#if any proshitters see this

[spooky-boys]

TAKE ALL MY DOODLES OF MY BOYS

HAHAHAHAAHAHAHAHA IM GOING TO WRITE THEM SO MUCH MORE WELL HAHAHAHAHAH

[spinnyspinnyspinnnn]

Since there's an off chance all us Americans getting nuked in November, there's one last thing(not really) I feel I have to share with you:

I do not understand why antis harass proshippers. Really, I don't. I don't see a real point in the matter. And here's some potential arguments I see, and why I think it might be wrong, aside than the morals of harassment.

"But they're all kid diddlers-"

Most of them are kids, from what I've seen, and the ones that are actual kid diddlers who intend to do the diddling are typically shunned from their community.

"But it's a harmful coping mechanism-"

What if they don't have anything else, huh? I'm not trying to really defend the shit but I'd rather see proshippers post incest and age-gap stuff than watch someone else fall to much more graphic coping mechanisms that might end up killing them. And even if it isn't a coping mechanism, why is that our business?

"But proshipping is bad-"

Bad? Maybe. But antis have also watered down their terms. From the research I've done, it's being anti-harassment. Not caring what people do in fiction. It's a stance a lot of us could and should take on, because being against harassment is a good thing. If you bring that shit into real life, then yeah you're a piece of garbage, but I don't see the point in bringing it into fandom spaces and being shunned for it. People have mentioned how proship used to be a default, that us antis are basically the fandom version of purity culture. I don't get it.

"But it's so graphic and-"

That's plain hypocritical and you know it. So many of us antis enjoy dark and graphic media. Hell, I'm writing something with multiple graphic, violent scenes and awful relationships that, since I'm nearing 18 the more I write this project, may end up mildly n$fw at some points if the shoe fits. If we can indulge in our yanderes, in our torture scenes, in our "toxic yuri/yaoi," and all those other things.. the stuff they do seems not that much different, other than maybe the sexual points. Then again, so many books and movies exist that are graphic and s3xual that antis enjoy that it really doesn't matter. If we can indulge in that fucked up stuff, why can't they indulge in their fucked up stuff? What's the real difference here?

But {insert obvious rage bait-}"

Clearly, you've fallen for stuff you shouldn't. You don't need to "fix their headcanons," that's their whole point. People who post shit like that just want attention. And attention you constantly give them. Same with the art posts. You don't need to fix the bait, dude. It's nothing to get angry over, there's bigger fish in the sea.

From what I've seen, most actual proshippers just want to be left the fuck alone, to stop being harassed by us. If we're the "good guys" in fictional, fandom spaces, why do we go out and tell those people to die, to get assaulted, to get abused and harmed, and how to do awful things to themselves, all because of their stance on fandom spaces and the things they may or may not even ship? Are we really being "good" there? Or are we just under the guise that we're good by protecting those characters while we completely disregard how disgusting and horrendous it actually is to say things to real people and real kids?

By the original stance that proshipping and profiction meant(anti-harassment, leave people be, etc.), what proshippers actually claim to be nowadays, most of us could, in a technical sense, be considered proship/profic. That includes myself. If we use the definition most antis who harass proshippers use, that being those who enjoy problematic ships and condone these things IRL, that wouldn't fit. And only one of those things, the problematic ships part, could be considered under the profiction stance as either comship(complicated ship, from what I can tell), or darkship(which is the really messed up shipping tropes that you'd see headcanons of in rage bait posts, but actually taken seriously and thought of instead of being used for attention).

If you read to the end, this is just food for thought. Feel free to block me if you don't agree with any of this. Or, if you have something I'm missing, feel free to engage in some casual discussion with me. I'm not asking to fight or stir up drama, this is just how I feel about things and if you have a different opinion you want to talk about, go ahead and mention it.

Be civil, people and creatures alike. I'll be using tags from both communities to allow a healthy debate on this post. You'll be blocked if you start fighting people or myself.

[nuvimuvi]

Ok you Shippers give me one good reason why I should be convinced by [Insert Ship] and why I should draw it

(which means I'm excluding nuzi because y'know how I'm crazy for it)

GO!!

[totallyoriginalurl]

i didnt think id have to say this but proshippers, transid, radqueers, etc PLEASE dont interact with this blog in any way

[apple-os]

wondering if i can make a strict-ruled fanfic site cause im sick of finding proship shit everywhere

anybody know how tf id do that or find someone to code it fer me

[pumpkinsy0]

tldr: @buddyaldridge is a 30 year old weirdo proshipper who talks shit about ppl behind their backs, block em and report if you can/want to

just wanna let everyone know theres a omegaverse mpreg dallyboy writer whos been an all around WEIRDOOOOO cause their brain is LITERALLY porn rotted and they cannot fathom ppl actually having fun at all, their @ is @buddyaldridge aka @pelopsides previously known as @madelynprior

in 2020-2022 the outsiders tumblr they used to be @madelynprior and theyre a hardcore dallyboy stan which is already fucking weird, but on top of that, they would make teen pregnancy omegaverse smut fics which??? and im not gonna give you the ss, nigga im givin yall the LINKKK to see it with your own eyes so you know im not crazy

how ik its them is bc on their acc RIGHT before they switched to their buddyaldridge acc, and before that acc was named “pelopides”, they used to go by “madeleinepryor”, how ik its the same person is bc on a good chunk of their post, theyd tag it as “#madeleinepryor dispatches” on top of that, they just straight up linked their ao3 acc😭😭

heres what the link goes to, they linked their ao3 acc, they just changed their username on ao3 as well from madeleinepryor to greasers

now me calling them a proshipper isnt me talking out of my ass, they say it themselves like ughhhhjjj

as for them talking about other ppl, i wont share ALL the screenshots bc idk if the ppl theyre talking bad about would rlly feel comfortable w those being posted, if they know, they can feel free to post it on their own accord, so like i said, wont share, but i HAVE seen some and i can conform that they have done it, its ABSOLUTELY NOT above them

for now ill post the ss i CAN post rn which just proves my point

now ignoring that theyre talking smack, theyre just so odd and obviously didnt rlly think this through bc 1967 is ALREADY IMPLIED in the 60s, youre just incapable of reading things that arent about teen boys getting it on w each other PLEASE get a grip on reality😭😭

theyve talked about 14 year olds and their post on their acc just to shit on them, once again, GROWN ASS PERSON TWEAKIN OVER THE IDEAS OF A 14 YEAR OLD🗣️🗣️

NOW maybe your asking “how do you know the discord user and the tumblr user are the same person” AND I WILL ADMIT, while i DO have strong feelings they are the same person, its not 100% proven, HOWEVER buddyaldridge DOES go by buddy and that discord users name is buddy, so while its not concrete, the link IS there, once again, feel free to come to whatever conclusion you wanna come to about that

but what ISNT disputable is the fact that theyre a proshitter

additionally just this??? reblog from them????

on its own, not MUCH, bit considering the fics they make this is SO weird like??????

and finally, ive heard that theyve specifically came for me about my haitian shepards and maybe even my heritage, saying that they hated race hcs??????like using me as an example, they ss my acc and talked shit, someone contacted me about it and they dont have ss of it specifically, but they can vouch for it, and im not just gonna dismiss that, bc while they dont have ss, they do have ss and proof of everything else, so i do believe them, and theyve said if they find it they would show them to me, do what you wanna with this info

ANYWAYS buddy, your brain is unironically pornrotted, ur being a lil baby who cant do anything but cry and moan online on discord of all places and ur doing all this as a 30+ year old, and its CRAZIER bc youre doing all this while having “minors dni” in your pinned post, while also writing about minors, in a fandom MOSTLY OF MIDDLE SCHOOLERS!!!! (aka minors!!! ik age is hard for you to grasp) on top of that, literally ANY and ALL race hcs is way more believable and enjoyable than any “ideas” you’ve been cooking up in that odd demented, shriveled up pea brain of urs

anyways yea, that all i have to say, and im speaking for myself here, but i mean this with every fiber of my being, i dont know how you function in life but i DO NOT want you to go any farther, and i think others would/DO feel the same, ive seen what makes you cheer and i am PROUUUDDD to make you BOOOOO, you shouldnt be near minors at all, fictional or non fictional, you should BARELY be near other adults

plus if you go onto their acc rn, notice how when anon called them out, buddy aint even say they were wrong?? JUST SAYIN🗣️🗣️

im tagging everything i can tag bc i DO NOTTTT want mfs interacting w their blog, and want as many ppl as possible to be aware, dont say anything to them, dont give them attention bc obviously they’ll think this is funny and post it on their shitty discord server or whatever and giggle like they arent a grown ass nigga w bills to pay, trying so hard to cling onto their high school days, making fics about a canon middle schooler getting banged and pregnant, pls block and report do whatever u wanna do, just plssss dont let this proshitter on this damn sight near kidssss😭😭

dont take this as me WANTING drama, i dont, i just dont want ppl coming in this fandom thinking posting this shit and doing this is ok, youre bullying ppl for doing harmless things meanwhile your just making straight porn about a weird ship left n right, thinking YOUUUUU of all ppl have the place to talk about anyone or anything like your opinion on anything is valid😭😭

you NEED stones thrown at you

if anyone has anymore ss send em to mmeeeeee, but in the mean time ill be doin my own thing wooooo‼️‼️🔥🔥

[boneywones]

In one of your recent posts (the one about the sexy Tumblr sans au one-)

You said the creator (cornmayor) is a proshitter?

I'm new to the UTMV fandom and I would like to avoid all these types of people, (proshitters) but do you have any proof theyre a proshitter?

(I don't mean this in a rude way if that's how your reading it! ^^ have a good day!)

—walmart anon

sry if this is all rambly but yeah, i do. im mostly going to talk about their following list since i cant check peoples likes on twitter no more (wow thanks elon) and im not putting myself through looking into the shit that they reblog (even then, they probably hide it like kia does)

btw !!THIS ISNT A HARASSMENT LIST FOR ANYONE TO USE!! ik that some anon mfs will come into my inbox and cry that it is but it isnt. this is only here to show proof. people can also use this as a list to see who they need to avoid

(the white squares are people that i either know are not proshippers/problematic or don’t really know all together)

@//ProductionRoxy - i said what they did in the comments of one of my posts. it was the poll one iirc

@//Zwagyzonk - my mind is a little fuzzy but i do remember them drawing dreammare once. also, from looking at their profile, they’ve drawn two brothers (an au of dream and nightmare most likely) kissing and shit. gross. (turns out they have drawn these characters like this A LOTTT) and most likely passive x nightmare as well. 

@//Muskka_mu - drew dreammare

@//machicoasa625 - ships swadmare most likely and maybe(??) horror x aliza? its really hard to tell because of the language barrier

@//WishingStarInAJar - drawn fontcest, dr baggs (i do NOT feel like explaining why this character is NOT good. mainly because it involves non-con.), most likely drawn dreammare of aus(?? still unclear, but a sans that looks very similar to dream is acting lovey dovey to another sans that i can clearly tell is a nightmare au) and made multiple fontcest fics

@//August_minner - said something about mettaton x napstablook or shipped it iirc. take this with a grain of salt though my mind is super fuzzy

@//FunOnABunX - drew baggs multiple times.

@//LV_animation - ships horror x aliza, had a whole ass weird thing of aging up aliza and aging down horror.

@//korokor59513559 - drawn aged up frans, unless they reposted someone elses art. still, it was frans (+ the way child frisk acts in the comics towards sans is very weird)

also wow!!!! obviously i wasn’t going to look through the entire list of people credited in this picture but zu and neahchanart were in the credits. both are known proshippers, especially neahchanart who is a gooner 1000x

theres probably more proshippers/problematic people in this credit list but if im going to be completely honest, its not worth it

also like i said before, there are multiple sanses on this list that belong to problematic creators and it raises a lot of red flags. yes, i saw cornmayors response to this, yes it completely contradicts a lot of shit because they’re in the fandom and they would damn well know that lust is a problematic character that belongs to a problematic creator. anyway!!!!

you have a good day too, anon <:)

[jeonseoguu]

introduction blog 🦅🦅

hello everyone 🫵

you can call me jeon or min

what you’ll find here:

mostly jjba fanart at the moment

some jjba x other stuff (crossovers)

joseph joestar <33

mayybee some fanfic promotion stuff in the future

yeah if you couldnt tell im going through a phase rn shhh

some stuff about me:

he/him, male

korean/chinese

i speak mostly english (and a lick of korean)

pigeons and jjba are like brain-eating bacteria to me

HOMOSEXUAL RAAHHHHH

i am a minor pls keep that in mind (adults can still interact and stuff but like. dont.. flirt ig???)

about the blog:

i might not answer art requests all the time (usually because of art block) but they are still greatly appreciated (however that may change if i end up opening commissions)

as i stated, commissions may open soon

EVEN IF I DONT REPLY TO THEM, I SEE ALL OF YOUR GUYS’ COMPLIMENTS 🫵🫵🫵 I LOVE YOU ALL

boundaries:

I DO NOT MIND SPAM !!! SPAM TO YOUR HEART’S CONTENT

i’ll be okay with you guys using my art as your pfp/banner/etc. AS LONG AS YOU CREDIT !!!!!!

i usually do not mind nsfw/suggestive stuff (i MIGHT post some of that stuff?? maybe.. tbd)

⬆️ also includes sex jokes like idc abt that stuff MAKE AS MANY DICK JOKES AS YOU WANT

dont put my shit into ai 🙏 i proofed my art anyways but dont be an asshole

INTERACT 🙏🙏:

jjba fans/fanartists

joseph joestar lovers

pigeon people

GAY PEOPLE RAAHHHH

brainrotted people (𝓲 𝓷𝓮𝓮𝓭 𝓼𝓸𝓶𝓮𝓸𝓷𝓮 𝓽𝓸 𝓶𝓪𝓽𝓬𝓱 𝓶𝔂 𝓯𝓻𝓮𝓪𝓴…)

DNI:

racists (i better not see any rcta..)

homophobes/transphobes (yeah, TERFS too)

ableists

proshitters

ai “artists”

[olderthannetfic]

Random musings at 1:30 in the morning: it will never cease to amuse me when I stumble upon a post where someone is giving advice on AO3 matters, be it tagging, writing, or commenting, then I open their blog and see "proshitters DNI" at the top. With an expanded DNI list that says, "x things and their supporters".

I never know how to break it to them that AO3 is the epitome of proship support.

In any case, their spotless morals can't be all that "spotless" if they can easily brush them aside as soon as they want to read and post things on AO3. Pick a lane.

--

[myfandomrealitea]

hii! sorry to bug you. ^^ im fairly new to the proshipper community. im just unsure what to do. do you have any suggestions or advice?

Block antis liberally and without restraint.

Use the Tumblr blacklist features to block certain keywords from tags and posts. Such as 'proshitter' and 'anti proship' and 'proship DNI.'

When following blogs do a quick check of their bio/pinned post to make sure they're receptive to proshipping.

Tag any of your content appropriately in order to help people both find and avoid anything they want to see/not see.

And have fun!

[wonderer399]

Antis are now playing their dirty pathetic game again...Their plan was to mass report shipper accounts while people are in their summer break! They mass reported our top 2 sebaciel shipper accounts!! Therefore these 2 Sebaciel shipper accounts are now permanently banned or deactivated !! They even flagged my recent sebaciel post out of pure hateful spite!!

I have been watching BB since 2012 ( I was like 14 at that time, almost same as Ciel's age and height ) and shipping Sebaciel as I have fallen in love with their love for each other...Sebastian is just soo perfect anime man in my eyes...I will defend Sebastian no matter what ... Sebastian is the best for Ciel's wellbeing....BB is my comfort anime which I truly adore and Sebaciel is the main purpose why BB have become such comfort anime of mine...mainly because of their complex dynamic of sebaciel!! Sebaciel is my happiness!! I never stopped shipping them...I like other yaoi ships as well but sebaciel is my comfort ship above all!

Antis live in the similar motto of 'Playing violent videogames like COD makes you a real life mass shooter'....if that's true then Japan and South Korea would beat the US charts in the mass shooting satistics....it is as same as 'Proshippers are pedophiles' stupid statement... Am I a pedophile then? I personally stay miles away from kids as I find them annoying...when will they learn that Fiction =/= Reality ?!?!

Antis call us 'Proshitters' ...we proshippers don't care what you call us ....If you don't like it, then you shouldn't engage with it . But don't ruin other people's happiness just because of your own personal morals, opinion and personal values. Everyone has their own personal freedom and rights , falsely accusing of someone then reporting to tumblr A.I. police LMAO!!

From the deepest respect of deactivated fellow Sebaciel shippers :

#1 @Lunerium

#2 @Cielconsumer

Fellow remaining loyal sebaciel proshippers, Please find a tumblr loop hole where you can restore these account or any actions against cyber bully? please let me know...

We need to Avenge Lunerium and Cielconsumer ....We need to stop this mess!! If this keeps happening someday I will get vanished too...Antis will start filliping tables when will they see canon sebaciel in green witch arc! We need to stick up for each other!

Thank you for listening to my ted talk !

[wainwrightjakobshammerlock]

Borderlands dash simulator

(big thanks to @magnuficent76)

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What is the ceo of atlas doing on echoblr

💀 praisethetwingodz-deactivated

if u shame calypso worshippers for their "brutal" and "evil" practices your a jackass 😊😊😊😊😊

📀 vaultussy

you're*

💀 praisethetwingodz-deactivated

kill you're self heretic

📀 vaultussy

HUH????

💪 amarasarmrest Follow

OP is a proshipper. Also they're a cannibal bandit

🔥 firehawksotherhawk Follow

NAHHH why are they always proshitters it's like these streamers attract the worst kind of siren simps known to man glad to know my mutuals are normal

🎭 crackedmask Follow

💀 gayperionengineering-deactivated

"And why he ourple" has done immense damage to me, a fan of slag,

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Intergalactic Heritage Post

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haha why is this guy talking about slag in current y-

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Me and the newest hunt! Don't you worry, the blood is not mine. On the most part.

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I think I hauve space hurps

#i hope that's the good usage of this phrase #still gettin' used to this site #apologies to anyone from the corporation who sees this by any chance

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Today's my first day of my trip to Pandora! It's such a nice change of pace from the cushy worlds of my home galaxy! I love the scenery!!!

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rpf writers are so funny like

i havent even HEARD of most of these people 😂😂😂😂😂 who the fuck is timothy lawrence

#sasha??? who the hell is sasha??? #at least everyone knows who fiona is lmao #tho i doubt rhys would be into her

[neechees]

about the whole preoccupation w incest thing amongst white people on the internet i haven't really noticed it? i am white and find it intriguing (i was incestually abused as a child and so i find it interesting how it develops in families, how people respond to it, etc (it's kind of been part of my healing process)) but i don't really see anyone being obsessed w it? maybe pointing out themes of it in media but that's kinda it? some of my mutuals, idk if they're white, but they have also been abused the same way i have and find discussing it or finding media with incest in it to be a part of exposure therapy/dealing with the trauma. id love to hear your thoughts on it :)

I've talked about this a few times in the past, but I'm posting again to make my views & boundaries known that 1. Dni if you're a "pr0shipper" & enjoy shipping incest, I do not want you here, 2. Fiction does not exist in a vacuum. Im going with the assumption that anon is not a proshitter & they're asking this in good faith. Just putting a readmore because this got long and also for anyone who is triggered by this topic

The conversation I think is surrounding proshitters ("shippers"), but I think the conversation also goes deeper into things like "incest" & "step family" being popular porn site searches that very often feature white actors, as well as those things showing up in film, book, and TV, but in romantisize/sexualized/downplayed ways written by and featuring, again, white people. So I believe generally the "obsession" part means White people who are overly preoccupied with seeing incest quite often, especially and specifically in sexualized, fetishized, and/or romantisized ways. Because personally (& I believe other nonwhite people can attest to this as well, and that's what the other posts mean to say) a lot of the people who have this overkeen interest in incest are White.

Like it's not talking about people wanting to have nuanced depictions of incest, why it's bad, how that affects people & can be extremely traumatizing, and then approaching that topic respectfully (because it should be, that's a terrible thing and showing respect for victims of it & ensuring its not, accidentally or not, endorsed or shown as "okay" or normalizing it, is important. Execution as well as intent are important & should be done with tact.) The people who are mentioned as being "obsessed with incest" as these pr0shippers who find incest "sexy", want to see it, actively search it out where it is both romantisized/sexualized/fetishized, and will apply it in fanon interpretations even when it doesn't exist in canon or this interpretation wouldn't/doesn't make sense anyway, specifically because they enjoy seeing it. They find it titillating. Quite a few of the popular users on this site who have famously defended incest (and/or pedophilia) both in real life AND as proshitters have been... White. And racist.

I think there IS a correlation between White people, proshitters (who are usually people who defend romantisized depictions of things like incest), and liking incest, because I very often seen proshitters be racist (and other types of bigoted tbh), and ALSO defend things like racist depictions of nonwhite characters, things like slavery AU's featuring Black characters, or colonizer AU's, and the like. It's a common joke (not so much of a joke tho tbh) that the more White people that exist prominently in a fandom, then the less fun it is, specifically because of racism that will then exist in that fandom. So there's this huge overlap of White fans being racist but ALSO there being a lot of fans who enjoy seeing incest in their fave medias, because of the proshitters, who do both. There was also that whole thing where a bunch of popular white users on here (many of whom ALSO defended incest) defended sexual raceplay & then called any nonwhite person (ESPECIALLY BLACK USERS) "homophobic" or "transphobic" for rightfully and correctly calling this racist.

Lots of White people like to do this thing where, if they are marginalized in some way, then they'll weaponize that marginalization against anyone who criticizes them for something (most often racism), even if their marginalized identity has nothing to do with the topic or was brought up. White women who happened to be gay called me "homophobic" and "misogynist" (even though I'm a bi woman but you know) because I talked about the nazi associations & racist inclinations of cottage core. I saw multiple White lotr fans call a specific artist "homophobic" because that artist asked that their art not be tagged as an incest ship, and that incest ship is very popular (and their art piece was depicting them as just family), but this incest ship isn't even canon, and the artist wasn't actually homophobic or against gay relationships in general. So they essentially just called this artist "homophobic" for no reason. Because they didn't want their art piece of two family members to be incorrectly interpreted as incestuous. Im even reluctant to draw fan art of some of my favorite characters who are family members, because I dont want people who ship incest to interact with it or tag it as that, and the fact that so many artists even have to ask people NOT to do this is insane.

Like it's one thing if someone analyzes media with it or might find comfort in certain characters in books or TV etc because they feel seen in their trauma, and yet can acknowledge that this isn't for everybody and not everyone processes their trauma this way, and that seeing it (incest in media) can make trauma WORSE for many people, AND that not all representations are made equally, and none of those are free from being available to criticism in approach of that representation anyway. But very often there's White fans (many who aren't even incest victims themselves, so they don't have the "I'm coping" excuse) that are offended that other people don't like seeing incest at ALL, that people will (understandably) not want to interact with them if they're a pr*shipper, and hate being reminded that treating incest like its a fun little interest that shouldn't be handled with care just because it's being featured in a fictional situation (or even sometimes when it's NOT) is pretty fucked up and even disrespectful & insensitive to incest survivors, and then chalk up any criticism of the amount of sexualized/romanticized incest as "censorship" even though that's not what's happening, and again, very often self victimize themselves and often are also racist.

[s3v3r3dh3ad]

I can't believe I have to post about this shit again bruh.😭 Another proship Punch Out account just popped up so obviously if you're an anti aka a normal person I recommend blocking them before you get any nasty proship stuff on your page or when you look through the PO tags. If it wasn't already clear this page doesn't support that bullshit, proshippers fuck off and DNI.

Oh yeah they reposted Little Mac x Doc Louis shit and Little Mac x Narcis Prince so don't look below the cut if you don't want to see it. This is just proof in case they decide to do what most proshitters do and delete their posts after someone confronts them.

[heathersproship]

general PSA

"if ur a prosh*tter uhm blOcK me"

Nice try, but I am not curating your dash for you.

Don't be lazy, do it your damn self! You want this specific thing? Put in the work to get it, it's not that hard. The onus is not on me. Tumblr's tagging system is Bad so 99% of the posts I see from aggressive antis demanding people block them is crosstagged into the "proship" tag. Working within the system, go back to tagging with your beloved algospeak censorship bs so no one can see your shit. Hell, if you just left it at “anti proshitter” without the additional “anti proship/proship dni” that’d be fine too!

"bUT iF It'S nOT tHaT hARd THEn whY doN'T yOu Do iT?!" Because I'm not the one with the problem. You can still be an anti, just keep being an anti far away from me. Like you already want to be. So it really shouldn't be hard for you. If you can't do such a simple task, you shouldn't be on the Internet, where there's a million more buttons to click.

I'm not going to limit my posting or content for the benefit of a single rando. I don't know you and you have no right to demand anything of me, or anyone else, whether it was crosstagged or not. The only thing I can do is properly tag my shit, and that's all I will do (if you ask politely, no threats or name-calling or veiled language of any kind). The rest is up to you. It's up to YOU to block whatever YOU don't want to see, be it content or people or sites.

That's all. Happy 2024, everyone!

[adviserbylove]

I am aware I've been quite annoying about this issue in the past, and for the moots that are tired of hearing this, I apologize. This will most likely be the last time that I will say this, cause at this point, I'm also fed up with it as well. But if I don't properly express my views on this matter instead of arguing with trolls hiding behind a grey ball with sunglasses (anonymous asks), I'm gonna let my feelings bottle up like a champagne bottle and, well....we all know how that goes

And no, this is not something that has been ongoing for me, or I'm still getting shit for this. If I do, I will delete any further asks about this issue. I've just been reminded of idiotic posts I've seen from purity patrol and it sickens me

There is nothing wrong with aging up your f/o

"It's not my fault you didn't grow out of your teenage crush" "....'Cause some people can't let go of their crush when they were teens" "Umm...why do you selfship with X who is 17 when you're an adult?" -- Shut up. There are so many reasons why someone would age up a character, and they don't equate to "Hiding the fact you would be attracted to their canon age". Perhaps they were a teenager when they started to selfship with them and when they got older, their f/o was in a media were they didn't age. Perhaps you fell in love with a character who, without their age being canonically 16-17, you would've taken them for early twenties~. Perhaps those characters have helped you through extremely harsh times, helped you through panic attacks and depressive episodes, and they became people that were very near and dear to you. People just expect you to throw all of that out the window as soon as you blow out the candles on your 18th birthday cake? Why not create an AU where you two grew up together and are still happy with each other? That is literally what self shipping is! Not 'growing out of your crush, and if you don't, that's your problem, not mine!'. That only makes it sound like your feelings towards your f/o is something that can be turned on and off like a light switch, which is NOT how feelings fucking work! Guess I should've gotten tired of my husband that I knew for 20+ years/been married to for 6+ years!

If anything, it would be weird if an adult did not age their f/o up. The reason behind aging up character is because sexualizing minors is wrong. You are not imaging yourself with teenagers, but adults that use to be those teenagers. It's faulty reasoning, because by this logic, college au's of characters that are canonically 16-17 are not valid. By this logic, falling in love with your childhood friend is not valid (which is actually one of my favorite, if not my favorite, trope). Seeing how characters grow and develop is suppose to be one of the best parts of fictional characters, and the fact that some people want to shit on that aspect that one's comfort can bring to them is absolutely wild for me

I've been blocked by multiple blogs, but before I was, they asked me why I selfship with a 17 year old when I'm in my twenties. Before I even answered their asks with the fact that I aged them up and worked hard on planning out what they would've done as an adult/what would be different/what their life was like in our AU, etc. I was already blocked. If you aren't interested in hearing my answer, then don't even bother sending an ask to me in the first place

I was groomed + SA'ed when I was 11 (by five different men, two of them happened to be family members, mind you), have children irl, and two younger brothers that have also been CSA victims. I will NEVER stop believing that it is wrong for an adult to take advantage of a minor. And frankly, you can stop shitting on a coping mechanism that actual survivors of CSA use

Aging up is not equal to sexualizing minors/p*dophilia! All it does is tell me that you have morals!

Again, believe what you want, but I will be deleting any pedo apologists, mean comments, purity patrol, proshitters using this as a trump card, etc.

They aren’t real. They can’t be hurt. They’re there for us to have fun with. So as long as you aren't producing literal CP, you are fine! Just enjoy yourself