for his room and has multiple like t shirts and stuff and joined the local gsa so when pride comes around it's a Whole Thing and since you know he's so young he's in like middle school gsa not all parents are like too keen to like turn their kids lose upon pride like you know they're all just like twelve no need to set them lose upon the city type vibes so for those whose parents are against it (or for those who are still in the closet) i think wyatt hosts a pride party (something piper goes all out for as far as cooking goes it's ridiculous--and you should see what paige and phoebe do to the manor it's the whole kit and caboodle) which ends up become a traditions so those from like middle school and high school and college all that that he keeps in touch with i think he still hosts pride parties just as kind of an old tradition (and i think piper still bakes pride flag cookies every june)

chris - queer (both sexuality and gender) - tbh unlike wyatt i think it took chris a very very long time for the other shoe to drop bc like yes he has a very gay brother but like wyatt has always easily fit in a binary. like he has always been very strongly male and he has always been very strongly gay like wyatt's identity has never been fluid so i think like w chris realizing that he is queer is just you know like um. honestly i don't even know. that gradual realization of wait. is this not how the rest of y'all are? pride for chris i think is a much more subtle thing than it is for wyatt i mean he still fucking loves piper's pride cookies i mean who doesn't but he's less of a flag guy less of a parade guy but a lot of local artists to a lot more like you know like gay art as far as like one person shows and poetry readings and concerts and all that and i think that's very much chris's speed he doesn't consider himself an artsy type at all he doesn't consider himself creative which is pretty funny bc the way he practices magic so clearly stands in disagreement w his persona viewpoint but he fucking loves like consuming art that's easily his favorite thing about june (bc it sure a s hell isn't the weather he wakes up and it's not like in the mid 40's he's like hey what the fuck?)

melinda - demisexual - okay tbh i really only put this there for this particular headcanon bc while i’d like melinda to be queer i have not decided what her identity is per se tho i will say i’m fond of the idea of demisexual bc it is just so personal and so intimate especially for an empath like you can always feel other people’s feelings you always know how people feel about you and you can feel sexual attraction as others experience it but to only have that really happen to you once you feel like super like about someone like. like to finally like feel that yourself. idk i think that could be interesting. anyways. i think melinda has always loved wyatt’s little pride parties (more than she’s loved pj’s (don’t tell pj)) bc they’re just so like. silly. like everyone there is so giggly and just carefree and playful and it just feels silly. like. endorphins. in my writings she’s got a whitelighter her name is effie and she is posing as melinda’s RA in college meaning she gets to you know host little pride events for at the very least the dorm hall which i think melinda gets really into she’s really like her mother in that party planning sense they bring in her roommate ale who’s a total creative type you know full nine yards together that trio concocts so many cute lil ideas

kat - lesbian - kat is also one of those kids who knew they were gay pretty early like by the end of elementary school she was like yes... i like girls... but you know like a year or two into middle school she was like oh! i don’t like boys. which was the real revelation for her i think she was a bit of a gsa kid early on but there were just a bit too many personalities there for her liking she would consistently butt heads with other figures trying to establish themselves as the leader (she may or may not have issues w authority) so she kinda abandoned that i think kat much like her lovely aunt phoebe is a bit of a serial dater so rarely does a pride month pass where she doesn’t have a girlfriend most of the girls she dates are not girls she goes to high school with but rather girls she goes to magic school with which i personally think magic school’s “district” is just like. the western portion of america reaching into the mountains and then there are a couple students there from you know elsewhere bc i think well tangent time (it’s a small tangent i swear!) i think most well established magical families don’t send their kids to school i mean it is in essence public school and they would much rather teach their kids in the ways of their family from their sacred book rather than send them to some school to learns god knows what so like the montanas and calloways and even for a really long time the warren line did not send their kids to school however with the charmed ones taking over magic school (which is why it’s now affectionately dubbed “charm school”) a couple more established magical families are like hey let me get in on that and paige would love to be like no go to your own local school but the elders are like come on what’s it to you it literally doesn’t matter let em in so there are a couple students from like. all over the world. tangent over basically kat loves to travel to explore the world so i think pride month for her is her & her girlfriend exploring san francisco w kat playing tour guide and then going to whatever hometown her gf is from and doing the exact same thing technically it’s really no different from any other month in the year but kat does definitely secretly look forward to being openly and annoyingly gay she thinks it’s really fun (she gets incredibly annoyed when people don’t immediately clock her as a lesbian she’s like don’t i look like a lesbian?? and tamora’s like ??? and henry’s like no u just like like a girl who has pinterest which lmao lowkey stung but really any opportunity kat gets to be like long live the lesbians!! is a good opportunity)

tamora - she’s straight lmao - you always need one token straight. that being said i think she has a lot of gay friends or at least she did in high school they all kind of went off to college and she stayed home and they kind of fell out of touch bc well what can she say tam’s not great at communication and to be perfectly honest she was never really integral in any friend groups so she’ll still comment “so cute❣❣❣” on instagram posts but thats about where communication stops and starts for her but since the friend pack would always go to pride she would usually tag along just for funsies and like the free fucking capital one pens or whatever. 

henry - bi - honestly? i don’t think henry does that much for pride. like pj always throws some type of party(ies) and he’ll always attend those and he’ll go to like sf pride and all that and if need be he’ll assist pj in her party planning but really the only difference for him is that the social events he attends fly more flags. like don’t get me wrong it’s not like he dislikes pride month or anything not remotely (tho rainbow capitalism is a whole nother story tamora has caught that earful seven ways to sunday he fucking hates that shit) but yeah he himself does not change his energy at all for pride month he just brings his cute lil gay ass to wherever the party is and lights up the room. done and done.

pj - bi - oh my god don’t even get my fucking started. okay okay okay. so she’s in asb right associative (?) student body so obviously planning school pride events? super important to her. she’s technically in gsa but very very rarely graces a meeting with her presence due to her schedule. she is however in a group chat w the gsa leaders in order to best plan the mixer dance between all the local school’s gsas. beyond that, magic school. duh. obviously needs events. this gets to be very different from high school’s stuff because she gets to use ~magic~ so it’s even more fun of a challenge. oh, and then, of course, like, her social life, obviously she needs to throw some parties like not through an educational institution. and remember how wyatt’s were these lowkey just super fun super casual get togethers aint nothing but a thing don’t even worry about it? yeah. that’s not how pj rolls. peyton has gotten super good at telekinetically moving tiny particles bc she always gets practice trying to clear glitter of her corner in the couch next morning. and of course i haven’t even touched on the cupid part. we’ll get to that

parker - ace - love pj’s parties hated planning pj’s parties other than offering opinions on the guest list. pj’s like should i do like a soda fountain should i try to get a soda fountain is that too much cans are probably just easier but it’s not as fun also if you can mix drinks at a mixer right right but idk it’s a lot of effort so if it’s not gonna land maybe i don’t want to and parker is just like. the little spinning beachball on the computer. whatever you want to happen, it’s not happening here. that being said both her & pj love to meddle, and both her and pj can physically see love. now, they don’t have the power to slip through cracks in time or speak to other’s subconsciouses, their witch half kinda screws with their cupid powers in that sense, so they’re not “full” cupids, but they can still see if there’s a connection and then just speak to the conscious. no mind reading necessary. in general, the cupitches run a betting pool on relationships; there���s a whiteboard with names, some potential pairs and bets on when they’ll finally get together, others established couples with guesses on the expiration date. peyton doesn’t play bc she just got to high school and doesn’t know these people, also she thinks it’s weird. melinda will play using her empathy powers, henry will play bc it’s fun. and then there’s a pride edition. there’s a whiteboard and on it a list of a whole bunch of single gays may 31st you place your initial claims and they go in your section of the whiteboard you can add on people throughout the month if you’d like they just can’t already be someone else’s charge. then the matchmaking begins. the goal? help these kids find love. whoever has made the most matches that survive through the end of june wins (henry works on the “mortal scale” as it’s dubbed, his number is always multiplied by 2 (he’s arguing for 2.5) because he can’t see love or teleport which puts a damper on how fast he can pair together couples. winner gets something like $100. pj normally wins, but parker is hot on her tail. it’s difficult forcing premonitions for personal gain, but uhh it’s not personal gain if she uses it to find people love (right??) so she frequently tries to get visions of what couples will form on their own to boost her bets

peyton - questioning - little baby peyton. idk what she is. i have no idea. she likes going to magic school’s pride events tho. those are fun. she doesn’t like pj’s parties. those are overwhelming. henry usually goes to pride with his pack of friends and they can be a bit loud so usually tamora will take her to pride. she like seeing all the love though. sometimes she’ll put on a big ol pair of heart shaped sunglasses so no one can see how out of focus her eyes are and go to one of those events in the park that just has like a bunch of like old gay couples in their like 60s and stuff and she’ll just look at all the love she thinks it’s the sweetest thing

dency - queer - dency’s like pj except she has less friends. no offence. she loves planning an absolute rager. she doesn’t do any of the asb type things she was never class president or anything close to that my god so there are never any school sanctioned events but she does have an in at a super cool club turned bar that’s still kind of a club [see this post for more info!] so she’s like lads. we gotta throw a rager. i think she definitely goes to pride with her friends dressed in some of the most ridiculous outfits you’ve ever seen

dove - bi - complete opposite of dency in the sense that multiple like you know queer advocacy groups and all that will host fundraisers and she’s like look you want real money ditch the ugly screen printed cotton tshirts and stupid fucking face painting booth and host a gala. so dove will frequently throw those together dency is forced to be in attendance and look nice because usually when dove says you have to come to this rich people thing she lets dency look like dency bc she find it incredibly funny watching the rich people squirm but for this she’s like it’s for the little gay kids so best behavior now.

penn - straight - penn gets a mini section just to state that she’s always at dove’s stupid galas bc piper’s restaurant always caters for these things and she works as a chef in piper’s restaurant something very few people know and she spends the entire thing dodging conversations with rich people (remind her too much of the insufferable elders) and avoiding dove and dency

and then just a section for the w&s household just because they [warren, sheridan, keyboards, jenny] all live together. and then monica and luz are over so frequently they practically live there too. for starters, and kinda pride thing that’s like we have live music odd are the band’s on that poster towards the bottom in the extra small font a) bc you gotta get your name out there b) keyboards being both gay (used as an umbrella term) and trans is really big on the whole gay rights thing. jenny is genderqueer and bi but is also a bit of a loner so wouldn’t do as much as keyboards does bc keyboards knows too many people but she still loves to tear it up. warren is bi and also a slut he Loves this month. monica and luz to like tarot and palm and tea leaf readings at any events. sheridan is the honorary straight person but honestly he’s been surrounded w gay people all this life that this is just the norm. he finds that bi women are very into him, monica says it’s because he’s blond which is “a feminine trait fr”

[sketchguk]

AHHHHHHHHH your friend sounds sooooo cute I'm screming! It sounds so wholesome! I don't think I can match that level of wholesome I looove when someone in a relationship knows the person from so long like from school! It makes me feel secure. Did you say she's a introvert but popular hjhjhhhh 😭 the way you said that he told her not to stress about it with a pet name 😭 sorry to your friend I'm not trying to steal her guy but why does he sound dreamy 😭 they sound cute! ahaha I wish them well! Aaah my crush is like that too~ Are older guys dreamy bcoz of their age???? hjhjhh my crush uses petnames for me too and hes very protective. He'll ask to text or call if I'm going home alone or he'll offer to drop me too. I'm scared of spending more time with him bcoz he might ask me about being a couple. But I'm still confused so I don't want him to think I'm rejecting him! Then he might think I'm leading him on too 😭 I want some time

I'm insecure too bcoz he won't show interest unless he likes me little right? So I already fit his standards. But from my side he has a job and cool friends! And I haven't done much yet so I feel it'll cause problems. But he's so sweet so idk ahaha 😔

Living with a tiger mom is so annoying 😭 I don't think she knows she's controlling either . I have no experience so I'm nervous that I like this man bcoz he's so dreamy and mature! And I only like it bcoz I've not been with other people my age . From what vibes I get , your friend seems like she'd have atleast ~some~ experience! So even if she thought he's older, she would've had the maturity to see if he's really nice or just attractive bcoz they're mature 😭 I don't think I have that maturity 😭

Thank you for talking to meeee! I'm following you for so long! One of the first blogs I followed! I keep deleting and remaking too but I follow you back everytime~ you're so sweet !

- crush anon 🧡

I adore them 😭 they're so sweet !! They're one in a million aha. Also, my friend is a self proclaimed introvert, but I question her everyday. She was well known because she did the morning announcements though :’)

You're so right about the security thing. Knowing someone from childhood can be so personal. They've seen me through puberty and through my cringey, ugly phase. They have a conception of childhood me - the skeleton in my closet, a former version of myself I so desperately want to hide away. They can attest to the person I've become, and that means everything to me 😔

Older guys are definitely dreamy :-( It's no secret that I have the phattest crush on Lee Dong Wook, and although I have a parasocial relationship with him, I am also deeply in love with him 😭 Those things should not be mutually exclusive, but I live with my head in the clouds, and no one can stop me

Sorry, this isn't about me LOL. Older guys are more mature, I suppose ! They're probably more confident and more sure of themselves which is really attractive !! He sounds soo nice. It's not very often that guys say to text when you're safely back home :-( Chivalry ! It's not dead ! He would drop you off too??? He has a license and a car?!?! Now he's a keeper !! jk jk I'm in awe because I don't even have a learner's permit 🤣 Maybe that's the difference between someone my age and someone 5 years older 💔 Oh and not to mention, the pet names are super sweet 🦋

I totally get that you need time to think about your feelings. Being in a relationship is a big thing (or at least to me aha). I hope you can voice it when the time comes !! Be bold, be brave, and be courageous !! I'm sending you lots of strength <3

Also, I definitely think that your worries and your insecurities are things worth talking about (maybe at a later time though)!! It can be scary to be vulnerable in that way, but it can solve a lot of problems :-( And if he's your friend, if he likes you enough, he'll make sure your feelings are valid !! Try not to think about where he stands with his cool job and his hot shot friends. One day, you're gonna have a nice career that makes you happy too. It may take time, but as does everything! It'll be so worth it in the end. You've accomplished a lot already, I'm sure ! Everything you do is building up to something bigger and better. You're constantly working on yourself everyday, so give yourself a little bit of credit ! I'm sure that you're just as cool as his friends, and you'd make such a great addition to their group if and when you get together ! If it ever worries you, just remember that coolness is a social construct, and we're all just people doing our own thing (I'm not just saying that because I'm wildly uncool and very much a loser, but may I am, so sue me)

Having a lack of experience can be such a hindrance, I feel you 😭 I legitimately think that's why I don't want to enter a relationship, but that's just self-sabotage, ya feel?? It's good that you're being careful and waiting to sort out your situation! But also, at a certain point, we have to act on those feelings, right? Even though it's scary and worrisome, we have to gain the experience to grow as people. Being in a relationship can teach you so much about yourself, and all we want is to grow :-( Doing it alongside a partner can be bittersweet, but it's a nuanced process that should happen one day or another. And... why not now? Every new experience is scary, but after doing it once... it won't be too new. You'll come to understand what you desire in a partner and in a relationship. It'll transfer over to how you view you self worth in relation to how others treat you. It's about giving and receiving love :-(

We never know until we try <3

Tiger moms 😭 Have you seen the Pixar movie Turning Red? Sorry, I love that film a lot LOL it's so relevant, and it might be a good way to open up conversation with her. I don't know how else to get through a tiger mom 😭 But surely, they'd have to see the error of their ways one day, right? :-( We don't want to reach a tipping point before it's too late. Meanwhile... I'm gonna keep quiet until I marry and move out 🤩 It's just mind boggling how generational trauma can slip into our lives and affect even the most essential things like... how we love and how we see ourselves

Eeek ! I'd love to chat with you whenever. I can't believe you've followed me for a long time :-( Thank you for sticking around 💛